"how do I report these women talking amongst themselves on a different site"

crodish · 2020-07-09T05:25:57+00:00

ffs we're already off reddit like you wanted, just enjoy jerking each other off until reddit is full of men and fuck off

crodish · 2020-08-19T17:03:04+00:00

I was like, ‘what are you talking about?’”

"You have a uterus."

"What is that?"

"It's an organ in your body. Females usually have one."

"But I'm not female. That's ridiculous."

"You're clearly not intersex, because there're no male organs. So. You're female."

"I'm a man!"

"I have a fucking MRI of your fucking uterus in my hand, stop wasting our goddamn time and resources!"

crodish · 2020-09-06T13:25:09+00:00

The hurdles some trans men and gender-nonconforming people who menstruate say they face include the high cost of period supplies, lack of access to the products, safety concerns and inadequate medical care.

Also

Some transgender and gender-nonconforming people who menstruate, like Jones, say when the products are categorized as women’s products, they can feel alienated — and may even avoid purchasing them altogether.

So the products ARE accessible, you just don't want to fucking use them because it's not in a color you like. ffs. All the other issues are faced by women, too, none of us like our periods! Of course I'd be happier if I didn't have to bleed like a murder victim five days a month every month, or constantly worry about if I've stained myself or if people can hear my mega overnight pad crinkling inside my jeans, or have cramps, or anything of the numerous things that transmen and nb "afab" people say doesn't "justify" them having periods!

Also this fucking paragraph is just delusion or sheer uneducatedness, or both, at its best

“I didn’t believe that having periods would be a part of my lived experience,” Jones told NBC News. “I felt isolated; everything about periods was tailored to girls, yet me, a boy, was experiencing this and nothing in the world documented that.”

Woody voice: YOU! ARE! A! WOMAN!!

You're still a fucking toy even if you think and believe you're a real space ranger!!

crodish · 2020-09-29T04:24:48+00:00

I want to sympathize but at the same time, were all these people who regret it just plugging their ears when GC disagreed with them? So many times I keep hearing things like "no one stopped me or told me I didn't have to" but it's all OUT THERE.

I'm very surprised this dude's family is still together for him, I hope once he does drop it that he'll have a more peaceful life.

crodish · 2020-08-19T16:57:01+00:00

Wow, yeah, totally the doctors' fault for missing "he" had internal female organs, when "he" lied on his admissions paper, or didn't even think to ask if "his" being transgender would affect anything. Fucking biology doesn't play dumb. "I should have been somewhere in the middle between male and female ranges because I was taking male hormones" fuck off with that.

I really want to see it come down to "oh, okay, I guess an obvious solution would be to include AFAB / AMAB / transgender etc boxes then, to be inclusive", and then get a whole bunch of triggered snowflakes yelling that they don't want to out themselves and that they can't be stealth. You can die diagnosed as the "right" gender or live with your biological, immutable "wrong" one. Fucking choose.

God the way this article is worded, like it's such a fucking tragedy. I mean it IS, but not for the reasons the writer is trying to inflect. Lie about your health, get consequences.

crodish · 2020-11-03T11:03:43+00:00

What the fuck did I actually just read

do you think we can beat hypergamy by literally becoming women and using trans identity to gain close proximity to women?

But I thought No OnE dOeS tHiS

crodish · 2020-07-31T04:07:03+00:00

They could very well both be natal women, but I hate how the prevalence of TRA is making me second-guess and doubt myself on every photo and headline now.

On that note, it's a really unpopular opinion in GC circles, but I absolutely cannot roll with the notion of, "Women are NEVER violent!" or "Women would NEVER do this!" It's the same as "am I the only one who does this / not all X" rhetoric. The percentage chance is small definitely, but it's not NIL.

Edit: I'd say they're both GNC leaning feminine since I can't clock either of them for anything

crodish · 2020-07-19T02:36:25+00:00

The whole pronouns shit is just exhausting garbage. I really wish it stuck to tumblr and died there.

crodish · 2020-09-06T04:14:04+00:00

If it involves two different genitalia it's not homosexual, honey

God I hate translogic

crodish · 2020-11-27T22:48:26+00:00

That's disappointing to read. Buck was very vocal about acknowledging her female biology and that without it, she wouldn't BE trans. Penis in vagina sex is always gonna be straight or bi sex, otherwise you're basically subscribing to girldick and man pussy theory.

crodish · 2020-07-26T03:12:38+00:00

Holy fuck this makes me mad. This is propaganda. To kids!! And the child featured in this is way too fucking young to be dealing with this gender shit!

