WASHINGTON POST is making the crazy Georgia Congresswoman Greene the face of the GC movement - if you subscribe to WP, please go comment now!

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-28T20:16:33+00:00

"was that her, or that other one?"

You're probably thinking of someone else. MTG was in the Capitol and has gone on record denouncing what happened that day. She also said that she was also afraid when the event took place.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-28T19:57:58+00:00

I don't get the division on this sub. If someone provides the right message, support their message. If MTG is crazy, then I am crazy too and proud of it. Chances are that the same tactics that the WaPo is using to characterize feminism as a transphobic movement have been used to make MTG out to look crazy to the public. I don't trust the mainstream media as it is no longer, and perhaps never was, honest journalism. I will never subscribe to the WaPo.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T22:34:44+00:00

My original post was pointing out the inconsistency as well as the government overreach of the left. Just last week they said little Joey was assigned the wrong gender since he likes dolls and dresses. This week they are telling us that gender doesn't exist in toys and clothing. They are not consistent and need to stop trying to parent the public. I played with dolls, guns, kitchen sets, and legos. But my niece is a straight up girly girl. It's hella convenient for me to filter on "girls" and get her gifts out of the way. Maybe the post would have been better on a political sub, but I just find it funny that they try to acknowledge gender and ignore gender at the same time.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T22:09:23+00:00

Dang I wasn't even thinking about underwear. That's a good point. Since this bill will start out with the kids, I started puberty early, and more and more girls are getting their periods early. I think I started with training bras at 9 or 10. I remember this being an embarrassing phase in my life. I can't imagine if I would have had to do this shopping around boys.

Side note: I am glad I had women in my life that didn't take my tomboy nature and try to reclassify my sex. I really did not like being a girl once I got my period, but not once did an adult tell me I should transition to a boy.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T21:57:34+00:00

I can't tell honestly. A dung said I hated trans before replacing the post with the tirade you see now.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T21:30:38+00:00

Nope! Your comment shows up fine, but I do hate how comments are displayed here. It's not easy to see who is replying to who. One of my comments look like I am responding to lefterfield when the response is meant for a dung.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T20:55:52+00:00

Yeah I noticed that soon after I submitted the post. I was multi-tasking and overlooked it originally. My bad.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T20:23:39+00:00

It's not just about the clothing being cut a certain way that make the ladies section convenient for me. There is the ladies fitting rooms in those sections that make it convenient for me. I experienced one of those "progressive" fitting rooms that allowed men and women, and I was totally uncomfortable.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T19:56:33+00:00

Y'all ignore "a dung". It changed its post after I responded. Its original post was along the lines of "you're not a true feminist and you hate trans and you're not welcomed here." Now it is ranting because it got triggered by the words "the left." My post was to highlight how their rules keep changing. So to sum up, here is what a dung really wants to write, "Spicy criticized the left. It offended me because I vote down ballots for Democrats. Now I need to use the left tactic of calling our critics hateful so that everyone else can turn against her. Spicy is racist, ageist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, cisnormative P.O.S. I hope the mods ban Spicy because she said 'the left'. I won't sleep tonight until Spicy is punished for calling me out on my bull. God speed!"

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T19:42:38+00:00

This was the goal all along. The statistics of male violence was staggering. So they are allowing this so that women appear as violent as men. I like that hashtag #notourcrimes

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T18:41:34+00:00

I do believe the Equality Act or one of the policies by Biden will also allow those who know they have HIV to pass it on without consequence. It was the part of the act that talked about the decriminalization of HIV. Everyone should pay attention to things that happen in any blue state because it's all about an ideology. Those in California think like those in New York that think like those in D.C. So you're right, the legislation in places like California becomes the legislation of the nation eventually.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T18:36:13+00:00

Awww you're cursing. Triggered!

