Frustrated at the dismissal of female sexuality, especially homosexuality by RedditHatesLesbians in GenderCritical

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I am so sick of hearing about this "study", which male spaces like reddit LOVE to tout as "proof" you can pressure your GF into a threesome/watching porn, since "all women are bi, anyway"! Or that you can "turn your local lesbian," since, again, "all women are bi, anyway!"

And this obviously harms bi women, too, since... once again, "all women are bi, anyway! (so why do you need to talk about it, just shut up!)"

In no particular order, here is why I consider this study bullshit:

First of all, it doesn't take into consideration that straight women, like everyone else, are fed a constant diet of media that centers the male gaze and sexualizes and objectifies women's bodies. I don't think a sexual response to images of women necessarily proves that a woman is sexually attracted to women, but rather that the woman knows that such an image implies sexual activity is forthcoming (most likely involving a male, who they ARE sexually attracted to).

Second, it assumes that the case for males is the default case. In this instance, straight males being attracted to images of women "proves" they're straight, and gay males being attracted to images of men "proves" they're gay. Therefore, women being attracted to both "proves" they're all bi. But wait a second here, why can't it be that women being attracted to all the images "proves" that women are sexually aroused by images implying sexual activity because they're aroused by the thought of the act of sex (not necessarily the person depicted), and men only being attracted to images depicting the bodies of people they're attracted to "proves" they are more likely to see their sexual partners as objects, and are only aroused when looking at the right "object"? The result is completely different if we allow the FEMALE result to be the default for once.

I just hate this "study" so much.

Saidit is hosted on a pro-transgender host. Ovarit is run by women, for women. I highly recommend it. Getting DDOSed, it could be a matter of time this place gets the boot too. by AshleyBackwoods in GenderCritical

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I look forward to that! It would be great if Ovarit got to where there were enough general topics that new users start joining for non-feminism reasons, and they end up peaking after wandering to the GC topics lol. Like what happened to some users of Mumsnet who hadn't heard of the issue and ended up peaking after reading stuff there before it went to shit.

That’s it. That’s the Tweet. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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"Illegal conversion therapy for ME is necessary re-education to de-colonialize genital preferences for THEE!"

TiF is really pleased to get mistaken for a man by doctors. When TiF is nearly killed because doctors think she's a man it's all their fault. by jet199 in GenderCritical

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“I was born female and I identify as male – they should have probably have set my limit as somewhere in the middle.”

Once again, we see a trans-identified person playing doctor. In this quote, the TIF is talking about a medical test where the "safe" limit for a female body is different than for a male body. This TIF was in danger because she did not tell the doctors she was a woman, so they were checking her test against the male range rather than the female.

And now that everything is said and done, she has the audacity to come out and say her range should have been "somewhere in the middle".

On what medical basis has she made that decision? Because she thinks she's a man, she thinks the acceptable limit for her body is going to arbitrarily move towards the middle of the range? Based on what? And where in the middle should her range have been? More towards the female range or the male? She has no answers for this of course, because it's all made-up bullshit.

I dread the day a doctor ends up accidentally killing someone over this nonsense, and they blame themselves over something that isn't their fault.

Do woke people do well in life? by Eurowoman24 in GenderCritical

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What the fuuuuck... Does your husband know you're a TERF? I honestly can't be around TRAs at ALL. I've cut off contact with every one I knew, so I can't imagine being married to one...

Do woke people do well in life? by Eurowoman24 in GenderCritical

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Are you serious? Your husband is friends with 7 trans people? Or do you mean he knows 7 trans people?

A man/transwoman commits suicide after botched neovagina surgery. These surgeries are dangerous! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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The account appears to be real but I am confused as to where is the evidence this person committed suicide? It's just this one tweet...

Huh this is a whole.... hole..... (woman raped by TIM says being raped by a TIM is no different than being raped by a woman - SO SHUT TF UP) by divingrightintowork in GenderCritical

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I agree! But of course they use it to mean TIM. eyeroll

Huh this is a whole.... hole..... (woman raped by TIM says being raped by a TIM is no different than being raped by a woman - SO SHUT TF UP) by divingrightintowork in GenderCritical

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One of my most hated phrases is in the first paragraph: "a woman of trans history". I fucking hate that TRAs just keep watering down the language for TIMs, further and further obfuscating the fact that TIMs are male.

I have seen that "woman of trans history" bullshit quite a lot recently, but I'm shocked to see it used here in an article from 2014. Wow.

But if they want to use it, fine with me. Just answer me this: why is it that for so many of those "women", a "trans history" means a history of being a rapist?

Do woke people do well in life? by Eurowoman24 in GenderCritical

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I think in certain circles, they'd do BETTER than most people. For example, certain communities (such as the tech and art communities) are obsessed with all things woke right now.

