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To those of you who lost friends when you came out as Gender Critical, would you ever take those friends back if they came to see the truth of transgender ideology and tried to come back to you? by Kai_Decadence in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just found You're Kidding Right and I second that she is amazing.

Stonewall included ridiculing gender identity as a form of domestic abuse in their research. The next time someone tells you transwomen face more domestic violence than women this is where they are getting their information from. by jet199 in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This list is all about maintaining the illusion that trans people are the greatest victims in our culture. They are trying to cement their victimhood status by equating verbal taunts with literal violence. While being ridiculed and belittled in a relationship isn't something I condone, it makes a mockery of those who endure and face actual real domestic violence. This is insanity.

I had to share this. Surfaced on Reddit today. Example of gender-bullshit epically backfiring. by wecandobetter in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wow, this is such a pathetic display, in comparison to actual revolutionaries. For example I was raised on stories of the Hungarian revolution in 1956 against the soviets, which my relatives fought in. The soviets killed ~6000 citizens in two months at the cost of 700 soviet troops lives. The streets literally ran with blood, there were lynchings. Watching these Social (media) justice warriors fold like a house of cards the moment any pressure is applied to them. They don't know how lucky they are to be here in this country and the unbelievable professional restraint 99% of the cops here manage to muster.

I had to share this. Surfaced on Reddit today. Example of gender-bullshit epically backfiring. by wecandobetter in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

At the end... the "documenter" demands a female officer to handle the arrest. Cop rightly points out "how do you know they [arresting cops] don't identify as female?"

My ex thinks he is a woman by Anoki in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And has a porn addiction.

Azealia Banks suspended from Twitter over "transphobic" tweets that everyone should read because Azealia is telling it like it is. by BEB in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Holy fuck. That's some Queen energy there.

Joe Biden endorses child transing by WrongToy in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ya, saw this. I have voted in every election I have ever could and always voted Democrat. This ... A pox on both your houses best sums up my feelings for both parties.

How do you balance being Gender Critical but not becoming outright hateful of trans people? by hmmdmm in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

For me it is really helpful to engage in the social media accounts of "terfy" trans people (Buck Angel, Rose of Dawn, Blaire White etc.) It grounds me and keeps things in perspective.

New "I love JK Rowling" billboard goes up in San Francisco by TangerineRabbit in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

This is great news. While it's no billboard, I got a ton of stickers to do the same locally. So can you from Posie Parkers shop... www.standingforwomen.com/shop

Wanting to drop my best friend because she recently moved to fucking la la land. by fuckupaddams in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If she can do actual damage to your life, sounds like you need to get off her crazy train and fade out then.

Vicky Osterweil, the author of In Defense of Looting is male by alttrawl in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ya, I really REALLY hate how now we have to rely on right-wing sources to unpack this sort of stuff. Most mainstream media seems to have abandoned neutrality and gone alt-left, full TRA supporting. So it's not surprising that conservative journalists are the ones digging into and exposing all this.

Where do I go to safely find GC community in real life? by watermelonsappho in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That'll depend on where you live and you'll have to some extent out yourself to meetup with others IRL. You might have to dive deeper into GC social media. That's how I found some women. If you live in Seattle ... https://sosrights.org/ . I heard about them by following @rGenderCritical on twitter.

"Straight Gays are valid"... what? by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not sure about the vote part. Young people are the cohort least likely to vote, their % is appallingly low.

Man on r/acutallesbians wants to know if he's a lesbian, apparently he is by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That whole thread... straight man being validated by straight men in a formerly lesbian space.

2020 just doesn't stop does it.

“Trans People Are People” by Coconaut in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's like a smaller focused version reddit/saidit, but not run by men and radfem/GC themed subs only. It just started and is in beta.

“Trans People Are People” by Coconaut in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I agree completely. Which is why I always find it absurd when TRAs shriek we are denying their right to exist. It really shows how unhinged they are and only have emotional blackmail arguments.

Kyle Rittenhouse's mother by ImPiqued1111111 in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ya, he was. But you have to really do a deep dive and watch/read the analysis. Many youtubers have pieced together the time line of events. If you read the charges files against him, it's like a defense lawyers dream.

Kyle Rittenhouse's mother by ImPiqued1111111 in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a liberal who thought he was a mass-shooter nut job until I looked into it. There are so many lies in this case, mostly coming from the Left. It's kinda shocking.

