Ever notice how even animals hate men?

Rao · 2020-09-03T03:40:23+00:00

Even though they've made bitch just another word for woman it is true they respect and like actual bitches more.

Rao · 2020-08-22T20:02:07+00:00

Thank you for saying this. I felt like I was going nuts when I realized this is what's happening. All on Twitter is minors and I assume women claiming that you can be attracted to men and still a lesbian. They just say, "but comphet exists" as soon as there is some het activity by a girl/woman and then they determine that despite that she's a lesbian. It's very frustrating to see played out and it's no wonder so many supposed lesbians are fucking/dating men and no one thinks it's even possible to be a lesbian. And what's worse is this is the popular consensus and if you speak against it you're going to be the odd one out and dragged. Saying, "Lesbians aren't attracted to men in anyway." will legit have these females come after you and one who was a dude I assume threatened to beat me to death. That's were we are right now.

Rao · 2020-08-21T04:02:27+00:00

The thing is the concept of comphet is basically invalidating lesbianism in its totality because comphet is used by bisexuals and straights to justify why a supposed lesbian is attracted to men. It's legitimatizing the idea lesbians aren't real and we are attracted to men. Like, that's kinda why we're all exiled on this site - the idea lesbianism and women are inclusive concepts. I really appreciate this thread because my ideas were concisely addressed here and I can see I'm not the only one alarmed about this. Plus, I'd argue since the membership is so small, any activity is better than no activity because once people see it's dead then it's a wrap.

Rao · 2020-08-21T03:42:04+00:00

What do you think of OP here; she said because she was sexually abused as a child she has sexual attraction to men if the context is non consensual.

https://www.reddit.com/r/febfems/comments/i9sf5i/how_did_you_know_you_were_febfem/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Rao · 2020-08-16T03:09:51+00:00

Tell that to the women here who believe if you're a misandrist you actually want men. Like, I understand that bi women have made that notion suspect but that doesn't mean it's misandristic lesbians don't exist. Idk, it's just exhausting having your sexuality questioned all the damn time and for something as asinine as hating your oppressor class really truly rubs.

Rao · 2020-08-16T03:06:02+00:00

I don't disagree and wasn't claiming otherwise.

Rao · 2020-08-07T21:50:11+00:00

What is? Without me having to read that blog again.

Rao · 2020-08-06T13:54:59+00:00

Yeah, I do suspect the sexuality of people who hate men to the point of being proud misandrists

You believe it's impossible to be a misandrist and a lesbian?

Rao · 2020-08-06T13:36:11+00:00

Yup but women also don't have a choice because if they don't fuck men and have their babies then men will immediately increase rape and possibly other violence.

Rao · 2020-08-03T20:37:40+00:00

OK, so, I'm a real lesbian who really hates men but if I was honest about that then my community would call into question my sexuality like the rest of the world does in addition to whatever social consequences exist for being an open misandrist. Thus, I'm not honest about my feelings and others like you see and conclude that actual lesbians don't care enough to hate men. Get it now?

Rao · 2020-08-03T09:38:19+00:00

When in my experience actual lesbians (myself included) don't really care enough to hate guys like that.

I think being really anti-men is another red flag for a "lesbian".

But can you see how this is an inherently self fulfilling prophecy?

Rao · 2020-08-03T08:06:17+00:00

Lmao omg dm each other istg 🙄😂

Rao · 2020-07-22T21:06:19+00:00

Well said and I know this but I guess I didn't want to accept it because I wanted to believe that due to existing on multiple axes of oppression and being women ourselves that lesbians would be more aware and driven to prioritize women not just in their own social lives.

I wish you did go on though I've recently come to feel separatism, in numbers, won't solve the over arching problems of male violence and socioeconomic class warfare. I think it's necessary to begin to force change quickly but perhaps it's just a part of a solution. I'm not sure.

Rao · 2020-07-21T21:16:23+00:00

I'm glad your life hasn't resulted in anything that ever reminded you of that period until just now. I wish I could have met them.

Rao · 2020-07-20T06:25:15+00:00

Why is their inclination to rape separate from their humanity? How isn't it all just part of the overall package? Because if we're here to fulfill biological imperatives to breed then why wouldn't we expect rape not to be men's inclination especially when they don't get the sex and relationships they want? Personally, if men can be taught not to be an inherent threat to girls and women I'd like to see it and not accepting anything less is how we can reconcile risking not only our lives but our friends and families to co-exist, fuck and produce more males.

Rao · 2020-07-19T18:24:15+00:00

What does this mean?

Rao · 2020-07-19T11:01:09+00:00

Separatism may seem like a natural conclusion to some, but for others it comes with too many practical limitations and ramifications.

I get this and tho I find the sentiment very ill advised I just find it very odd separatism is barely discussed despite whatever political affiliations. Even if just for the spirit of discussion and debate, one would think it wouldn't be such a dead topic.

Rao · 2020-07-19T02:40:08+00:00

I posted a video in here about how female separatism isn't only about running off into the woods to be with only women

https://youtu.be/w_8SrqFoSTg

And I summarized it in my response to censorshipment but it's a very good listen for fleshing it out better. In short, it's about prioritizing women. I personally believe that the censorship and lack of community and even being robbed in various way of the title of lesbian is just another feature of misogyny and I believe separatism is a solution to it all once and for all. Our right to separate is being taken away and I personally don't get why lesbians especially are just resolved to complain about this facet of misogyny online, where we can even gather online for now.

Rao · 2020-07-19T02:12:53+00:00

just seems silly and unnecessary. That's my personal opinion though.

I get there are lesbians who feel this way but it's not who I'm addressing this question to. I'm trying to gauge the perceptions of those who get it. I guess I should have included women who think it's unnecessary in my OP but I thought that was implied.

Rao · 2020-07-18T23:33:47+00:00

As I understand female separatism it can be two things: one being the women's lands you mentioned and the other the prioritization of women instead of men.

This summarizes it quite well and I share this because I've seen other women understand this falls under female separatism so I know it's not a concept only familiar to this poster: (warning, she's a misandrist, lesbian, radical feminist, anti natalist who doesn't pull any punches) https://youtu.be/w_8SrqFoSTg (I listened to her at 2x speed).

To summarize: Like, arguments against complete withdrawal from male civilization because it isn't feasible are easy to understand but the idea that women should cut men out their lives and focus their time, money, resources, personal relationships, love, etc exclusively on other women isn't. So, it's about your personal life - these women don't fuck, date, live with (as best they can), be friends with nor associate with men with maybe male family members being an exception. Like I said, even if there was disinterest or disagreement I rarely see it being spoken among lesbians.

Rao