Had a phone date with a new guy ruined over trans rights when neither of us are even trans

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-18T05:01:06+00:00

I think you dodged a bullet. These kinds of ideologies tend to attract people who are otherwise toxic. I would not date a TRA not only because I disagree on a very personal and moral level, but because almost all of the TRAs I've known have been emotionally abusive to some degree.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-15T18:00:45+00:00

"Trans men dont want anything to do with your nasty ass"

Then why the fuck don't they leave us alone?

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-27T19:52:48+00:00

The name of this comic ("Assigned Male") is technically anti-intersex, but, I bet the TRA who makes them doesn't care about that!

Also the "trans people can have any genitalia and look like anything" is nonsense. When's the last time you met a "trans man" who was biologically male with a functioning penis? When's the last time you met a "trans woman" with a real vagina & was born female? Exactly.

Don't tell me that I should be open to dating "trans men" because they can "look like anything", when 95% of them don't get "Bottom surgery" and those that do don't even have functional penises. They are female. I am not attracted to females, there is nothing I can do about this. If I could do something about it, I could.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-09-29T00:02:46+00:00

I'm not afraid that I see them that way.

I tried to be "open minded." I tried giving them a chance, hell, I even still do. To this day I come across trans people in my hobby groups online (and rarely, IRL) and I NEVER initiate hostility towards them, but nine times out of ten they pretty much always cause problems

I believe the very concept of transgenderism is highly selfish and narcissistic. It is basically the concept of lying about your identity (sex, name, sometimes some of them go further and lie about their nationality, past, or other life details) and usually being very open with the fact that is a fabrication, but expecting people to conform to it and change their lives to convenience you. Demanding what words they can and can't use for you, demanding that they see you a certain way, that you need to consider them as dates or sexual partners, that you need to support them financially.

No other group does this on such a large scale. I look androgynous in real life, it's not uncommon for me to be mistakenly be referred to as female, but I don't believe I have the right to rudely demand that people stop doing it or else they're committing hate crimes against me. Mostly because it really doesn't matter. I can't control how others see me, I can't control how they refer to me, and that's coming from someone who has a very fragile self esteem and is constantly paranoid that everyone is laughing at me.

No one but those who are incredibly narcissistic have the entitlement to pull that off, let alone attempt to flip it to make it seem like people who don't comply are evil and worthless. It's no wonder that most of them are toxic people. The ones that aren't tend to be those who are misguided, coerced into transitioning for one reason or another, and tend to be less grounded in their beliefs (as in, they believe it with less sincerity and usually end up detransitioning)

People keep telling me I can't judge a community based on "a few bad apples. " But it's not a few. When ninety-five percent of your apple orchard is rotting and festering, I think it's time that you reconsidered running an apple farm. Even if you occasionally find one or two unspoiled does not mean you don't have some kind of mass blight infecting all your crops.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-22T18:44:27+00:00

You know it's bad when furries have to explain basic biology to people

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-22T03:10:02+00:00

"all sentient being gave me masc traits"

Uhh what. What are "masc traits", if you're not referring to physical sex or secondary sex characteristics? Liking sports or having an opinion? Fuck off with that

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-08T03:14:42+00:00

That statement is so bizarre to me, because it sounds like it's written from the POV of a person who has never been attracted to another human being. Even if you are bisexual or "pansexual", what exactly does this person think attraction is, and what are we attracted to? I can't think of anyone who seriously thinks "ah yeah, I am SO turned on by the arbitrary non-physical intangible 'identity' you made up for yourself".

It's also a metaphorical slap in the face to those of us who are attracted to the same sex, but not the gender roles associated with that sex. I'm attracted to dicks but I'm not at all into masculinity, what does that make me? Am I "straight" because the guys I would ideally like would be feminine? What the hell.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-17T23:06:23+00:00

I'd only expect factual, pristine and reliable information from an account named "squirting isn't pee"

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-17T17:34:36+00:00

A part of me wants reddit to ban AskGayBros for being a "hate sub." Because unlike this sub and the other victims of the ban waves, it's more "mainstream." If it gets banned for "transphobia" there's going to be a much bigger backlash, and hopefully, that will lead to positive action.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-16T17:30:16+00:00

I really hope this is a troll post, I can't believe someone could be THIS stupid to walk into an all-men sex party as a not even "transitioned" FTM and be SURPRISED AND UPSET that they see her as female.

I'm an ACTUAL guy with a penis, but I also have feminine secondary sex characteristics. Never once have I felt iNvAlIdAtEd AnD hAtEd when guys have expressed to me that they're not into me because of it. (Though usually it's a wtf moment because I never actively seek out guys anyway, but thanks for telling me you're not into me even though I didn't ask?)

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-19T19:54:16+00:00

A trans person in health of all things? Great! Expect Biden & his team to say OK to child abuse and stripping the rights of people with sexual development disorders.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-25T20:46:14+00:00

I've argued with SJW types in the real world. You know what they do? They fall awkwardly silent. The best thing to do, should you come across one, is to play dumb and keep asking questions. Because then you get to watch them realize their arguments unravel before your very eyes and ears. When keyboard warriors don't hide behind a screen there's nothing they can do.

I've seen plenty of people online threaten people with violence for using the wrong pronouns but the worst I've seen it in real life was a very quiet "u-um I'm a... they...". When they have to say it out loud, I think they start to realize how stupid they are.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-24T17:21:24+00:00

It's propaganda. Hence why a lot of children's cartoons are now introducing trans/nonbinary characters. They're trying to "normalize" their movement and promote it as a progressive, happy and innocent thing for all ages, when it's really more akin to a dangerous cult.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-30T19:41:41+00:00

"We hate capitalism"

So did you buy those cat ears and lipsticks or did you steal them? lol

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-18T03:55:05+00:00

Literally "brokeback" because HRT gives you weak bones, lol

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-11-17T20:22:53+00:00

"Chaser" if you fuck them, "transphobe" if you don't.

Honestly, it just seems like they want to complain & blame people for being "bigoted" no matter what. They don't actually feel bad, "excluded" or mistreated, they just want to be toxic to people.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-27T02:17:00+00:00

Hrrrrmmmmmm it's almost like all these people are very mentally unwell, who would've guessed?

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-11-17T20:21:17+00:00

Meanwhile intersex people lack rights to their own bodily autonomy in most countries, especially in first world "progressive" ones, and trans people still have the audacity to claim that we have it easier than them.

Classic fucking narcissistic behavior, eh?

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-09-14T00:36:05+00:00

The intersex one is, unsurprisingly, completely medically inaccurate and offensive. Most of us ARE male or female, it's insulting AND scientifically wrong to say that, for example, a male with XXY syndrome is not male. And we are NOT "part of the LGBTQ+ community." Intersex people have repeatedly been asked to NOT be included yet trans activists keep doing this shit against our wishes.