Agreed, if you watch the actual timeline videos (there are many... the NYT also breaks it down) of his actions, its self defense. Even the possession of a rifle under 18, will probably not stick.

He's guilty perhaps of looking for trouble while open carrying, so no hero, definitely should be charged. From what I've read he is cooperating, and in our system he is innocent until proven guilty.

Kyle Rittenhouse's mother by ImPiqued1111111 in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I might be wrong. To me it looks like him. There is a lot of rumors swirling around Kyle (also heard that he's defending his sister in that video for example).

Kyle Rittenhouse's mother by ImPiqued1111111 in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is a very political topic, nuisance arguments like yours will get swamped immediately.

Still the criminal complaint does not include his mom. Here is a good video comb through the charges against Kyle... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xMmCAbJT6U0

My 2 cents ... one unifying thing ... it is pretty telling that there is evidence both the shooter and both dead guys, all men, treat women like shit. The video of Rittenhouse punching a girl. Then you can play devil's advocate and argue the dead guys, Rosenbaum and Huger, were "worse" since they had felony convictions around their horrible abuse of women.

And now others jumping in and blaming his Mom?! Fuck right off. This world hates women.

𝙆𝙔𝙇𝙀 𝙍𝙄𝙏𝙏𝙀𝙉𝙃𝙊𝙐𝙎𝙀 𝘿𝙄𝘿 𝙉𝙊𝙏𝙃𝙄𝙉𝙂 𝙒𝙍𝙊𝙉𝙂 by christnmusicreleases in politics

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Perhaps you've heard of this troublesome American judicial concept: Innocent till proven guilty? Legal analysis by a defense attorney ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xMmCAbJT6U0

He already has high power lawyers chomping at the bit to rep him... very likely he will get off.

BBC News: J.K. Rowling Returns Human Rights Award after being labelled "Transphobic" (again). by GayNotQueer in LGBDropTheT

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Not a woke SJW and you are right... the violent threats I read and saw online swayed me to join JKR.

BBC News: J.K. Rowling Returns Human Rights Award after being labelled "Transphobic" (again). by GayNotQueer in LGBDropTheT

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Damn the epic level of projections and out right lying critics of JKR shovel on her.

JKR has been an absolute Queen in all this.

JK Rowling Doubles Down in Her Support of Women & Children & Her Wariness of Trans Agenda In New Statement Explaining Why She Has Returned Her Robert F Kennedy Award for Humanitarianism by MarkTwainiac in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hear you and relate. However merely reading her words and considering them a "breath of fresh air" will get you labelled of TERF (the slur version of gender critical) in LGBTQWTF+ circles. I know I've been trough it. This is what "radicalized" me to the GC side. Here at least we are allowed to discuss these issues.

edit ps- Look into the truscum/tucute debate in trans circles if you haven't already.

JK Rowling Doubles Down in Her Support of Women & Children & Her Wariness of Trans Agenda In New Statement Explaining Why She Has Returned Her Robert F Kennedy Award for Humanitarianism by MarkTwainiac in GenderCritical

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So many ... off the top of my head.... Doctors even up to the 70's saying that smoking is fine. The lobotomies of the 50's. Giving Thalidomide to pregnant women to ease morning sickness only to realize that it causes severe birth defects. Most similar to trans crazy ... Automatically putting menopausal women on hormones for years in the 90's only to realize years later if greatly increases risk of cancers/heart issues etc.

I peaked after dating a trans girl and need advice on how to leave by lunemoonjune in GenderCritical

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This is the advice I would give, except don't stay friends. Block and ghost off if you can. Remember you don't own him an explanation for why you want out of the relationship. All you owe him is "It's over, and good bye."

Woman getting shouted at for not raising the fist. by Cacator in GenderCritical

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Scary stuff. And another video handed to the right and trump supporters to stoke their anger. This will create reactionaries. Also I think this belongs here ... She was singled out by a mob because women are always the first to be bullied, we're seen as targets.

Radfems, you are needed over in s/feminism by yishengqingwa666 in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That is true. But I'm not going to fight a fight that is unwindable. It only has a single mod, are they an MRA? If yes, in that case it is not a place for women at all.

USA ob/gyns advocate no prior mental health care or screening for TIFs who seek life-altering, health-damaging "gender affirming" surgeries by MarkTwainiac in GenderCritical

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This infuriates me so much. They are lying. One of my best friends had to beg FOR YEARS to get her hysterectomy to deal with serious uterine problems that were ruining her life. She had to go to 4 different gyns and then fight her insurance.

