How did we get here you ask... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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How to introduce yourself in the 21st century: first, list who you fuck, second, list all your mental illnesses.

Yes, everything is okay with the society. Why would you even ask?

TRAs, allies and lgbTTTT press FAIL to damage JKR's sales. Let the triggering commence! by Uranian in LGBDropTheT

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The backlash against JK Rowling’s views on transgender law reform has failed to dent the popularity of the Harry Potter author’s books, with publisher Bloomsbury saying they have proved a lockdown hit, pushing revenues at the group’s children’s division up more than a quarter.

It's almost like nobody gives a shit about the trans dogmas and rightthink, except for 5 people on Twitter.

Every. Single. Time. by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 55 insightful - 20 fun55 insightful - 19 fun56 insightful - 20 fun -  (0 children)

There are lots of women out there who have dicks

Meanwhile the actual amount of women with dicks: 0.

Show with a well written lesbian plot? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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You're asking for too much.

Wearing pants makes you a man, duh by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

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Interesting. Someone told her that she looked cute in skirts, so for years she only wore skirts to please them? And then when one time she wore pants, and one person asked her a weird question, she had to lie about liking pants and went back to skirts? Yeah, this is a normal person who can handle the real world, absolutely.

"If lesbians can learn to accept trans women, why are gay men being so shitty to trans men?" by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

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a trans woman can resemble a cis woman in every way

Show me one. Just one.

That was quick by FineIWillDoItMyself in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 17 insightful - 12 fun17 insightful - 11 fun18 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

I don't see what is the connection between lesbianism and pussy?

(an approximate quote of what I not long ago read on r/AL)

Ideas kill people. We're all pansexual. Attraction to random people on the street is the proof in your sexual pudding. You don't know their gender. They could be nonbinary demifemmebutchelf. Think, you phobic phobes. THINK! by fijupanda in LGBDropTheT

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These ideas are what keeps trans women away

I will no longer call myself a lesbian

So... mission accomplished?

NOT ALL GAY MEN ARE GAY! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 32 insightful - 11 fun32 insightful - 10 fun33 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

Not all gay men are obsessed with penis.

Sorry guys, but your pathetic little ''genital preference'' has gone too far and is now an ''obsession'' :) Why can't you learn from trans people, who are well known for looking past such irrelevancies as physical appearance and anatomy?

Like straight couples? Might be trans (r/actuallesbians) by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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What she feels is completely normal for a homosexual of her age

Not that the transbians would know.

Straight girl needs help overcoming her compulsory heterosexuality in order to make her heterosexual sex with a trans-identified male "queer." by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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Personally, I feel like my body is so wired to satisfy male partners that I automatically start acting like a male would expect me to, regardless of context. Same thing on her end : she constantly feels pressured to use her penis or to make me orgasm, even when we both agreed not to. Is this normal ?

A heterosexual woman is asking if her wanting to have typical hetero sex with a male, and a male wanting typical hetero sex with her, is ''normal''. LOL. Every day they're getting crazier and crazier.

Trans woman claims that she was discriminated against in a Women's only bar. In Tokyo, Japan. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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''But why would anyone not be pro-trans? It literally doesn't affect you in any way :(((( "

The amount of ass-kissing on AL is not good enough for a transwoman who’s suffering from disapproval of actual lesbians on the sub by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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If you're woman that loves women, you're a lesbian, and no one can tell you otherwise. Do not let TERF's, or other negative people, affect the life you're trying to live.

Just remember, guys. Biologists will never study males when researching female homosexuality. Neuroscientists will never study males when researching female homosexuality. Sexologists will never study males when researching female homosexuality. And so on. This should tell you something. uwu <3 <3

According to the TRAs “lesbian culture comes directly from trans lesbians” by bastetkat in LGBDropTheT

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What is he referring to? The ''I want tiddy'' and ''lesbians love girldick'' memes on r/actuallesbians? It's the antithesis of culture. We could say that transwomen have contributed to the degradation of lesbian culture, but that's about it.

What's wrong with being a gold star lesbian? by Gynephile in Lesbians

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I checked that sub out. It's just bisexual women who are fishing for male attention by pretending to be lesbians (as per usual). Literally the first post I read was from ''a lesbian'' who in other subs admitted to ''regularly wonder if she is bi'' and is going on dates with a guy. Sometimes I really have to wonder about these hetero games that women play with men. Is it really that hard to find a boyfriend by just being normal?