Of course it was written by a fucking transwoman

crodish · 2020-11-29T15:41:35+00:00

That's a fucking disgusting t-shirt she's wearing. "Three-holed fxggxt". What the actual fuck was she thinking, and who the hell made that? It's fucking vile, how brainless do you have to be to not only objectify yourself - but objectify yourself using a word that WAS EVEN NOT YOURS TO "RECLAIM" in the first place. If my asian lesbian ass were to walk around wearing a shirt that said "chxnk fxggxt nxggxr" I'd get fucking murdered on the spot. Wanna bet she custom made that shirt herself. That goddamn smug smirk on her face, like this was a stroke of genius. It's unspeakably disturbing how proud she seems wearing that shirt.

God I am angry. I hate everything.

Edit: more angry ranting about how of COURSE she refuses to use the word "trxnny", because suddenly it matters when it's personal, doesn't it? But no, go ahead and appropriate "fxggxt" while guilt tripping gay men into being with you.

crodish · 2020-10-13T15:42:24+00:00

Oh. So that's what an enlarged clit on T looks like. ): This is really fucking sad.

Edit: I'm baffled by how many fully female bodies are on there using "dick" for their clit. I guess it's the reverse of straight up men in lesbian spaces. I don't see much of the transmen side so... yeah. Eye opening how equally insane it is.

crodish · 2020-07-25T03:45:31+00:00

A well-meaning cis friend will say, ‘Welcome to being a woman.’ And that can be problematic because I have experienced being a woman and not being seen as a woman for years. And these things make it seem like my womanhood is contingent upon presentation,” Tess says.

So what the fuck do they actually want

We validate them and they say no, not like that

Can you imagine if this article was about cancer? "You're lucky you don't have to experience cancer" "BuT Im MiSsiNg OuT oN tHe FULL CANCER EXPERIENCE tHatS nOt FaiR"

crodish · 2020-07-08T17:28:20+00:00

I'm kinda a fan of BW - they're "the wrong kind of trans" that they at least acknowledge their biological sex as a male, that transition doesn't change that, dysphoria is their method of coping, we don't have entirely the same experience, etc. The way they speak in their videos also seem pretty rational and well-thought out, and they do bother to do their whole research on something at least and often try to present both points of view. I've heard some stuff about them being misogynistic and maybe a couple occasions where they might have "spoken for women", but on the whole they're sensible. I don't really care about their appearance as long as they're happy with who they are.

The real TRA I have an issue with are the ones you see all over Twitter and the like, who keep insisting TWAW and that trans women rights are also women's rights because TWAW because ad infinitum. Or worse, just straight up men who do that, too. But it really riles me up whenever people go, "wHaT MaKeS JKR qUaliFieD to SpEaK aBouT TraNsPeoPle" like shut up, she's talking about HERSELF and HER rights as a woman! But the TRA always have to be the center of everything, so

crodish · 2020-08-24T04:57:17+00:00

I cannot wait for the lawsuit era.

The world's insane.

crodish · 2020-08-06T02:07:00+00:00

Okay so

I really dislike the "NO ONE EVER DOES THIS" line because there's ALWAYS outliers. They're not prevalent, but there are.

I do play with my boobs sometimes

But it's either cos I'm just teasing my girlfriend with them or I'm in the strip down stage before showering and I'm just being an idiot in front of the mirror for a few seconds

THAT BEING SAID

I don't call my boobs "my girls"

I don't feel anything or think about anything when playing with them except maybe "ah fuck that damn hair is growing back" or "yay no lumps to take note of at least"

I definitely don't roll around in bed squeeing about them urgh

And I'm only comfortable having them because I've grown into my body, I hated them during puberty

I don't even think about them half the time, they're just THERE, like my fucking elbow. As it is now I don't LOVE them, they're just there. Fetishisizing your own body is weiiiiird

crodish · 2020-07-31T00:26:47+00:00

It's honestly really sad how deluded they are, and equally terrifying much strong the message of "transitioning before puberty is the only way to pass at all" these people are being brain washed with. Not that they would need to transition or pass AT ALL to begin with if they were just taught to love and accept their own bodies.