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T18:24:03+00:00

The bill isn't just about toys. It's about getting rid of boy and girl clothing sections too, which will evolve into getting rid of men and women section of stores. I don't know about you but I find it pretty convenient to have a ladies section. Also I don't believe in government control. This bill was drafted because one man's daughter said she didn't know why she couldn't play with the toy in the boys section. All he had to do was tell her that was bs and a toy doesn't decide her gender. Instead it wasn't enough for him to parent. He had to draft a bill to enforce his beliefs on the population.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T18:18:01+00:00

I was a tomboy growing up who ended up in a male dominated profession. So I don't care about the toy thing. The bill isn't just about toys. It's about getting rid of boy and girl clothing sections too, which will evolve into getting rid of men and women section of stores. I don't know about you but I find it pretty convenient to have a ladies section.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T18:09:42+00:00

The bill isn't just about toys. It's about getting rid of boy and girl clothing sections too, which will evolve into getting rid of men and women section of stores. I don't know about you but I find it pretty convenient to have a ladies section.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T18:07:28+00:00

Or...get this. I have no interest in getting your stamp of approval. I didn't know you existed in this world until you made this silly post.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T07:48:54+00:00

I just read about it. Sounds like one of those faux woke terms someone came up with to make a name for themselves. I have shopped for boys and men and noticed no noticeable price difference. My dad and brothers clothes are expensive. Tuxedos usually cost more than bridesmaid dresses. Birth control pills might come out cheaper than condoms. IDK. I'm sure if we all looked hard enough we can find some injustice. I'm black and my hair care products are expensive. So am I suffering from a black tax?

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T07:38:10+00:00

I have no idea what the pink tax is. What Democrat-run state imposed that tax?

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-27T06:37:49+00:00

The left is moving swiftly. First they said sex and gender are different. Then they said there is no sex; there's just gender. Now there is no gender. Everyone needs to be gender-blind or non-binary when they shop.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-14T16:58:44+00:00

Wow! Well I won't dismiss your experience. It's interesting you brought up Iran. There is an Iranian lady I know who fears the Democrats right now. She said what is happening in America reminds her of back home and she is afraid the country will turn to the place she escaped. Pitbull even said something similar - that the country is heading the way of Cuba.

As for Trump, nothing he did had a negative effect on my life. That is why I am genuinely curious how other people's lives have been impacted. I paid less taxes than I did with Obama. But with Biden, everything he is doing has a negative effect on my life. He is erasing womanhood, opening borders to illegals, increasing taxes, driving socialism, removing funding in an industry I work in, enabling travel restrictions, etc. I value my womanhood, religious freedom, and my paycheck. So Biden is scarier for me.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-13T23:10:20+00:00

The 80s and 90s were 3-4 decades ago. With all due respect, I will ignore that paragraph because I was wondering more about what he did during his presidency that scared you today. I was looking for example of policies that maybe turned you off from him.

I agree he is a bit of a narcissist. He definitely has some ugly traits like making fun of the handicap and cursing out American citizens. I wouldn't put him in the class of evil. For a long time I hated the dude, but it was really based on what the media showed. What made me ooen to the idea that maybe Trump isn't THAT bad, is this sub. When this sub talked about the Biden/Harris Equality Act, I knew I couldn't vote Democrat ever again. So I was left with Trump as a choice which forced me to really question the media. Trump actually did a lot of great things that were never talked about. None of it greatly benefited the poor, but I never saw any president do anything that benefited the poor. Even when Democrats give money away it never really lifts anyone out of poverty. I also think Trump exposed a lot of corruption from both Democrats and Republicans.

Tl;dr He wasn't perfect, but he wasn't Adolf Hitler and I wished the media didn't focus on just the negative stuff. They are handling Biden with kid gloves. They don't criticize anything he does.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-13T11:42:49+00:00

You can't be bisexual and pro-trans or that other gender stuff because Bi- means two, as in two sexes. So look for the term bi-sexual to be a hateful term next since it doesn't acknowledge all 64 genders.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-13T07:43:11+00:00

What about Trump scared the hell out of you?

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-04T05:21:15+00:00

If these men and Candace Owens weren't too busy bitching about Karen they would have known feminists have been gender critical the whole time, and was aware that Biden was going to sign an E.O. for this, and soon for prisons, because it was a part of his campaign. Don't you just love when people expose themselves as uninformed voters.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-04T05:13:39+00:00

Well Black Lives Matter is a transgender affirming movement. No lie. One of their principles is called Transgender affirming and it aims to "dismantle cisgender privilege." Now transgenders can definitely point to something and go, "See our struggles and black people's struggles are the same." Honestly all those people that feel oppressed need to seek therapy and stop expecting everyone to accommodate their insecurities and failures.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-02-03T16:27:03+00:00

Stop supporting crooks because the media convinced you they are the good party. More information has come out showing a large number of those folks walking into (not storming) the Capitol were not affiliated with any party and planned it. That wasn't even a terrorist attack. People went into a government building and clowned around. They didn't set it on fire, bomb it, etc. Media has created an unsupported narrative to prevent the right from saying anything negative about the left, particularly the accusation of stealing the election. Democrats want to control you. Wake up. Denounce censorship even for folks you disagree with politically.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-01-23T18:20:33+00:00

They already have buyer's remorse, but you can bet your bottom dollar that if he runs for a second term, they will still vote for him because they are loyal to Democrats no matter what.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-01-23T18:16:09+00:00

Because they are gullible and believe whatever the leftists tell them.

