Pls fuck off with the "not just women"

Mermer · 2020-12-03T00:09:38+00:00

Will the world ever be sane? This is the comment on "Elliot" Page coming out

Also, kinda unrelated, there's this really cool youtuber "Negative Legend" and I adored him for being very non-comforming. Just your every day "feminine" guy who fucking owns it and does it flawlessly. Or so I thought. Newest video and what do I see? A fucking "non-binary" sticker. I've lost hope.

I'm very sad and tired of the bullshit. LET MEN BE MEN AND WOMEN BE WOMEN.

Mermer · 2021-01-12T21:29:16+00:00

"I think this bitch is mad a trans woman stole her man" "She's mad I'm prettier than her"

Why do they always use the "we're more attractive so they jealous" argument, how could you say this is not sexist and misogynistic? If you think that you are better than "cis" women because you think you're prettier and you don't get periods (I saw a tik tok that basically went like "your girlfriend moody during PMS? What a shame, if you were mine you would not get the same") and men want you than you hate women. And yet you claim to be one. Your life revolves around male validation and you wonder why feminists are your enemies. You won't date each other but we're the old-fashioned transphobes. I fucking hate them.

Mermer · 2021-12-10T08:55:35+00:00

I've really grown to hate the "Everyone is gay" narrative. No. Some (most) people are just straight. Those comments don't come from people who have the slightest comprehension of the reality of being homosexual.

Mermer · 2021-08-06T08:11:57+00:00

I thought misogyny targeted women 🤨🔎

Mermer · 2022-02-27T15:13:54+00:00

Fr, the movement only makes it look like it's a choice. "Women are great" "dating women is so much better". No. Sure, I like being a lesbian but I also hate it. It's so lonely. It's not a fucking aesthetic or something I wish I was because of the world we live in that is not your internet fantasy. This kind of narrative only makes more straight girls say shit like "I wish I was a lesbian". It's so fucking insensitive. I don't like women because they're better. I simply am attracted to them because that's just how I am. I'm tired of being treated like a joke.

Mermer · 2022-01-06T23:01:26+00:00

Well, I'm glad to hear they disassociate queerness from being gay!

Mermer · 2022-01-05T17:08:52+00:00

I'm so sick of hearing "genital preferences". It's not a preference. It's your orientation.

Mermer · 2021-02-16T11:59:14+00:00

You can't be a lesbian anymore. How much you wanna bet the wouldn't date a "non-binary" male and they've said they would totally still date Ell Page basically admitting she is a woman. You're a lesbian, it's not a bad thing. Stop pretending non-binary people are not women and men, you can't erase the realities of sex.

Mermer · 2021-01-13T14:03:01+00:00

You telling me all the times I had no make up on I was a man? Including right now? Why did no one tell me? 😱 What name should I choose?

Mermer · 2022-01-27T12:25:04+00:00

How dumb do you have to be to not comprehend the complexity of women (and men) and instead think in boxes and call yourself the other gender just bcs you don't fit in sexist, degrading stereotypes.

Mermer · 2021-08-20T10:59:33+00:00

It just seems the bar of "biphobia" is on the floor. You don't wanna date bi people? Biphobe. Saying straight presenting characters are not good rep? Biphobe. As a bi person, I do not care if you don't want to date me. If it makes you uncomfortable I'll just date someone else. It's that simple. It doesn't mean you invalidate my bi-ness. Bi people never seem to care but snowflakes attack the second you mention bi people. And a bi person who only engages in straight relationships is still bi but you can't deny they have straight privilege. If I had a boyfriend I wouldn't have to lie about him to my family I wouldn't have to fear my family disowning me and I wouldn't have to fear for my life in public. So stop with baseless accusations of "biphobia" and "bi erasure" if it comes from a place of fucking reality.

Mermer · 2022-01-10T17:09:04+00:00

I don't want validation from men except I only want to date men who will give me gender validation.