This is disturbing because intersex is not an "identity" and it's not trivial language changing. if you teach your kids this shit and they meet someone with an intersex disorder then they will proceed to see them as an "other" and be more likely to discriminate. As well as the fact that the chance a kid with an intersex disorder reads this they're going to feel shit about themselves because the book is telling them they're basically an alien he-she that doesn't belong with men and women. It's gross.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-09-06T18:34:50+00:00

Because of my abnormally wide hips, I often buy clothes from the women's section in stores (either online or in person)

I am, however, a guy and I have no doubt about that. Penis is definitely present. But you don't see me harassing these store owners, going "WHY IS IT LABELED FOR WOMEN??? GUYS WITH SEXUAL DEVELOPMENT DISORDERS NEED CLOTHES TOO!!! RENAME IT TO "PERSXN WITH WIDE HIPS' CLOTHING"

Like, for real, someone try and explain this to me because I don't get it - I don't have any problem viewing myself as the "outlier." 99.9% if not more, of the population is not like me. I am abnormal. And I've made peace with that, because if I didn't, how would I survive? Recognizing that I'm different and have a disorder is not saying I'm an inferior person. So why don't trans people do the same? What's wrong with admitting that you are an outlier? And if you, a FTM, are so sure you are a "real man" why does it bother you to use a woman's product so much? I am 100% confident in being a guy, and I use women's clothes, women's shampoos, etc. Not once has it made me feel less male (though I don't have a sense of masculinity to begin with, so lol) or like my penis is missing.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-08-19T17:29:09+00:00

As a feminine guy, calling this clown in colorful lipstick "feminine" feels insulting to both me and women as a whole. Femininity is more than just makeup and this guy acts "masculine" in that he's entitled anyway

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-03-09T20:11:22+00:00

And as a GNC guy with long hair and paints his nails...? I'm sick of being pushed into the "nonbinary" category. I swear, within the last couple of years there's been a sudden increase in people "theying" GNC people against their will. It never used to happen as bad, sure, maybe 5 years ago I'd get called a "they" out of a person not knowing, but then when I corrected them they'd switch to "he."

Now? It doesn't matter how many times I correct someone, I keep being called "they" and it often feels like a passive aggressive statement because they're telling me because of what I am (visibly androgynous, etc) I must be an "other." Other times it just seems like they don't pay attention enough to remember the 50 times I said I was a guy. Either way, it doesn't feel good.

Not to mention my medical condition (intersex) is also lumped in with "LGBTQIA" (Even though the LGBT is literally anti intersex in every way...) so people probably think I'm one of those annoying snowflakes just because of a genetic defect I can't control. Great.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-13T18:56:51+00:00

My favorite is when FTM say they hate "fujoshi" (Literally what they are - Women who fetishize gay men/are fans of yaoi manga) but turn around and say that yaoi "made them realize they were gay boys"

What these fucking idiots don't understand that Yaoi is NOTHING like reality and it's actually rather discriminatory/sexist, the smaller or more feminine male is always the "bottom" and is often depicted as being abused by the other male. Don't get me wrong, real homosexual relationships aren't happiness and rainbows either (especially if you are a feminine guy) but my point is, the fact that these (usually teenage) girls are reading smut full of rape, abuse, sadomasochism etc and then use it as something to look up to and BECOME disturbs me.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-09-19T19:10:42+00:00

So if anyone was wondering why I fucking hate "transmedicalists" and think they are worse than "transtrenders", THIS IS FUCKING WHY.

These people truly are scum, as they tend to literally name themselves. The entitlement is insane and it makes me furious that they think intersex people are more recognized and are treated better. IT'S THE OTHER WAY AROUND. Most people know what trans is, few people know what intersex is, and I've heard stories that healthcare providers prioritize hormone treatment for trans patients who want it over intersex patients who NEED it for their physical health. Intersex people are an actual oppressed minority, and one of our biggest oppressors is trans people.

Fuck transmedicalists/"truscum." Fuck the false claim of "LGBTQI" - the LGBTQ fucking HATES us intersex people and treats us like dirt.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-17T18:19:45+00:00

Ok, what rights did Marsha give me exactly? What rights did I lack before, as a closeted Russian? Go on, I'll wait.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-16T23:53:02+00:00

Reminder that there is about a 99.7% chance that this is a HUMILIATION fetish - because men like this see being female & female body functions as inherently shameful. It's not just creepy and stalkerish, the fact that they get off on this says a lot about how they view women in everyday life.

Never believe the lie that kinks "stay in the bedroom." I can tell you with experience that they don't. Men who get off on being humiliated by "being made into a woman" are sexist outside of the bedroom, and men who get off on "dominating" others are narcissistic assholes in everyday life too.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-20T13:35:14+00:00

I don't "feel about it." I don't care what other people do. As long as they do it away from me and don't force me to be included. That goes for both men who date "trans men" and men who date hyper macho toxic guys. I don't want any of that in my life.

Also "valid" is a fucking meaningless word just FYI. I don't think trans people are "valid" nor is anyone, it means nothing.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-03-25T07:57:59+00:00

Oooh. This might be it, guys. Looks like the alphabetti spaghetti collapse is going mainstream. I'd like to see them bounce back from this one...

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-18T05:02:50+00:00

How'd we go from "thinking gay people are perverts is bad" to "Being gay/kweer is ALL ABOUT being a pervert and doing dumb shit!"

I mean, for fuck's sake, I have an extremely high libido and a sexual addiction, and even I won't fuck random dudes behind the shady fast food joint.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-15T18:48:04+00:00

Nah, he pulled TWAW/TMAM at the end there.

Also, "ironic" homophobia isn't really a problem. Some of us use humor to cope. If we see "fag" as a funny, nonsensical word, it stops being seen as offensive. Saying "trans men are men" is far more anti-gay than using the word "fag" in jest.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-03-10T20:34:31+00:00

Many create the most eye-wateringly awful "art"

It sounds ridiculous but I swear to fuck there is a "trans art style." Like, I can tell if someone is a trans teenager by looking at their art. It's usually akin to the "CalArts style" (think Steven Universe and similar cartoons, simplified blobby shapes, bean shaped mouths) but a lot more messier, often with scribbly lineart, and features that seem deliberately ugly like massive ears, flushed noses, and droopy eyelids. It's honestly unpleasant to look at.

If you want (many) examples, go to the image generator website Picrew. Picrew is a Japanese language art site for making icon generators, but in 2019 western/American SJW types mass colonized it and filled it with LGBTQ+ propaganda and shitty art. It almost sounds racist of me to say but there's always a clear jump in quality between Japanese/Korean created works and Western/American ones, but I think that's because yes, a low of SJWs are kids.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-31T04:58:44+00:00

Don't feel bad for them, they are (actually) homophobic, sexist, and anti-intersex. They are much more dangerous than other trans because they use psuedoscience that seems believable at first pass to get their way, and are more likely to change laws & influence society than idiot kids identifying as stargender.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-08T19:59:35+00:00

I posted a thread there recently in response to a HIGHLY UPVOTED anti-intersex post, basically saying to them, look, this is unacceptable - why do you guys post & enjoy such blatantly discriminatory content? Why must you use our existence to further yourselves at our expense?