This is the super fucked up version of women who desperately want boob jobs because their boyfriends said it would make them more attractive

crodish · 2020-07-21T12:41:15+00:00

The giggle app's stance towards feminism is flipping like a pancake every couple days

crodish · 2020-07-08T19:06:16+00:00

She's been on absolute fucking fire lately, haha. She's gone full, "I'm already cancelled, fuck this shit" and I love it <3

crodish · 2021-02-08T04:56:36+00:00

I agree with him completely, but sometimes I wonder what the end goal would be. There's a whole discourse about how "good trans" don't/shouldn't get a free pass to their desired pronouns, because that's hypocritical (that they're at the end of the day still biologically male despite their presentation). In a world where trans rights are supported but do not trample over women and LGB's rights as well, what would that look like?

crodish · 2020-09-06T19:11:33+00:00

Also transmen who get offended by the reminder of their actual biology. Those are the worst, just females sabotaging their own kind

crodish · 2020-07-25T12:40:34+00:00

Something something men can't be feminists, but he's likely an ally

crodish · 2020-07-20T20:04:12+00:00

A woman is a woman is a woman is a woman is a woman is

crodish · 2020-07-06T02:21:02+00:00

There was one reply that really touched me:

Your voice is so important Joanne. You gave so many of us strength to start speaking up w/ our names and faces attached. Much love from this same-sex attracted, mentally ill woman.

and the queen replied:

You left out 'brave, kind and wonderful' when describing yourself

I just... ahhhhhhhhh ;___; as a fellow lesbian terf on anti depressants this was such a beautiful, kind reply. I love JK so much...

Of course people are dog piling on the OP and saying shit like, "you don't speak for all lesbians" "i can say on behalf of all lesbians we don't stand with terfs" and it's just fucking eye-rolling

crodish · 2020-11-02T06:43:20+00:00

so he/him lesbians aren't men?
no! as i've already said, he/him lesbians are women OR female-aligned people (or even non-aligned)!

So, men. Got it.

Such fucking horseshit in 2020 smdh

crodish · 2020-08-17T14:31:00+00:00

It's a TIF :/

I was born into the wrong body, or more likely without the proper hormones, and ended up with a vagina where my penis was supposed to be.

Gagging noises

crodish · 2020-07-24T05:45:15+00:00

What the absolute fuck am I even reading

Someone actually typed this out unironically and sincerely and hit send

Kill me

crodish · 2020-07-08T17:36:01+00:00

I know there're people here who'll disagree and insist on calling Blaire a he, and that's fine, and you (and anyone who wants to) can do that. I'm just using them/they on my own accord. As long as we know we're talking about the same person!

I'll admit I've only watched their trans-related videos to date, so I can't quite say. I'll have to go back and have another look.

Edit: I've gone back and watched maybe 4-6 videos about BW talking about their views on feminism (especially the "do not 'believe all women'" one, "feminism is pointless" and "'crashing' a feminist party" (where all they did was... walk around and respectfully interview people? no trolling or rudeness at all, although the people they interviewed kinda spoke for themselves lol) and I can't really say I disagree with what they said? Hate the clickbait titles though that are definitely there to incite anger. BW admitted that terrible shit does happen to women, and you should absolutely support the people who come to you with it. But that it's also important to hear out both sides and getting as full a picture as possible before blindly jumping to or reaching conclusions, especially if it comes to celebrity cases and people you aren't close to. Basically the same strategy they do with all their other issues. I definitely don't like hearing that "you should consider that women can be abusers and liars too", but I can't deny that stuff like that has happened, even if only very rarely. There's always extremes to every group.

Edit 2: Of course I don't take their views as them speaking on behalf of women (plus the whole not a woman = can't be a feminist thing), they're just stating their own opinion from a trans woman's perspective.

crodish · 2020-11-14T16:30:17+00:00

They're at least using the right lingo (no TRA speak like "clitorised bodies" rolls eyes) but one of the comments (likely male) was convincing an OP that "large clits are so hot right now" or some shit? And there's a bunch of posts where women OP are sharing that they're doing this in secret without telling their doctors. It sounds like grooming for another sick kink that women didn't need, just with body-altering medicine this time. This is really worrying.

Edit: on their wiki/about:

Growing Your Clit
Why Grow Your Clit?
About Clit Growing
Anatomy of the Clit
Real Life Results
Clit Growing Using Androgens
Clit Pumping
Where to Get Cream
Recommended Doctors
These articles were taken from the Clit Enlargement Fetlife group with minor modifications and updates.

Fetlife is a fetish site isn't it?

Under using androgens/T:

The early signs of androgen side effects (overdose) in females are: frequent or increased sexual thoughts, increased libido, oily skin, increased pubic hair growth often described as “bushy”, voice change to a husky or deeper pitch, and hair growth on the upper lip. These are early warning signs which you should heed. Some tolerate these effects and just accept them. The physical effects of voice change and hair growth are permanent. Further masculinizing effects are much more severe and are more typical of what an FTM transsexual experiences.