Edit: lol, ok, nvm, it seems to be just a sub where regular ''lesbians'' advertise their onlyfans where you can view them trying d ''for the first time'' one million times, for a very small fee :D

Who are these “cis lesbians” in relationships with transbians, you ask? Befuddled straight women who have been indoctrinated into believing they’re overcoming CompHet. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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You're joking, but she actually wrote exactly that.

I'm lost by badatnicknames in LGBDropTheT

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Not only, you're also supposed to pretend that women who give him awards and upvotes are ''lesbians''.

You can't make this crap up. It's now "problematic" to say that just because a kid is gender non conforming, it doesn't mean their trans by Willpoll in LGBDropTheT

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Oh come on, we don't actually need to define or understand things before teaching them to kids as the ultimate truth.

A lesbian couple in a lesbian subreddit, 2020 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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LOL. And just to think that some lesbians on r/AL are so brainwashed that they would never date a ''TERF'' lesbian because she doesn't accept that these two men are either ''women'' or ''lesbians''.

R/LGBT cannot stand askgaybros user’s appreciation of men by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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The comments these dudes were writing were hilarious, “trans men aren’t men”, sir it’s trans MEN, it literally says we’re men

Truly infallible reasoning.

So many of the same "would you rather date a cis-man or a trans-man?" rigged polls

Yeah. ''Rigged'' :D

They're so stupid I'm already bored after reading 2 comments.

So, by Mermaids's spectrum scale, are you a Barbie or G.I Joe? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Lol. Imagine being a grown man and having some blue haired SJW explain to you that your ''gender identity'' is somewhere between a barbie doll and an action figure. Did they also have to sing a song about gender while clapping hands? Such a disgrace.

Why would a lesbian have male friends? by Lesbian-LurKING in Lesbians

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I just can't for the life of me imagine hanging out so "intimately" with a man and actually having anything to converse about...lol

A very intelligent statement. Yeah, I guess with most of them you really wouldn't be able to have a 5 hours long conversation about how worthless men are.

I did some data analysis on the AL demographics survey. Any requests? by reluctant_commenter in Lesbians

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I have to laugh at lesbians being a minority in a sub titled ''ACTUAL lesbians''. It's just another queer melting pot, where the non-gay majority is ''educating'' actual homosexuals on what is the only acceptable way how they should lead their lives.

Political Lesbianism is not forced lesbianism/fake lesbianism. by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Some quotes from a recent (2018) article by Sheila Jeffreys, on political lesbianism in the 70s-90s UK and on a book she wrote about it:

Lesbianism and heterosexuality were seen as socially constructed, not innate [by lesbian feminists]. So, hundreds of thousands of women internationally who might not have considered it before and been shaped by all the social pressures to be heterosexual, chose to become lesbians. This mass creation of lesbians was crucial to our politics and to everything we achieved. Now, unfortunately, the idea that lesbianism and heterosexuality, as well as masculinity and femininity are innate and cannot be changed, is fashionable even amongst many younger lesbians who see themselves as feminists. I was involved in lesbian feminism in this period. I made the choice to become a lesbian because of my politics [.......] Most were ‘political lesbians’, in the sense that they became lesbians as a result of their involvement in the WLM and exposure to lesbian feminists and lesbian feminist ideas. This practice of feminists choosing lesbianism as a form of resistance to male supremacy may seem foreign to common notions about lesbianism today, even within feminist circles, which are that lesbianism is something essential, not something that can be chosen [.....] Another chapter of the book is devoted to the crucial critique of heterosexuality which lesbian feminists created, showing that heterosexuality is not an unfortunate effect of nature, but a social construction. [....] Girls are made sexually heterosexual through the sexual attention of boys and men throughout their lives as well as the world of propaganda they are surrounded by, the porn and girls’ and women’s magazines about how to please men in bed and explaining how to do anal sex without too much pain and how to lie on a bed to enable the penis to go right down the throat. Heterosexuality is created by a culture in which all the novels in the airport bookstore are about hets, in which all the movies, plays, poetry, are still overwhelmingly het. And so on. [....] The theorising of sexuality and heterosexuality was the greatest theoretical achievement of lesbian feminism. And a most important aspect of this was the creation of political lesbianism, the idea that women could make a political choice to be lesbians.

Jeffreys is famous for claiming that she ''was once heterosexual, but then chose to be a lesbian''. And she means ''lesbian'' as in homosexual, not celibate. Her view, and as she describes it - the view of the majority of the political lesbians - was and still is that sexuality is a social construct, created through social practices and pressures, and can be changed through the same route.