And shockingly, I didn't get banned, but within MINUTES of the most I had some random "nonbinary" guilt tripping me and being like "I was born nonbinary, don't you ever say it was a choice!" when I didn't even fucking MENTION anything about it other than "People are trying to use the existence of intersex people to prove nonbinary is good/valid/real, when these two concepts aren't remotely related."

I also got generic dumbfuck comments from people who clearly didn't read the post and don't care like "ur valid honey, intersex people will always be part of this community uwu" after I specifically made a post saying we shouldn't be discussed in a LGBT sub if they can't respect us, let alone the fact that a medical condition is not a goddamn identity, gender, or sexuality.

It really is a weird, brainwashed place. People don't read most posts, they'll just drop a generic "you're valid" comment, which means absolutely nothing and contributes nothing. And if they DO actually read, well then they suddenly get offended over it, especially if you bring up a real issue or concern you'll be accused of bigotry.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-11-15T19:19:04+00:00

Like that time they attacked a gay politician for "Acting straight" and "Not being queer enough" I want to slap those people. Would they dare say that shit to say, a co-workers face if they knew he/she was homosexual? Idiots...

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-11-12T06:27:07+00:00

Iceland: passes bill making "nonbinary" legally recognized while simultaneously shitting on intersex people

Iceland: We are the worst "progressive" Nordic country now!

Norway: LOL, HOLD MY FJORD

Imagine getting arrested for concepts that don't exist. Well, biphobia kinda does. But man, how dystopian otherwise. Could you also do this on someone's behalf? Like, imagine I lived in Norway. And for the sake of argument, imagine someone knew I was gay. Could they witness a "homophobic" comment towards me or something, or a percieved one, report it and get that person on trouble on my behalf? Because that would be horrible and I don't ever want my sexuality to be used a weapon against freedom.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-11-01T19:52:08+00:00

Actual homosexual guy here.

Yes I do care, because "yaoi" often romantacizes rape and abuse of feminine males, which is an existing problem in the gay community enough without some idiot teenage girls thinking it's "SO KAWAII." And most yaoi fans can't keep it to fiction or keep it respectful, in my experience. The kind of woman (including FTM) that consumes that trash is also the kind who harasses real people, "ships" them, asks if they are "top or bottom" publicly etc.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-12T20:32:29+00:00

I have submitted my "transphobic" and "homophobic" data to this survey, hope that I'm not alone because these "researches" need the slap in the face of reality that not all homosexuals about RAINBOWS, QUEERNESS, AND POSITIVITY.

Also as an intersex person, they ask what category "intersex" falls under, and the options are "Sex, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, or do not know." NONE OF THE ABOVE, FUCKWITS, it's a MEDICAL CONDITION. In the additional info box I wrote a very long and calm explanation of what intersex is, and how misinformation like their survey can lead to discrimination against intersex people and even legal problems. I hope that whoever's doing this survey pays attention. But we all know they probably won't.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-09-06T18:30:03+00:00

What a fucking first world problem. That's literally like a toddler having a tantrum.

"We don't have access to these products"

"But there's loads of them, right here!"

"I WON'T BUY THEM BECAUSE THERE'S A VENUS SYMBOL ON THE PACKAGE AND THIS TRIGGERS ME"

This is also extra disgusting knowing that there are countless homeless women & women in other countries who genuinely DON'T have access to menstrual products. This just reinforces my belief that transgender people are extreme narcissists, totally incapable of empathy and considering the feelings and problems of others.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-02-27T01:43:02+00:00

I am a not-at-all-proud owner of guy boobs. It's not fun nor sexy, they hurt like a motherfucker and are a constant source of insecurity.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-31T20:46:35+00:00

Intersex individuals (i.e.: individuals with no clear classification of male/female) usually follow in the sexual orientation consistent with their gender identity. This demonstrates that sexual orientation is born out of psychological gender, rather than one’s biological gender.

This is horseshit. 9 times out of 10 intersex people DO have a clear classification of male/female. Klinefelter Syndrome (XXY Male) is one of the most common intersex conditions and NO ONE considers them "third sex" or female.

Intersex people are also far less likely to have a "gender identity" because we don't have the privilege of needing to make up fake "oppression." I am not male because I have a "male gender identity", I am male because I have a clearly developed penis.

That their homosexuality was related to their gender dissatisfaction is supported by the fact that designation of intersex infants as male or female has been shown to work best when the least genital reconstructive surgery is needed; the more masculine the genitalia appears already, the greater the success and satisfaction there will be with a male gender identity, and vice versa with a female gender identity. This is pointed out by Wisnieweski and Migeon when they explain that for patients with congenital micropenis, male sex of rearing was concluded optimal because genital reconstructive surgery is not required with this choice.12 As would be expected, genital surgery plays a large part in undermining the assigned gender of the child, by making them believe that their gender grouping is forced or artificial, thus making them more prone to self-identify with the gender opposite to their rearing. This is supported additionally by the recent work of Reiner and Gearhart13 who demonstrated that genetic males with Cloacal Exstrophy – a condition that leads to severe pelvic malformation and requires extensive surgery – have higher rates of gender dissatisfaction.

Oh look this article is literally advocating for cosmetic, abusive surgery on children. Intersex people don't experience "gender dissatisfaction" because we need invasive and botched genital surgeries, we experience it BECAUSE our society is so hung up on fake bullshit like gender roles and "gender identity" that we feel like, and are treated as, less than human because a lot of us have androgynous traits and thus don't "fit."

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-26T21:23:15+00:00

I once got banned from a discord server because one of the MTF mods had a really creepy, over-filtered monochrome selfie as a profile pic. This was a couple years back where I was in a very bad mental state and it was enough to make me uncomfortable seeing it pop up all the time, seriously it was like something out of a horror movie and honestly I thought that was the intent/that this user was being edgy.

So I asked politely that it was changed and explained that it was kind of uncanny. MTF mod proceeds to have an e-tantrum complete with crytyping acting like I'm being deliberately offensive, whines about me being "transphobic", and bans me.

It's funny because I posted a pic of myself in that same server before and everyone bitched about how I looked "fake" "like a doll" and accused me of editing in a really rude way.

The good news is that most people who edit/overfilter their selfies are not very good at it, you can usually tell when someone's airbrushed their skin to the uncanny valley or it's the snapchat big eye filter.