The fuck, they're not even hiding it. This ISN'T as safe as they claim it to be. It's fucking hormonal russian roulette.

crodish · 2020-08-28T14:03:31+00:00

Call me when a "AMAB" trans woman and a biological "cis" "AMAB" man make biological babies together without the help of a surrogate and any input from someone female, and we'll discuss how sex is a spectrum

crodish · 2020-07-19T14:28:49+00:00

But we lItErAlLy ErAsE tHeiR ExiStEncE if we misgender them

crodish · 2020-09-17T13:34:18+00:00

No offense but how did he survive the harsh realities of life to 17

crodish · 2020-07-19T19:51:23+00:00

I hate that it essentially boils down to "they'll only make noise when they can't find people who want to fuck them / can't find people they actually want to fuck, but until then shrug.gif"

Like imagine the shitstorm once every woman on every dating site is a transwoman and all the fed up straight men will finally understand what LGB has been facing

crodish · 2020-07-06T02:13:34+00:00

Yep! I retweeted a few pro-JKR things back in June and changed my name to #IStandWithJKRowling, immediately lost a bunch of followers. Yesterday I re-tweeted JK's tweet about misrepresenting the views of a trans woman whom she admired and respected and lost even more. lmao it's like, fucking... it's right there that she supports trans people. What else do you want.

I was disappointed about it before (I don't have many followers to begin with so the loss of 1 or 2 is always immediately noticeable) but I've consoled myself with the fact that the people unfollowing me over something like that are the same ones who'll call me a transphobic TERF without hesitation, so no big loss. The few people I actually do respect are still following me, too, so there's that... although I'd likely be upset if they dropped me.

crodish · 2020-09-14T14:09:37+00:00

grumpycat.jpg GOOD.

crodish · 2020-09-06T19:09:43+00:00

Better still, are they admitting that trans ARE basically just doing drag "but real, so you can't do it for fun while admitting you aren't really a woman/man"? lmfao

crodish · 2020-11-05T00:36:18+00:00

Uhhhhhh sooooo genuinely not trolling here, but I've liked some yaoi and gay porn before, however my attraction to irl men is like, non-existent. I only like looking at gay porn because somehow female porn seems degrading to watch what with the heavy male gaze and objectification. Good lesbian porn is rare but preferrable. In a way I'm a full on fujoshi but I in no way want dicks near me personally? I also get turned off by men running shirtless and I've never actually physically been with a guy before. Idk. I'm irl in a lesbian relationship and find female bodies way more attractive, have always been attracted to females, etc. Maybe I'm a closeted bi or something? Something something spectrum? ._.

I don't even know what my logic for this is either lol, just that if it's two dudes on screen going at it with each other (my interest drops almost immediately if it becomes a MFM threesome), they're not in my real life and it doesn't affect me, so I can enjoy watching it because sex is sex? But I have no attraction to male bodies sexually, like I can appreciate good anatomy and muscle structure artistically, but I'd very much rather bury my face in boobs and vajay than look at a dick irl? idk man I consider myself a lesbian because I only want to be with women irl regardless of the material I consume

Edit: expounding on why I can't watch female porn - I just end up feeling bad for the woman involved. Like is she okay, she doesn't look like she's enjoying this, is she faking, is she hurt, how much of this is scripted, was she forced to do this, etc. And a lot of times the women just sound incredibly dramatic for the sake of getting dicks hard (like dirty talk, daddy talk, begging, etc). With gay porn like... you can physically see the arousal, it's rare to hear male moans, if there's objectifying shots I don't find myself identifying with it because I don't have those parts (I guess this answers my question of why women get objectified in male porn so much? And also makes me a hypocrite?)

I'm aware it also brings around the point that the men in those scenes could very well also be under coercion, aren't enjoying it, getting hard doesn't equal pleasure, etc. idk man, I don't understand it either. Just trying to sound off why my brain is like this.

crodish · 2020-11-01T22:39:30+00:00

Didn't that "smol" bullshit start with talking about animals in baby speak? Like "what a heckin pupper, such a good doggo, smol precious baby uwu" and then it just contaminated everything else

crodish · 2020-08-30T04:53:36+00:00

"I got my lesbian wife pregnant, oops" - if a penis went into a vagina that's straight heterosexual sex, honey

crodish · 2020-07-28T05:07:41+00:00

Inb4 defacement, unfortunately

crodish · 2020-12-01T23:38:55+00:00

Yep, it is. They go against everything the LGB fought so hard for, about loving ourselves for who we are as we are, and are doing everything the christians and republicans said about sLipPeRy sLoPeS. Look at fucking MAPs trying to encroach in on us and how many of them tend to masquerade under the trans umbrella. :/ Everything they do gets reported under LGBTQIA12345 as well so it's dragging down the group as a whole and most normies don't realize the inner divisions.

Check out s/LGBdroptheT if you haven't already! Hang in there. Sanity and facts will prevail over feelings.