Edit: Look, I found an ever better quote from her book (parts of it are readable on Google):

Today .. there is much opposition in the online lesbian community to the idea that a woman who has been heterosexual can or should become a lesbian at all. There is a resurgence of the nineteenth-century sexological idea that lesbianism is an innate condition. The understanding that sexuality is not fixed enabled thousands of women to leave heterosexuality at the time of the WLM and become lesbians. As feminist social constructionist influence waned, the biological determinism that was always more favoured by gay men came to prominence again.

Who's a basic bitch now?

Married straight man puts on lipstick, dress, and fake boobs and tries to get his wife to have "lesbian sex" with him. Fetish gradually consumes his life, and she's horrified. by gendercritfem in itsafetish

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I need help having lesbian sex with my husband.

LOL. I mean, this has to be a troll post, right?

Also, about the commenters who write

OP is straight. She and her SO need to accept this and try to move on from each other.

Do they actually imagine that she is not attracted to her husband in a wig because she is ''straight''? And a gay woman would be into that? Come on. The relationship is failing because he has a fetish, and to a regular person this type of a fetish is very hard to deal with.

Selfless bi woman advises lesbians to be nice to MTFs who surprise them with pulling out a dick before sex, because ''frustration is guaranteed'' when you have sex with men, lol by a_blue_bird in LGBDropTheT

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Sometimes I am still surprised by their lack of self awareness. (this from r/AL of course)

Political Lesbianism is not forced lesbianism/fake lesbianism. by [deleted] in Lesbians

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They were centring women and women’s issues politically.

Absolutely, lol. When Sheila Jeffreys writes ''sexuality is not fixed, it is an old fashioned 19th century sexological belief that lesbianism is innate'' she actually means ''you should shop in women owned stores and vote for abortion rights!'' Wow, how did I not connect the dots myself??

We all had to choose to explore and people like Sheila Jeffreys said it was okay

No, people like Sheila said that sexuality is a social construct, and it is anti-feminist to still choose to fuck men when you can socialize yourself into lesbianism. She constantly uses the word sexuality for a reason. It is about sex.

To put it simply - you're in massive denial about political lesbianism.

Why do some women want to be lesbian so bad? by peaked2020 in Lesbians

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It seems that according to that sub you measure your lesbianism by how much you love dick.

Unnecessary post removal of content that doesn't break any rules by [deleted] in Lesbians

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What should I say then? Once I made post asking if people were going to the gym, even that was removed.

'The Straightest Straight who Ever Straighted' by CJLez in LGBDropTheT

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Ah, yes. The infamous "lesbian" who has never been attracted to a female, but liked it when her n-th boyfriend grew his hair out. I've seen them around.

Is this forum dead? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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Why exactly 5000?

Who are these “cis lesbians” in relationships with transbians, you ask? Befuddled straight women who have been indoctrinated into believing they’re overcoming CompHet. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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she also made another thread where she's scolding bisexual women for saying "I am so gay!"

Yeah, and that thread was closed and removed for

violating the following rule and/or policy: Labels and Sexual Orientation Policy

Typical AL.

I got banned from r/Arethestraightsokay for saying that lesbians dont like dick by lmaonope333 in censorship

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Aren't strap ons really popular?

And you think that because... porn?

So I forgot about Saidit and haven't been on in awhile. Have I missed out on anything here in s/Lesbians? Or just same old? by Jaded in Lesbians

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nobody liked you

Lol. Except 99% of population, that thinks the same thing that we do. Not TRAs and Reddit mods obviously. The situation you're in is really quite pathetic. K, gotta go check out what your sweetheart Yaniv is up to today ;)

"You wouldn't even know the difference!" (More unscientific nonsense aimed at lesbians in order to coerce them into sleeping with trans women) by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

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I think that many of the very young transitioners are pretty, but I have not seen a single one who doesn't have the typical male shoulder-waist-hips proportions, male chicken legs (sorry guys, not all of you have them obviously, but MTFs mostly do), and frequently flamboyant gay male mannerisms. And yeah, getting butt implants only makes it worse, not better. Not even going to speak about the genitals. Whoever believes that ''you can't even tell'' is welcome to do a bit of research on pornhub. As a wise man on reddit once said - there is a reason why in a world with porn of everything there is almost no porn of post-op MTFs.

Mermaids argue that "there could be even 8 bilion genders" by [deleted] in therearetwogenders

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Yes. And according to my calculations, 8 billion genders means that the amount of possible sexual orientations is... sorry, the calculation will take until 2036 to finish. Meanwhile we can start picking names for all of them!

