I just got broken up with because my girlfriend decided she is trans. by TarshishJupiter in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 71 insightful - 1 fun71 insightful - 0 fun72 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hey gal- this is a blessing in disguise. You can date a person for years and think you know them and it still won’t work out. What’s important is that you aren’t in a relationship anymore with someone whos core values don’t match your own, who is literally not the person you started dating 3 years ago. You’re a lesbian and that’s wonderful! Honor yourself by knowing whatever she is she isn’t for you.

As of this day her health and well being are no longer your emotional burden. Like you said she’s an adult and she alone is responsible for her choices. You will go through a chemical withdrawal of sorts not seeing her but it WILL pass and you WILL get over her.

Distance is SO important right now as is talking to people who support you.

My advice? You are not her emotional crutch in the future if she starts trying to emotionally guilt you into comforting or validating her! You need space-she has her genderspecial friends and is not your responsibly. That means not responding to texts where she acts crazy, needy, angry, or depressed. Not your responsibly.

Now is the time to busy yourself with hobbies, small goals you can set for your own personal growth, and lots of self-love.

You deserve a good woman and you know this is for the best! She was well on her way to making your relationship a living hell of social posturing and catering to her sudden trans desire over you and the relationship, trust me, I've seen it happen. The women who get trapped with suddenly trans partners become a prop and an emotional punching bag.

You deserve a real woman who is stable and builds you up. And being single is a BLAST you will be loving it! It’s all about you exploring new interests, experiences, having a healthy routine, and learning more about yourself now.

TRAs still trying to shut down r/detrans. Forced them to remove long-time mod, DetransIS by Terfenclaw in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 70 insightful - 1 fun70 insightful - 0 fun71 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

TRA are creepy losers. I hope detrans people can find support irl since they can’t have any space online without being brigaded, bullied, and stalked. Awful.

TRA Twitter poll "Are Transwomen women?" - majority of voters clicked No by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 69 insightful - 2 fun69 insightful - 1 fun70 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I feel so loved every day when men physically grab me on the street and I can’t get them off me because I’m weaker and afraid they’ll pull a weapon! Also love being told to smile then called a bitch when I don’t <3 SO much love it’s super great being a woman such a privilege teehee I just walk into an office and men are staring at my chest calling me cupcake at a work meeting it makes me feel SO special and loved

Meanwhile on r/actualtransbians a few lesbians apparently still hang out. "Can we stop objectifying women who are just doing their jobs?" by Lady_Montgomery in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 61 insightful - 11 fun61 insightful - 10 fun62 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

A commenter posted that “women should stop being simps for other women” and I checked their post history and they are literally a MALE and INCEL-complete with self pity posts and photos of himself-clearly a “cis” man who hates himself and women but is posting regularly in lesbian subreddits.

How many of those make up the “lesbian” reddit community now hm?

"we can have trans only spaces, but you can't have single sex spaces" - trans person, as is typical, can't understand why lgbdropthet is a thing by denverkris in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 54 insightful - 7 fun54 insightful - 6 fun55 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

I gotta say transmen are some of the biggest handmaidens and that says a lot about gender roles and identity

JK Rowling claims society is on brink of 'medical scandal' over transgender issues by RADFEM90 in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 56 insightful - 2 fun56 insightful - 1 fun57 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine if people radically loved themselves enough to dress and act however they like without getting surgery to feel valid.

The bleak truth is a lot of twenty-somethings and teens are going to end up unable to orgasm or have normal sexual relations with themselves let alone anyone else.

But it’s ok the TRAs will just assure them they’ve been asexual their whole lives and should just enter sexless relationships with other trans and non-binary people just because they will “accept” them and that’s all they can hope to get in life.

I’m already seeing this happen irl. You think the celebrity trans have a hard time getting dates with the cis people they desire? For normal trans people it’s even more hopeless.

Because loving yourself, having confidence, and working on your self all go against TRA groupthink. You can only connect with others though pain, despair, and trauma bonding. Everyone is a victim. Then they wonder why their community is so toxic.

Explanation of non-binary that's not sexist? by bradjohnsonishere2 in GenderCritical

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People who identify as non-binary are just the new emo kids trying to be edgy, different, and unique. If an adult tells me they're non-binary I safely assume they're not doing so hot in life and probably have a shit service job and no meaningful relationships.

A man/transwoman commits suicide after botched neovagina surgery. These surgeries are dangerous! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 47 insightful - 1 fun47 insightful - 0 fun48 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I can’t find this posted on reddit and would share there if I didn’t think it’d be removed because my account there is flagged for being a TERF. Can someone post this so it reaches more people since they were a redditor?

This is terrifying. The fantasy of becoming a female woman meets reality -though I’m also disgusted seeing them write “I have no value even as a cumdumpster”. I feel that sums up what they thought being a woman would be-that they’d at least have inherent value as a sex object, because they are mentally ill and seeking validation from others which should be addressed by counseling and self acceptance NOT cutting up their body to mimic what they think a woman looks and feels like and being led to think becoming female will make their mental illness and self hatred go away.

For fucks sake being a man or woman is such a small part of who we are inside as our true selves. That’s what has to be worked on not how you “present” to others.