From a lesbian that came out of the closet and is shamefully retreating back inside to not be associated with the T

crodish · 2020-11-29T10:37:56+00:00

I'm disappointed at the lack of orGRSM jokes to be found here

Idk man if they stay away from LGB and women, they can call themselves whatever they want

crodish · 2020-10-15T16:40:14+00:00

Right?? But I ThOugHt TheRe weRe nO AdVanTagEs??!?

crodish · 2020-10-14T03:37:53+00:00

Very. If I could have a "normal heterosexual lifestyle" that didn't involve being ostracized and having to pretend this side of me doesn't exist? Why would I pick hard mode. The fact that it's circled right back around to "it's a preference, you CAN choose who to be attracted to" is such a backwards landslide for LGB rights.

crodish · 2020-09-03T14:10:02+00:00

It's so fucking stupid because the period is literally defined BY the shedding of the blood-lined uterine wall, there can't BE a bloodless period, much less a bloodless period WITHOUT A UTERUS (main point)! How is 2020 so batshit insane argh

crodish · 2020-08-19T17:06:24+00:00

Right???!?!? I'm so fucking aggravated argh

crodish · 2020-07-26T03:02:27+00:00

Urgh this this this! I'm so fed up with the whole pronouns bullshit and they/them crap. You're not non-binary you're just a fucking snowflake like the millions of other snowflakes who think being an 'other' is cooler than what you literally are

crodish · 2020-07-21T12:48:22+00:00

Holy fuck the comment in that picture is absolutely disgusting. The original context was bad enough.

crodish · 2020-07-21T00:04:41+00:00

Let's not forget the ultimate zinger: okay, TERF /s

crodish · 2020-11-29T10:47:01+00:00

You keep talking about what a loser this dude is, and not to defend him, but you yourself are kinda coming off kinda like a guy who talks a big game about how male and manly he is because he's SO man. Nothing you said is of comfort to this poor woman, you're just shitting on the dude. Not to mention she didn't even say she was breaking it off or looking for a new relationship, so good job implying and assuming she needs or wants to be hitched to someone else at all. Excellent job especially on implying that her age is of any factor of her independence. Your misogyny is showing.

And as an asian, fuck off outta here with that racist shit.

crodish · 2020-11-27T12:24:01+00:00

Gay bros who date trans bros are valid and also not gay, but straight or bi. Still valid, just not gay.

crodish · 2020-11-21T16:14:13+00:00

It's babylon bee, a satire site

crodish · 2020-09-20T06:28:28+00:00

I used to think the Q stood for Questioning; somehow or other Queer became the word instead. Not offended by it myself but I can see how it would be an issue. This flips flops all the time imho, there was a time when gay, faggot, dyke, and homo were slurs as well, but now half the time I see them being used self mockingly ie "yeah i'm a big ole faggot and proud of it", "big dyke vibes", and all that shit.

The entire community is just exhausting to be around.

crodish · 2020-09-20T01:52:14+00:00

OP literally did a "sorry not sorry" from the get go, these people have no fucking shame.

crodish · 2020-09-12T03:15:04+00:00

Urgh, no. If they identify as non-binary they have dropped being male/female from their game and I don't want to pander to some genderfluid aroace nb snowflake every day on how they're feeling on that particular day. They can join TQ+ in sorting themselves out.

LG = he/him male/male, she/her female/female combos only. B = can be either pairings or he/him male/she/her female, it's not a choice the sex of the person they eventually fall in love with.

Things were so fucking straightforward!

crodish · 2020-07-21T12:46:14+00:00

Is that his child or girlfriend or both next to him

crodish · 2020-07-09T05:39:39+00:00

r/caphillautonomouszone is pretty much my exhibit A for this. Everything is downvoted immediately by the brigade, discussions are impossible to maintain because dozens of trolls will obfuscate or derail any discussion, and people have abandoned the subreddit rather than deal with constant harassment. So a place that used to be a source of good information was immediately destroyed once the great ban occurred.

oh you mean like men coming into our subs and derailing our conversations to make it all about them so that's why we had to leave and get our own space for ourselves? no, can't relate

crodish · 2020-07-08T17:17:09+00:00

"Excuse me, Mr. Johnson? It's time for your - "

"How DARE you misgender me?!"

"Er - sorry, I meant... Ms. Jamie...?"