Spicylikegumbo · 2021-01-22T05:44:31+00:00

We knew it would happen. Everyone here felt like Trump was going to take away abortion so they voted for Biden. America going down the hole quickly.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-24T05:15:19+00:00

There are so many women in favor of their erasure or just act nonchalant about it. It's bizarre.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-21T17:29:23+00:00

It's not an epidemic, Joe...

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-19T16:39:47+00:00

Still waiting for "boys are not real", and men to be referred to as people with penises or ejaculators.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-13T04:25:23+00:00

That one is nice. There is a number of creative things the artists could have done to really make a statement. A naked woman is not thought-provoking. Major miss.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-12T12:43:36+00:00

I didn't see the one with the bench. Can you post it?

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-12T07:12:28+00:00

I can't figure out how I want to feel about this. So I tried to think of a feminist hero of mine - Fannie Lou Hamer. This was a big, stocky black woman. If someone made a nude statue of her, I would find it disgraceful only because it is distracting. The audience will focus more on the nudity than what she represented. The artist should have digged deeper in order to figure out how to represent all women through her. Completely removing clothes is just lazy.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-08T08:57:26+00:00

Not everyone has the means to homeschool children. Some families will suffer under one income, and some already do if they are a single parent household. This burden always falls on the woman. You are basically proposing gender critical women all be stay at home moms. While I am sure some women may not have a problem with that, there are some women who would. And as someone who was not homeschooled and got to experience sports, clubs, proms, and other parties with my peers, I would want my children to experience the same social events.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-06T22:08:31+00:00

I have no proof, but I am almost certain that a male cannibalistic-leaning pedophile came up with this "delicacy".

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-05T16:47:20+00:00

There were many grassroots organizations that tried to stop this. One was called Informed Parents of Washington. They focused more on the fact that kindergartners would be getting taught sex education than anything that had to do with gender ideology. This wasn't a vote for a politician. It was about voting on a referendum.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-05T06:09:58+00:00

A lot of them are waking up since the Karen thing became popular. The Karen fad exposed how white men really feel about white women. Some younger women are still asleep, probably because they don't realize that one day they too will be middle-aged and discarded.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-05T01:23:14+00:00

The comments are all about white women messing it up and how white women shouldn't be allowed to vote. I don't care if you sleep with them. Men are not your allies.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-04T16:15:38+00:00

Most women do not realize how much richer their lives will become once they transition to more female spaces. I join female social groups, and there is always someone who mentions that they were afraid to join initially because women can be so catty. They find out how untrue that is. You don't see females fighting each other in other species either. Females always work well together. Even our periods sync up.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-04T14:37:42+00:00

Opting out of these courses and homeschooling don't really solve the problem though. Your kids will have to interact with other kids, and who knows the misinformation that will come at recess time. Anyone remember when little girls used to mispronounce menstruation and say ministration? They're kids and will not fully understand the subject matter, and they will tell all the kids who parents took them out of these classes all the stuff they learned.

You can only protect your child so much from this, and when they force it through the education system where the majority of kids will grow up speaking gender language, your child will be an outcast. Your child will be bullied and demonized for growing up gender critical in a state in which the majority will now be gender "cynical".

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-11-04T14:27:00+00:00

In Washington, the curriculum starts in kindergarten. So 5 year olds, maybe even 4 year olds (because I started school early), will be brainwashed.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-10-31T11:06:33+00:00

I relate to all of this.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-10-19T05:09:39+00:00

These kids will struggle if they ever decide to become global citizens. It will be a complete cultural shock if they decide to work, go to school, or live in places that don't acknowledge these ideologies. They would look stupid trying to translate that their pronoun is they/them/their. I know southern states and brown countries would definitely ship them to the looney bin.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-10-14T21:45:16+00:00

I was sexually assaulted by another kid when I was in kindergarten. I know that sounds crazy, but I'll elaborate. I never told anyone this. There was another girl, a fellow kindergartner, who seemed to be sex crazed and she would bully me into going to the girl's restroom with her. She would tell me to pull my pants down. Sometimes she would force me to dry hump. We were both five. If I didn't do it, she would pinch me.