It's not ok to make trans "lesbians" sad by pointing out that men often say "You haven't tried a good dick yet" by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

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A creepy straight guy: Listen up, lesbians! My dick is different and so much better than all other dicks!
An MTF: how disgusting! Lesbians, it is actually my dick that is different and so much better than all other dicks!
A TRA: just like I told you, ~transgirls~ are nothing like your average guy! They literally think and feel like women! They have the female brain!!

There's no such thing as "bi lesbian" or "bi gay". Quit this bullshit by Disillusioned in LGBDropTheT

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It's called ''alternatively intelligent'', you bigot :(

What is/was your profession? Did you ever think you’d end up in the profession, and if you had the freedom/financial stability what would be your chosen profession? by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

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I'm a software dev. If I had the freedom, I'd probably quit my job and work on improving my web design skills, then open my own web design company. As it is, I work on back end 90% of the time. Which I like a lot, but since we're speaking of very idealized scenarios here...

Initially I wanted to work in academia, but after I saw what state it is in I changed my mind.

How do you feel about Comp Het? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I think it's for male-leaning bi and straight women who are looking for an explanation of why all their relationships with men are failing.

How a straight woman discovered she's a gay man but disapproves of anyone else's "genital preferences" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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How are they gonna already have feelings about a body part they've never seen?

Millions of years of evolution.

Political Lesbianism is not forced lesbianism/fake lesbianism. by [deleted] in Lesbians

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My actual point is that your claim ''Women that were not attracted to other women were not cosplaying lesbians in the 60s and 70s, for Christ’s sake'' is simply false. Not only did they do it then, but they are still doing it now. And they're not even hiding any of their views on sexuality being a social construct, as opposed to a fixed, innate trait.

Most women who end up lesbian think they are heterosexual

True if you take into account all the political lesbians.

Edit: do you support women who have slept with men never coming out?

I support women who say ''I used to be heterosexual once'' never coming out as lesbians.

Is this forum dead? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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I think that most don't want to leave Reddit. That is why websites like Youtube, Twitter and Reddit of course can freely ban and censor people - the majority of userbase will stay loyal whatever happens. The websites are just too convenient. Although I wouldn't call this place ''dead'' - we still have more discussions a day than most lesbian subs on Reddit.

I got banned from r/Arethestraightsokay for saying that lesbians dont like dick by lmaonope333 in censorship

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Someone who is on the far left and has blue hair.

Influx of trans butch women? by Fuckyoucensorship in Lesbians

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It's also weird to see femme lesbians put trans butch women on a pedastal of what "butch womanhood" is.

A woman who sees a male as the ideal version of a woman is nowhere close to being gay. Every other woman claims to be a lesbian these days, and her husband is ''just that one exception, like every lesbian has, am I right girls??''. Just ignore all the fakes and wannabes.

Has anyone here EVER thought this? by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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It's just people whose whole and only identity is their sexual orientation.

"Sexuality is fluid" - the root of all evil by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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Not simultaneously :P

Actually, good point Rose... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I say - the sooner the better. Gays and lesbians are gaining literally nothing from being associated with the insufferable TQ crowd.

New lesbian film trailer - "Ammonite" with Kate Winslet and Saoirse Ronan by Innisfree in Lesbians

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It doesn't look too bad, but I'll just keep waiting for a lesbian movie where neither of them has mental issues.

Fixed the definition of bisexuality, could not handle the cringe by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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What if you only like women and agender people?

I'd argue that that isn't even possible. How would anyone know if a person ID's as ''agender'' or any other gender?

Gulags were 'compassionate', 'educational' institutions, say trans rights campaigners by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

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Those are the people who Yuri Bezmenov was referring to when he spoke of ''useful idiots'' (useful to the Soviet Union and still to Russia today) who can be presented with all the facts imaginable, but they will never believe in the brutality of Gulags (and the Soviet regime in general) until they end up there themselves.

the longest sentence was 10 years

25 years. But you could go to a Gulag as many times as the authorities wanted, for whatever reason.

The aim was to correct and change the ways of criminals.”

Funny they call them criminals, considering that most of the imprisoned had not commited any real crimes, but were either political opponents, people who refused to collaborate, intelligentsia, people who had more property than was acceptable, entire families of the previous four groups etc. Just pretty regular people, many (perhaps most) of whom were imprisioned without ever being brought to a court.