The bad news is that some filters are getting better and better at replicating, such as some of those ones who do "gender swap" filters. They're not perfect but you could definitely be fooled at a glance or if you're not looking closely. I think I remember a video of a guy with a convincing "girl filter" on, then it zooms out and reveals he's a dude.

Trans or not you should never hide your appearance. You need to find someone who appreciates you for how you really are and if you avoid that you're asking for trouble.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-03-07T20:32:21+00:00

"Sophie Labelle"? Doesn't "belle" mean "beautiful woman?" Did this dude seriously name himself "Sophie thebeautifulwoman?" I know MTF names are usually cringy and unimaginative, but damn.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-08T03:12:18+00:00

I'm outdated and only in my 20s, damn. I thought at least I had a decade or two to go before I was old and uncool

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-04T02:41:33+00:00

I was an awkward gay boy It's really not as fun as this guy thinks. It sucks. Unless he's got a kink for like, bullying or feeling like everyone hates him, I guess

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-04T00:17:01+00:00

Though I am the reverse - the reason I'm not attracted to "people with vaginas" aka biological females isn't that I am not aware they exist. I am aware of their existence, oddly enough, I'm just shockingly still not attracted to them. Nor is this something I can change, and I always say that when TRAs post dumb shit like this - do you really think that if we could choose to be attracted to the opposite sex, that a significant portion of us would jump at the chance? I didn't choose homosexuality only to go through lifelong social rejection and feeling like a "failed man", for the record...

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-27T20:14:06+00:00

If this is true I kind of feel like an ass. I always thought he was a pretentious attention-seeking fuckwad. But I can absolutely understand what it's like to be physically gender non conforming (for me that means being intersex, but also extends to having things like gynecomastia or simply just looking more "girly") and how not fitting in with "being a man" can have psychological impact.

However, this isn't the way to go about doing it. Publicly declaring yourself "genderqueer" and demanding that people use "they/them pronouns" for is a step too far I just can't have sympathy for. This negatively affects real people. It's one thing for Sam himself to say "Well I wasn't manly enough, so now I accept myself as a he-she unmanly other" but what he doesn't seem to realize is that he's putting that message on others. He's saying that if you are male and you wear makeup and/or you're gay and/or you want to be a pop singer, or anything along those lines, then you are no longer male. That is a dangerous message to spread when you are a celebrity.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-21T00:44:54+00:00

It has the same energy as regular neckbeards who make jokes about women being raped and then go "CALM DOWN FEMINAZI IT'S JUST A JOKE, MUH FREE SPEECH" when someone tells them it's out of line

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-02-08T04:13:05+00:00

"Y'all stick vegetables and fists up your hole-"

Woah there, speak for yourself. I sure as hell don't. Using vegetables for penetration is a waste of food (even if I don't like vegetables) and you'd probably do better getting a basic dildo in the long run than constantly buying vegetables to shove up your ass, and fists are too large. Also, I've heard that, vaginally OR anally, fisting has the potential to break one's fingers.

This may come as a shock to straight women but even deplorable bottoms like me with stupid fetishes don't always do all sorts of wacky stuff and insert whatever they find up their ass. Some of us just like dicks, either attached to a man, or in silicone form for solo use. Can't say I'm into dildos on women, though. Being pegged by a female feels like a humiliation thing and I'm definitely not into that.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-25T23:23:21+00:00

Yep! I had someone rant about "TERFs" irl so I played super dumb, asked them what that meant, and then got them to explain it.

"What's a TERF?" "Trans exclusionary radical feminist" "But what does that mean" "A type of feminist that hates trans people" "Why do they hate them"

Etc.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-15T03:36:23+00:00

It's basically made from colon tissue. So. It often has fecal bacteria...

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-09-14T18:51:01+00:00

I saw this shit on my personal/hobby twitter where I try my hardest to avoid politics shit. It's sickening watching this, seeing tons of people (most of which are teenagers I assume) wish death on a woman because she said something "problematic." And from what I've seen she never said anything that outrageous, but they're calling her a "racist hateful transphobe."

Fortunately there were also some tweets in support of her with quite a few likes/retweets so hopefully some sanity is getting through

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-08T19:55:55+00:00

/r/LGBT be like:

Trans

Nonbinary

Trans

Vague gay post that doesn't really say anything

Nonbinary

Trans

BLATANT ANTI-INTERSEX STATEMENT (usually insisting we are hermaphrodites/weird aliens and that we prove "sex is a myth" because we're sexless freaks or something, according to them)

Trans

"Lesbian"... trans women

Nonbinary

etc.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-07T19:29:35+00:00

Sorry but if "homophobia is acceptable" then "transphobia" must be too.

If you call me a "white cis gay queen f-g" or some shit, I'm calling you the big bad t-word. It's only fair.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-11-09T03:48:01+00:00

Gross. And he wants to make the third gender "X" marker a thing; which is directly harmful to intersex people. Because as long as it exists, it won't just be "nonbinary" people self-identifying with it - it will be used to mark visibly intersex children at birth as "others" or "its", which is a horrible way to grow up. Hell even some people want to raise non-intersex kids as "neutral", which imo, is a form of child abuse.

As someone who has lived my whole life being thrown into an "other" category I fail to see how it's positive in any way. There is no justification to having a third sex/gender marker.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-25T00:13:54+00:00

Don't do thigh highs dirty like this, they look good when they're not on a narcissistic fuckwad

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-09-15T18:53:53+00:00

I have mixed sex characteristics, I would never expect bi people to be into me/people like me. Or anyone, for that matter. I can recognize I'm an outlier and that dating is hard for me, even without all the other issues like how I don't form connections/trust easily. If I can recognize and be okay with this, why the fuck is it so hard for trans people? Especially when, unlike me, they CHOSE to be trans, their mixed sex characteristics are ARTIFICIAL and more glaring than someone like me. They consented to looking like that, to ending up that way, so why do they think it's some conspiracy against them that the number of people who are willing to date them drops considerably?

If they really want a date so bad they can choose not to transition and not to have mixed sex characteristics. Again, a choice that some of us don't have. I can't make my wide hips go away, I can't stop looking "girly" and thus not be attractive to a large percentage of people who are into males, but a trans person absolutely can choose to stop wearing ill-fitting crossdress and not get bad plastic surgery.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-30T17:43:18+00:00

Unfortunately no. They've been attacking straight dudes for a long time, like, many years. And clearly they show no signs of stopping.

I'm ""closeted"" so I let people assume I'm straight, I used to even describe myself as straight online and still sometimes do. I've just got just as much shit for not being into "stunning trans womyn" as I have "gay trans men"

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-02-26T22:24:23+00:00

Contrary to what Twitter "activists" will tell you online, I've found that absolutely nothing comes from refusing to use "they/them" for a person in real life. Unless you're in the middle of some godawful San Francisco LGBT+ organization headquarters, then maybe.

