It's transphobic to describe yourself as "same sex attracted", according to AskTransgender.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T22:24:54+00:00

Biological sex and gender being the same is a product of European colonization, not an inherent trait of society.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T22:24:10+00:00

When they physically express using their voice or other forms of communication, they identify as a man or a woman if their gender identity becomes your business.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T22:13:52+00:00

I see absolutely no reason why I should be forced to accept someone else's choice.

Because the alternative is forcing others to accept the choice you make for them. Someone else's gender identity is none of your business, and it not your place to decide what gender someone is.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T22:12:16+00:00

A cis man is going to identify as a man, and a trans woman is going to identify as a woman.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T22:10:51+00:00

Also, we know this from anthropology

You mean anthropology conducted by white people participating in the genocide of indigenous cultures?

There is such a thing as science

Europeans scientists used to treat infectious diseases with leeches and mercury.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T22:09:30+00:00

Gender refers to masculinity and femininity,

Nope. A masculine women is a woman, a feminine boy is a boy.

That doesn't mean that people pretending to be the opposite sex should be "validated" by all of society and encouraged to alter or not alter themselves.

Why not?

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T22:08:14+00:00

Who decides if gender is a social construct or not?

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T22:06:08+00:00

What specific right do trans people threaten for cis women?

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T22:05:28+00:00

Projection, but nice try incel.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T22:04:14+00:00

However, you weren't arguing that someone who believes they are a "man with a vagina" isn't delusional.

Nope, if someone says they are a man and they identify as a man, then they are a man. There's no delusion, it's just their identity, even if they have a vagina.

It's very harmful to "validate" a person's delusions

But if it's not a delusion, wouldn't it also be harmful to invalidate someone's actual identity? Like, if I insist that a woman is a man, and I force her to be a man, isn't that also harmful?

If a "man" can be anyone, why should the word even exist?

Anyone can be a teacher, or a doctor, or a homeless person, but many people will not.

man" describes material reality and is extremely relevant, especially medically.

Male is more important, since intersex and female people can identify as men, but don't have "male" chromosomes or sexual characteristics.

It's also particularly relevant when it comes to women's rights, as women have certain sex-segregated spaces to prevent them from being disadvantaged in society.

You mentioned bathrooms. If a woman is a rapist who targets women, or a serial killer who specifically targets women, or a domestic abuser who beats her girlfriends, which bathroom is she using? Male or Female?

If a cis man pretends to be a woman and sneaks into a woman's bathroom to rape a woman, it's still a cis man doing the crime.

The way you worded this is so strange, almost as if you believe (or believe that we believe) the very existence of men is harmful.

Men commit over 70% of violent crime in America and over 85% of homocides. Is it biologically pre-determined that men are more violent than women? https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2012/crime-in-the-u.s.-2012/tables/42tabledatadecoverviewpdf/table_42_arrests_by_sex_2012.xls

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:50:36+00:00

Extra "genders" come out of societies that have very rigid and strict gender roles

You don't know this, because you're not a member of an indigenous society, so the only framework to compare it with is your white, colonial society. Remember: Indigenous societies suffered centuries of genocide and enslavement

Women, who were also heavily oppressed

Again, this is a product of European colonization, not a feature inherent to indigenous societies.

extra "gender" was never an extra "gender" to begin with and was just a different social class.

Gender is a social construct, so yes, it operates as a different social group.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:43:19+00:00

Huh? I though the bisexual incel was trying to say something.

You're not bisexual. You're by yourself.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:41:28+00:00

Because your idea of gender is a product of your upbringing in a colonial system where you think you benefit from a rigid, binary, sex linked definition of gender.

In promoting these colonial values, you marginalize trans people and indigenous people with gender identities that do not fit the colonial narrative.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:38:47+00:00

That because the systems colonized societies have been built on are systemically biased.

For example: If you make having curly, 4c hair illegal, Black people are going to suffer more from that law, even though the law treats everyone equally.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:35:41+00:00

So Europeans were bad for indigenous societies, because of the slavery and genocide. Colonization was BAD.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:32:08+00:00

So you're saying indigenous people deserved genocide and slavery? Or that genocide and slavery were "good" for indigenous people?

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:28:55+00:00

hear this claim a lot, but it's always followed by "but you're bigoted if you don't"

Which is a lie, because I'm not telling you to have sex with anyone. I am saying "nobody is willing to have sex with you", because you're a creep obsessed with trans people.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:26:06+00:00

Other cultures having very strict gender roles and oppressing men

Which is a product of European colonization and exploitation.

everything European is bad and everything non-European is good

I would HAPPILY trade everything "good" you think Europeans did in exchange for sparing indigenous people slavery and genocide.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:24:41+00:00

You mean "decolonizing cis-heteronormative ideas of sex, gender, and love following centuries of European genocide and the white criminalization of queer relationships and identities that are/were a normal feature of indigenous societies."

Remember: White people CAUSED the problems we are now working to solve. Do better Caucasian colonizers.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:21:40+00:00

Actually, normal, healthy people are not attracted to themselves

Hey bestie, this is called "telling on yourself", and the fact that you're unattractive and ugly is abnormal.

won't actually become aroused at the fact that they are female

Wow, a bisexual who can't find the clitoris. Yawn.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:18:08+00:00

It is the "I want to get in sexually incompatible partners pants"

This is projection, because nobody (cis or trans) is trying to get into your pants babe.

"I want to force society to bend over to my harmful delusions"

What, specifically and measurably, is harmful about a man with a vagina in a way that a man with a penis is not harmful?

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:15:07+00:00

Actually, it is a pressing issue that some trans people want to redefine the words gay and lesbian

It doesn't matter because you don't have to have sex with anyone.

opposite-sex people want to have sex with (rape) homosexuals

Just to be clear: NOBODY wants to fuck you, cis or trans. You're safe.

Pizzaslut71 · 2021-07-03T21:11:07+00:00

Trans people and the separation of sex and gender are a normal part of non-colonial cultures, but White cis people aren't ready for that conversation.

Transphobia is literally a construct of European colonization and White supremacy. White people like you are literally manufacturing your own oppression

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