J.K. Rowling has said nothing wrong (removed from two subreddits) by Greykittymomma in GenderCritical

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Wow, the delusion is strong with this one. It's like a giant semantic game to them, and they throw tantrums if someone doesn't play along.

Online observation; has anyone noticed a tendency for TIFs to hang out in female-dominated online spaces like Tumblr/fandom and TIMs usually hang out in like 4chan and male-oriented p0rnsites? by bigmeaniebutt in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 35 insightful - 3 fun35 insightful - 2 fun36 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, that is why all the GC subs got hounded of reddit but not Tumblr.

Asking for donations for chest surgery by Criticalofgender in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm going to go against the current here...

We live in a free society and people are allowed to beg for money for plastic surgery. And people are allowed to give said beggars their hard earned cash, for selfpats/woke pts/whatever reason. It's the unsustainable trend dejour. Note, I personally don't give money for these surgeries but either way that's okay.

Portland Police: Man Viciously Beaten By BLM Protesters Was Trying To Help Transgender Victim Of Robbery by [deleted] in politics

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😱 Thanks anon internet wankers for telling me what I am. I'm sure to take it to heart and will totally change my thinking! ps- do I win a saidit achievement or badge for getting called a retard, boomer conservative when I'm none of those things? I want that flare like yesterday.

Portland Police: Man Viciously Beaten By BLM Protesters Was Trying To Help Transgender Victim Of Robbery by [deleted] in politics

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Jesus fucking christ. How quickly "anti-fascist" group takes a page out of Hitler's playbook and starts acting like brownshirts. No wonder gun/ammo sales are through the roof.

Watching this ... all I can think is I need to get my conceal carry permit.

Saidit is hosted on a pro-transgender host. Ovarit is run by women, for women. I highly recommend it. Getting DDOSed, it could be a matter of time this place gets the boot too. by AshleyBackwoods in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This! Frankly GC feminism will die on the vine if we isolate ourselves/get pushed into a tiny corner of the internet, talking only to each other. That was the pt of the ban, make us "irrelevant." And why we need to speak up.

[Currently "FtM"] You guys are right by please_help in GenderCritical

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You are welcomed here. I myself consider myself more truscum, then on the full terf end of the spectrum.

Wish I could give you hug. Sexual trauma is not the only path to gender dysphoria. Internalized misogyny and homophobia is another way in. This world hates, HATES females and lesbians while at the same time hyper sexualizing young women. It's hard not to internalize this and it can come out many ways. Even as self disgust if you have been on line all your life and especially if you've watch porn these days.

What you are feeling (disgust of your chest and pubic area) is not unusual for females your age. I'm old so my advice and perspective might be of no use to you. But I will still ofter you my personal experience since like you I Hated my body from 11 to 18.

The truth is your mind and body are not done growing until your early 20s. At your age, your brain is literally rewiring itself from a child's to an adult brain, higher brain functions are no where near fully developed, which is why you are not allowed to do many adult things like drink or vote.

Your dysphoria may change radically as the years/decades slip by. For me my detached disgust for my body started to settle down after high school, and by 22 I felt pretty comfortable with my female parts. Tis is not uncommon. Though of course ymmv.

I don't have much advice, beyond you are very young, don't rush, take it real slow. Engage with your body through exercise, eat well, find fulfilling hobbies that are not on the internet. Last I would recommend you connect with slightly older desisters/detrans transmen in there 20's who have been through what you have. I don't know many, can only recommend GNC Centric (Ben is ex-transman lesbian, is) comes to mind... https://www.youtube.com/c/GNCCentric

Wish you all the best.

Subreddit drama by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Now that they don't have r/Gc to bully, they have to turn that energy on something. Expect more of this nonsense. #sitsbackwithpopcorn

Pansexual is the narcissistic, pseudo-virtuous version of bisexuality by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Sadly, I've met all too many young teen girls who say they are pan. It's the new #notlikeothergirls sex-posi virtue-signaling.

A Liberal for Trump: I’m voting for Trump because the Democratic Party is no longer liberal by sproketboy in politics

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This is the female Unsafe Space host... https://www.youtube.com/UnsafeSpace As another homeless liberal, I find her channel refreshing.

Coming to GC Jesus article on Medium by a gay man, Duncan. by aldoushuxleyghost in GenderCritical

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I follow Duncan on twitter. I bet you can DM him if you want to commiserate/chat or whatever.