A man/transwoman commits suicide after botched neovagina surgery. These surgeries are dangerous! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Am I missing something? Where is the proof that he killed himself? All I see is a tweet saying he did, and screen shots from his account.

I'm aghast. Two months of identifying as trans is enough to get surgery? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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I don't know and while I can't say much because I don't want to dox myself, I will say I later found out that therapist was a member of several of the big TRA organizations, and she participates in all kinds of pro-trans events. While I don't know whether she was getting any financial kickbacks or anything, I have no doubt she wanted the clout of working with as many trans patients as possible.

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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I bet there's also a possibility that your sister is afraid that answering your question won't only make YOU one of the "baddies", but might make her recognize that if she thinks about the trans issue long enough to answer your question, she'll discover she's one of the "baddies", too!

And to be fair, it sounds like she's in the age group where being outed as a TERF (or even being related to one) is social and career suicide, so it's understandable she's afraid to discuss it.

How do you know that I don't identify as a woman? by Sittingonarainbow in GenderCritical

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I completely understand. It's especially hard to do anything about it when the current younger generation's favorite hobby is shitting all over the older generations. There is almost no respect or even recognition of the existence of life experience and wisdom anymore.

(By the way, I hope my comment you are responding to didn't come off as shitting on boomers. I was just trying to describe a specific type of humor.)

How do you know that I don't identify as a woman? by Sittingonarainbow in GenderCritical

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Honestly, at this point I'm just waiting for the boomer humor that's going to come from self-ID. I give it a year before old men start wearing t-shirts with dumb perv shit on them like "I identify as female, let's go bra shopping together!"

Kamala Harris, "she/her" on twitter, is now Joe Biden's veep by WrongToy in GenderCritical

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These people believe in nothing and say what is necessary, that is all

I agree, but I was hoping he'd pick one of the ones who DON'T do that.

Kamala Harris, "she/her" on twitter, is now Joe Biden's veep by WrongToy in GenderCritical

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Thank goodness she shared her pronouns, I never would have been able to tell if his running mate was female without that twitter bio. eyeroll

On a serious note, this just fucking sucks. I was hoping he'd pick someone who wasn't on the trans train, but it seems he picked one of the train conductors. Of course I'm hardly surprised, since he himself says "there are at least three [genders]".

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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In a couple of years I think all the "Trans Women Are Women" brainwashed ninnies are going to be backtracking and retconning

I agree. This is definitely going to happen. Right now, it feels like everyone on the left under age 40 is chanting "Trans Women Are Women", but I bet in 10 years, half the people in that same age group are going to be claiming they never supported it.

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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I couldn't believe it when they started claiming the pussy hats were racist. Pink is known as the "girl color" all over the world. NO one's vagina is literally Barbie pink like those hats.

The truth is that the TRAs knew that being anti-women's anatomy at a women's march would be a bad look, so being the master manipulators they are, they made up a race-related excuse to hate on the hats. To this day I've never seen a WOC say the hats are racist. Just TRAs.

And how ironic is it that you couldn't go to the march due to your FEMALE anatomy, and they go and claim menstruation is "cissexist" rather than a biological reality unfairly endured by women that has been the basis of our oppression since the dawn of time, and exactly what those marches should have been about? So sick of this shit!

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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Doesn't the TRAs' ridicule and condescension towards women's reproductive imagery remind you of conservatives, lol? They both hate it!

And Chimamanda Adichie is not the only WOC I've seen called a "white feminist"! It's insane. It proves they only use the "white feminist" label to silence women. And ironically, if anyone's feminism is "white", it's obviously theirs, since all this TRA bullshit started thanks to the dominance of English-speaking, majority-white countries.

I hope your sister comes around. She sounds young, so hopefully with time she'll learn.

I'm aghast. Two months of identifying as trans is enough to get surgery? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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This doesn't surprise me at all. When I was going through my TIF phase, a therapist tried to get me on T after only 2 appointments. By the 3rd appointment she told me she literally couldn't help me with my issues if I didn't try T.

The truth is, I think she WOULDN'T help me if I didn't try T.

I'm sorry to hear about your acquaintance.

ETA: Just realized my comment will probably make people curious whether I ever went on T, and the answer is no, I did not.

How do you know that I don't identify as a woman? by Sittingonarainbow in GenderCritical

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Aaaaand here it is. Nearly a decade ago, I said to my TIF former friend that this is exactly what could potentially happen if self-ID ever became a thing.

She insisted over and over that my argument was bullshit. That "you can tell if someone is just pretending to be trans." Or that "male and female symbols on public bathroom doors don't stop predators from walking in."

But that's not the fucking problem. The problem is that once self-ID is accepted, you can't QUESTION whether someone is pretending or not. They're all valid. You can't QUESTION whether a male-appearing person in a bathroom is a predator. They're all valid.

And now, you can't QUESTION whether a police officer who is literally groping your crotch could get a female officer. Because now, they're ALL valid.

