What queer means to the people who call themselves queer. They are not like LGB who just wanna live their lives. by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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Well, I'm glad to hear they disassociate queerness from being gay!

Porn is a helluva drug by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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B- but- aesthetic 🥺

Just got asked my pronouns at a job interview. by strawberrysun in LGBDropTheT

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"If I say It's he/him will I get paid more?"

Planning underway for the trans Holocaust by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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You telling me all the times I had no make up on I was a man? Including right now? Why did no one tell me? 😱 What name should I choose?

Woke Homophobia by _Moon_ in LGBDropTheT

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No one is making anyone sleep with anybody!

Oh and I hope you die, TERF!

(/S)

Translesbian asking real lesbians if they like men <3 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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God, if I ever encounter a "transbian" I need to reject I'll just say "I'm not transphobic, you're just ugly". Maybe that'll validate them 🥰

Excuse me, lesbians, can you overlook my transness and date me, pwease? 🥺 It's just a label, after all! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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On behalf of bisexual community, we decline.

Are gay men really straight guys who love them tiddies? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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My bi boyfriend likes my boobs

If only there was an explanation 🧐

AskGayBros has a very rigid and exclusively sex based idea of being Gay - what an outrage by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Being gay is to love men

Not to inaccurately describe a group I'm not a part of but from my observations no one hates men more than people who are attracted to them.

Queer activism hasn't "normalized" homosexuality, it's only made fetishizing it more acceptable. by lunarstrain in LGBDropTheT

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As older generations die off and social conservatism becomes less relevant or changes into something else the goal should be normalization so that people don't use this identity as some social statement.

This. Too many girls seem to "be gay" just for the sake of being different and pissing people off. All while having a boyfriend. So gay 🙃

r/askgaybros - You DONT understand TRANS GAY MAN!!! (she’s mad and she’s not gonna take it anymore) by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I’m twice as man as you

Whoooop, there it is!

LGB Drop The Hobos...? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Bad side effects of living on the internet, everyone.

Save our gays! Stamp out cis phallocentrism! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I thought misogyny targeted women 🤨🔎

A bi man and a bi woman in a relationship are more gay than a gay relationship. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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I mean I would

Lesbian sex just keeps getting weirder by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Honestly I'm so glad I don't understand all the terminology

Me saying "LGB" by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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Bahaha 😅 I love this we need more memes here

Young Justice has been woke kool-aided by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

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No silly, everyone will magically know her pronounce otherwise they're bigots 🙄 Don't you know once you come out it's illegal to not know someone's gender even if it changes every 5 seconds?

Lesbians you meet along the way by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Wait, hol up. How is he kinky AND asexual?

Woman on r/gaytransguys wants to remain a woman but still date gay men by CaptainMoose in LGBDropTheT

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I don't want validation from men except I only want to date men who will give me gender validation.

Can the polyamory people please fuck off from LGB people? by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

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I don't even have energy for one relationship

No gay man appreciates the intricacies of her gender presentation by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Congratu-fucking-lations for going after men that'd actually be interested and attracted to you. 👏

What a concept.

And thus we are lesbians by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I was already nauseous but this is gonna make me puke.

Simple: Men can't be lesbians by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Just proved you still see non-binary people as their agab

Yeah what about it

Episode 2: Are you dating women or dating vaginas? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Would you look at that I have no dick-related trauma 🤡

If you won't submit to our conversion efforts, we will have to redouble them r/AGB by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Lmao this cracked me up

http://imgur.com/a/TJ8bOBI

Just when you think they can’t possibly be any more insufferable by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Oh my god what a bigot, saying women menstruate? 🙄

When will people get it? Lesbians are not attracted to men! by bolla_top in LGBDropTheT

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Don't you know? Only men can be women. Everybody can be a lesbian tho.

Not hiding it anymore by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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w h a t

This TRA claims "there is a spectrum between the two sexes and one can become less of a man and more of a woman", thoughts? by YallHoes in GenderCritical

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No one is 100% a woman... Except when you're trans, right?