Unbelievably stupid list from latebloomerlesbians: signs that you are a late bloomer by Astrid2448 in Lesbians

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For me this one wins the award: "Birthdays, Christmases, holidays, families: I feel as if my life would be less complicated with a woman.". Yeah. Sure. So much less complicated.

But what does that even mean? Is she saying that a woman would be remembering birthdays, cooking Christmas meals etc., so she'd have less work to do, and so it proves she's a lesbian?

Berlin Police: 210 Rapes From March To July With Half Involving Migrants by scrubking in politics

[–]a_blue_bird 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

That article is a pretty wild ride

A migrant suspected of raping and sexually abusing a much younger girl ... It is alleged she was forced to have sex with the supposedly 17-year-old migrant ... the migrant reportedly admitted that he had sex with the young girl but said that it had not been a crime and was just something that “happened between two children.” ... The representative argued that the court should not proceed with a prosecution, claiming that the young man had been doing well in school and that his school progress would be harmed if he were to be prosecuted. ... Investigators revealed suspicions that the teen may actually be over 20-years-old.

What is Your Ideal Date? by CJLez in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Not ''the ideal'', but right now it would be great to grab some food and drinks, and eat it at a lake, and then go for a swim. Preferably at night.

What is up with "lesbians" who meet their exception? by Astrid2448 in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

What do they think they are going to gain from calling themselves lesbians?

Their complaint is that lesbians won't date bisexuals, so they can't call themselves bi.

What is Your Personal Style? by CJLez in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I have a very classic style. For the past few months I've looked like this just with different color top (yeah, I don't change my clothes often, devs have low standards)

I'd just like to remind y'all that lesbians can still get pregnant! by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Because all encounters with the reality makes them feel immediate threat to their sand castle of ''I've been into men my whole life, but I'm a cute uwu lesbian!''

Stonewall UK gets more and more... interesting by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I doubt they'd take Asians either. They're ''overrepresented'' in many fields too, although maybe not this one. But obviously they can't write ''no Asians'' :D

"You wouldn't even know the difference!" (More unscientific nonsense aimed at lesbians in order to coerce them into sleeping with trans women) by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

First of all, post-op are less than 1% all of transgenders.

Where did you get this number from? From what I know it's about 25%

"You wouldn't even know the difference!" (More unscientific nonsense aimed at lesbians in order to coerce them into sleeping with trans women) by TarshishJupiter in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

All their arguments fall into two categories:
(1) applicable to all humans universally (if you're gay, don't dismiss the opposite sex, because there are just sooo many things you can do in bed! Also, they have hands and mouth, duh. If you're straight don't dismiss the same sex...)
(2) if something is important to you, but you would have never found out/guessed/or otherwise that I lied to you about it without me telling you, then it is not deception

A lesbian couple in a lesbian subreddit, 2020 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I would predict a sudden increase of ''asexual lesbians''.

Nothing but facts 💜 by SausageFanatic in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Translation: "Hahahaha, I don't get biology, come on guys, tell me you don't get it either lol lol lol"

Dictionary.com did an update on their website, and now the meaning of homosexuality is changed to something "Often Disparaging and Offensive" by cutenoobies in LGBDropTheT

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The only time I have heard someone say that ''homosexual'' is offensive is when male transsexuals complain that they aren't ''lesbians'' by this definition. So now because of them nobody can be homosexual, only a ''queer'', a ''bi lesbian'', and whatever other idiotic term they have substituted actual homosexuality with. Every day I hate TQ's more and more.

No social media? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I don't have any social media accounts, and have heard from women that not having social media accounts is a ''red flag''. I consider such preoccupation with social media to be a red flag.

What the fuck is this? What have they done to our rainbow? by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They're experts at uglifying everything.

Yes, this is how normal lesbians dress, sure. We fought for years to be taken seriously as normal people and yet here we are... (Comments full of hugboxing and uwu-ness). Can we PLEASE drop the damn T!! by hatsofpotato in LGBDropTheT

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I looked at some of the profiles who wrote top comments and they are all either from bisexual women or transbians. Except that one lesbian who wrote that she, too, feels invisible. Didn't look further than her profile. So... yeah...Good luck roleplaying a porn ''lesbian'' I guess.

They're targeting Gaybros today by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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Further proof that T and LGB cannot coexist.