I am so fucking sick of this. This is literally sexual assault.

More proof that NB is the woke flavor of "I'm not like the other girls" by LasagnaRossa in GenderCritical

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I agree. I definitely don't blame them, either. And not only do you have to sexualize yourself, you have to look perfect while doing it. I can't imagine what it's like being a teenage girl these days, where everyone is addicted to looking at social media accounts of the few girls who were blessed with very lucky genetics, and/or are very skilled with Photoshop...

Of course models have always existed, but it's on a completely different level now than before because images of those models are now accessible 24/7. It's like how we often talk about how libfems say porn has always been around, but they don't understand the difference of the occasional Playboy magazine versus the constant, never-ending, 24/7 access to PornHub. Instagram is like the PornHub of the fashion magazines that used to hurt girls' self-esteem. Now those fashion magazines are around constantly, waiting in your pocket or purse, and girls look at them all the time and feel worse and worse about themselves.

I just hate it.

Why are there so many trans women in tech? by Astrid2448 in GenderCritical

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Boys/men seem to have a tech-to-trans pipeline and girls/women seem to have a tumblr-to-trans pipeline...

'Matrix' Was Trans Allegory (makes sense: red pilled tech bro, fetish gear and orgies, convert others, beat people up) by MisandryFTW in GenderCritical

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Since both creators are totally valid Real Women TM, that explains why they used their inner lady brains to ensure those movies had so many prominent female characters with non-sexist roles and weren't just the typical 2-dimensional objectified male fantasy version of strong women...

...waaaaaait a minute...

More proof that NB is the woke flavor of "I'm not like the other girls" by LasagnaRossa in GenderCritical

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So many girls go NB or TIF not because they despise femininity, but because they resent that it's forced on them.

It's interesting because men seem to go NB or TIM because they fetishize femininity, precisely because it's forced on women.

Why are there so many trans women in tech? by Astrid2448 in GenderCritical

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I have no fucking idea but it appears to me that their obsession with tech is 99% of the reason their ideology has spread so far. They run everything. Reddit, google, twitter, wikipedia, and apparently even dictionary.com now.

If I had to guess I'd say that they all have years of experience hiding porn folders and deleting their browsing histories, so that's why they love computers so much?

Dictionary.com Now Has a Libelous Definition of "TERF" on Their Site. I just complained to them, since it's a slur and the definition is based on LIES. Please complain also and share widely. by yishengqingwa666 in GenderCritical

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I saw that, too, and now it seems deleted that symbol. Now it just says "TERF" in text with a pink background.

Guess they accidentally let the truth slip and now they're trying to hide it.

TERF WAR: Dictionary.com Enters the Chat by puffball in GenderCritical

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https://www.dictionary.com/e/contact/

We need to mass report this definition. There is so much wrong with it it's fucking insane. The part that says "[TERFs] sometimes advocate for harm against trans people" made my fucking blood boil. I have been shoulder deep in this trans bullshit scene for a damn decade and to this day I have never seen a "TERF" advocate harm against trans people, but trans people post about 1,000 threats to radfems per DAY on twitter. This is insane.

Sick of Reddit misogyny? Are you Ovarit? Come join us at our permanent new home for Gender Critical women! PM me for an invite code! by flapyourwings in GenderCritical

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Isn't it?! I am continually inspired by the wit and creativity of GC women. I can't wait for merch lol.

Sick of Reddit misogyny? Are you Ovarit? Come join us at our permanent new home for Gender Critical women! PM me for an invite code! by flapyourwings in GenderCritical

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AHHHH YES!!! Thank you! We love you!!! I'm already "ovar" saidit, too, so this is great timing!

ETA: I fucking LOVE the name and logo so much, you gynes are so amazing and creative.

What are the things about being a women men can never grasp by midgetmetalhead19 in GenderCritical

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I would say the psychological impact of being questioned and doubted your entire life over everything, no matter how small.

It is exhausting to deal with constantly being on the defensive your entire life. No one can accept that your knowledge is enough. If a man says "2 + 2 = 4", or even "2 + 2 = 5", everyone nods and agrees. If a woman says "2 + 2 = 4", everyone says "Are you sure? Can you prove it?"

Even the mythological perfectly-passing TIM can never fully understand this because for him, this questioning and doubting won't begin until he starts passing. He will have the experience of an entire childhood (or longer, in most cases) of this NOT happening to him, so even if it starts happening, the impact won't be the same on his confidence or his career trajectory.

Did you know? by jet199 in GenderCritical

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Best article I've seen posted so far!

48% of transwomen prisoners are sex offenders (compared to less than 20% in the general male estate)

This is the fact that I find the most disturbing. People need to know that not only are trans "women" NOT women, if anything, they are UBER men. They are more than twice as likely to commit the most male of crimes, sexual assault, as other men. This is why statistics are important and this is why they are trying to censor them. This information is damning to them, so it is important to them to ensure it is hidden and that crime statistics are gradually skewed by demanding governments identify them as female in all statistics and censuses.