Do I think this curriculum would have saved me? No. I was bullied. I said no. I never had to be taught what was inappropriate. I just knew. And she knew what she did to me was inappropriate. That's why she threatened to pinch me if I told the teacher.

The school system tried teaching kids to be drug-free with the D.A.R.E. program. How successful was that? Likewise, how would you even measure the success of these proposed sex ed programs? Are they going to follow up with students later on and ask if they've avoided getting assaulted or being the predator? Don't be fooled. Many of us didn't take these courses and we grew up keeping our hands to ourselves. Those who won't were going to grow up criminal anyway. You can't teach away evil. That's my two cents.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-10-14T12:54:11+00:00

My distinction? I don't know. Their responses seem to contradict. In the end, the OP probably got Not All Men'd, but it went a little something like "Not all men. Our good white men over in the UK... something, something better than brown people in the Middle East... something, something." I think if they had just stuck to saying that not just white men do certain things they probably wouldn't have been fighting and talking past each other. But the capes came on because OP called white men the worst.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-10-14T03:26:10+00:00

I post there a lot. I'm sure there are some, but the great majority of posters do not seem to be pickme. I read the conversation and I can see it from both views. Part of their response came off as not wanting you to just blame white men as a problem but all men as a problem. And I agree. All men suck not just white men.

But then part of their response was in pickme territory because they started talking about white countries, and what they really meant were white men, treating women better. They feel a need to defend white men because they feel like if you insult white men then you are insulting all white people. I usually see similar things in the black community. If a black man gets mistreated, black women feel personally attacked. These women are so male-identified; it's sad.

Oh and this was funny: "Let me guess.... you met a new scrote?" Hahaha I choked laughing. We have to stay on code. Women gotta stop seeing men as innocent just because they going to bed with them.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-10-08T14:27:56+00:00

Yep. Local and state elections are so much more important imo for reasons you stated.

Edit: And sadly they won't bring up gender stuff. They will probably lump it all under LGBTQ and act like that act is all about gay and transgender rights and then spew stuff about don't ask don't tell. And these politicians never have personal stories. No real transgender friends or family stories they can share. I actually had a transgender friend years ago, and the he/she didn't think twice of coming to the women's restroom. The he/she was a lawyer too. Never since knowing him/her did he/she speak of inequality.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-10-08T14:20:15+00:00

States have had more influence over these issues. For example, I left a red state that did not allow single women to have IVF. Basically I had no chance of being a mother in that state. I moved to a blue state and even though I have more reproductive rights, the gender identity stuff will gradually complicate life for me as a woman.

So I guess I will move back to a red state once I achieve motherhood or no longer care about it.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-10-08T06:18:57+00:00

Abortions aren't going anywhere. If they wanted to do it, they would have done it a long time ago. Abortion is brought up every year. It's a political scare tactic. Gender identity politics however is real. It's spreading like wildfires. You can actually get fired for being gender-critical. That's a bigger problem to me. I do not want my womanhood being erased, and I don't want biological men in spaces created for me.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-10-03T16:13:04+00:00

What part of those outfits are inspired by children? A pedo must be head of marketing.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-24T08:07:56+00:00

Men are master illusionists. Every man has worked his trickery on women, and the trans are no different. I went to a college where there were no coed dormitories, and guys would try to sneak in women's dorms all the time. They will go a step further and sneak into women showers. There was always that fear that you might step out the shower and a man was there. We have real fears. I think if some of these trans activists paid more attention to how women are treated in countries where they have less or no rights, they would understand the innate nature of men more.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-23T10:34:00+00:00

Perfect rebuttal. I am pretty sure the person had another stupid response, but you made very clear and valid points that anyone with a working brain should understand.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-21T05:47:44+00:00

Worked that way for me too. I made a lot more than most of the men I dated. But I am black and dated mostly black men, who are collectively underachievers.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-21T05:46:02+00:00

I think my mom just wants to experience a wedding for me and grandchildren from me. But the level of cognitive dissonance one must have in order to know men are deranged but also believe they can provide fulfilling partnerships.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-21T05:43:55+00:00

Right!