Unbelievably stupid list from latebloomerlesbians: signs that you are a late bloomer by Astrid2448 in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I find posts like this and the comphet doc so weird. It's actually very simple. Are you sexually attracted to women? If yes, you are at least bisexual. Are you sexually attracted to men? If yes, you are bisexual, if no, you are a lesbian. That's literally all there is to it, period. If you need to grasp at straws like listed here - because you don't experience the sexual attraction and need to find other 'proofs' - you're most likely not gay.

My male partner doesn't like me dressing slightly masculine. Yet again we see this theme. "My boyfriend sucks! I'm going gay!"

No, no, you misunderstand. She means - ''I wear sneakers sometimes, so I can't be straight, right?? Or wait, maybe I'm straight just not a woman? Wow, life is so magical!''

biologically speaking, the impulse to, well, breed like rabbits, affects all genders and sexual orientations.

Does it though? My impression is that gay men and women don't really have much of an impulse to ''breed'', especially not like rabbits. Might be wrong though.

Political Lesbianism is not forced lesbianism/fake lesbianism. by [deleted] in Lesbians

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it seems that many people are constantly preaching the idea that a lesbian is a lesbian because of bad experiences with men and center lesbianism around men all the time

You can thank the political lesbians for that. They were the ones who proudly announced to the world that because men have been so horrible to them, they have now become lesbians. This is the image that they created for lesbians.

The male gaze by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I get along with women, I just don't get along with feminists. You are totally fine with her calling women who have mostly male friends ''jackasses'', ''insecure'', claiming that men only hang out with women because of ''low standards'', even add that I'm ''broken and twisted'', ''nasty and disgusting'' and what not. Lol. This is why pretty much nobody at this point can tolerate feminists. You are digging your own grave, good luck with that.

Why is female sexuality so easily dismissed? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

you’re not thinking about it past “it’s just in our DNA then, nothing else makes a difference”

Because I think that people are much more influenced by their biology than they want to believe. We like to think of ourselves as above our animal nature, as cultured and socialized, but that is only partly true. I don't relate to all these narratives about ''socialization'' and ''docile women'' at all. Yet I had average parents, grew up in a conservative religious area, didn't know about feminism until I went to uni (and even then didn't read much of it) etc. Everything was there to ''socialize'' me into docility and ''comphet'' and what not. So if all people are basically the same, why didn't it happen? I think it's simply because I'm much more disagreeable than the average woman, and most likely the average man, too (who himself is considerably more diagreeable than the average woman). Which I think is also the reason why so many more men than women go against social norms, don't seek groups to belong to and to be approved by, don't try to be liked by others, to please others and so on and so on. Yes, I agree that women are socialized in ways in which men aren't, but that is made possible by their underlying biology. Would it be possible to make men behave in some of the women-typical ways? Probably yes, at least to a large extent, but I think that you would need to exert much more power over them to achieve that in the first place, and even more to make them maintain this behavior over long periods of time.

Why is female sexuality so easily dismissed? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think it has to do more with women's own actions than with misogyny. Who argues that sexuality is fluid? Mostly women. Who are ''homosexuals with an exception''? Mostly women. Who won't date bisexual women due to a fear that they won't be committed to your sex like they would be to the opposite? Mostly women. I've yet to see a single straight man who re-identifies as a gay man because his girlfriend of one year decided that she is actually a man.

Who are these “cis lesbians” in relationships with transbians, you ask? Befuddled straight women who have been indoctrinated into believing they’re overcoming CompHet. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

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I read her other threads and feel quite sorry for her. She's absolutely miserable. Women like her are (part of) the reason why lesbians are constantly harassed by MTFs, to a greater extent than gay men. They're bending backwards to please men and TRAs, regardless the cost to themselves. In another thread she wrote about not being attracted to his genitals, but

I just can't really imagine a world where I'm as turned on by her P as I am by a V. It's just that I find it really tricky to differentiate this idea of a penis I've had all my life, and my fear of them, and then the ultimate discovery that I'm a lesbian and am with a transfem partner, and needing to like literally adjust my entire world view of what a woman's body can look like AND feel equal attraction to her. My mind is pretty there but it's like my body can't catch up. I sometimes accidentally fantasise about her having a V in sexy time and then I feel like shit and then I start thinking about transphobia (and transbianphobia) and it ruins any sexy mood I was in. I'm a fierce advocate for 'there is no one way a woman's body looks, anybody who feels they are a woman is a woman and so lesbians can love woman regardless of their parts' but like what about the socialisation part? How can I train myself to find her as sexy as I would a cis woman and not wish she had different parts? I realise this is horrible to say and that it shouldn't matter. It's like I hate this transphobic world and all of the conditioning I have which is causing this problem. How can I change it?

