sorted by:
new
hottopinsightfulfun

Any tips on attracting people you're attracted to on dating apps? by endlesssummer in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but maybe lower your standards?

Are you child-free? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do as well, building a family is one of my dreams.

Sucks to be a lesbian sometimes by coliemelan in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Bi women calling themselves lesbians and ending up with men just keep the false and homophobic narrative that lesbians just need the right dick. It's absolutely frustrating and disgusting but worry not OP, you are not alone we true lesbians always existed and will always exist.

No social media? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do not use social media myself so I'm not gonna be judgemental on someone else doing the same.

I do think that some people will be suspicious if it's related to dating through apps be it because ofthe TRA, regular dudes or cheaters.

According to the TRAs “lesbian culture comes directly from trans lesbians” by bastetkat in LGBDropTheT

[–]beereadit 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They are narcissists so of course they believe that.

What do you consider to be actual signs of being a late bloomer? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In my opinion it's a person who was never attracted / aroused or emotionaly interested to/by men however due to social stigma she may have decided to be with one regardless and later on accepted her repressed sexual desire and feelings for women.

If a woman can get off to a man at any point of her life but is also attracted to women then she is bi and not a late bloomer lesbian as simple as that.

How do you maintain attraction with weight changes? by HighPlainsDrifter in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So you're self aware enough to realize that turning down sex with her or ignoring her desire is harmful to her and yet you aren't self aware enough to discuss this issue with her and let her know what's up?

If as you say you love her, you should tell her that you don't find her attractive anymore due to her weight gain and that sex with her has always been underwhelming, and give her and the relationship a chance to improve or a reconsider being with you, right now she is going to tie her life with someone who practically deceive her.

OP, you're not evil for not being attracted to an obese woman, you're however harming and deceiving someone you say that you love and destroying the future of the relationship by withholding something as important as this.

[meta] anyone else is disturbed by the kind of people on saidit? should we move somewhere else? by temp_d in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I unsubscribed from everything, I just have this sub, GC and droptheT. I don't check their s/all.

I did the same on reddit too.

I hate making so many posts here 'cause I assume it gets annoying to see my name constantly, but why in the actual fuck are the folks over at r/lgbt creating 200 mildly differentiating variations of already existing sexual orientations everyday? What is the fucking need? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]beereadit 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Attention seeking, low self esteem, delusional individuals who want in the oppression Olympics and being a special snowflake.

Rant about fertility clinics by Fleursdumal in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Don't give these assholes your business, they certainly don't deserve your money nor do you and your partner deserve to go through this mistreatment and humiliation.

I'm sure there are other fertility clinics who will acknowledge that you're lesbians and adapt their procedure for that.

Ricky Gervais defending biology... Who knew! by vitunrotta in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He definitely is and it's depressing to see that unlike JKR, TRA are too cowardly to try to cancel him, yet another exemple of misogyny at play.

Depression, Down Days and Dating by basetenprefix in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

At your request I'm not going to offer any tips or advice, I read your post entirely and I can empathize with your struggles, life is certainly not easy to navigate and some painful incidents can have a big impact on us but that's life and everyone have their demons.

Good luck for the future, I can only wish you the best.

Stupidest thing you’ve ever done to impress a girl: by Graythoughts in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I had an ex who I drove 8h straight (no break while she slept during) juste to take her to a seaside vacation appartement and when we arrived I was obviously exhausted she complained about me resting right away and told me I am wasting the day.

During that same vacation she got the flue I of course took care of her for almost a week while she was bedridden, later on she got better while I got sick in turn, obviously when I needed to rest too she complained yet again about not being able to enjoy the vacation... I had to take her out while having fever and coughing like crazy just to satisfy her. I remember struggling so much but enduring it just to make her happy.

So you see in my attempt to be a good girlfriend, I ended up wasting my health, time and money for somebody who didn't care about me, it was stupid to say the least but lesson was definitely learned though so I'm grateful for her in that regards.

If you want to help fellow Truelesbians keep reading by Anniesworld in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not all of the people subbed were lesbians, I bet that half of it or even more were just our stalkers so I don't worry about losing too many of us due to the ban, but yes it would be nice to reach to those who may not be aware of the move to saidit due to their inactivity.

Thank you all by oofreesouloo in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I really feel bad for the new generation and I'm not only worried about their mental state but also physical state as TRA is pushing them to use life changing hormones and surgery that cannot be undone. It's terrifying to think of the baby dykes future.

What's your favorite type of nonsexual physical contact with a woman? by hufflepuff-poet in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I love cuddling, playing with each other hair and of course holding hands... honestly I like everything everything, I value non sexual affection just as much as sexual one and thinking about all of this makes me wish I wasn't single.

Are you out at work? by a_blue_bird in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I never disclose anything about my private life at work and since people usually enjoy talking about themselves it worked out just fine.

Is She a Lesbian - Hands in Pockets by sallyseton in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The best way to find out is by asking or if you're really too shy, you just friendly approach her and while chatting up bring up if she has a partner, for one you will know if she is single and lastly if she is straight she will definitely start talking about her boyfriend otherwise if she seems more private then jump ahead and say that you're single and looking for other lesbians in the city or something... Etc.

Good luck!

JK Rowling book sales unaffected by transgender views row by RadioSilence in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 43 insightful - 1 fun43 insightful - 0 fun44 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Trans News continue spreading the fake news, nothing new here really.

