Weekly Social Chat by artemisiagrey in Lesbians

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What's wrong?

What do you all think about r/ActuallyLesbians? by UneedREM in Lesbians

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Can't we make a discord server of our own? What are the inhibitions?

What do you all think about r/ActuallyLesbians? by UneedREM in Lesbians

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Hmm, for me, I realised that when my sleep gets disrupted during the REM phase, I feel groggy and tired throughout the day. Maybe because the phase as a whole doesn't get completed. As you said, one can remember the dreams too. I don't like the dreams I get because the dreams in REM are more inclined towards processing emotions. I'm going through some taxing emotional situation these days, that's also a reason I don't feel well mentally if I remember the dreams that I had. I have friends like you, who like to have a disrupted REM to better recall their dreams and still feel fresh.

What do you all think about r/ActuallyLesbians? by UneedREM in Lesbians

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Woah, really? Who? I recently joined their discord server, to test waters. Seems alright, no trans stuff there.

Weekly Social Chat by artemisiagrey in Lesbians

[–]UneedREM 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm at home currently with a call from the University in September. I won't get enough time to study once I join the University and would be swamped by labs, I am trying to studying as much as I can. I often read Lovecraft stories and have been playing a zero-player game called Godville.

Honestly, I don't always feel motivated enough to contribute in this thread as I have a mundane life. But, I decided to participate because of the fun bonus question.

There is a Youtuber called as Sapphic Underground. She wrote a book comprising poems. I enjoyed a few poems out of it, seemed erotic. :) One of them is -

Juice

She's just like juice To me All I have to do Is squeeze To get her flowing On my tongue Dripping Nectarine, peach And plum

Second poem -

Fever Pitch

Oh, we're just talking Late at night

I can feel the heat start to rise You have no idea What you do to me

Twisting in sheets Burning for Your hands in between You have no idea What I'd like you to do

Can't be the only one who wants to rape a 23-year old girl by [deleted] in itsafetish

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Serial killer

What do you all think about r/ActuallyLesbians? by UneedREM in Lesbians

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Yeah, true. I'm just hopeful that someday we will get a space which truly belongs to only lesbians. Sometimes I like to think of it as, we are the rare true lesbians that have been exiled from the mainstream platform and young lesbians should come seeking us, to dethrone the imposters who call themselves lesbians.

Thanks. :) It's something I made up when I realised that REM phase completion is important to get a satisfying sleep.

What do you all think about r/ActuallyLesbians? by UneedREM in Lesbians

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I just checked it once again. Lots of "inclusive" folks participate in it as well.

What's your favourite type of chocolate? by QueenOfTheNorth in Lesbians

[–]UneedREM 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is yum

Erotic novels? by Pompadour in Lesbians

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Exactly, it's strange how the person writes.

Erotic novels? by Pompadour in Lesbians

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Behind The Green Curtain by Riley LaShea (highly recommended)

Thirteen Hours by Meghan O'Brien

Bisexual and lesbian women: do literally *any* of you use the word "boobies"? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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I always say breasts aha

Long Distance Relationships by UneedREM in Lesbians

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Thank you for the reply! I'll take a look at their channel :)

What are your New Year's Resolutions? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]UneedREM 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Get an internship abroad. Gain worthwhile experience in a relevant lab. Keeping negative thoughts under control.

Long Distance Relationships by UneedREM in Lesbians

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I realised I'm pretty naive still. Making a relationship concrete requires so much decision making than just being in love with each other. It's scary but eye opening.

Yes, right. I'm currently in that state where we haven't spoken on phone for more than 2 weeks because she can't leave her house. I'm mentally taxed. Sometimes, the desire to feel her physically becomes too overwhelming.

Long Distance Relationships by UneedREM in Lesbians

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It's very interesting that you prefer LDRs than being with a girlfriend. What about physical intimacy, don't you miss it?

Long Distance Relationships by UneedREM in Lesbians

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Aah, this is the main problem of LDR. Opposite person idealizing the other without thinking that they have certain traits of their own.

That's not real love then, a lot of people love out of pity. Sometimes just because they are narcissistic.

It's good that it ended with clarifications.

Long Distance Relationships by UneedREM in Lesbians

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I never imagined myself to be in such a relationship too. We met through a letter writing app and exchanged letters for three months. After that we moved to chatting. I never expected to find someone so amazing as her. I have been with her for one year and three months now. It's really difficult to keep the relationship going especially when we hardly get to talk on phone because we still live with parents despite being 21 yo.

Yeah, you're right.. For now we're nevermets. I hope to meet her in 2-3 years. That's still long.. but I hope we'll make it.

Long Distance Relationships by UneedREM in Lesbians

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Yes, it's definitely a difficult relationship. I love her more than anything but I don't think it will be successful. The end goal seems so far but we can't seem to let each other go.

Hey, we miss you! Come join us at Ovarit for NEW communities about detransition, veganism, and more! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]UneedREM 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I want to join, please send me a code. I have been asking for one since a few months. I will readily comply if there is a verification process.

Ellen Page is now Elliot Page by lmaonope333 in Lesbians

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Ellen Page's name has already been changed to Elliot on Google and everything converted to 'he' even she looks like a woman. How many people can be delusional at a time? What has this world turned into?

Have you ever had a foreign girlfriend? What country was (is) she from? What did you like and dislike about her? Have you ever wanted to date a girl (woman) from another country (let's assume she would be living in your country already)? What country would that be and why? by Ricky_Ticky in Lesbians

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I am from India and I had an LDR with a woman who is from Russia. We are still very much in love and had to break up because of the distance and the uncertainty of being together in the future. Although it being an LDR (for almost a year), it felt that we were so right for each other. I think our thoughts matched because of the conservative nature of our culture. I enjoyed learning about her culture and language. Most interesting was to realise the similarities between Russian and the language that I speak.

Discord for the lost lesbians of the queer generation by HelloMomo in Lesbians

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I'm interested!

AGP TIM gets an erection in yoga pants, finds the idea of getting an erection in public as "a girl" by gendercritfem in itsafetish

[–]UneedREM 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't know how obvious it can get that these dimwits and mentally ill.

More Ovarit Invites and Discord by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]UneedREM 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's a bit late to ask.. but can I get an Ovarit invite?

Fingering the armpit or rewriting lesbian desire in the mainstream by Innisfree in Lesbians

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I never realised the true meaning behind the scene that you mentioned from a portrait of lady on fire. I found it a bit strange too but now, looking back it was indeed creative way to depict lesbian sex. I wish there to be more creative scenes like that one rather than the ones which lean more towards 'porn' side.

His poor wife... by DDvonTease in itsafetish

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That's so disgusting.