Mermer · 2022-03-28T13:38:17+00:00

There's a difference between wanting to kiss someone of the same sex and LITERALLY HURTING YOUR BODY IRREVERSABLY AND GETTING OFF ON PEOPLE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND YOU. Natural desire vs outright delusion.

Mermer · 2021-09-05T15:37:27+00:00

WHO is the right mind wants to date someone who feels uncomfortable bcs of them?!?

Mermer · 2022-01-24T09:12:44+00:00

I’m twice as man as you

Whoooop, there it is!

Mermer · 2022-04-19T09:40:49+00:00

So your're saying someone is only of value when they sleep with you? Hmmm

Wonder who's the asshole here.

Mermer · 2022-01-20T23:20:49+00:00

Yes, I want people for their genitalia/body. Big deal. People do that. Grow the fuck up.

Mermer · 2021-12-24T23:46:50+00:00

Bad side effects of living on the internet, everyone.

Mermer · 2022-01-29T09:45:14+00:00

It's ok to have fantasies. It's not ok to project them on real life people and expect them to date you.

Mermer · 2022-01-03T12:28:48+00:00

Yk I kinda am but not for the reasons they think.

I often feel not like other lesbians. I'm not a gay disaster, or a hopeless romantic. I don't conform to any lesbian stereotypes in clothing. When I was talking to my lesbian friend about how I'm not a relationship kind of person and I'm mostly looking for fun I thought to myself "I'm just another straight girl to her" one time I joked about how I don't get the "gay people walk fast" joke bcs I'm so fucking slow and she said "maybe you're not gay" like what??

When did a requirement for being a lesbian become anything other than being attracted to (only) women?

Not to mention not buying into their bullshit gender ideology.

I realize this sounds cringey and I know probably other lesbians feel the same but it is how I often feel surrounded by media (and irl "queer" ppl) who constantly condone those harmful stereotypes. I'm just a normal fucking person who likes women. Nothing to it.

Mermer · 2021-08-30T23:39:12+00:00

See, you're jealous of girls because they get to be feminine and like men without a stigma. Every gnc gay person has experienced this.

If you knew what being a girl is really like it wouldn't be so colourful anymore. Anyone else seen that Tim Ted Talk when he's shocked sexism is a thing after he transitioned?

Mermer · 2021-07-29T21:02:14+00:00

"Please please please tell me you mean that just as a clapback and not as internalized transphobia"

💀 Liking Dick automatically makes you a woman y'all. Not homophobic at all.

Mermer · 2022-02-26T02:19:14+00:00

I can't believe they menaged to make the UKRAINIAN WAR about themselves. Also I'm pretty sure the bombs don't care about your"gender identity". Go fuck yourself.

Mermer · 2022-01-19T20:49:59+00:00

Wait, hol up. How is he kinky AND asexual?

Mermer · 2021-12-28T21:33:59+00:00

They said they’ve always felt like they “don’t fit in anywhere,” and now when they look at their reflection, see “a human being so far away from norms, misogyny and labels.”

Ah yes. I'm not like other girls, misogyny doesn't concern me.

I'm sorry girl, but you can't escape misogyny.

Mermer · 2021-07-31T13:17:54+00:00

"If I say It's he/him will I get paid more?"

Mermer · 2021-01-08T00:18:24+00:00

No one is making anyone sleep with anybody!

Oh and I hope you die, TERF!

(/S)

Mermer · 2020-12-05T11:01:23+00:00

What is GNC anyway? Is it your appearance? Is it your life style? Is it that you have a personality as opposed to being defined by gender stereotypes? We fight for true women's image because TRAs are apparently anything but a woman while still being a lesbian because being a woman is too degrading for them! You're the ones discluding yourselfs from womanhood because you "don't feel like a woman" and you accuse US of being old fashioned?!?

Mermer · 2020-11-13T15:13:30+00:00

So sick of this. There is no such thing as "feeling male/female" You are a god damn man or you're a god damn woman and that's not an area for creativity, those are just biological statements and they determine how people treat you, there is no denial to that.