It's like saying no one is 100% straight, but you can be 100% gay. No. Some people are just straight and frankly, most of them are. Accept the reality kids.

"The Science of Being Transgender" (Thoughts on this video?) by Kai_Decadence in GenderCritical

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Transphobes are stupid This proves trans people are valid

Definitely smart person words

Are gay women "masculine" because of the "manly brains", and gay men "feminine" because of the "lady brains"? I thought there's no such thing as a "masculine" or "feminine" brain? by UWUness in GenderCritical

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So if I'm a feminine lesbian does that mean I'm really a feminine man, therefore a gay man, therefore really a woman?

The Blue Fairy granted my wish and now I’m a real girl by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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I haven't shaved my legs in so long am I becoming man? Oh wait but I do shave my armpits, does that make me gender fluid?

Happy international narcissists day by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Except the real lesbians don't qualify as lesbians

Snowflakes mad for calling a relationship between a man and a woman straight. Actual bi people don't seem to care by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

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Yes. Why is this an issue?

Well, at least I fought for what was right. by SexualityCritical in GenderCritical

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Whaat- lesbians- women? No no no, liking the same sex disconnects you from womanhood so surly lesbians must be another gender! I'm not homophobic tho even though I think men can be lesbians/s

Comedian Eddie Izzard receives wave of support for using she/her pronouns by sadbihours in LGBDropTheT

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Actually I was assigned unicorn at birth but I've struggled hard to transition in to a mermaid. Well, mermaid is one of many things I am or could be depending on a feeling but I am NOT a unicorn! So please use preferably mermaid pronounce but anything other that the unicorn works, I may not have a tail but I really feel like a fish and that's what counts, right? Hope I don't drawn!

Whaat the actual fuck. I am so tired of this by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

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Will the world ever be sane? This is the comment on "Elliot" Page coming out

Also, kinda unrelated, there's this really cool youtuber "Negative Legend" and I adored him for being very non-comforming. Just your every day "feminine" guy who fucking owns it and does it flawlessly. Or so I thought. Newest video and what do I see? A fucking "non-binary" sticker. I've lost hope.

I'm very sad and tired of the bullshit. LET MEN BE MEN AND WOMEN BE WOMEN.

That feeling when a TRA you don't trust tries to befriend you out of the blue by wafflegaff in LGBDropTheT

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Have a FTM "friend" she seemed to like me a lot and there wouldn't be a problem... If she wasn't trans. When it got to the point the friend group (especially my best friend) started calling her by a male name and pronounce I just stopped referring to her all together. Stoped talking about her or If nessesary, avoided pronounce at all cost. Nothing much to add here, I truly feel sorry for her. It's clear she wants to escape womanhood but she will only hurt her body in the meaningless process. I can't say a word tho. Plus it's so clear no one actually buys into this but they have to for politics sake. I can see the exhaustion on my bsf's face whenever she talks about her and has to use the "correct" references or when she forced herself to talk about Demi Lovato as a "they" (big eye roll). Ugh I'm so done with all this I wished it stopped.

AskGayBros has a very rigid and exclusively sex based idea of being Gay - what an outrage by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Because bisexuality doesn't validate the gender specials

What are some good ways to support GNC kids? by reluctant_commenter in LGBDropTheT

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God, now my "not like other girls" phase doesn't seem as cringey as thinking I'm actually a man would have been.

The irony - complaining because "online queer folk have decided lesbians can have sex with men for fun" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I don't think we should be spreading the idea of being pressed about who sleeps with who. Why don't lesbians get to be bi-curious? I think many lesbians struggle with accepting being a lesbian because how it is forbidden for them to even find a man attractive. You can appreciate someone's attractiveness, hell even have a crush on them but never actually see them in that way realistically. And maybe you can even try it with a very special man for the pure sake of experimentation or fun without having to disgenuinely identify as bi. Idk, if you ask me, using men for sex without actually liking them or with having 0 intentions of anything real seems pretty gay to me. Just my opinion, pls don't attack me if you disagree.