But I've witnessed a couple of people mutter "u-um I am a they" under their breath before, and nobody went along with it. Shockingly, nobody was lynched, fired, or screamed at. It's almost if that even the "theys" themselves know that their "identity" doesn't hold up in reality.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-02-11T22:25:48+00:00

Ew and they used the """hermaphrodite""" intersex flag.

Great! Indoctrinate your kids from a young age to teach them that people like me are "he-shes" and subhuman. Fuck off.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-23T01:22:59+00:00

I understand if it's a child or an elderly person or a very ill person, and it just makes them feel better to pretend, the way we tell people they don't look fat in that outfit or their singing voice is just fine. Little white lies to spare someone's feelings.

I would have to disagree even with those "minor" lies. For a period of my life when I was young I was showered with compliments, being told I was special, intelligent, "gifted", "tall for my age", and good at what I did. But that soon faded, I stopped being the favorite, and I found out the hard way that it was never true anyway. It was a pretty bad experience that fucked up my self esteem permanently.

Context matters, of course, but I don't think I could do that to my child (if I had one.) There's a difference between, say, telling a kid about Santa or something innocent like that, or telling them that they're perfect and that the world is all happiness and rainbows... only for them to later have that illusion shattered. Young or not, I think people need to know if they're not good at something (in a gentle way, of course) because it's not bad to not be perfect - and it should be a way to encourage improvement.

The same applies to gender, especially "trans kids." If you tell your son that he's actually a girl because he likes Barbies and playing dress up, you might THINK you're being "progressive", but actually you're probably gonna screw him up for life, and he too will probably undergo a period of crushing realization.

For a long time I've been in favor of honesty, even if it can sting. Even if it makes some people like me seem hostile or inflammatory, I still think there is little purpose to hide the truth in order to protect feelings alone.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-19T07:10:37+00:00

The fuck is "girlboss"? Let me guess, a simultaneously sexist & homophobic (by comparing homosexual males to women) term aimed at males?

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-08-14T17:06:43+00:00

Neither of the American presidential candidates are particularly good. Why is it bad if a gay male votes for one (and thus deserves to be violently attacked) but not the other?

Also, fuck anyone who thinks homosexuals are all a super-left wing hivemind. Fuck that. I'm a centrist and it doesn't make me less gay.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-08-13T16:24:50+00:00

I'd like to see these people talk to any medical professional, as well as intersex people, about what happens in some intersex conditions where people don't go through puberty and how it can be damaging. I'd like to see them argue that it's totally safe, not a health risk, and "reversible." See how that goes.

But as usual TRAs pretend intersex conditions don't exist, or that they only exist when 1. It's a "hermaphrodite" fetish fantasy and 2. They can use it to "prove there is no sex/there are multiple genders" so I don't see this happening.

Lacking puberty is bad even when it happens "naturally" due to disorders of sexual development. When induced by artifical and largely untested drugs I can only imagine how more damage it could do.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-16T17:39:19+00:00

I honestly feel like I'm doing a lot of "damage" just by existing as a feminine, non-stereotypical, non-flamboyant-for-straight-entertainment, male.

It's a win-win. TRAs get angry because I'm feminine/androgynous yet still call myself a guy, and am not a "trans woman" or "nonbinary." They're also mad because I'm intersex and still consider myself male and not some kind of alien third sex (which they use for their "sex isn't real" arguments). Conservatives are mad because I go against "traditional" gender roles. Straight people and other gay people alike are mad because I'm a feminine guy, yet I'm not "submissive" and ditzy, I still have an attitude.

And just about everyone is mad that my femininity is well... natural (as in body shape) and non-forced. If I was female I would probably be called "tomboyish" for wearing dark clothes and liking some "boy stuff."

See, that's the category that pisses everyone off. If you're a hyperfeminine, caricatured MTF or gay man, people are okay with that, because they believe feminine = weak, silly, hysterical, and that you're still conforming to their roles, just by going to the opposite one. (And it's profitable. Funny Hilarious Flamboyant Gay Man is entertaining and makes money. Normal ass androgynous person who doesn't exist to be stunning and dramatic doesn't.)

But if you're in the middle? If you like both "girl things" and "boy things?" If you played with both dolls, dinosaurs, and cars as a kid? If you wear makeup but also have a "masculine" personality (aka, being assertive and standing up for yourself)? That freaks people the fuck out. They see that as a threat because you can't be shoved into a box.

When people criticize and insult me, it basically always boils down to my looks and how "girly" I am. And when someone is visibly upset by the fact that I'm GNC, yet don't fit their expectations (eg: A neckbeard starts throwing a tantrum because I'm a feminine guy but not a submissive pornified "femboi") I feel like my life energy is renewed. I will feed off their tears and I will use it to continue being an androgynous trouble-maker. There's no stopping it.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-15T21:11:01+00:00

It means anything, yet nothing, at the same time. It's basically just a meaningless label to make someone seem woke and like a minority, without actually being a minority.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-03-03T06:18:18+00:00

So does this work for other body types too? If I'm not into bodybuilders and excessively muscular guys, am I not really gay? Please educate me, queerlords

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-02-04T21:32:19+00:00

Wow, lesbians are now adopting the "only masculine gay men are men and tops, only feminine males are bottoms and not real men" shit now, too? Fuck off with your sexist bullshit. Masculine men can get dicked if they want to and feminine males can top if they want to ,the same applies to lesbians. Go eat your strapon smh

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-02-04T01:06:21+00:00

Trans "rights" (read: privileges) will become my concern once trans people start giving a fuck about the lack of rights for intersex people. Until that happens, I am not in the wrong to not give a shit. I'm not helping you convince the government your cosmetic surgery should be free when you still think that people like me should be given dangerous "sex change" operations at birth & think we're less than human

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-02-01T02:48:34+00:00

Yeah can't you see, you have INTERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA and LITERALLY ARE OPPRESSING YOURSELF by using the wrong words!111

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-07T19:43:10+00:00

"Mx" has been around for a while, unforunately. It's not a pronoun though, so, OP is a dumb. Also, adding random Xs to shit doesn't make it "gender neutral" & in most cases it's confusing for non-English people... and often English people too.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-05T20:16:51+00:00

Okay but if you're gonna do that, we need a male version.

WE'RE HERE, WE'RE MEAT SAUSAGES, DON'T ASK ME MY GENDER IDENTITY BIGOT I AM SIMPLY A FLESH TUBE. MY ENTIRE ESSENCE IS PENIS. NO BRAIN, ONLY BALLS

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-11-17T20:06:32+00:00

As much as I like dicks sexually, I'm pretty sure MTF dicks are the least "adorable" there is. Dick attached to a raging narcissist full of hate is never quality. Same reason I avoid "tops" like the plague and don't use dumpster fires like Grindr.

They say "don't stick your dick in crazy", but the reverse also applies. Don't go near the dick of a narcissist, it's never work it and they're so full of themselves they won't be good at using them either.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-11-12T19:45:14+00:00

What the FUCK?!