A woman who - as she herself wrote - was so susceptible to social pressures that only dated men despite being gay (and I'm sure she's not even from a very homophobic place), is now once again suppressing her own identity to live according to another ideology. Why are women like that? I don't get it. Why can't she have at least a bit of respect for what she feels and herself as a person? What matters to her now is adapting some ''lesbian fashion'' and ''looking like a lesbian couple''. She doesn't live in the real word, does she? She even wrote that her bf ''ponders'' that he ''might'' be trans, and doesn't even id as a woman himself. It's all in her head, she's all about creating some image of herself for the society to look at, regardless how much of her actual feelings she has to deny to create this image that in [insert current year] she has found to be ''the most desirable'' to have.

What is up with "lesbians" who meet their exception? by Astrid2448 in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I haven't looked for any research on comphet as the reason for that pattern

So why are you claiming that ''research shows comphet is not rare at all!''? It shows no such thing.

Why are lesbians more compliant with TRA than gay men? by rouge_tropical in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

First (as many already wrote): women are more compliant than men in general.
Second: men don't pressure other men to agree with TWAW/TMAM like women pressure other women. I think this is due to men being more disagreeable and handling disagreements with others better than women do.
Third: women care much more about what others think of them, so many feel the need to virtue signal, i.e., show to everyone how progressive and morally superior they are; or to change their opinions to appear progressive.

Does anyone else here can't relate to men? by oofreesouloo in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I was wondering if anyone else here feels the same way (or even the opposite way, aka has a hard time relating to 'regular' women)

90% of the time I relate to men, and struggle to find anything in common with other women, regular or not. Men are much easier to get along with.

Wikipedia's brain is running on coal guys. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I think it is time to stop giving a shit about the academia.

TRAs are going full science denial now. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's not just ''genital'' preferences though. Even the best looking and best passing MTFs don't look like regular women. There's always something uncanny about their faces, their body shapes, their voices etc. Let's stop pretending that it's just about the genitals. It's about the whole body.

I feel like our community has gotten right back on its feet. by 11mile_house in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah. I just want more regular, everyday topics here, not just politics :)

Best arguments against sexual fluidity amongst lesbians? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You don't need to argue with random people about your sexual orientation. Especially someone who won't accept even just the existance of homosexuality without scientific proof that homosexuality fulfills some biological function.

Canceling Lesbos: The State of Lesbian Online Communities: Benjamin speaks to the mod of the now canceled r/truelesbians by xandit in LGBDropTheT

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The only reason why places like ''actuallesbians'' can exist and create an illusion that transsexuals and ''nonbinaries'' are just as homosexual as actual homosexual women (or men) is the fact that these are online communities, nobody ever sees anyone else and does not need to come in contact with the reality of their beliefs. This could never happen otherwise. If two lesbian groups existed IRL, one consisting of a large proportion of males, and the other of 100% females, it would only be a matter of time before almost all women from the first group would have migrated to the second. And something very similar was already happening on Reddit with AL and TL. At this point AL is just a circlejerk about how much you like ~tiddies*~ and hate terfs. It's a very juvenile and thirsty-teenage-male typical approach to sexuality that you don't see on any other lesbian subreddits.

Is anybody else just so tired? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That's the issue with being a minority. Everyone else will be ''educating'' you on what you ''really'' are, how you should ''really'' live your life (hint - just like them), etc. I don't think there is any real solution for this. Find one woman to have a life with, and ignore all this drama.

What's the most lesbian thing you did as a kid? by onetwothree123 in Lesbians

[–]a_blue_bird 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Probably building rafts and tree houses with friends.

“Chronic hetero monogamist” comes out as gay after breakup by peaked2020 in Lesbians

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More evidence for what I've been believing for a long time - many women claim to be ''gay'' to explain their inability to have a successful relationship with men.

Rant about straight friends who "exploit" our lesbianism for their ego by [deleted] in Lesbians

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You have to be very firm with her. She is using you to mess with her boyfriend. By how she treats him you can judge how she'd treat you if you dated - she'd just cuddle up to some guy she finds hot right in front of you etc. And obviously she is also trying to get sex from you. Honestly, if I had a friend who acted in such a manipulative way (and with multiple people simultaneously), I would cut her off completely.

exhibit #28484852 why actuallesbians is no longer for lesbians by MadLass in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Pretty ironic when a "lesbian" sub talks about dicks more than gay subs.