And Medium is notoriously anti-GC, and have been known to take down articles written by GC women about the subject. You'll have to ask for a good place to GC blog, I don't know of one.

Coming to GC Jesus article on Medium by a gay man, Duncan.

by aldoushuxleyghost to /s/GenderCritical from self.GenderCritical

Is Ovarit down? by greenish in GenderCritical

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Hum... I see it is up, but got 504 error (which I believe means server did not respond) when I tried post.

Who are these “cis lesbians” in relationships with transbians, you ask? Befuddled straight women who have been indoctrinated into believing they’re overcoming CompHet. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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qwerty sexual ... A+ comment here.

Who are these “cis lesbians” in relationships with transbians, you ask? Befuddled straight women who have been indoctrinated into believing they’re overcoming CompHet. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wow I wonder how sustainable this sort of masquerade is? There's probably going to come a time where she realizes he is just using her as a prop (a big one) in his fetish, or is the self-delusion that strong?

It's been one week since the mods of r/GenderCritical launched their new woman-run radical feminist site, Ovarit! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Love Ovarit except I feel I like the saidIt no downvote way. I plan to stick around here for s/LGBdroptheT and enjoying the reddit hate/strong anti-censorship stance despite some of the rascist stupid.

It's been one week since the mods of r/GenderCritical launched their new woman-run radical feminist site, Ovarit! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Still a going thing. But spinister is more like twitter. Ovarit is a forum so like reddit was.

Types of trans people I’ve noticed by Astrid2448 in LGBDropTheT

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Bang on. Would only add... Type 3: Many go by Elliot.

From r/detrans: Why I stepped down as a moderator, my story and ... Farewell. [NSFW] by censorshipment in GenderCritical

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It went away for me to when I checked today. So, no longer a thing.

From r/detrans: Why I stepped down as a moderator, my story and ... Farewell. [NSFW] by censorshipment in GenderCritical

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Yup. Just checked. Of course, they are trying to keep the pipeline of transkids funnelled to egg_irl

Anti-kink subreddit for women who are recovering from BDSM? by luvmyvulvaxoxo in GenderCritical

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I remember that but nuked my old reddit account so can't help. Ovarit.com also has new antikink sub (called circle there) and has 2 mods on there and they might be able to help you locate it as well.

Arty Morty: A Fun Friendly Chat with Fred Sargeant by indeepshadows in LGBDropTheT

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Fred's an icon and glad to see him getting involved, also kinda of a boomer, very reserved and dry. But Arty is always a hoot and charming, so worth a watch.

I'm really digging Arty's channel.

Lambda Legal pushing gay conversion therapy on kids by PassionateIntensity in LGBDropTheT

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Jesus Canada. JKR is right, this is going to be a medical scandal of on par with lobotomies.

UFO sighting: 'Alien cube ship' TEN TIMES bigger than Earth captured by NASA by Questionable in UFO

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My guess is no. Some sort of scanning artifact or glitch of the SOHO. Or missing corrupted data.

Why so few posts? by zyxzevn in UFO

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I get my UFO news mostly on Twitter and forget about this space.

Sick of Reddit misogyny? Are you Ovarit? Come join us at our permanent new home for Gender Critical women! PM me for an invite code! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Yezzzz!

Irreversible Damage: the trans threat to girls - Abigail Shrier's new book is a must-read on the harm trans ideology is doing to young girls by [deleted] in books

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Ya that interview made me read it.

JK Rowling book sales unaffected by transgender views row by RadioSilence in GenderCritical

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Localized, small brand boycotts are effective, but once something is large enough, the reverse is true. Chick-fil-A is more popular than ever.

I believe there's a divide between radfems and gender critics who aren't necessarily radfem by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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I hate labels beyond I am a woman, an adult human female. But since you asked, 2nd wave feminist, GC, and here because ... My rights as a woman have collided with transwomen (ie men) trying to muscle there way into all our spaces and take the very language I describe my life and struggles. We need to organize and push back.

The vibe of this sub seems a lot different than the original r/gendercritical by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 60 insightful - 2 fun60 insightful - 1 fun61 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I was on the original GC and lurked for 2 years. This is sub is the same members, and topically aligned. By seedier I assume you mean the look and feel of the site is run down. Of course it is. This is not reddit (which was built over years by thousands of techbros into a porn/men's rules paradise it is today). We are essentially wandering in the wilderness until a GC platform is built. Spinister is not a good substitute for reddit or saidit. And yes we are more "aggressive" ... because we are fucking furious about what happened and are freer to speak out here. SaidIt is ... very small and wild west, but it's fine for now.