Mermer · 2022-02-27T18:29:26+00:00

As older generations die off and social conservatism becomes less relevant or changes into something else the goal should be normalization so that people don't use this identity as some social statement.

This. Too many girls seem to "be gay" just for the sake of being different and pissing people off. All while having a boyfriend. So gay 🙃

Mermer · 2021-09-02T12:45:22+00:00

On behalf of bisexual community, we decline.

Mermer · 2022-05-25T22:48:53+00:00

B- but- aesthetic 🥺

Mermer · 2022-04-03T00:19:09+00:00

I'm sorry (not really) but how is not realizing you like women from the beginning of your life bcs it's not seen as normal or natural appealing? What would I GIVE to just KNOW it was a thing to have that OPTION to simply BE without any sort of special attention to the fact I like girls.

Mermer · 2021-10-07T10:13:03+00:00

They really think they did something

Mermer · 2020-12-22T20:23:08+00:00

Newsflash not the whole world is America! I have no rights, according to my government I'm not even a person.

Mermer · 2022-01-17T10:07:16+00:00

God, if I ever encounter a "transbian" I need to reject I'll just say "I'm not transphobic, you're just ugly". Maybe that'll validate them 🥰

Mermer · 2022-01-10T09:53:02+00:00

I was already nauseous but this is gonna make me puke.

Mermer · 2021-08-10T00:33:20+00:00

It's only ok to be a woman if you're a man

Mermer · 2022-04-29T15:41:42+00:00

Bahaha 😅 I love this we need more memes here

Mermer · 2022-03-14T00:12:45+00:00

Mean lesbians 🛐

Mermer · 2022-03-12T18:28:39+00:00

As an antinatalist: 🤮

Mermer · 2022-01-04T05:17:33+00:00

Being gay is to love men

Not to inaccurately describe a group I'm not a part of but from my observations no one hates men more than people who are attracted to them.

Mermer · 2021-10-10T08:04:47+00:00

Except the real lesbians don't qualify as lesbians

Mermer · 2021-09-28T10:39:34+00:00

Gold star gay is just a word to describe someone who has never been with the opposite sex. It's not meant to offend.

As a gold star lesbian it makes me feel good about myself that I never had gone through any experience with a man. That doesn't mean I shame people who did.

Mermer · 2021-01-12T23:46:54+00:00

I mean I was curious enough to watch it but it's typical TRAs bs. "I was a woman before any transitioning thus no, my SRS does not make me a woman" blah blah blah, "my genitalia don't define my gender" blah blah blah. "She mad because we're prettier" blah blah blah.

But the worst of all imo was how he completely demeaned and ignored the growing number of detransitioners. He litteraly said "the small percentage is just a fact I'm not going to acknowledge that the numbers are increasing on some subreddit" like they were nothing and like the trans community isn't hurting anybody.

I am so disgusted by how they think being a woman is looking like them, ability to get a man's attention and hating on actual women and bulling people into "accepting" them. I don't think it's worth watching if you can't stand that. I know I can't but we have to do something to stop them.

Mermer · 2021-08-08T19:03:43+00:00

I get being turned on by lesbians/gays. But to the point of needing to date them? What is different about them from people who would actually be into you. Those people have serious problems. Probably same people who complain about a ship being "boring" and "bland" when they actually like each other.

Mermer · 2021-12-03T00:17:20+00:00

I can't believe people take the non-binary crap seriously

Mermer · 2021-09-19T09:46:12+00:00

Don't you know? Only men can be women. Everybody can be a lesbian tho.

Mermer · 2022-04-27T00:03:45+00:00

"LwiththeT" barf

Mermer · 2022-03-28T13:45:39+00:00

I couldn't listen to the speeches "As a queer woman of color blah blah. Like I obviously get why those things matter but you got an award for your accomplishments not for being black or gay or whatever. It makes it sound so political (which it was).

Disclaimer: I am not familiar with her work I am not saying something was or wasn't deserved. I'm just saying the phrasing of the overall ceremony and constantly hearing "queer" "woman" "color" etc. Gave me an eye roll. It doesn't seem like it's "my race, sex and orientation don't matter, only my accomplishment and this equal opportunity" more like "I'm oppressed so give me an award to be woke".

