Would you personally date a bisexual woman? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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Do bisexual women even date bisexual women? 🥴

Wow so much woman-hating on a lesbian forum by Blueegg in Lesbians

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Those comments were not that awful imo. I don't think there's anything wrong with calling an idiot an idiot. OP seems to be surprised that we call out women on stupid behavior, she probably thinks lesbians love every single woman on the face of the planet by default.

Would you date a transman? by Srime in Lesbians

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No. And wouldn't dating me, a lesbian, be a constant reminder that she is female and make her gender dysphoria worse? The level of cognitive dissonance...I can't.

Wow so much woman-hating on a lesbian forum by Blueegg in Lesbians

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That comment was actually

I cannot stand straight women, some women have said that I am a misogynist because of this but I haven't found them to be any less homophobic than straight men. I couldn't care less about them

I like how she took out the rest of the quote haha. That person wasn't just hating on straight women specifically. She was hating on straight people for being homophobic. But I can see how that would hurt feelings. Oh well. Like you said, this isn't her place.

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

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It almost seems like it's done on purpose by some other groups of people that try to tell other girls and women "hey, you can't decide you're gay/lesbian unless you've tried having sex or having sexual relations with men", which is extremely, disgustingly revolting.

People who think that way are going to think that way regardless. They're just homophobes. It's nothing new, like MyLongestJourney said. And when it comes to the coercion and pressure that young lesbians face, that's also going to exist regardless of them hearing gold star stories or not. We live in a heterosexual world. I know you mean well, but I'm with Lavalanche17 on the not defining ourselves in relation to men at all thing.

Bisexual woman on why bisexual women shouldn't identify as lesbians by LesbianInExile in Lesbians

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Sorry to say but I wasn't really impressed with the author's thought process either 😅

There are bisexual women who come out at a young age and date girls during their adolescence and experience homophobia due to it. Doesn't mean they can call themselves lesbians. I know that's not what the author was trying to say but it can definitely be interpreted as that. The reason bisexual women shouldn't call themselves lesbians is because they're not. It's very simple.

Another thing I picked up on is the author seems to conflate lesbians with political lesbians. What lesbian is going to say that being bisexual is anti feminist? As if sexual orientation is something you choose.

I hate hate HATE watching shows or movies containing wlw content with my straight friends by Jaded in Lesbians

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I don't have friends so no I can't relate 🥴

What do you miss most about r/TrueLesbians? by piylot in Lesbians

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I'm neither sad nor lonely. Anyone else? 😆

I hate when women act like little girls by [deleted] in Lesbians

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ew that made my skin crawl.

Wanted to share this wholesome post in case any of you haven't seen it. by reluctant_commenter in Lesbians

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They spout hate towards gays and lesbians all day long and don't get banned. The hypocrisy on reddit 🙃

What do you miss most about r/TrueLesbians? by piylot in Lesbians

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this whole thread is really funny. I'm enjoying your unique perspective 🤣

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

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All you do is talk about gold star stuff and interrogate other lesbians about their past. Don't you ever get tired?

For the women who aren't interested in anything oral, like nothing about it, how do you deal with that in a relationship? by Freetochoose in Lesbians

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How does not liking giving/receiving oral = not liking sex?

Why can’t lesbian just be female homosexual? by CuntWorshiper in Lesbians

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You can be a misandrist. But if you talk about nothing but men men men 24/7 you can't blame other lesbians for thinking you are just a political lesbian.

Lesbian women talk about meeting ‘transbians’ on women-only dating sites by WildwoodFlower in Lesbians

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Banned for wanting a "biological female"... Do they also ban straight men for that? We all already know the answer.

Great article :)

And I just noticed that it has 4.1k reads whereas the other recent articles on that site have significantly less. I wonder where all those views came in from. Are more people starting to talk about this?

Is this for real? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I'm guessing OP was already in an angry/frustrated state when she searched "Why aren't gay relationships taken seriously?"