Detrans female— Venting, what the f just happened to me? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I remember your last post! I'm so glad to see you posting again. It's an incredibly hard thing you are going through. I want to double down on the advice to be kind to yourself (even when friends and family will not) and protect yourself.

I can kinda relate. I'm GNC and was lost/lonely when I was late teens, I joined/left a religious cult. Maybe it might help you if frame it as joining/leaving a cult (one that has mass media favor right now cause it sells and because it is run by loud narcissistic men who have $$). I'm not the only one with this idea (Arty Morty talks about this ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TcqqGJrCpFY ). In the end looking back on it twenty years later, I regret it, but at the same time it really matured me and taught me A LOT. So please keep in mind that you can grow and survive this and come out stronger.

If you can mend bridges with family please try when you are ready (most sane parents will welcome you back), your true friends will still be there, if you don't have friends you will make new ones, guaranteed (you sound very smart and thoughtful).

There are more detrans reseources now then there was even two years ago, I hope you tap into them as well. Recently, I just started watching GNC Centric on youtube, love her and the conversations she has.

Take care and hope you stick around!

How much porn conversation is normal when hanging out with guys? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Don't drop hints (socially inept people do not pick up on social clues), please be frank and direct if you feel safe and comfortable.

How much porn conversation is normal when hanging out with guys? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This guy is majorly pornsick. You tolerating this, signals to him that you are fine with it. I suggest leaving him. You are not his mother and are not responsible for this grown man.

Positioning marriage as a desire for women rather than a necessity for men was a brilliant move by the patriarchy by WhyDoesHeDoThat in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Internet rando's opinion is not worth much I know, yet you have my respect for supporting your kids and wife even though you sound miserable. I've been married 22 years, we had a couple of rough patches. I wish you the patience and wisdom of ... someone you think has a lot of patience and wisdom.

Positioning marriage as a desire for women rather than a necessity for men was a brilliant move by the patriarchy by WhyDoesHeDoThat in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, all that is statistically true. It is also true that men will do those things, and worse, to women even without marriage. Not being married won't save you. Something like 80% of unmarried men completely abandon the children they fathered, taking all the potential resources that child would have access to with him. Married men not by a long shot. Having children without access to plentiful resources (ie $) is more the trap for women.

Positioning marriage as a desire for women rather than a necessity for men was a brilliant move by the patriarchy by WhyDoesHeDoThat in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

THIS. If you're dating someone and after years you say nah, I don't want to marry you... it means I don't want to declare you part of my legal family and/or I want to be able to leave anytime I want. Marriage isn't a trap, it's a feature of civilized society, one where women, gays/lesbians now have the option to take or leave these days.

A list of feminist podcasts and channels. by FuriousPenguin in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Some current listens for me...

Meghan Murphy on https://www.feministcurrent.com has a bunch of podcasts also on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCq-04S1vzWPy3G8omi0wVvA

Glinner, after his twitter ban, has taken to youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/Glinnerful

GNCCentric is new and young/vocal about detrans: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTY0IumyDAKe--wcRyL_Avg

ArtyMorty is another new youtuber, gay man who has had enough: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsIEHEgnuo0g1sUuZ0BG--g

Positioning marriage as a desire for women rather than a necessity for men was a brilliant move by the patriarchy by WhyDoesHeDoThat in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 27 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Wow, glad I'm not married to you. File for divorce if its that bad, buddy.

Positioning marriage as a desire for women rather than a necessity for men was a brilliant move by the patriarchy by WhyDoesHeDoThat in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 19 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Agreed... Lots of bad messaging from media and culture. HOWEVER God damn but I hate Twitter. This hot take is BS, marriage has always been "positioned as a desire for women." ALWAYS. Historically it was the only thing women had to look forward to besides "being a mother." Marriage has evolved, culturally and legally (thank christ!). Why do you think gay people fought for the right to marry?! Marriage (a voluntary, legally protected partnership) is not in of itself bad.

Season 2 of Unidentified Just started. Repetitive, and slow but still good to see they ae still making it. by aldoushuxleyghost in UFO

[–]aldoushuxleyghost[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do love that they are bringing in more military witnesses, who are very straight-laced, non-nonsense sort of guys. Makes for reliable testimony.