Male Trump supporter starts anti-trans chant at rally. Yet we know TRAs will be blame feminists. by AdultFemaleHuman in GenderCritical

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Wow, someone is finally dishing out the violent threat to trans people that trans people are always claiming radfems are promoting... and the threat is coming from a man.

I am so shocked. It's almost as if... women aren't the ones who threaten violence against those they disagree with? And no radfem has ever said this or supported this ever? And no radfem has ever killed or threatened physical harm against a trans person ever?

So weird.

The Australian prison drama Wentworth and trans characters being portrayed as saints by AdmiralPangolin in GenderCritical

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Trans characters are always portrayed as saints in modern media. Buffalo Bill from Silence of the Lambs was the first and last accurate depiction of a trans male character in media.

What does the path look like? by Jalaces in GenderCritical

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"Female" chatbots and AI servants.

THANK YOU for mentioning this one. Everyone thinks this isn't a big deal but it freaks me out. Why is every GPS and virtual assistant like Siri and Alexa a female voice? I've read all kinds of excuses for it but they all sounds like bullshit to me. In humans, the female sex is the "servant class", so why wouldn't that extend to AI? It's pure misogyny.

We need an organised strategy rather than just complaining by Esseteee in GenderCritical

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maybe go to feminist events and ask subtle questions

Hmm, that's a good idea I haven't actually tried. I generally avoid feminist events these days since every single one I've seen advertised for the last 5 years has a whole paragraph about supporting trans women in the description.

Are you recommending to just go to those events anyway, and see if there are any other crypto-TERFs there? Do you have any advice on what kind of subtle questions I can safely ask?

This is all hypothetical for now since I'm in the US and pretty much can't go anywhere due to the pandemic, but I'd like to have some ideas on what to do when this is all over.

the role of yaoi/anime bL in the “gay” tif (specifically tumblr/twt) community by gencritcurious in GenderCritical

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It IS sad, and making it worse is how these TIFs claim that enjoying the most vanilla gay romance story somehow "fetishizes" gay men, and yet they have no IDEA what horribly disgusting content TIMs look at with other men. And what's hilarious is those TIMs stay in the male spaces where they all jerk off to pedo loli lesbian hentai together and none of the transbian TIMs say SHIT to all the men they're jerking off with. Hell, if anything, they're paying them money to commission even more vile content. While the TIFs are cyberbullying other girls for drawings of characters KISSING. It's ridiculous and insane.

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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Holy shit be careful posting this... your situation sounds extremely unique and you may be identifiable through this info if someone in your community finds this.

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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Welcome! You should check out the book "Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters" by Abigail Shrier. The book is all about how this "trans allyship" narrative is harming kids your age.

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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Your friend is a man, not a woman, and I can pretty much guarantee the "research" he did was actually just watching a lot of porn.

Allies Outside Feminism Proper by black_sheep in GenderCritical

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This is a great idea in theory, but somehow TRAs seem to have taken over literally every group except conservatives.

We need an organised strategy rather than just complaining by Esseteee in GenderCritical

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While this sounds great, there is no way on earth I would try to invite other GC women into my home when I have no way of knowing whether they are legit or not. Any TRA psychopath can pretend to be GC online.

The few women I know IRL who I feel comfortable trying to talk to about this either don't really care, are total TRAs/libfems, or live in other time zones (the US is massive).

We need an organised strategy rather than just complaining by Esseteee in GenderCritical

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Meghan is Canadian but she sued twitter in the US. Last I remember hearing, her suit was thrown out, but as the other user said, she may be appealing (but I don't know).

BBC officially drops Mermaids by Terfenclaw in GenderCritical

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This is a sign that we CANNOT give up! Twitter, reddit, and all other social media may censor us, but they can't and won't censor JK Rowling. And now that someone like her is speaking up, all these organizations that have been ignoring this shit won't be able to any longer. I think BBC dropping Mermaids might be the first in a domino effect.

But I think the dominos are going to fall veeeerrrrry slowly lol. And then in 10 years everyone is going to pretend they never supported this shit in the first place.

Searching for a specific article/rant by luckystar in GenderCritical

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Awesome, thanks!

the role of yaoi/anime bL in the “gay” tif (specifically tumblr/twt) community by gencritcurious in GenderCritical

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Yes, you are exactly correct. "Fujoshi don't interact" is basically a "no girls allowed" sign used by OTHER girls (who "identify" as boys).

And yes, back in my day, everyone knew slash fic was generally by and for women, too. This change to only allow TIFs (and "cis" gay or bi people, but NO straight people) to enjoy slash fiction has only happened within the last 5 years or so.

It has gotten so bad that I have heard of young girls pretending to be TIFs online just to not be bullied out of fandoms.