I know you'd rather all the posts be about food and movies, but somewhere like s/lesbians is one of the few places you can rant about this stuff and other people will get it. I think it's good to vent sometimes 😃

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

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Jesus... I was going to give a reply about how it's the concept of gold stars that people are against, not actual gold stars, but after looking at your post history I decided against it. Girl... do yourself a favor and get offline for a bit. And maybe do something about your all-consuming obsession with men. Seems rather unhealthy to me.

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

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stalking you? I use the "comments" tab to browse this sub instead of clicking on threads because s/lesbians is not that active. Your comment was at the top.

btw, I find it hilarious that the woman who likes to quiz people on their private lives is telling me to mind my own business.

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

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Oh, you're still here. I thought we were done.

The “Gold Star” Problem by WordsHaveMeanings in Lesbians

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You will be very missed 😢

Another commercial to make you smile by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I don't think that's the point anyone is trying to make here. I wouldn't call any lesbian who was married to a man "woke" just because of that. I think everyone is just disappointed that lesbians are only allowed to have one story, and that one story always has to involve a man. We've seen it sooooooooooo many times.

Wanted to share this wholesome post in case any of you haven't seen it. by reluctant_commenter in Lesbians

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Reddit only bans people or subs after being reported.

Where did you get this idea from? That's completely false. There are many ways for subreddits and users to get banned. Many are even banned automatically and wrongfully by bots.

Has anyone reported members and/or subs in mobs like those trans?

I used to report all the blatantly homophobic stuff I saw but didn't see anything come of it. Maybe it only works in a mob? I don't really care much anymore. I rarely go on Reddit these days.

Just sharing some thoughts. Can anyone relate? by notsuper8 in Lesbians

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What's the point in dating people you're not into? I personally think being alone is much better than that.

Lesbians who voted for Biden/Harris by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I was expecting better reasons tbh. Those seem a little petty/childish to me. I can see where you're coming from though.

Anyone else like this? (NSFW) by [deleted] in Lesbians

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There's nothing wrong with having a million failed relationships. Life is short, have fun lol

Lesbians who voted for Biden/Harris by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I found him to be the best of two bad options.

can I ask why?

Anyone else like this? (NSFW) by [deleted] in Lesbians

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How are you being selfish by giving her what she wants? Don't overthink it so much. She's the one who chose these terms, not you. If she wanted something else all she has to do is ask. It's not like you are the one who is against reciprocation.

Anyone else like this? (NSFW) by [deleted] in Lesbians

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“No. I enjoy making you come. I think it’s really hot. I don’t always want it myself but I like getting you off.”

There's your answer. It's not that unusual for someone to have a strong preference for giving over receiving or vice versa. I think you should just let her do what she enjoys :)

Lesbians who voted for Biden/Harris by [deleted] in Lesbians

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But I didn't call you any names... I said those reasons seemed petty and childish to me. Relax 😅

Made a new subbreddit for homos. I'm rarely on reddit anymore but would love to see if the homos on reddit will find it and feel like they have a space by gencritLesbo in Lesbians

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I think a private sub on Reddit will have the same amount of activity as a public sub on Saidit. Maybe even less.

Americans: who did you vote for? by chokeonartichoke in Lesbians

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I'm not the one who said that non Biden voters were disappointing. I was just butting into the convo. I also don't see anyone being angry or aggressive here. But as for me, I wasn't trying to convince you or anyone of anything. I was just leaving my two cents as I went through the comments.

Anyone watch “I Care A Lot” yet? What did you think? (Spoilers) by [deleted] in Lesbians

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How do I always manage to see the spoiler warning after I've already read the spoiler 🥴

I've never heard of the movie but since you say there's "intimacy and chemistry" between the two characters I'm going to check it out.

Just sharing some thoughts. Can anyone relate? by notsuper8 in Lesbians

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For me being single doesn't equal being lonely so I wouldn't be interested in something like that.

Americans: who did you vote for? by chokeonartichoke in Lesbians

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No one is a fan of Joe Biden. He's just the lesser of two evils. You seem to be an actual Trump fangirl, which is pretty strange ngl. Most people don't like either of them.