Does anyone know any good, active discord servers for me to join??? by udhsu in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There's an app called Culb Monocle, it's %100 a lesbian only app. I've been on it for a while and I love it there! Everyone is supportive and it's active.

Does anyone need invite codes to Ovarit? by ShieldMaiden in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do. It's been kind of quite in here lately and reddit isn't an option anymore.

Weekly Social Chat by artemisiagrey in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Week went well! Just went back to work after two weeks off because of an injury that made it near impossible to do my job properly, so I'm happy to be back and moving around again. The only thing I want to do now is enjoy the air conditioner and my couch for my one day off.

Is it too late? Is it even worth it at this point? by Philliy in Lesbians

[–]Philliy[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was more or less asking if it's worth it at this point. And I know I still have work to do when it comes to myself. I've made a lot of progress since I turned 18, but still being somewhat of a hot mess at my age, I'd wondered if it there was a point to it. I'm definitely not looking for someone to fix me. I do have a hole that I feel needs to be filled, but I've witnessed so many of my family members use their partners to try and "fix" them, and I'd never do that. I've seen the damage it does.

And another one! by Philliy in Lesbians

[–]Philliy[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hope it gets easier for you, and you find someone who shares the same feelings.

And another one! by Philliy in Lesbians

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I'm thinking that's what might have happened this time, but it's another learning lesson for the future.

Wow so much woman-hating on a lesbian forum by Blueegg in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why as a straight woman are you in a space for lesbians?! And then you have the nerve to get mad about us venting. How does that make sense.

What is everyone doing for Halloween? by WildwoodFlower in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I will be working, and I might indulge in some vegetable cake.

War against women: women's pad and tampon company removes female symbol from products by PriestTheyCalledHim in LGBDropTheT

[–]Philliy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I won't be using that brand anymore.

Interesting Body Parts by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

The neck. I have know idea why but the neck gets me breathing heavy.

Looking for feedback on my profile. What can I do better? Any feedback is welcomed. Thank you in advance. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I honestly couldn't say. My best guess would be loss of interest or them finding someone else that held their attention. The first macth was busy. She is a school teacher. The other two I'm not sure what happened. I thought the conversations were going well.

Navigating online dating: etiquette, tips, thoughts? by emilyprentiss in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Taking notes because I still don't know what I'm doing.

Looking for feedback on my profile. What can I do better? Any feedback is welcomed. Thank you in advance. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! I appreciate it! The app is called Hinge. It has a way different vibe from the other dating apps I've tried so far.

How long do you wait until you move on? by Philliy in Lesbians

[–]Philliy[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you!

Looking for feedback on my profile. What can I do better? Any feedback is welcomed. Thank you in advance. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ah, I see what you mean. I think they read that way because I'm just more direct in what I say. That's a good idea though. I'll give it a go.

Looking for feedback on my profile. What can I do better? Any feedback is welcomed. Thank you in advance. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've been on the app for two months. I had a macth the end of July. That match felt promising but she either lost interest or life got in the way, which seeing as this year is a whole mess I understand completely. Other than the one I spoke to for almost a month, I've had other matches but the conversations drop off.

Looking for feedback on my profile. What can I do better? Any feedback is welcomed. Thank you in advance. by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well, I hope my profile is putting off a serious relationship wanting woman who can be goffy and not take herself too seriously vibe. I feel like my prompts and pictures together do that.

Punch gay men if they reject you by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

[–]Philliy 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

So what happens when gay men punch back? I'm very curious what the outcome will be, and how many shocked faces there are going to be.

How long do you wait until you move on? by Philliy in Lesbians

[–]Philliy[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Welp I unmatched her. Almost a week went by with no response. I just assumed she was no longer interested, talking to someone else, super busy, or all three together. Thought it'd be best to not be hung up on my first macth.

Here’s the update you asked for by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

OMG!

How long do you wait until you move on? by Philliy in Lesbians

[–]Philliy[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It feels odd talking to other women while I'm talking the one I am right not, but I understand what you're saying.

Oh and I like your name!

How long do you wait until you move on? by Philliy in Lesbians

[–]Philliy[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks! I will!

How long do you wait until you move on? by Philliy in Lesbians

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Thank you! That makes so much sense. I sometimes forget that this year is completely differnt from any other year we lived.

Discord Servers by SplendidTwenties in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'd like a invite if there's a discord being set up for us.

What are the most lesbian friendly cities? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Where are these women in Dallas?! Do you have a map?

Finally found y'all! by Lesbiian in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Welcome!

What was your worst date experience? by fieryoyster in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"How many lesbians can say that GOD took a personal interest in their dating life."

I'm honestly still waiting for that to happen.

Lesbian Actually? by hatsofpotato in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It wasn't 100% like that when I first got on reddit, but that's a completely different story now. That sub is a lost cause.

Anyone read The Stars Are Legion? by writerlylesbian in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation. I'll give it a go.

Favorite features on women by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The mannerisms she's not aware of. Sometimes when I'm crushing, I'll notice small things she does without even thinking about it.

Another letter coming to an LGBTQIAPplus family... awwww by fijupanda in LGBDropTheT

[–]Philliy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How many letter left in the alphabet now?

A mere sample of all the trans focused posts on r/askgaybros in the last 10 days: Receipts by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

[–]Philliy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you! Their side doesn't understand or care really.

Just realized r/trueolderlesbians is still a thing by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yup, they are getting bored now. Looking for anything that's not bent to their will. A small victory even if the sub is dead.

What are some small, but measurable ways we can contribute to lesbians spaces (online or irl) and culture? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I love this idea! Just a simple and cut lesbian convention. Nothing extra.

Chat rooms? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'd be interested in joining the discord

Their reaction to us beinf banned. Sickening. by TheCatsEyeNebula in LGBDropTheT

[–]Philliy 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They are happy the people(we) who speak the truth and won't be bullied are gone.

TL is No More by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I put a post up too in lesbian actually I guess just to vent, and it's still up. Someone over there is sleeping.

July 31, My Final Lesbian Reddit Brigade by AshleyBackwoods in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ah, the first troll

Thankful for this sub... I NEED to say something... by harlemtropic in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I really don't think that's what they're doing. The Lesbian community was attacked as well as other subs for basically wanting to practice free speech. The mods need to be careful with one of few last remaining subs for Lesbians. I'm sure in time it will open back up, but I'd rather they take the measures they are right now so TL can stay alive.

Do NOT Panic! by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Philliy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ah, that's great news! I just finished work and the one Lesbian sub I was active on is gone.