How dare a Baptist congregation turn down a transwoman pastor by dandeliondynasty in GenderCritical

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Did anyone watch a video of this guy? I have a hard time believing no one knew he was trans until he "came out"... He has a totally normal dude voice (no attempt to sound feminine at all) and uses very male body language.

I wonder why you find it so difficult to call yourself a lesbian? by RedditHatesLesbians in GenderCritical

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He knows if he says it he'll pop a boner. That's why he's uncomfortable.

If you ever thought they weren't hateful.. by Maeven in GenderCritical

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I am actually pretty sure "gender" means "sex" in this case since the next one is "gender identity" which means "trans". (I'm sure soon someone will scream tWaNZpHobiA!!! at the word "sexual orientation" and demand it be changed to "genderual orientation", they just haven't noticed it yet lol.)

But when TIMs scream "kill all TERFs", they aren't targeting us for our sex (or "gender"), they're targeting us for our belief in biological facts, which isn't protected.

It's insane.

Searching for a specific article/rant by luckystar in GenderCritical

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Hmm... If there's any chance it was on Medium, you're out of luck. They censored the shit out of GC authors.

If you ever thought they weren't hateful.. by Maeven in GenderCritical

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Holy fucking shit, you're right.

The hateful conduct policy explicitly says "You may not promote violence against or directly attack or threaten other people on the basis of race, ethnicity, national origin, caste, sexual orientation, gender, gender identity, religious affiliation, age, disability, or serious disease." To me, that implies that promoting violence against people for any other reason is apparently permissible.

Peak Peak: TRAs sabotage their supporters by GuacLettuceBacon in GenderCritical

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I don't know how any of the public rad fems keep calm. Meghan Murphy, especially. I've never seen her look even the slightest bit stressed no matter what is said to her. I would love to have her composure!

the role of yaoi/anime bL in the “gay” tif (specifically tumblr/twt) community by gencritcurious in GenderCritical

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It's just the word for a girl who likes yaoi/anime BL. Like how fans of anime are called "otaku".

If you ever thought they weren't hateful.. by Maeven in GenderCritical

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Did you report this?

I feel like if twitter wants to ban hate speech and promotions of violence, one should be able to report posts like this and every single person who liked it.

Sudden rise of trans characters in media? by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

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What's disturbing is there are far more than just that list. The two I've seen and heard of aren't even on this list. Here is a great article about them.

One of the storylines (about the young FTM from "Good Girls") was especially horrible in my opinion. In the episode where she "came out as trans" to her mom, her mom hugged her and said to her "I always wanted a boy."

The line made me so angry it made my face burn hot. How many young girls have heard that their parents wanted boys? From that line of dialogue, I feel like as a viewer, I can assume that the mother hasn't done a great job of hiding that preference from her daughter who is now saying she's her son. It was infuriating.

We've reached peak crazy. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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It has gotten to the point where I literally cannot understand what they're saying anymore.

"A vagina that appears and functions more similar to a strap-on sex toy"?

Does he mean a penis? Jesus fucking christ.

Can you imagine anatomy text books in a few years? One diagram will say "Reproductive Anatomy of Front Holes" and the other diagram will say "Reproductive Anatomy of Vaginas that Appear and Function More Similar to a Strap-On Sex Toy"

How the social role of being a wife makes women depressed by WhyDoesHeDoThat in GenderCritical

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Men when they get caught watching porn: It's not MY fault, men are VISUAL creatures!

Men when they don't clean their own mess: It's not MY fault, men don't SEE mess!

How the social role of being a wife makes women depressed by WhyDoesHeDoThat in GenderCritical

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Yes, and if the couple needs help getting those tasks done, it's socially acceptable to pay to have typically "male" jobs done (basic car repairs, basic plumbing, lawn care, etc.) but it's looked down upon for a woman to pay for someone to help with typically "female" jobs (housekeeping, in-home childcare, cooking, etc.).

And even if it wasn't, has anyone noticed the typically "female" jobs are DAILY, never-ending work, whereas typically "male" jobs are once a month tasks, or once a week at best?

Bosses tell female employees to be ‘sexier’ for work video meetings, study suggests by greenish in GenderCritical

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"Uhhh, boss, this window is your Zoom meeting, not your cam girl..."

Nonbinary bullshit part 2 - Genderflux. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Can I be Aeon Flux?

(PS: The trans movement has made me roll my eyes every time I hear the word "umbrella"...)

Peak Peak: TRAs sabotage their supporters by GuacLettuceBacon in GenderCritical

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Before anyone comes in here to declare India as one of the "reasonable" ones, let's not forget he was one member of the unfair three versus one attack on Posie Parker here. And despite the numbers, PP kicked their asses.