Rare Documents Disclose Hints of UFO Crash Retrievals | It's [redacted]. YT by Entropick in UFO

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks. I only recently got back into my love of all things UFO (thanks covid!).

Rare Documents Disclose Hints of UFO Crash Retrievals | It's [redacted]. YT by Entropick in UFO

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I love It's Redacted. They do some great digging. What other youtube channels are good for UFO info?

Season 2 of Unidentified Just started. Repetitive, and slow but still good to see they ae still making it.

by aldoushuxleyghost to /s/UFO from youtu.be

Can you answer my 3 questions and convince me of GC please? by Amelia in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No problem. In general this is a great bunch of women... and way smarter than me, so you are in good hands.

Can you answer my 3 questions and convince me of GC please? by Amelia in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, though the length of the inquiry is what made me think it is sincere and not trolling. Anwyay, I found it a good exercise in GC flexing.

Need help debating an MRA by twam in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Are you married to this man? Is he family? If not, don't throw your pearls before swine, ie don't waste your time. If he is related to you, he honestly sounds dreadful, and dugin, I doubt you can change him even with the best facts.

Can you answer my 3 questions and convince me of GC please? by Amelia in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We're happy you're here to. I'm glad you found us and are asking questions! Keep diggin and keep questioning, never stop... Whatever you end up believing.

Can you answer my 3 questions and convince me of GC please? by Amelia in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

1: A female is a biological reality... someone who potentially can, is currently making or used to make large gametes (ie ova), and secondary to this then the system of organs you list to gestate a zygote. A female will never make small gametes (ie sperm). The opposite is also true, a male is someone who will, is currently making or used to produce small gametes. A male will never produce an ova. The rest is obfuscation.

2: This is obfuscation, TRAs love to bring up development disorders of intersex people (which are very rare) to "prove" sex is a spectrum, not binary etc. That's like saying someone born without legs proves humans are not bipedal. It's nonsense.

If you are actually determined to understand and figure this out, I suggest you carefully watch: https://www.youtube.com/c/ParadoxInstitute ( Also on twitter: https://twitter.com/zaelefty/status/1280974218369421316 )

3: Gender is a social construct, based on feelings and culture. Sex is biological reality that surgeries (that are essentially cosmetic) can not erase. It can harm everything. Look at what it is doing to our language alone. You can't even understand what is male or female even though 99.6% of us are one of the two. What about ... Women's sports, prisons, scholarships, women's shelters are affected if we accept anyone can declare themselves a woman, yet remain male bodied (with it's great strength, violent and rapey tendencies.) As far as I can tell Non-binary is a reaction to Gender Identity. Since Gender ID insists your internal "feeling like a woman/man" means you are woman/man, than non-binary people insist they feel like neither, again notice everything based on "feelings".

Gender should be abolished because it upholds old regressive sexist stereotypes (pink is for girls, blue is for boys type stuff). I can't believe we've gone back to the point where I have to argue this. Gender ideology is harmful to gender-non-conforming kids and adults. It means, if a little girl plays with trucks and legos and hates dresses, people now think this girl should actually be a transboy.

Okay, you can be upset now by trainingbluejay in itsafetish

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 22 insightful - 4 fun22 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

All subs I loved, that weren't show or food, have been now banned from reddit. FUCK THIS SHIT! Streisand Effect take me away.

We were banned on Reddit on July 10th, shortly after 11:30am by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is exactly it. The Streisand Effect on steroids.

Interesting temporising by Stephen King by Camberian in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Many of us were like him, not to long ago. Trying to be reasonable, kind and empathic. Until something happened and we examined the issue closely, and we were snapped awake, peaked. We can't peak him. He's got to go through it himself, do his own critical thinking. Many/most can't or won't. So ya, I'm not holding my breathe, but will not be surprised to see him go hold on, wtf is going on with all this. Especially since he's old and seen a lot.

The one reason we all can't speak our minds is cancel culture. Cancel culture was created by so-called progressive democrats. I've only ever voted Democrat in my life, but I just can't support that anymore. Don't downvote till you've read please. by 100_percent_truth in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat (live in hyperwoketown - Seattle). I am butch but straight, often travel to rural WA, and these days feel more at home and accepted by rural folks than at home. I always vote like 99% democrat and I always will vote, but I've declared myself politically homeless and have no idea how to vote in Nov besides not trump. I really don't like Biden as a candidate, he was my last choice among the democrats (he speaks as if he has dementia, and is in the sway of the wokerati, though not as much as WArren). I don't think Biden will win in a landslide honestly, with covid likely to suppress turnout in places without mail-ins.