Mermer · 2022-02-11T17:01:43+00:00

w h a t

Mermer · 2022-02-11T16:55:35+00:00

God, I'm so sick of "sex bad, romance good" narrative. Imo wanting someone for their body to satisfy a natural need and desire (and being honest about it) is waaaaay less toxic than burdening someone with your unrealistic expectations of some magical feeling they're supposed to feel and on top of it putting the weight of your self-esteem on them.

Mermer · 2022-01-30T19:19:49+00:00

Ha! Good one

Mermer · 2022-01-08T11:16:24+00:00

It's not easy, I went on HER and everyone had pronounces, I immediately swiped left on anything that wasn't she/her. I started sexing with a girl that had lesbian as her orientation and then later on told me she doesn't care about gender as long as they love her. I'm not looking for a relationship so I'd still love to see her and hook up but it's hard to find another lesbian who isn't into the whole queer trans bullshit and looks like a normal person.

Mermer · 2022-01-01T15:08:46+00:00

Congratu-fucking-lations for going after men that'd actually be interested and attracted to you. 👏

What a concept.

Mermer · 2021-10-14T11:28:22+00:00

Trans ideology is a religion, which I don't believe in. Being gay is a sin? I don't care, I'm an atheist, leave me alone. Being gay is transphobic? I don't care, I don't believe in that shit, leave me the fuck alone. The only problem is that nobody cares if I'm an atheist. It doesn't affect my career or my relationships. But if I'm transphobic I have to cater to their beliefs so my friends don't villainize me and so that I don't get cancelled. I aspire to be a content creator one day, hopefully. No one will care if I decide not to bring religion into my work because why would I if I'm an atheist? But If I slightly express I don't want any trans bullshit in my work I'll immediately get cancelled.

Mermer · 2021-10-10T12:43:29+00:00

God I wish. I had hope for her being on my side but she's not there yet. Once she was like "I don't understand "non-binary" but I respect it". We are both fans of The Owl House and when a new character Rain appeared she asked me if he was a man or non-binary and I said as neutrally as possible "non-binary" and she said "yey" and now his ship with Eda is her favorite and I despise the character (especially people who say he's a lesbian 🤢). When we talked about the new Sex Education season I couldn't say what I thought about the nb girl or that I thought Hope had valid points and the main reason I hate her is the pregnancy plotline (I'm an antinatalist). Interestingly, she didn't say she hated her and I imagine someone who supports the non-binary would but she still uses the correct pronounces around trans people and all when I'm trying to stay as quiet and neutral as possible. She's not on social media so I don't know what it would take for her to peak. I don't think she fears me cancelling her lol, I stayed chill when she accidentally "misgendered" Double Trouble from She-ra but she's too nice to have her own opinions on this topic.

Mermer · 2021-08-03T22:27:37+00:00

There's no way in hell I'd sleep with a tim and I do not need to explain myself to anyone.

Mermer · 2021-08-03T22:24:45+00:00

Why are they so obsessed with who people sleep with 💀

Mermer · 2021-01-14T10:01:10+00:00

http://imgur.com/a/MoQQaph

Here are some top comments

Mermer · 2022-04-11T11:50:44+00:00

Ah yes only male love has validity and it's totally gonna be same as in an AO3 or a Wattpad fanfic.

(Not saying only liking men is political lol but this really comes of as a type of woman who only values men in her life.)

Mermer · 2022-01-21T10:27:18+00:00

That's just delusional. Attraction to women is praised and (thankfully) normalized (in youth culture) but being boy crazy is just as normal heck, even more acceptable. Woman or man, people go crazy when a pretty boy does the bare minimum of being a decent person. And if you're a woman who likes men you won't ever get attacked or looked down upon for exclusively liking men.