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-19T04:50:48+00:00

I would go in a rage.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-19T04:45:34+00:00

The fact that you see it as an issue says everything. You're letting yourself get irritated about a difference in beliefs and you both care about separate causes. Let it go. Live your life.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-18T03:24:06+00:00

Well agree to disagree. Life goes on. There are people who had sex that day, played golf that day, took a dump that, but you want people to stop their normal routines because people in one corner of the world got killed like people don't get killed every day. But I'm sure you show reverence for every tragedy in human history.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-18T03:17:47+00:00

Join us at pinkpillfeminism. We are the real feminists.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-18T03:11:52+00:00

I'm confused. The tweet on the right says the female page doesn't include transwomen but your title says TIMs are included.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-13T16:47:46+00:00

Not everyone is woke. I'm not going to pretend like I don't understand why women see them as a benefit. Is it that hard for y'all to think back to a time when you also saw them as a benefit, or are we choosing to be obtuse today?

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-13T16:38:20+00:00

LOL at one of the top comments from a guy that says "people who menstruate" is the more accurate term since some women can't menstruate but they are no less women. Um...that statement did nothing to justify the term "people" over "women." It would make even more sense to say women who menstruate in that case.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-13T16:26:02+00:00

Thanks for the laugh. By the way, do you have anything in common with her anymore? Does she provide any benefits to your life? Those are two questions I ask myself when I am ready to drop someone. All friends aren't meant forever. Some friends are only meant for a season.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-13T16:18:39+00:00

Are you implying white people don't litter or display trash behavior? I don't get what is wrong with protesting. Are they breaking any laws? How is what they are doing stopping you from honoring 9/11 victims? They don't have to honor them, but you are free to do so. They have no obligation to honor deaths of people they did not know. Sure it was a national tragedy, but there were countless tragedies. You don't stop your life because of it.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-13T16:01:29+00:00

You find it ridiculous that women are following their biological urge and societal pressure to have a family? Okay cool.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-13T08:17:18+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to me too. I was weak-minded, lonely, and had low self esteem and of course many men preyed on me. But I am extremely grateful that I came across this community and so many others that shined a much needed light on the evil of men. Now I protect myself from them and I am so much happier now.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-13T08:04:21+00:00

Funny you say that the vibe is that we have given up. A male who I think likes(or liked) me told me the other day that I sounded like I had given up on men. I felt affirmed as a pink pill feminist after he said that. I get pleasure from rejecting men. And I get pleasure telling them that collectively they are failures.

S/N I don't know why y'all keep asking why heterosexual women date men. Being a heterosexual woman means being attracted to men. At the very least, there is a point where you want to have sex with them so of course you date them. If you don't want sex with them then you're homosexual or asexual. Then some women want kids. It's really that simple. Not everyone is content with masturbating into their 70s and living alone. Let's not be obtuse. PPF is not an easy lifestyle for the great majority of heterosexual women. So they absolutely will deal with trashy men if it gives them a chance to be a Mrs. or a mother or get mediocre sex on the regular.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-11T16:51:19+00:00

I couldn't finish the video. I found myself getting angry. They all kept answering that being a man is about a feeling. Just stupidity all around.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-11T00:48:29+00:00

OP you should probably specify the rape. People are commenting about adult male on adult male rape and adults raping male children. I don't think you are referring to those cases just adult woman raping adult man, correct? If so, I think the latter situation is so rare I can't even imagine how it would happen. I almost want to go on a limb and say it doesn't happen.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-10T16:42:27+00:00

I had a guy tell me once that his stomach will hurt if he doesn't get sex from me. I would bleed from the sex and one time I felt nerve damage in my head from the sex being so rough. At the time I didn't know it was abuse. Lord knows what most of these men put women through. It is so dangerous being with men.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-04T04:36:02+00:00

What's FDS?

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-04T00:02:16+00:00

You are just trying to agitate Happy_Face_Caller. I wish she could ban some of you with your nonproductive, nonvalue added posts. We're not returning to Reddit. You decided to attack women spaces, and we decided to rebuild gradually elsewhere. The user interface is way better here. Deuces to you.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-09-03T06:18:48+00:00

That's horrible. He looks disgusting. The wife looks like she was too kind. RIP. As for the neighbors, Black Lives Matter is M.I.A. since it was two black women and not two black men that got shot for no reason. Just sitting at home watching babies and get shot by a lunatic. I pray they recover. This mofo should have been executed on sight.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-31T04:52:56+00:00

What happened to the term crossdresser? Your kid is simply a crossdresser not another sex. These damn idiots.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-29T07:18:30+00:00