This is unbelievable. "Mutant?!" Conflating "gender identity" with physiology despite that going against the very trans argument in the first place?

Fucking hell. I'm not male because I have a "male gender identity." Quite the opposite, I don't "identify" as anything and I'm more "feminine" according to most standards. I'm male because I have a penis, or, to reword, I am phenotypically male.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-10-27T19:57:51+00:00

Toxic masculinity is very specific and people can be deemed "unmanly" for the stupidest of things. There are literally men who believe that touching your ass to wash it in the shower is gay and effeminate, for example. Or that being the one who cooks makes you less of a man. You could be very physically masculine but deemed to be "unmanly" over one little behavior. It's weird.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-09-21T19:59:28+00:00

It's not JUST trans people. Support is also dropping because of gay men wearing fetish gear to Pride, and the LGB(T+) as a whole demanding special privileges and acting like their sexuality is everyone's business.

I'm one of the "young people who's support is dropping" and I'm from a country that views it negatively. Honestly if you want support to go up, then you need RADICAL CHANGE. (Radical as in different/severe/harsh. Not radical feminism. God no.) The LGB(T) is not doing anything but making homosexuals look bad and making homosexuals like me go "fuck those people and fuck this shit, I want out". Stuff like this article, Pride etc are a big part of why I hate my sexuality. And people like me are going to keep going down that road unless the LGB(T) can collectively get it's shit together, stop acting like narcissistic adult children, and start treating homosexuality as a mundane thing and not a perverted attention grab.

But that will never happen.

Also lmao @ you guys blaming drag queen bullshit on the trans people. You know drag is a gay male thing right? I hate transgender stuff as much as anyone else, maybe even more so because I'm intersex and trans people are doing so much harm to people like me. But this sub is getting ridiculous, not everything you don't like is the "trans and queer" fault, it's time the LGB starts owning up to it's own messes instead of pointing fingers at someone else and saying the trans community brainwashed gay men to invent drag and be inappropriate or something.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-09-16T00:02:01+00:00

Super feminine guy here, not just out of choice (as in clothing, wearing makeup) but also the way I was born, I have a condition that prevented me from "masculinizing" at puberty, so I have wider hips/a more female face structure, and so forth. Basically I can't really "pass" as male, lol.

Now I can't say much about my life as a gay male because I have never been "out" (and have no desire to), but as a GNC guy: It can suck at times, but it's also okay, like I wouldn't change myself at all given the choice. I've never wanted to be masculine, and the only times I've ever said something like "I wish I was a girl" were during periods of distress where I didn't mean what I said. (And that was more to do with sexuality anyway)

People can be shitty, and I have been bullied and harassed a lot. By everyone. Men, women, straight people, gay/lesbians, trans, you name it. I'm not just a feminine guy, I'm an androgynous guy. I think society accepts hyper-feminine gay men who conform completely to the opposite sex's gender role, ie, are delicate and submissive, put a lot of work into their appearance with layers of makeup, and serve men. But they don't accept those of us are in the middle. On the outside, I look like a girl, but I think my personality is deemed more "masculine" by society. I've always spoken my mind and I'm not afraid to be assertive. Assertiveness combined with a feminine figure freaks people out. And although I wear women's clothes and makeup, I mostly wear black and dark colors, and I don't fuck around with the newest designer 400 different products on one face look, I don't really touch anything other than eye makeup and MAYBE lip color that doesn't feel gross and doesn't look stupid. I also equally like "girly things" and "boyish things" as hobbies.

So, this mismatch of gender roles seems to offend people. Both "traditionalists" and postmodernist gender identity morons. It seems that society deems it unacceptable to be TOO gender non conforming. Being GNC is only okay if you commit to the opposite sex's gender role and/or do it solely for entertainment. But androgynous gender-defying HEATHENS like me are stinky and blasphemous.

Anyway, despite people being shitty, despite constantly feeling like I'm an alien (in many ways, not just because of this, but this is a big part of it) and that I don't belong - I'm actually alright with it. Always have been.

I was gonna say "I was always GNC even as a child" but let's be honest, all children are, naturally. It's only society that teaches them that stuff is for girls and boys only, and in fact most kids I knew liked "girl stuff" and "boy stuff" equally, too. But yeah from early on I was liking "girl stuff" and "boy stuff" and fortunately I wasn't forced to act a certain way, I was mostly left alone. Then when I hit puberty, it became obvious I was different, I never got a deep voice or a masculine shape, so I guess that made me stand out after. But even back then, I accepted it, in fact I was almost glad I didn't turn out like the other guys. I was happy the way I was!

I only stopped being so happy about it when I realized I was homosexual, which was a few years ago. After that, I felt like I was wrong. I felt like I was "proving" the people who made fun of me right, because they used to say that because I looked girly, that I was gay, weak, and stupid. Plus, I didn't want to be a stereotype. I had lived my teenage years being confidently GNC and telling people that no, it's not a "gay" thing, plenty of straight guys are GNC and so am I, there's no connection! (And just FYI I still believe there is no connection. Especially in regards to my disorder - people with this condition are no more likely to be gay than anyone else, and forums online of guys with similar conditions are full of questions about whether girls will still love and accept them)

But when I started to think I was homosexual I felt like that shattered, like I was wrong about myself. I didn't want to admit the possibility that being "girly" made me gay, even if it made no logical or scientific sense. It made me question whether if I had been "normal" or acted differently I would'be turned out straight. Especially since I hate being gay, so I started to think, what if it was my fault that it happened to me?

I'm still struggling with that now, and it hurts. I used to feel happy and confident about the way I was physically, now I feel like shit. Especially with the rise of this stupid fucking "Trap" and "Femboy" porn genres that I fucking hate, now not only are people still believing this is a "gay thing" but also they treat people like me as sex objects that exist only to fulfill male porn fantasies. And this is another reason why I fucking hate my sexuality because, it seems like the only males who will ever be interested in me see me as an object for their own selfish desire. I don't think anyone will love me.

So I don't date, obviously, and I don't see that changing. Not only do I not believe that there's anyone out there, it's also not something I want, being homosexual makes me feel horrible and I'd never be happy in a relationship with a guy. My issues would piss anyone off if they were dating me and they'd have to deal with their partner pushing them away because of how shit I always feel after, so it's better for both me and others if I am alone, even if I hate being alone.

However from what I've seen as an outsider, yes contrary to popular belief, gay men are NOT mostly feminine, from what I can tell there's a whole lot of masculinity in "gay culture." When feminine men are acknowledged it's always as a "feminine male submissive paired with a very dominant and masculine male" which honestly makes me very uncomfortable and upset. It's just emulation of sexism, in a same sex relationship. If I had to choose I would be "fem4fem" but that doesn't exist, because people with my kind of appearance are extremely rare, and most guys who describe themselves as "feminine" are simply crossdressers who have a fetish for being degraded and humiliated. I couldn't date, or even respect, someone like that. I find it gross that guys believe that looking like me is inherently "degrading" and something to be ashamed off. Crossdressing "femboys" can take off their cheap skirts and lingerie but I can't change my bone structure or appearance. It's not a costume for me.