"Why do you keep misgendering me?!"

crodish · 2020-10-28T01:34:58+00:00

raises hand

It's despairing to see how much a picture with tits and ass and bedroom eyes gets mass upvoted and produced, even badly drawn. It's so sickeningly popular

crodish · 2020-10-15T10:40:14+00:00

Needs an overlay of like the sea lion actually vocalizing "AWRK AWRK AWRK AWRK" as what they really sound like vs what they think they sound like lolol

crodish · 2020-08-19T18:09:29+00:00

I feel bad admitting this but... I feel the same about the reverse, too. (GoFundMes for MtFtM and vice versa). Actually, like someone else said, I feel bad about any of these types of GoFundMes, because they're ultimately all selfish at their core, if the only beneficiary is the sole recipient. I'd rather donate to an organization that needs food and necessities for the underprivileged than someone needing a surgery or item that isn't life threatening. But the post-trans ones irk me a lot. Like... yeah, maybe it sucks that you were conned into the ideology, you were too young to know, everything, right? It also sucks for like, everyone else who had a shitty hand dealt to them. And probably 70% of them also have a GoFundMe up. Like... idk man this just turned into a rant about e-begging, I'm a salty broke lower class and the whole asking for money out of the goodness of peoples' hearts just rubs me the wrong way every time

crodish · 2020-07-13T23:37:11+00:00

Wow holy fuck, weren't THEY the ones who came up with that stupid 'x' replacement in "gendered" language to begin with?! They're fucking orobourosing themselves

I don't know whether to laugh or head desk, maybe both

crodish · 2020-07-08T18:35:17+00:00

Ah yeah that one I saw, definitely not a smooth move ):

Why are people here as equally obsessed with what pronouns I choose to address a person with on here? How is it different from what the TRA are forcing us to do? I'm fully aware Blaire is a biological male, but presenting as a trans woman. I'm not forcing others to use they/them or she/her.

inb4 handmaiden

crodish · 2020-06-30T07:12:44+00:00

"A woman is anyone who identifies as a woman."

"But what is a 'woman'?"

"A woman is anyone who identifies as a woman."

repeat to infinity and beyond

Their logic is so exhausting...

crodish · 2020-11-17T02:26:01+00:00

It's honestly getting to the point where I will avoid any series solely because it has LGBTQIWTF in it. Perhaps I have iNtErNalIzEd hOmOpHoBiA no I'm just sick of the extreme woke pandering.

crodish · 2020-11-05T10:47:23+00:00

ugh this, god I hate it when they zoom in on genitals. Just show me their faces and reactions and that's normally good enough for me, I don't need to know exactly how sloppy it is down there or anything, just how much both parties are enjoying themselves

crodish · 2020-10-13T15:37:28+00:00

"My vagina looks A LOT like a penis with two testicles" = "girldick"

This reality is sad.

crodish · 2020-08-21T01:45:33+00:00

For those who actually don't want to click, it's a google search term of "Dr. Rumer results" and shows all the mastectomies TIF have undergone.

crodish · 2020-07-27T05:44:43+00:00

Deadline 2030 is what got me lmao

crodish · 2020-07-23T00:56:30+00:00

Oh, yikes, I didn't realize how sexist he was until you mentioned this! I looked it up and... yeah urgh. How to land a good man by being everything the patriachy has advocated. Most of his recent tweets with regards to racism and all that seemed pretty level headed and agreeable, and he seemed rational overall. It's a pity this doesn't extend to his views on women...

crodish · 2020-11-29T11:01:34+00:00

OP, I'm sorry for the shit you're going through. What MarkTwaniac has suggested is pretty great already, but if you want to cross post to Ovarit, which has a much wider female audience and therefore more shared experience / advice and listening ears, I've sent you an invite code. There are many women there who are more than happy to listen to you and share your frustrations (I'm not contributing to the conversation personally as I have neither experience nor advice on this matter, only empathy.) You are not alone.

crodish · 2020-11-01T06:43:36+00:00

Could we just assign all male gynecologists who went into the line solely to look at vagina all the transwomen then? I mean transwomen are women so no difference there /s

crodish · 2020-10-30T13:09:58+00:00

So inclusive that they became unintentionally racist and homophobic

crodish · 2021-05-02T10:16:07+00:00

Archive Link for posterity: http://archive.is/qMRUm

The appropriation is truly sickening. They double down so hard in the comments, too. Words mean nothing.

crodish · 2020-11-30T02:33:52+00:00

This is the photo the title is referring to, for anyone OOTL. :/ I'm still mad.

https://www.mic.com/articles/127671/meet-the-gay-men-embracing-a-new-meaning-for-this-famous-gay-slur

From here: https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/6wjw/though_gallagher_is_transgender_he_feels/

crodish · 2020-09-24T16:15:41+00:00

It's basically real, uncensored, very raw footage of the surgeries of how neo vagina and neo penis are made.