Wow, ok, edit: call me crazy but I still don't think purely circumstantial, one in a million probably heavily power imbalanced sex with a man makes you bi if you don't seek relations with men on regular basis. Also, finding a man attractive ≠ being attracted to him especially if you don't normally find men attractive.

If these girls would use some more specific label like "bisexual homoromantic" you'd probably be rolling your eyes. Labels are societal and signal who you're interested in so I do not think it is fair to call yourself bi if you don't like men and you're not interested in them.

Edit 2: afterthoughts, if anyone even sees this. I'm not saying what those girls are doing is right. You really shouldn't be sleeping with people just because you're bored. But if that's your reasoning behind it I really wouldn't count it as attraction.

The ACLU replaced "woman" in Ruth Bader Ginsburg's quote by chiobu in GenderCritical

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Don't you know men get pregnant too, read some biology books 🙄/s

My selfish wif... er, birthing person by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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I'm sorry, assault??

Just stop. Get help by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

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When I was in middle school I wrote a fantasy love story about a woman "from a male perspective".Taylor Swift moment.

The annual cult recruitment has officially started! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Being a lesbian is sooooo easy 👍

Excuse me, lesbians, can you overlook my transness and date me, pwease? 🥺 It's just a label, after all! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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OH MY GOD ANOTHER TYPE OF PICK ME

[Particularly] Lesbians of s/GC: would (could) you date a girl with pro-trans views? Is trans support a red flag in LGB circles? by jjdub7 in GenderCritical

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Sleep/make out? Sure, why not

Date? Absolutely not.

Incel Mode Activated by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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It's only ok to be a woman if you're a man

Frustrations as a GNC Gay man (Trans/Nb Nonsense) by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

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Same goes for GNC women. I'm sick of the misogyny so strong to the point where being called a woman is a slur. Women are amazing!

I'm gay. I like men. No, not THOSE men. But we're still men. I mean... um... er... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I get being turned on by lesbians/gays. But to the point of needing to date them? What is different about them from people who would actually be into you. Those people have serious problems. Probably same people who complain about a ship being "boring" and "bland" when they actually like each other.

'Preferred pronouns' are a form of sexist bullying - The Post by BiologyIsReal in GenderCritical

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They called a woman a she? What did the police say?

The comments call this dog a terf for knowing a tim is actually male by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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http://imgur.com/a/MoQQaph

Here are some top comments

They're comin' for the animals too by fuckupaddams in GenderCritical

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They can't be serious

I hate the T it's so demanding by Mermer in LGBDropTheT

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I meant demaging* but hey, the title is not wrong

Cycling through the LGBTIQQAAXYZWTF one identity at a time by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Ughh I hate that I actually know someone like this. She wore make up (She is still pre everything) and was like "I know I know, a man can still wear make up, but something something blah blah blah" or she used an offensive slur that normally refers to a gay man on herself and it's just constant eye roll but I have to play nice.

Heartstopper by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Honestly, I doubt anyone here would bother to actually watch it. Totally not my vibe, but I am watching with Cindy commentary on YT, you could check that out!

J K Rowling is hurling so many bricks at Stonewall this week she's practically a registered builder by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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"LwiththeT" barf

They really want to be oppressed so hecking bad! by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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But they have a disorder so they can be dicks 🥺

Sorry but I don't want to pretend they're not annoying. Ppl will talk about how shitty they treated ppl and then blame it on adhd/autism and then they're the victims. You're still dicks.

Tell me you're a virgin without telling me... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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So your're saying someone is only of value when they sleep with you? Hmmm

Wonder who's the asshole here.

Does it make sense? by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

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Also that's literally the point of it. To not specify gender. It doesn't make sense when we know who we are talking about.

Society is so cruel to her and her fellow gay men by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Ah yes only male love has validity and it's totally gonna be same as in an AO3 or a Wattpad fanfic.