Askgaybros Uwu acceptance post #267488 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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There's just nothing more manly than going to an all male space and begging for them to accept you. Especially because someone online wrote a mean thing to you ;_; Lol.

Is "sexual preference" offensive (to you) by filbs111 in LGBDropTheT

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No, it's not.

ACB: "Sexual Preference"; TRA: "Genital Preference" by fr_bandersnatch in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

the gaslighting and invalidation will be that much more recognizable to a much wider audience

It could just as well go the opposite direction. LBG gets conflated with T all the time. Transsexuals are frequently seen as just gay. So if they call sexuality a preference, it could be seen by many as LGB admitting that homosexuality really is just a preference.

The sexist pseudoscience of ‘gender identity’ - LGBT groups backflip in the UK by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Susie Green herself explains that she initially thought she “had a very sensitive, quite effeminate little boy who was probably gay” but instead argues Jackie’s preference for dolls and dresses was evidence of transgenderism.

Fcking hell.

Susie Green herself claims “I have my daughter, whole and alive, but if I had refused to listen then it’s very likely that I would have a dead son.”

To listen to him... playing with dolls? Which is a clear indication not only of him being a girl, but also of him being on the road to suicide? Those people are completely deluded.

It's a good article tho.

Have you ever had a foreign girlfriend? What country was (is) she from? What did you like and dislike about her? Have you ever wanted to date a girl (woman) from another country (let's assume she would be living in your country already)? What country would that be and why? by Ricky_Ticky in Lesbians

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I have moved a lot, therefore so far all my girlfriends have been from other countries. The US, UK, Greece, Sweden, Italy. I think that I related the most with the Swedish one (geographically we're the closest, too). It could have been a good relationship, but we both had to move to different countries at the time. Overall, I'd prefer someone from my native country. I had good experiences, but there always seemed to be some gap between us that couldn't be bridged. Now I'm dating a woman from my own country and don't feel this way about her.

Penis-averse lesbian asks for advice on ask transgender by Mangomart in LGBDropTheT

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I am exactly the penis averse cis lesbian of their dream argument and the conversation here has gone completely against what they say it does. There's been some gentle reminders about the language I used but that's it. Everybody in here seems to recognise my position. No witch hunts. No penises have been foisted upon me. Nobody has demanded I service them. Terfs are not seeing the overwhelming majority of trans people describing their lives and experiences. I hope they see it some day.

What even is that thread? She's so obsessed with politics, TERFs and validating MTFs in a thread that supposedly is ''just a random gal asking for personal advice'' that it looks like the ''slutalt'' was specifically created to spread more propaganda.

Also, what the hell is ''the penis averse cis lesbian of their dream''? Does she actually think that it is so extremely rare for a lesbian to dislike male anatomy that we will be falling head over heels upon finding this one very special lesbian who does not like dick? And no honey, nobody will outright force you to do anything, especially not publicly. You will be lead into it by very gentle gaslighting, making you feel like a very special, caring woman who can see past ''evil male patriarchy'' created ideas by sucking dicks. Men are not idiots and know how to talk to different types of women.

Also, I don't care any longer about this type of a woman who rolls herself out like a carpet for others to walk over (or to validate them, or to make them feel good about themselves, or to make herself look better than others and so on, and so on).

Merriam-Webster Updates Definition of 'Bisexual' by ns_for_work in LGBDropTheT

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They sent a letter to the company noting that the use of “both” implied that gender is strictly binary, and they stressed that bisexual people are sometimes attracted to nonbinary individuals.

Here's a hot take - most people aren't attracted to individuals like this because they're ugly, and not because our sexual orientation isn't ''that very special type of bisexuality where you are attracted to more than 2 genders!''

Besides random shit people are saying on the internet, what has happened or been said to you IRL that makes you want to drop the T? by fuckupaddams in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You know all the online stories about someone lying about being cis, purposely hiding things from you to have (awkward) sex, harassing you and calling you a bigot for caring about anatomy instead of ''the soul'' of the person, claiming to be an enlightened bisexual themselves, despite having never shown any interest in the same sex etc.? Yeah, all of that.

Are the TQs right or wrong in saying that the brains of gay people are structured like the brains of their opposite sex by which they mean gay men are psychologically women and gay women are psychologically men? by EverydayIsSad in LGBDropTheT

[–]a_blue_bird 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There's no actual empirical research there, it's just you and those people taking some random data out of nowhere

So according to you, all those studies have been fabricated? Lol. Ok, keep consulting your crystal ball.