A clown world. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We really are going backwards.

Apparently REAL lesbians should learn how to actually be lesbians from men. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She can keep her wisdom otherwise known as homophobia and misogyny to herself. Leave us lone ffs.

FINALLY it has happened to me.... by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Congratulations! It's really nice to read uplifting news.

Favorite features on women by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have always been into brunettes, furthermore light Brown or hazel eyes are my kryptonite and when a woman smile and you can see her eyes are "smiling" too its just kill me.

To all of you trans ladies out there by AdmiralPangolin in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 38 insightful - 11 fun38 insightful - 10 fun39 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

No true lesbians will ever want your girl or neo dick, no matter how many times you throw tantrums about it.

Do you think this is the end for TL? by a_blue_bird in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

As long as we true lesbians exist we will always find each other be it in real life or the internet.

And just like when r/truelesbians started the community will build up slowly but surely all over again.

TRAs were angry when r/gendercritical existed. Now they're mad s/gendercritical exists. It's almost like banning subs doesn't delete people from existence by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Jokes on them indeed, they could control and monitor us on reddit but now we are free to do as we please. Thanks for pushing us out of that women thing platform and peaking more people in the process.

Had a phone date with a new guy ruined over trans rights when neither of us are even trans by nbailey73 in LGBDropTheT

[–]beereadit 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You dodged a bullet there, ou t your blessings.

I think AskGayBros hit peak trans in this thread by fuck_reddit in LGBDropTheT

[–]beereadit 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This will definitely peak more people to our cause, thanks trans you our showing everyone that you are just a bunch of homophobes.

r/actuallesbians are super paranoid right now about making sure "No terfs get in here." It's kind of funny by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Ah the actualnotlesbians subs, let them suck each other girldick to oblivion.

Giggle app moves to become female only after feedback. If TiMs are reported they will be removed. by jet199 in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I remember her basically spamming gc and all with her honeypot app while pretending to be part of the cause, turns out she only cares for money and was ok with trans. Now she is jumping ships when her handmaidens ways didn't work.

Current archive of my post on r/reclassified about TL. I figured I would put it here so we can talk about it without giving TRAs the satisfaction. by annatheginguh in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not just validation we are a fetish to them.

Think Twice About Actually Lesbian by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

You did well by banning them I was tired of reading their nonsense.

No Agenda here...nothing to see...move along by joeytundra in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well said!

No Agenda here...nothing to see...move along by joeytundra in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Anyone who try to justify that TRA are anything but incels this should definitely clear it up.

80% of people think men should not be allowed into changing rooms via self ID by GConly in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Of course people outside of the internet are against this nonsense that's why TRA power trip in the internet which is kinda like their fantasy world.

Low-effort meme of the current situation by annatheginguh in LGBDropTheT

[–]beereadit 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I forsee heavy brainwashing and years of therapy for the youngsters, I feel terrible for them.

When I joined LGBdroptheT on Reddit it had ~2500 people on it. I watched it grow to about 20,000 in a only few months it seemed. Since the ban (Only 20 hours ago), this Saidit sub has grown to 717 people as of now. (1/4th of what it was when I joined.) I am very glad to see this sub thriving here. by zeusdx1118 in LGBDropTheT

[–]beereadit 36 insightful - 3 fun36 insightful - 2 fun37 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

They may bans us from reddit but we still won't date them nor will we ever believe that gender nonsense they are pushing. People are peaking more and more it's just a matter of time before they realize the damage.

Don't think they won't turn on you too, handmaidens by gparmesan in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The handmaidens have no self respect or self esteem, getting attention from misogynistic men is why keeps them going. Don't worry though they will feel ashamed when the tides turns.

All of those who are celebrating the ban of r/lgbdropthet are objectively homophobic; they are celebrating the erasure of gay, lesbian and bisexual people, along with their culture. Imagine turning on the people who made your fucking community. You weren't asked to force yourselves into our group. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]beereadit 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well don't you know? Homosexuality is literally violence against the trans. /s

We were banned on Reddit on July 10th, shortly after 11:30am by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

[–]beereadit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I applaud the mods for never backing down during this past two weeks whereas all of the subs adapted their rules and yet got banned regardless.

I'm glad you organized this back up, thank you for the hard work.

r/terfisaslur, r/GenderCriticalGuys, and r/LGBDroptheT all just got banned by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They didn't go insane they just got a trans as a staff member now and just like Twitter, WordPress... Etc. They are are spreading their TRA propaganda.

JK Rowling just spoke again. She's fighting back by Lilith_Fair in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

JKR is fighting the good fight and I can't be grateful enough.

Radical feminism is failing because it’s too racist by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Half of it (49%) is from the USA huh? I expected more.

R/askwomen took a side. This should end well 🙄 by venecia in GenderCritical

[–]beereadit 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah I saw... I have come to accept now that anything related to women on reddit has been overrun... I miss GC.

I like this site so far. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Trolls spend their life spying on us, I am certain they already know about this place and infiltrated us already. It's up to us and the mods here to work our magic of reporting them once they engage.

I like this site so far. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The UX never changed for me, old.reddit.com gang represent XD.

Do NOT Panic! by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]beereadit 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Did they ban our sub? I can't access it anymore and my message history related to it disappeared just like the GC.