So. TL;DR - It sucks. Mostly. But I also wouldn't change it and I am, or was, kind of proud of it in a way. I can live with it.

EDIT: Oh and in regards to trans stuff - yes I have been told I'm "trans in denial", yes I have had people pressure me to transition one way or another (both to take T and become "more manly" and to "transition to female") to "fix" my disorder, and I often have people call me nonbinary and refer to me as "they", which pisses me off. But I have NEVER considered it. I grew up just before the trans trend took off so I guess by the time it was at it's peak, I was old enough to not be easily manipulated. Well, that and I'm a stubborn bastard in nature anyway. I like being feminine, yes, but I like being a feminine GUY. I like having a penis! I have never had a desire to become female or "something else".

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-09-07T19:12:53+00:00

It's because people with narcissistic personalities tend to be more likely to sexually violate others due to genuinely not being able to care or respect boundaries or think of anyone but themselves.

Not every man who has sexually harassed or mistreated me was trans, but 100% of them showed clear signs of narcissism, such as being unable to admit they are wrong, unable to see that they are hurting other people, flipping the situation and making it out like THEY are the victim and YOU are the bad one, for example.

Transgenderism is very much a narcissistic thing, their whole movement is about getting others to pander to them, effectively worship them, and play along with THEIR version of reality.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-08-29T00:06:17+00:00

Mermaids is a child abuse cult and I hope that most people don't take anything they say seriously.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-08-13T16:22:32+00:00

This. Though not the same (artificially induced with untested drugs is not comparable) puberty can be delayed or stopped entirely due to some intersex conditions. And let me tell you, NO healthcare service nor intersex person will tell you it's totally fine and dandy. Everyone will tell you the same - this is dangerous, your health is at risk, this is not supposed to happen. For those who don't go through puberty or have an incomplete puberty they're typically given HRT to try and minimize health problems. Yes that's right, some people genuinely need HRT for health reasons, yet we now have swarms of people taking it cosmetically and demanding that their usage is the most important.

It's not "forcing people into a gender box." That's what transgenderism is. Allowing people to have puberty, as is SUPPOSED to happen, is the opposite of detrimental.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-08-11T07:11:09+00:00

I've thought it over for a while, and, I actually want to dismantle the entire LGBT. No LGBT. No LGBTQ+. No LGB either.

Why? Well, let me explain. First of all - "solidarity" and sense of some welcoming community is a lie. No matter whether you mean a sense of community between homosexuals and transgender people, homosexuals and bisexuals, gay men and lesbians, or even gay men with other gay men - there simply is no universal community. Homosexuality is not this grandiose, complex experience. It doesn't affect people's personalities - it doesn't give people something shared in common other than "the same sex arouses me." There's a reason why straight people don't really have a "straight community" and don't bond over their mutual straightness. (And no, that's not what straight relationships are. Nor is that what the "default" is. It's not comparable.)

I also don't believe there's anything positive about gay stereotypes, or the things people do sometimes bond over in LGBT groups. Overdramatic fashion, weird memes I still don't get, "twitter stans"... yeah, what does this have to do with orientation, exactly? A lot of people who emphasize the "community" also seem to glorify and encourage the very stereotypes that have been used against me - ie, gay and/or feminine males are weak, stupid, and obnoxious, liking "woman's things" makes you gay, liking certain music makes you gay, being emotional makes you gay... the list goes on. So it kinda stings to see people back this up and, in my opinion, undo the small amount of progress some places have made since I was a kid. We went from "haha girly = gay!" to "Boys can like 'girly' things no matter if they're gay or straight" right back to "Boys liking girly things = gay or secretly a woman inside" in a matter of 10 years or so. There was a brief window of acceptance, then it vanished when trans and flamboyant gayness became trendy.

I've spent way too much time and energy trying to get other gay males, lesbians, and bisexual people to respect me and include me as "one of them" in their little clubs, solely because I've always felt out of place in the world and I've always wanted to "belong" somewhere. But as I've got older I've realized that it really doesn't matter. I don't - I shouldn't NEED their approval or their sense of community, and honestly, if the only thing to bond over is something as mundane as sexual orientation... well, it's probably not an interesting community to begin with.

I'm also growing increasingly resentful as an intersex person. Transgender ideology harms intersex people. "Gay culture" and stereotypes hurts intersex people. Guys like me are born more feminine because of genetic conditions beyond our control - it's not a conscious choice nor is it related to sexuality (Intersex males are NOT more likely to be gay, regardless of their hormone levels) and all that shit about "femboys" and "twinks" being super submissive gay bottoms can fuck right off. And/or the subset of gay males who are all about masculinity and aggressively reject anything else.

And perhaps the most important part of all (aka, if you skipped the rest of the post, READ THIS PART) - not everywhere is America. Not all "LGB experiences" are universal. Things are different depending on your background, where you are in the world, how you were raised, your culture, your own beliefs, your own experience growing up... it's IMPOSSIBLE to have a unified community due to this alone. I have a very different experience being born Russian and having an atypical childhood. The LGBT and LGB - as very Western concepts - do not give a fuck, and do not emphasize. The most they'll ever give is a condescending comment about the fake stories of Russia killing gay people randomly and saying vaguely xenophobic stuff like "oh, I hope you one day leave your awful country!"

This is something I just have to accept, just as Americans seem to understand they can't just walk into Russia half-clothed in a rainbow parade and expect the locals to be happy about it. Xenophobia is huge right now, even in it's mildest forms - and even if I wasn't Russian I'd probably find another way to be excluded.

But, like I said, a community that tries to find so many little things to kick you out over is not one worth being a part of anyway.

For the record, I couldn't care less if existing L/G/B people wanna go around making their own little communities. They're welcome to. But I really ask that people reconsider this notion of there being a universal, unified, everyone-is-included LGBT or LGB community. Because that is not true. Frankly, no, I really don't have much in common with the average gay man. Unfortunately my experience with sexuality is not even inherently positive which alienates me from most homosexuals anyway, it seems. I get called homophobic even for saying that I'm not happy and would gladly choose to be straight if I could, even though I never hate on anyone else or force others to do things my way.

So, to be blunt - if the LGBT and LGB don't want me around, then fine. I won't be part of it. I'll do things my own way, live my own life, and won't make my orientation (which I don't particularly like) my defining feature, or even just one of my defining features. Knowing both the T-inclusive and not-T-inclusive communities, though, they'll find a way to criticize me for not participating too. It's always the way.