The man who ambushed and killed a female judge’s family was “A Man Going His Own Way” and militant MRA, with an active online misogynist presence and multiple lawsuits against things as trivial as “Ladies’ Nights” at bars by Complicated-Spirit in GenderCritical

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You'd be hard pressed to find stories like "radical feminist murders trans woman's family"

And let's never forget, "Trans Woman Murders Lesbians' Family" is a real story that really happened, thanks to Dana Rivers!

The man who ambushed and killed a female judge’s family was “A Man Going His Own Way” and militant MRA, with an active online misogynist presence and multiple lawsuits against things as trivial as “Ladies’ Nights” at bars by Complicated-Spirit in GenderCritical

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Wow, isn't it amazing that so many men who "Go Their Own Way," take intentional detours into the "Way" a woman was going to murder/attempt to murder her and her family?

How do you really feel about Joe Biden saying his VP pick will be a black woman? by medium_tomato in GenderCritical

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I agree. Literally millions of jobs have gone to white men because they were white men. Hell, it was the fucking LAW for a significant part of history. The only thing stupid about what Biden is doing is specifically announcing it. Couldn't he have just picked a black woman without saying he was going to? Now he's put a target on her back for men to claim she didn't get the position based on merit. Those men will, of course, omit the fact that millions of white men have benefited from being the only ones eligible for certain jobs for god knows how long, regardless of whether other people had more "merit".

Shouldn't we be generally talking about trans people in general? by TheOnyxGoddess in GenderCritical

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Ah, so you agree with me! TIFs are a big problem, but TIMs are doing more damage. Cool!

I’m so sick of unequal comparisons between women and men on reddit by Confuzzled in GenderCritical

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Exactly. The pressure to do something that improves your life if you succeed is not the same as the pressure to do something that greatly harms your life whether you succeed or fail.

I honestly can't think of a single pressure of femininity that improves one's life except maybe the pressure to eat healthier? (As long as it doesn't result in an eating disorder?)

If we are banned, r/EntitledBitch, r/FuckYouKaren, r/pussypassdenied and all porn subs should be banned. by RIP_r_GenderCritical in GenderCritical

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The thing I hate the most about the Karen shit is that when people ask why there is no male equivalent, there are always 50 comments claiming there is, each one of them supplying a different name.

"Kevin!" "Chad!" "Ken!" "Brent!" "Keith!" Etc.

Oh, yeah? So where are the news headlines using those names? Because I've seen "Karen" used in every major news source, but every time a male exhibits the same behavior, it just says "Man Does [Insert Horrible Thing Here]" whereas if it's a woman, it's "Karen Does [Insert Horrible Thing Here]".

... But there are only 2 genders?? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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sighs and checks notes again

Uhhh, looks like any rules you want are ok. Vampire gender is apparently self-ID. Twilight rules, Buffy rules, Anne Rice rules, take your pick. All vampire genders are valid, no one can question your vamp-gender, blah blah blah. (Or "bleh", I guess.)

I’m so sick of unequal comparisons between women and men on reddit by Confuzzled in GenderCritical

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YES, this fucking shit right here!

The oh so mean and horrible things said to men pressure them to... what? Earn more money? Be more independent? Stand up for themselves?

So if men do what they're told, they end up... successful? And if they don't, they end up what? Less successful?

Women are told to HOLD THEMSELVES BACK, men are told to SUCCEED. Are we really going to pretend those messages have an equal effect on people? Jesus.

Bosses tell female employees to be ‘sexier’ for work video meetings, study suggests by greenish in GenderCritical

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This is the kind of shit that TIMs can't even begin to understand about being a woman. These comments about our looks in EXTREMELY inappropriate settings start so young, most of us probably had some said to us before we ourselves could even talk.

And it goes on our entire lives, following us through school and into the workforce. A lifetime of comments emphasizing the importance of our looks over our minds wears women down. Men see it as a small comment here or there, but for women, it is death by a thousand paper cuts.

And then men, TIMs, and pickmes have the audacity to claim these comments don't matter. That they're "harmless", or that it's just a "sleazy old man," or "don't let it get to you." Uh, it's not about the comment getting to ME, it's about the comment getting to HIM. If that is what he thinks about me, is he going to take me seriously during a salary negotiation? Is he going to respect my ideas at work? Is he going to trust me with complex projects? When he only sees me as a pretty thing for him to enjoy looking at in a Zoom meeting, you don't see how that can affect my career?

FUCK, I'm sick of this shit!

... But there are only 2 genders?? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Ummm, let me check... flips through notes Sorry, you can't... apparently the whole "full moon" thing triggers trans people because of something about it being too similar to periods or something.

Could I interest you in a vampire gender?

the role of yaoi/anime bL in the “gay” tif (specifically tumblr/twt) community by gencritcurious in GenderCritical

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OHHH, I see! So even TIFs aren't allowed to read yaoi anymore because it was written by a fujoshi and they're guilty by association? But the TIFs are allowed to create their own original yaoi fiction/art, since they are "gay men" and not fujoshi? (As long as they don't call it "yaoi" and they're sure to tag it "Fujoshi DON'T INTERACT" lol?)