(Not saying only liking men is political lol but this really comes of as a type of woman who only values men in her life.)

"Lesbian" who's "dealing with CompHet" is jealous of coming out experiences. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I'm sorry (not really) but how is not realizing you like women from the beginning of your life bcs it's not seen as normal or natural appealing? What would I GIVE to just KNOW it was a thing to have that OPTION to simply BE without any sort of special attention to the fact I like girls.

Weird, huh? by Chunkeeguy in GenderCritical

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Poor child

Suddenly bi humor really bothers me by Mermer in Lesbians

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What? I never said being lesbian is lesser. I said that the culture around me makes me feel like I've lost something. It's not the case but it's how I felt. Do you know how often I see media that portrays bisexuality as superior? It's been a while since that post and those feelings aren't relevant anymore but I was literally complaining about the media not saying "I'm a worst person now".

Reposted by request - Oscar winner is first person of alphabet to win Academy Award by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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I couldn't listen to the speeches "As a queer woman of color blah blah. Like I obviously get why those things matter but you got an award for your accomplishments not for being black or gay or whatever. It makes it sound so political (which it was).

Disclaimer: I am not familiar with her work I am not saying something was or wasn't deserved. I'm just saying the phrasing of the overall ceremony and constantly hearing "queer" "woman" "color" etc. Gave me an eye roll. It doesn't seem like it's "my race, sex and orientation don't matter, only my accomplishment and this equal opportunity" more like "I'm oppressed so give me an award to be woke".

I'm sick of these surface level comparisons, we are not the same by lunarstrain in LGBDropTheT

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There's a difference between wanting to kiss someone of the same sex and LITERALLY HURTING YOUR BODY IRREVERSABLY AND GETTING OFF ON PEOPLE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND YOU. Natural desire vs outright delusion.

Remember who the real victims of discrimination are by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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There's nothing wrong with having a label of your own but It is not something to adapt as an identity. It's something personal. You can have your own community, memes and whatever but it is not something you can join us over. No one cares irl. Maybe your friends and people you date. But if it can be explained without special labels it's not that big of a deal. It's not not normal to not be that much into sex or to not want to date/have a romantic relationship.

Everyone is a menace! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Mean lesbians 🛐

Queer Theory is cancerous by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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Yep I agree 😁

Queer activism hasn't "normalized" homosexuality, it's only made fetishizing it more acceptable. by lunarstrain in LGBDropTheT

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Fr, the movement only makes it look like it's a choice. "Women are great" "dating women is so much better". No. Sure, I like being a lesbian but I also hate it. It's so lonely. It's not a fucking aesthetic or something I wish I was because of the world we live in that is not your internet fantasy. This kind of narrative only makes more straight girls say shit like "I wish I was a lesbian". It's so fucking insensitive. I don't like women because they're better. I simply am attracted to them because that's just how I am. I'm tired of being treated like a joke.

heh by xandit in LGBDropTheT

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A guy told me, a lesbian I look conservative 💀 just bcs I dress like a normal person. (He knew I was a lesbian)

Make love, not war... Especially trans love!!! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I can't believe they menaged to make the UKRAINIAN WAR about themselves. Also I'm pretty sure the bombs don't care about your"gender identity". Go fuck yourself.

That one scene from Alex Strangelove 👌 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I've seen it multiple times, it's a good comfort movie but it is about denial and coming out so I guess it depends if you're not tired of that kind of movies.

How do they not think this is erasure? by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

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Wait what?

Ovarit invite? by theytookourjerbs in Lesbians

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Sure, that'd be nice

r/gaytransguys - Why don’t gay men send me cute emojis and tell me how they want to hold my hand on Grindr? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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God, I'm so sick of "sex bad, romance good" narrative. Imo wanting someone for their body to satisfy a natural need and desire (and being honest about it) is waaaaay less toxic than burdening someone with your unrealistic expectations of some magical feeling they're supposed to feel and on top of it putting the weight of your self-esteem on them.