I'm struggling with something I've noticed about female-dominated hobby spaces. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Well, a lot of it has to do with social media. What sells now is a perfect themed aesthetic, where your life consists of one theme and everything you show does not stray from your branding. Most women in these spaces are thin, white, and conventionally attractive (not all, but most). They live for the validation they get from others.

Why are people offended by generalizations? by eddyelric in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's in the wording. There are always outliers and as long as generalizations aren't worded as "all people of group x are like y", it shouldn't be an issue.

There are a lot of us here who were/are "tomboys", it doesn't feel good to be erased by much of society that generalizes women and thinks we all like pink, frilly nurturing things and don't have an actual interest in STEM.

TRA Instagram page hosts interview with a TERF. Cue complete meltdown. by jet199 in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What??

My wife is either going to be happy or..... by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]dustyboobs90 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You should probably communicate better about such things as new pet purchases...especially with an animal that is so much work

LBGDropTheT crosspost: Disturbing misogynoir among trans women and their allies by marmorsymphata in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's a crazy world when rich, privileged white men can act so disgustingly against a black woman and get away with it on woke twitter just because they like to put on makeup every once in a while.

Men of colour oppress through force. White men oppress through the mind. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Feel free to think how you're like, I'm gonna still assume you're a troll though. It's sad you think so little of your own race (if you're even black)

Men of colour oppress through force. White men oppress through the mind. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I hope you're an extremely elaborate troll.

Japanese model told to “talk it out” with stalker who came to her door by police by radmoon in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Do you mean sexual harassment and assault? That's why they have women only trains. I wish they did that here in the US. Assaults happen often here too and cops don't care either.

What do you do when there are trans women you actually like? by ImPiqued1111111 in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have long time friends who are trans but they are old school "transsexuals" who know they're biologically males but feel more comfortable presenting as female. I am not super radical about gc ideology in that I would never call them by he/him pronouns or refer to them as men. As long as they're not fighting to be able to be in women's spaces I don't care what individuals choose to do with their bodies and lives.

More proof that NB is the woke flavor of "I'm not like the other girls" by LasagnaRossa in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So you have to identify as "NB" to dress butch. Got it. What are these people on

Well, well, well... by fijupanda in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What a transphobe.

I came out as *le Tervenclaw* to a very close person... by AdmiralPangolin in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 31 insightful - 4 fun31 insightful - 3 fun32 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

That is awful and I'm sorry, but I chuckled at "Titler". Sounds like nothing of value was lost, honestly. If someone is so uncomfortable at having their beliefs challenged that they would ditch someone they have known for that long over it...they are clearly not very bright.

r/actuallesbians are super paranoid right now about making sure "No terfs get in here." It's kind of funny by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]dustyboobs90 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Weird part is a lot of the long time TIMs I have known are the Miranda Yardley types...well, maybe not quite as "TERF"-y but they tend to believe they are transsexual males or at the very least are transmedical/truscum. We agree about the trans trenders being out of their minds. Then again they are older and have been TIMs for 10-20+ years already.