... But there are only 2 genders?? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Ah, yes. The three genders. Male, female, and... checks notes furry?

the role of yaoi/anime bL in the “gay” tif (specifically tumblr/twt) community by gencritcurious in GenderCritical

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"Genderbender" is transphobic now, lol. Now they trans characters, instead. Sometimes an entire fandom will trans the same character, even when the character is not trans in the source material, and if you refuse to go along with the transing, you're bullied out of the fandom. (Grell Sutcliffe from Black Butler, Hanji Zoe from Attack on Titan, the entire cast of Steven Universe, etc.)

How I feel in lefty spaces now by _UngodlyFruit_ in Troll_GC

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And women's spaces, which are now "women and women-identified people and trans and nonbinary and queer people spaces"!

TRA example of the "No true Scotsman" fallacy by _UngodlyFruit_ in Troll_GC

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Something I noticed with these types of women activists is that they usually fit into a certain box: Middle or upper middle class. College educated, typically in the social sciences or humanities. Often white, and always liberal or left-leaning. Also tend to have a massive saviour complex.

LOL she checked nearly every item on this list.

Shouldn't we be generally talking about trans people in general? by TheOnyxGoddess in GenderCritical

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I'm so glad there's laugh reacts on this site lolololol

"Survivors Must Fight For Trans Women Too" (as an aforementioned survivor, this made me so angry!) by greenish in GenderCritical

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Just once I'd love to see a headline like "Trans Women Must Fight For Cis Women's Right to Maternity Leave, Too" but that's never gonna fuckin' happen.

the role of yaoi/anime bL in the “gay” tif (specifically tumblr/twt) community by gencritcurious in GenderCritical

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Hello, fellow geek! I have been in fandom communities longer than you have been alive, and your perceptions are 100% CORRECT.

This phenomenon has been brewing in fandom for years. The first TIF I ever met was exactly the type you describe: obsessed with yaoi to the point of it being a lifestyle, and she claimed to be a gay man but she only dated other TIFs.

Just as you said, being attracted to the men in yaoi is not the same as being attracted to or being a real man. 99% of those stories are written by women and 99% of that art is drawn by women, those fictional characters' personalities are all created by women, they are literally romantic fantasies created by the imagination of women. It isn't gay men those girls are attracted to, it's the imagination of women. As you said, they're lesbians with extra steps!

One thing that is a bit different in my experience than yours is you said you've seen TIFs hide their love of yaoi so they aren't exposed as women. I have actually seen the opposite! In my experience, young girls come out as TIFs so they are ALLOWED to like yaoi. If they say they like yaoi as girls, they are accused of being fetishizers, sick perverted fujoshi, etc., but if they say they like yaoi but they are TIFs, then suddenly it's ok because they're also "gay men" so they can't be accused of fetishizing gay men. Basically identifying as a TIF works as armor to protect themselves from bullying by the fiction police.

Anyway, I greatly enjoyed your post and I am very impressed you've observed all this at such a young age. It took me years longer than you, lol!

TRA example of the "No true Scotsman" fallacy by _UngodlyFruit_ in Troll_GC

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I fucking love this post. This may be hard to believe but I actually had this exact debate with a TRA a DECADE ago. I'm serious, a fucking DECADE ago.

I was asking her about how, if anyone can be trans with no hormones or anything, and trans women are women and should be allowed in women's bathrooms, what's to stop a man from just walking into a women's bathroom to be a creep and saying he's a trans woman?

She responded... that no man would ever do that because being trans is too painful, so no one would ever pretend to be trans.

By coincidence a story had recently been in the news about some man who hid in literal sewers to look up women's skirts or something, so I asked her how the fuck she can believe a man would lie down in human feces to abuse women, but wouldn't simply walk into a room and say he's trans?

I'd love to tell you all her response but she blocked me.

Ok so my crush tells me about this fun sub, I went to check it out. First rule. (He didn't know what it means) by bellatrixbells in GenderCritical

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"No TERFs" is basically the new "nO gIrlS aLLowED" sign for pathetic little boys' treehouses.

Shower thought: being called “transphobic” is the threat of harassment by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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We're not transphobic, we're TRAnsphobic. It's the Trans Rights Activism mob we're afraid of.

Rick Sanchez on Lesbian Transwomen by girlsrights in GenderCritical

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Love it! FYI we've got a meme sub here, too, that needs content! https://saidit.net/s/Troll_GC

The trans community is missing the point. We don't hate them. We would absolutely be on their side if they would be rational and respect us by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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I was mainly referring to the type of gay TIMs that stay in male spaces and specifically seek out gay men or "chasers". But you're right, there are tons more like you're describing, and the fact I forgot about them so easily illustrates how insidious they are. It's just as bad if not worse that they can muscle their way into women's spaces pretending to be harmless since they "aren't attracted to women, anyway!". But then they leave the door open behind them for all the straight TIMs.