Neo vagina require the penis and crotch area be cut up, de-gloved, and inverted inside out in a number of ways. I believe there's a section showing a transwoman getting "unpacked" after surgery as well where the surgeon basically keeps... pulling out wad after wad of gauze and god knows what out of the neo hole. I thought it was a video of a woman giving birth at first glance.

The other half is how neo penis is made. It involves grafting a large section of skin from the arm or thigh in order to form what is the rough equivalent of a thick, floppy meat dildo that may still have hair follicles on the entire shaft. The donor graft sites are also reduced to looking like very dry, shriveled jerky, especially the arm sites, which look closer to an eaten chicken drumstick than an arm by that point.

When people insist that bottom surgeries are in no way "multilations", I hope they've watched this.

crodish · 2020-08-09T05:22:13+00:00

They ALWAYS do this!! It's so fucking maddening.

"This never happens!"

"Here's proof it does."

"Okay but those are like outliers."

"Here's proof it does, in spades."

"Okay now that's ChErRyPiCkInG"

LIKE HELLO?!?!!?!?

crodish · 2020-07-19T02:29:22+00:00

This place started out rational but I've been seeing more and more conspiracy shit, BIG BOLDED TEXT SHOUTING POINTS, anti-mask rhetoric, racism, and the like. Half the comments are the bottom tier of the pyramid debate. I just stick to the subs I want to follow now. The s/all is a shitshow.

crodish · 2020-07-15T01:38:27+00:00

HAHA OMG me too!!!! Stupid thing was that I was banned for an EDIT to an actual lengthy comment I made about LGBT issues, and replaced it the hashtags so I could mass delete them later. I literally got banned for fucking hashtagging #RedditHatesWomen... as HATE SPEECH

crodish · 2020-08-31T06:17:13+00:00

I'm glad he's alive and didn't hurt himself, but I'm also sad that he jumped right back into surgery as a cure-all despite already suffering a botched SRS. I hope his restorative surgeries go as well as can be expected and that this poor person finds peace with themselves. It's so sad to witness.

crodish · 2020-08-19T17:44:34+00:00

Seconding this, this this this!

/u/please_help TW for talking about ED, talking about it because it's relevant - when I was struggling with it, the advice I got was to be "more mindful" and not constantly ruminate about the topic that was making me feel like shit, ie eating. Of course the immediate reaction is to go, "but how can I possibly NOT think about it?!" and it's hard, it's hard af, but you can DO IT

You know those times when you're watching a new movie for the first time, and it's so fucking good or funny or awesome you get totally caught up in it, and all your thoughts are just solely about the movie and the characters? Or you're playing a game or doing some physical activity or whatever and you get so caught up grinding or reaching goals that's all you focus on? Yeah, do that! Maybe it'll only work for a little while, that's fine! The point is to keep doing it little by little every day, until it becomes a part of your normal routine that you just... do it, because it's what you do!

Like... typing. Typing's easy now, but remember the first time you had to use a keyboard, and how hard it was to remember what keys were where and how to type without looking down, typing is so slow, why can't we just write? (Might not apply if you used smart phones from birth)

or when you start a new game and everything is confusing af because the interface is new, but after a week or so you know it like the back of your hand. It's the same thing. Stop indulging in stuff that makes you feel bad, and focus on things that make you feel good!

That said, it's easier said than done. Get the support you need - friends or family you feel you can talk to about this - and don't beat yourself up if you "fail", because failing is just another step towards success. You gotta grind a while to level up. It's good that you realized this early, so hang in there! Really hope you get the peace you're seeking with yourself.

Also, yeah, puberty fucking sucks. I hated my boobs when I was 16, too, and still don't really care for them, to be honest! just... ignore them best as you can. Sounds stupid, right? Life be like that doe. "They're there. It's normal, and it's okay to dislike them. Everyone has somehing they don't like about themselves, and I'm not going to let that stop me from enjoying things."

Sorry for the ramble. Just stuff I wish my teenage self would have heard, if I was in your situation. Hang in there! You are perfect the way you are!

crodish · 2020-08-01T07:58:12+00:00

I just imagined someone yelling at the space between someone else's legs lol

"ARE YOU A HE/HIM OR SHE/HER CERVIX???"

crodish · 2020-12-01T09:26:05+00:00

This is some wattpad worthy shit

crodish · 2020-11-28T11:22:53+00:00

I can't even with this garbage news. Fucking mastercard. Really?