Yes it's all depressing.

Quod Erat Demonstrandum by womenopausal in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

... You played yourself.

Spinster Name by EllaRoxy in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm of two minds about spinister. I love being around like-minded feminists, so it's a good place to support eachother and maintain sanity. However it is also an echo chamber and will expose and bring new people to reality. That was why I loved gencrit on reddit. It was both "safe space" (a term I hate) and a pulpit.

ps- I followed you.

JK Rowling just spoke again. She's fighting back by Lilith_Fair in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The responses to her tweet are either full on support or "Shut up, you're hurting my feelings." No real debate.

Pretty much 99.9% of people are "TERFS" by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The more money clinics, BigPharma, Doctors make, I believe the lawyers will get curious. That is why anyone who gets treatment has to sign "informed consent" forms, because they KNOW this is malpractice and are covering their ass.

Have courage, sisters! Greetings from a Seattle GC woman. by SusanBee in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Anyone who wants to connect with another Seattlite DM me.

Have courage, sisters! Greetings from a Seattle GC woman. by SusanBee in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I used to stay silent, not anymore. I try to challenge the view, appropriately these days. Luckily I work at home (even before covid), my husband agrees with me, and we have some friends who don't live here.

I've lived here forever. And it is very hard to see so many smart educated people fall for this idiocy. It makes me want to leave and never come back. Especially watching so many girls and autistic children go trans.

Have courage, sisters! Greetings from a Seattle GC woman. by SusanBee in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Seattle here as well. Hello all!

how much has saidit grown in these few days? by [deleted] in SaidIt

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm eastern european so I was suckled on tales of Societ oppression. Save the lecture. I agree about the left. I consider myself politically homeless. Take care.

How best to find other GC people in my area (IRL)? by Futon_Everlasting in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'd like to know as well. I emailed the group near me (HI SOSrights.org!) so here's hoping someone is on the other side reading their general contact.

how much has saidit grown in these few days? by [deleted] in SaidIt

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 20 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Since I'm not radfem (I'm more trad, and gencrit) not always great. There are also plenty of young women fleeing woke SJW culture that bit them wrong. Still, as a woman love the community, the discussions, by a large majority they are frank, smart, take no shit ladies.

how much has saidit grown in these few days? by [deleted] in SaidIt

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 21 insightful - 25 fun21 insightful - 24 fun22 insightful - 25 fun -  (0 children)

Hehe. GC is more diverse than that. I am a dog lady.

r/LGBDroptheT is now kaput by Complicated-Spirit in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Last I read they were planning on joining us here and had reserved the name on saidIt.

GC's Peak Trans, archived by NDG in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Great to see these! Reading these is what peaked me. Can we pin these to the top of this forum like it was on r/GC?

Gender Heretics Substack gone too? by salty-tomorrow in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They are moving servers I believe. So they will be back.

I created a new GC space on reddit: /r/AdultFemaleHumanPorn by JoanofArc5 in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 18 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Couched in terms of kink for all things terf. Nice.

The banning of r/gendercritical, why you should care and why the average person doesn't. by Barfie in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Okay. Read the sidebar, debate sub will be made once we get our fucking feet under us again.

Our subreddit was truly amazing, but we still have what matters: our community and our desire to see women safe and thriving. by JennyCritter in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s understandable to mourn and go through the stages of grief. Ive settled in radicalized rage today. Focus on gathering up lost sheep and building up the community.

The Queen GC is dead, long live the new GC Queen.

The banning of r/gendercritical, why you should care and why the average person doesn't. by Barfie in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

One the irony is not lost on me. Two you are looking at this as a man. You want give us advice on how to push outward, conquer our foes and recruit. You do not understand.

I suspect I speak for a few here when I say... I don’t give a shit about what the rest of reddit thinks if us. Those that are gloating can go fuck themselves. We were at heart a community of women for likeminded women. A place to vent, maintain sanity, educate and support eachother. GC, the core sub, was/is, not a recruiting station.

As a trans GC I hope I'm welcome here too by AfterLight in GenderCritical

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As long as you acknowledge sex is real. I believe transwomen are transwomen... and I see there is some anger an fury below. Right now feelings are pretty raw.

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