And like you said, they do plenty of their own damage in sports and spreading misogyny with all their "we're better women than ciswomen" bullshit. So you're right! Thanks for the (depressing) reminder.

Shouldn't we be generally talking about trans people in general? by TheOnyxGoddess in GenderCritical

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Of course they are also a problem. I didn't say they aren't a problem, but one is clearly the bigger problem.

To be honest, your post just irked me because I'm sick of posts that complain about what we talk about here. If you want to talk about something else, why don't you talk about it? No one is stopping you (or anyone else who complains about the posts here) from posting about what you want.

Making a "why don't we talk about TIFs" post is a waste of time when you could, you know... make a post talking about TIFs?

People cannot see our sub right now unless they sign up with Saidit or login by Lilith_Fair in GenderCritical

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Unfortunately I think the sub is set up like that on purpose. Saidit only allows moderators to remove opposing opinions if the mods uncheck the setting that allows the sub to appear on /all. See info here.

So I think that may be the setting the mods here are using to protect us from being brigaded by programming socks.

EDIT: Nevermind I didn't realize you said people can't search for any sub at all. In that case I have no idea what's going on lol I'm new.

Lesbian story pulled from biological woman (actress), given to trans identified male to write. Progress circa 2020 by aka_deja_vu in GenderCritical

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LOL at all the Scarlett Johansson bashing in the article. I'm sure she'll never find work again now that she's a known transphobe. /s

This sub would benefit from a "Trans-free Thursday" by Bitchcraft in GenderCritical

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Exactly, if we make Tuesday the women-only day, it would still be Taco Tuesday! Wouldn't even have to change the name!

All Harry Potter cast members come out as trans. JK Rowling's head explodes... by Greykittymomma in GenderCritical

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Damn, a gender-swapped Harry Potter would have been awesome.

There's no way Luna would have that haircut, though lol.

Upvote good, thoughtful comments that are not unduly mean! TRAs lost their ability to brigade and downvote ''sane TERFs'' on reddit to make us look more toxic. They're terrified people might see we're reasonable and it will work! by venecia in GenderCritical

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We'll just have to agree to disagree that the post is mean. In my opinion, the post is low-effort, lame, and certainly not what I come here for, but I simply don't consider it mean.

But I definitely agree with you and see your point about how when you hold the less popular view, "you have to display an almost unfair level of excellence to avoid having your views discounted". That is very true!

Upvote good, thoughtful comments that are not unduly mean! TRAs lost their ability to brigade and downvote ''sane TERFs'' on reddit to make us look more toxic. They're terrified people might see we're reasonable and it will work! by venecia in GenderCritical

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I agree with that, never said I didn't.

What I'm taking issue with is that there have been multiple posts today saying we are mean, but I have not seen any posts that are mean in my opinion. The OP of this post cited an example for me of what she thought was mean, and in my opinion it was hardly mean compared to TRAs saying we should shut up by having lady dicks shoved in our mouths and that JK Rowling should be raped.

Upvote good, thoughtful comments that are not unduly mean! TRAs lost their ability to brigade and downvote ''sane TERFs'' on reddit to make us look more toxic. They're terrified people might see we're reasonable and it will work! by venecia in GenderCritical

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I mean it's a lame, low-effort post (sorry, original OP) but it's... not really comparable to what TRAs say to us. If THAT is the standard for "unduly mean" and "toxic" for women we are pretty much screwed, lol.

Upvote good, thoughtful comments that are not unduly mean! TRAs lost their ability to brigade and downvote ''sane TERFs'' on reddit to make us look more toxic. They're terrified people might see we're reasonable and it will work! by venecia in GenderCritical

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What are you referring to, though? I haven't seen what you're describing and yet I've seen 3 posts just like this one in a single day. Can you provide an example?

Shouldn't we be generally talking about trans people in general? by TheOnyxGoddess in GenderCritical

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TIFs and TIMs are different because men and women are different.

One of these two groups is demanding lesbians suck dick, demanding entry to women's prisons and homeless shelters and raping them when they get there, demanding inclusion on women's shortlists, demanding women's positions on sports teams, demanding access to women's scholarships, and demanding the right to be a rape counselor so they can get their jollies listening to women recount their trauma.

The other of the two groups writes smutty gay fanfiction and cuts their hair short.

Feminism is about helping women. Which of the two groups above sounds like the bigger problem for women?

This sub would benefit from a "Trans-free Thursday" by Bitchcraft in GenderCritical

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Trans-free Tuesday has better alliteration lol.

GC is about protecting BOTH women and trans! by Overdrive in GenderCritical

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Yep. I've never once seen a TIM advocate for better maternity leave in the US, but I sure have seen plenty of them demand childfree women give them a uterus.