But fuck it. I have got to stop relying on other people's approval, especially for trivial mostly-internet shit that really doesn't matter.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-31T17:31:12+00:00

The concept of "valid" itself is invalid. It doesn't mean anything when used in reference to stupid "identities."

So no, I don't think nonbinary is "valid". I also think nonbinary is inherently a concept that harms intersex people. I can't count the number of times I've been called a third sex, "not really a man" or "nonbinary" because of my condition and/or appearance.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-30T07:37:47+00:00

God, thats me though. Like, I hate being alone, I WANT to be in love with someone, but I am not. And trying to picture myself in a romantic relationship with random, generic men or women is not appealing.

If only someone had told me sooner, that I was indeed a special VALID UWU snowflake, and not a person with severe trust issues and a possible underdeveloped sexuality...!

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-27T18:32:29+00:00

I will respect your name and pronouns

Don't even do that. Not only are you validating their delusions by doing so, you are implying to other people in the vicinity that you see them as "real" men/women, and/or that you support their actions. The only way we can hope for change is enough people stand up and vocally announce that they don't buy into it.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-22T19:54:21+00:00

Lol, as if two "transphobic" guys would call a trans man a "he." I certainly wouldn't have any issue calling a trans-fujoshi a she in front of everyone.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-07-22T16:50:38+00:00

You guys know this is satire, right...? Look at the screenshot, at the rest of the website shown...

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-03-02T20:48:33+00:00

Because TRAs think we are:

Hermaphrodites, and since a lot of them are into anime porn, they think that's sexy and want to fetishize us. I have often had TRAs ask me for nudes because they've "never met someone who was both."
Subhuman "he-shes" that they use to "prove" that nonbinary people are "valid", because hey, if we disgusting freaks exist then surely it makes sense for a random privileged teenager to say they are a they/them, am I right?

No joke, it's not just mindless inclusion, the LGBT+ is outright abusive to intersex people. They fetishize and degrade us, use our existence to justify unrelated concepts, all while supporting concepts ("sex reassignment") and laws ("legal third gender") that have been used against us. "Trans friendly" laws can actually be anti-intersex trojan horses, because if a third "other" category exists, it's NOT going to be reserved solely for "nonbinary" hipsters. It's going to be "assigned" to intersex infants with disorders, if people believe the woke thing to do is other them and treat them like aliens instead of recognizing them as male/female with a medical condition.

Oh, and trans people steal intersex spaces. All of them. The main intersex reddit is a trans propaganda hub. Private "intersex focused" Discord servers are actually trans servers in disguise. I haven't found a single intersex community that didn't quickly become full of trans people, particularly MTFs, pretending to be intersex/asking if they're intersex because they "identify as both" or are predatory and want to see pictures of intersex people's genitals. I had to start my own on Reddit, shortly before the ban waves, and even my own got trans fetishists coming in and trying to take over, turn it trans focused etc within a matter of WEEKS. It was a tiny sub, too.

I haven't met another intersex person who liked the LGBT+ treatment of intersex people. And this is why I cannot just "agree to disagree" with transgender ideology nor be friends with trans people. This ideology literally tells me I am subhuman, a fetish object, and that I'm not allowed to complain about the fact that people like me lack actual bodily rights in most countries, or that children are being given horrible cosmetic genital procedures, because trans people want to claim they have it worse when someone doesn't "validate" them. it's disgusting.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-02-28T20:36:48+00:00

It's actually pretty disgusting because it implies that simply being non-straight and gender non-conforming means you're a sexual deviant who's into all sorts of "weird" things.

Like fuck off. I might be homosexual and into some pretty fucked up stuff I wish I wasn't, but I refuse to engage in "poly" shit or fetishes that degrade people.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-02-02T23:49:58+00:00

"Everything I don't like is automatically right wing because I say so!!1"

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-31T21:01:43+00:00

Because it's "clinical and medical and thus offensive!" or so I hear. But jokes on them, that's why I use it. My sexuality isn't an "identity", a choice, or a fashion statement. Maybe it IS a sexual disorder and I'm okay with that. I don't give two shits if it sounds "clinical", that's better than a patronizing term like "queer" or even "gay."

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-31T09:49:14+00:00

Truscum pressured or """heavily suggested""" I was trans because I "seemed to have a girl brain" and was gay. OH and a lot of the fuckers claim that "being trans is an intersex condition of the brain" and force their way into our communities.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-17T00:10:11+00:00

Because they are gay men using gay male terms... lol. I have seen a couple of lesbians use "top/bottom", but usually because they get it mixed up with "dominant/submissive." Top/bottom and dom/sub are two completely different things, however.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-15T20:01:30+00:00

It's infuriating as a non native English speaker. English is bullshit enough. But there are no neutral pronouns in my language and hell, even first person writing is gendered. I literally cannot tell whether "they" is singular or plural unless it is EXTREMELY CLEAR about the context, but I've made serious fuckups in the past because I assumed "they" was talking about a group when someone was just using it for me as singular, so... I ended up getting other people involved with something that I then got yelled at because I was supposed to do it alone, but I didn't know because they referred to me as "they" in the context of being around others.

Also, it's doubly shitty how I keep getting called "they" despite never, NEVER being coy about being male. Yes I look like a freak in real life and have "girly" interests that show online, yes I consider myself an outlier, no that doesn't mean you get to decide that I'm "nonbinary" and refer to me with confusing terms that my dumb bilingual brain can't keep up with.

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2021-01-08T20:20:30+00:00

"I am uncomfortable when we are not about me?"

A fucking alien spacecraft could crash-land into the pacific ocean and start vaporizing people with laser guns, and these idiots would STILL be like "This is because of transphobia! If you supported us trans women this never would've happened! Pay attention to me NOW!"

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-11-18T02:32:17+00:00

I've been trying to dress "masculine" or "neutral" to combat my feminine apperance & not feel like a gross freak or get harassed, but this post makes me want to go around wearing dresses on the regular just to spite morons like you, "Sara".

OPPRESSED_REPTILIAN · 2020-11-15T19:50:50+00:00

I fucking hate the term "boy pussy" even when used by gay men (to mean asshole) and I hope it dies. Seriously think that's a big problem of why ftms are doing this shit is because gay men were already degradingly referring to buttholes as "boy pussies" anyway.

Also, I hate hate HATE the concept of "bottoms" being inferior. Actually I hate the concept as a whole anyway. In my experience nobody who uses that word unironically is ever going to be a fun person to be around. But she's basically implying that if you're a male and you "bottom" you may as well be a female, and since "bottoms" are considered submissive/subordinate/beneath "tops" or men, then that has very sexist implications.

Of course, to be clear, this isn't a FTM's fault. The gay community has to answer for this because they started it. It's sad that FTMs are going along with it, but still. I am not any less of a male because I'm feminine and/or because I have zero desire to stick my dick in some guy's ass.

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