All those people already taking advantage of self ID laws definitely aren't going to abuse this one, no sirree

crodish · 2020-11-13T16:39:58+00:00

Do I spy a NSP reference? :'D

crodish · 2020-11-08T15:03:49+00:00

orientation =/= preferences! What is this backwards slip n slide hellhole urgh

crodish · 2020-09-08T14:22:59+00:00

That IS really surprising. More proof that they're just getting triggered for the sake of it than actually getting triggered

crodish · 2020-06-30T03:50:40+00:00

How would you suggest debating someone who insist "feminism is for ALL women, and that includes transwomen" without using "woman is an adult human female"? I'm so tired of seeing this because they already blatantly ignore the latter, so telling them "you have to be a biological woman to be a feminist / feminism is for biological females" flies over their head or else falls on deaf ears.

crodish · 2020-10-21T11:41:43+00:00

We were not chased off (in the sense of 'we can still post there but just don't'). We were literally deplatformed and banned. We didn't choose to leave reddit, every attempt at making a new subreddit there has gotten deleted. Don't call us spineless for something that was beyond our control and which agb was not subjected to.

crodish · 2020-10-21T11:38:46+00:00

It is the only sub that hasn't been banned yet for doing so.

Lots of subs and users stood up to this until we got banhammered and deleted. Even now users that speak against TRA rhetoric on unaffiliated subreddits are getting banned.

crodish · 2020-10-17T11:25:07+00:00

It was just onomatopoeia, but sure haha!

crodish · 2020-10-07T16:23:11+00:00

Tempted to comment DD just because, lol

crodish · 2020-08-07T14:26:11+00:00

Speaking from the perspective of a creative-ish, who has dabbled in fandom before coughyaoicoughfictionalincestcough, it swings both ways. I understand both sides of the argument, but I have to go with "for", ultimately because it's still censorship if you try to stop fictional things from being created.

Yeah, it might have an impact on the real world. Does that mean all movies shouldn't have pets featured in them any more? Does every scene or violence need to come with a disclaimer? For the same reason it's not womens' faults for speaking out against trans agenda that causes transpeople to be murdered by men, it's not creatives' fault if people decide to act in real life with real consequences.

There's also people who create this type of work to begin with (myself included) as a form of self therapy or an outlet for expression and exploration. It doesn't mean we condone it, obviously.

I personally feel the real issue is when people can't separate the two. Fiction is not reality. It can be inspired by reality. It can come about as a result of wishing reality was different, and it might shape the future of reality. But it should never fall on the creator to be personally faulted. For example people who've committed real copycat crimes based on fictional murders.

I admit I'm not entirely convinced by my own stance. I've seen and read the arguments that aren't in favor (for example, many, MANY fandoms have an incest ship somewhere that undoubtedly ends up being one of the most popular ships) and argue that the creation of the material is what promotes and perpetuates the grooming behavior, etc. It's really a chicken and egg scenario for myself, personally. All I can say is that I can take accountability for myself that I'm not hurting anyone. If someone acts on their own accord based on what they read of my work, that's on them.

I welcome debate. I treat this issue like religion. It works for some, it doesn't for others, but in the end you're the only one it should matter for. Otherwise you end up like the religious people who keep actively trying to convert others because they believe they're saving others. For me, anyway.

crodish · 2020-08-02T14:00:30+00:00

Amazing lyrics, and video presentation, especially the age part at the end! Thank you for making this.

crodish · 2020-08-01T08:05:42+00:00

A woman who's infertile, been shaved bald, had a double mastectomy and full hysterectomy is still more of a woman than they could ever hope to be. They can strip us of everything that they think defines us as a female and we'd still be female at the end of it, even in death. They'll never have our fucking chromosomes, DNA, bone structure, gametes, etc

crodish · 2020-07-26T15:16:49+00:00

There's also the reverse uno of "oh, so you WANT trans men like Buck Angel to use the women's restroom! And trans men to compete in women's sports! Aha, gotcha! Stupid terfs!" like fucking - the whole thing about sports regulation and doping is that as long as you took stuff your body wasn't already producing on its own, it isn't fair.

The whole toilet situation is messy and annoying because then it falls on gatekeeping how people "pass" in general, even if common sense tells you if you don't look like the sex you're trying to emulate, don't go in there. Just... we had no issues before any tom dick and harry started calling themselves women and started demanding our spaces. Can we go back ten years

crodish · 2020-07-26T15:02:50+00:00

What are you talking about, no one ever confuses sex and gender /s

crodish · 2020-07-12T06:41:14+00:00

I had a couple times where my head was full shaved (as a show of support for children with cancer). I'm pretty flat chested and am not conventionally attractive by female standards. I got called sir and "little boy" a lot lmao and it was always weird to see people's horrified reactions, like chill, I present so fucking masculine, there was no reason for you to assume I was female and I'm not offended since it wasn't done out of spite!

crodish · 2020-07-08T23:44:51+00:00

Alright. Thanks.

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