Mermer · 2022-01-04T05:28:28+00:00

Yes exactly, the youth culture villainizes sex. It's such a norm to crave a romantisized version of relationships and they think that not being sexual makes them morally superior. No. You don't have to crave a romantic relationship or feel ashamed for craving sex especially if it's only with people who you're attracted to.

Mermer · 2021-06-12T21:44:07+00:00

Someone said Marceline from Adventure Time is bi, which she is.

Mermer · 2021-01-15T13:35:43+00:00

Wwww-what? Is he able to breast feed? What the fuck? Is the baby going to feed on silicone? What is his point? What? I truly don't get it is there any sort of logic to this man wanting a baby to suck on his nipple in public if he can't feed it? This is the second most I've been creeped out by them.

Mermer · 2022-03-26T09:58:12+00:00

Have a FTM "friend" she seemed to like me a lot and there wouldn't be a problem... If she wasn't trans. When it got to the point the friend group (especially my best friend) started calling her by a male name and pronounce I just stopped referring to her all together. Stoped talking about her or If nessesary, avoided pronounce at all cost. Nothing much to add here, I truly feel sorry for her. It's clear she wants to escape womanhood but she will only hurt her body in the meaningless process. I can't say a word tho. Plus it's so clear no one actually buys into this but they have to for politics sake. I can see the exhaustion on my bsf's face whenever she talks about her and has to use the "correct" references or when she forced herself to talk about Demi Lovato as a "they" (big eye roll). Ugh I'm so done with all this I wished it stopped.

Mermer · 2022-01-06T07:14:02+00:00

Just proved you still see non-binary people as their agab

Yeah what about it

Mermer · 2022-01-04T05:22:38+00:00

Because bisexuality doesn't validate the gender specials

Mermer · 2021-05-07T19:51:38+00:00

I mean I would

Mermer · 2021-12-14T00:25:32+00:00

When a straight man says he hates vaginas that's just sus. But when a gay man says it? So fucking what, genitalia are gross on it's own, let alone the ones you're not attracted to.

Mermer · 2021-12-11T08:35:27+00:00

This might be controversial but what the hell.

This is why I don't get the hostility towards straight girls. Who cares if they want to expirement or kiss a girl at a party for fun? You know what you're getting into with them and it's your choice weather you want to participate in it or not.

What they don't do, is appropriate labels and communities they don't belong in. At least from my experience, they say they're straight and acknowledge the fact they don't want to get with a girl for real instead of calling themselves bi because it's the "right" thing to identify as, other wise you're not open minded and honest with yourself bcs "everyone is gay". No they're not.

Mermer · 2021-10-26T07:29:18+00:00

They use accusations like this to cope with their loneliness. It's probably hard being trans. You what else it's hard to be? A lesbian. It hurts to know how little of us there actually is. It hurts that no matter how amazing we are to our straight friends they'll never see us anything real but it's not a political thing to not be attracted to somebody. You think lesbians are some mean privileged group that oppresses you by not sleeping with you. We just learn how to conceal our feelings and respect women's boundaries. And yet you have the audacity to make us the villains and call us "not real" lesbians. Get a fucking life, there's more to it than dating and sex.

Mermer · 2021-09-30T21:59:40+00:00

As long as he leaves us alone 🤷🏻‍♀️

Mermer · 2021-09-19T09:42:25+00:00

I assure you, I've seen planty lesbians say they're "still attracted to "Elliot" Page" or Change their label to "bi" after their gf came out as trans. They can't seem to grasp a concept of what SEXuality is.

Mermer · 2021-08-20T17:41:41+00:00

I've come to hate the word "queer" but I didn't want to use "LGB" cause we all know where that would get me and I didn't want to use "LGBT" because it doesn't concern trans people.

Mermer · 2021-01-13T08:47:41+00:00

Well according to TRAs ideology "many AFABs feel disconnected from their womanhood due to the fact they like women therefore he/him lesbians are valid". Fuck you. Women love women. That is like women^2. There is nothing "disconnecting from your womanhood" about loving ladies. Sexist and homophobic dressed up as "woke".

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