Oh I have fell in love with so many bums. I will watch Aladdin with a whole new set of eyes now.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-27T20:00:13+00:00

I am still here, and I am sure there are many others. I don't post all the time. I don't remember the Reddit sub having too many posts either.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-22T14:40:50+00:00

So many black male comedians had this as their schtick for a long time - Martin Lawrence, Eddie Murphy, Jamie Foxx, Tyler Perry - all crossdressed. I just laughed when I was younger, but now I see how dangerous those stereotypes are.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-22T14:34:52+00:00

They single out black women because we're an easy punching bag. No one protects us or stand by us. You can get away with saying anything about us. A few years ago Don Imus called black female basketball players "nappy headed hoes." The fact that he felt comfortable enough to say that on air says a lot. The fact that black women had to call out the racism and sexism but black men and white feminists were silent when that happened goes to show black women have to stand up for ourselves most of the time.

History lesson: We didn't get voting rights until several decades after white women. Events like that further contribute to the idea that black women weren't seen as women.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-22T00:15:24+00:00

I wish those freaks would stop comparing themselves with black women. We have always been identified as women. We just weren't given rights and were treated like subhumans. Nowhere in history can I find a black woman being referred to as a man. It's only modern day white men, including trans white ones, who label us that way.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-20T08:50:23+00:00

Okay. I am writing Netflix about this and encourage everyone else to. Never in my life have I seen a TV-MA rating for a show about children. TV-MA usually involves sex. This looks like it was made for pedophiles. "Explore her feminity"...give me a break.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-19T02:26:22+00:00

That's disgusting and scary. I would feel depressed if all I could think about was porn all day. I'm glad I don't have a man brain.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-18T15:37:02+00:00

I thought "all genders matter." But they said this is victory for all women and girls. So not a victory for trans men? Gee I wonder why? (sarc)

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-17T13:33:41+00:00

"I've never actually heard TRAs claim that females should stop talking about the female body."

That's all they talk about. Women can't refer to their periods, vaginas, ovaries, pregnancies as being part of the female body. Instead we have to be people who bleed and uterus owners and people who birth. If you say any of that is female then you get labeled transphobic.

So OP great points. If they weren't catering to male attention and the song was simply about their ability to lubricate, the trans and libfems would definitely be screaming transphobic. But it's a male centered song in reality so it gets a pass.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-15T15:57:16+00:00

Yes this is rape. Some have preconceptions of what rape looks like because of some TV show. It's not always some woman being bruised up after a hard scramble with a male. You don't have to scream and yell out stop or no for it to be rape. These men are not dumb. They know damn well what "not interested" looks like. You did what you had to do to survive in this incident and for you that was staying silent and just taking it. Others might fight, but some don't try. That doesn't mean you weren't raped because you didn't put up a fight.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-14T22:25:38+00:00

Why do they complain about golddiggers anyway? It's not like they want a woman to love them for who they are. Can you imagine any of them crying to themselves going, "I just want a woman to love me for who I am and not my money!" Lolz. They are just being cheapskates.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-13T01:57:44+00:00

I thought they were in their 30s. If they are in their 20s, then the streets wore them out for sure. Cardi B has a daughter. I do know that. Can you imagine all the pickme crap she will teach her daughter once she hits puberty? I also don't remember mainstream music being that vulgar in my 20s, and key word here is mainstream. A song like W.A.P. used to be saved for the album but not released as a single.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-13T01:40:03+00:00

Lipstickalley but some of the stuff they post might be offensive to non-blacks. Most of them are pretty radfem but black women don't call themselves radfem but womanists. So there is a Womanism subforum and some music and celebrity gossip forums, general subs, sports, religion, hair, science, news, etc. Just all kinds of subforums but it's mostly women. Unfortunately I can't think of any other websites because I ran into the same problem. I tried one website and you couldn't go into one sub without the title being sexual in nature. It could be a philosophy subforum and some dumb guy makes a thread, "To tie your partner or not to tie your partner. That is the question." They are never funny. Talking to men is your timewaster so you can look at it that way.

Spicylikegumbo · 2020-08-12T15:18:53+00:00

Difficult decisions like that are hardly choices. She didn't choose to quit; she was forced to. If she didn't, her kids would not have been cared for. A divorce wouldn't have solved that. She would just be divorced and still taking care of her child. And this is the situation for a lot of women. Some do choose to be SAHM, but some are pressured.

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