Basically amputated their dick and had the physical and mental trauma of that as well as an all new body dysmorphia from surgical construction of a Frankenstein vagina. And their community attacked them and gave them half hearted, artificial online virtue-signal cheerleading instead of genuine support and empathy. Terrible.

Meanwhile on r/actualtransbians a few lesbians apparently still hang out. "Can we stop objectifying women who are just doing their jobs?" by Lady_Montgomery in LGBDropTheT

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Very self aware wolves haha

/r/actuallesbians: the perfect place for all your trans related questions by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 42 insightful - 5 fun42 insightful - 4 fun43 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

There was just a post from a transwoman upset about finding “other lesbians” to date because shockingly lesbians don’t want to date them. Claims they’re being “ostracized” by lesbians and have only had negative experiences. Stop trying to date women who are ACTUALLY lesbian maybe? Oh you don’t like penis but when it’s your penis you expect lesbians to?

A lesbian couple in a lesbian subreddit, 2020 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 39 insightful - 5 fun39 insightful - 4 fun40 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

HOLD UP one is a “little” aka the adults who fetishise a partner acting like a baby or child (literally specific age 0-5) and their partner acts sexually as the PARENT UGH literally degenerate.

And they post such gross pictures not just this post-sex one but other selfies where they have clearly dried snot under their nose and literally look like a male serial killer with a bow strapped to their head...

"OP is a TERF" "Oh TERFS are the worst!" by RedditHatesLesbians in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 41 insightful - 1 fun41 insightful - 0 fun42 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’ve seen so many reddit threads where someone is called a TERF, their comment is deleted, and when others ask what they said it’s brushed off with “they were a TERF!” as if the blatant censorship didn’t matter because hypothetically someone said something offensive and usually it’s as tame as “I don’t want to date someone trans” or “a woman is a person born with 2X chromosomes”

Why are most trans people white? by BiologicalMolecule in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Being comfortable and coming from privilege and money isn't cool right now. The white kids with a vacation home are snapchatting their self harm and gender politics to feel relevant.

Take this for what you will, i'm white and grew up with mixed family and was always the minority at school race-wise. The non-white community I grew up with had its share of non-gender conforming people, lots of black gay women who presented male, and effeminate black men with a female nickname, and we just live and let live with them. Bi people and gays in my experience were accepted without question by the majority of the black community ( I can only speak for the one I grew up in). And gender non-conforming clothing was also more culturally acceptable imho than in the white circles.

BUT when I transferred to a majority white school, it felt like many white kids who, like myself, come from a comfortable middle class or higher really struggle to define themselves and have to ANNOUNCE to everyone when they're depressed, when they're a different sexuality, as a core personality trait instead of just one facet of their being.

Even now the non-whites I know who are gay/lesbian and yes trans, they don't make a big deal about it. They come out, they are activists in their real life community, but they aren't hateful or as loud and obnoxious as the white TRA crowd. I can't say why; maybe being a minority and all the challenges they face mutes any desire to play the oppression olympics?

A lot of TRA activity online, if you do some quick snooping, is perpetrated by really young white kids, like, as young as 13. People who are currently still growing up (generalizing bear with me) in relative comfort who need both a sense of community/identity and struggle to cling to to give themselves purpose.

Also, being white means you can be much more violent, obnoxious, and attention-seeking without consequences (I cannot stress how much this is from personal experiences; white people can come from poverty but they're not buying steroids and hormones are they hmm...)

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I began skimming r/gendercritical only a few weeks before it was banned. Reddit is where I first learned to hide that I was a woman online because it attracted harassment. I was all for “trans women are women” before JKR. I felt like I had woken up in an alternate reality and truly couldn’t identify with friends who I’d always shared common ideology with. I couldn’t for the life of me see what was transphobic about her tweets. But I recognized what was happening when people I formally respected were calling for her to be erased from history.

I realized I’d been tired of the virtue signaling for a few years now. I’m not straight but I’ve never come out as bi because I detest people who fetishized bisexuals or used their own sexuality as a platform for attention seeking. I don’t give a shit what your pronouns are I’ll gladly use them, I still got yelled at by a stranger for calling them “dude”. The PC policing of language is out of control.

I’ve lost a family member to the trans cult- they have severe mental health issues and think becoming a man will solve them. They regularly give the only people in our family reaching out to them shit because we won’t finance them 100% because they’re trans. The victim mentality is unreal and attracts toxic and controlling people into their life but I can’t interfere because everything I say or do is as a privileged cis white woman to them.

It reminds me of having impoverished friends who only sought to bring me down when I started a new job, and stopped drinking so much with them. They spewed absolute vitriol at me for breaking the cycle of self pity and failure they chose to wallow in.

That’s how I truly feel about gender politics on the whole, a bunch of people realizing it’s not only easier but you get a chemical high off of screaming and policing others and crying to yourself and your echo chamber about how hard you have it instead of working on what you can actually change in your life to better yourself and your circumstance. I think a lot of people are going to wake up to the fact that “transgender rights” is being used to silence women, females, and males, men’s rights, and fucking anyone who is comfortable with who they are and doesn’t feel it’s right to demand other humans find them attractive or want to fuck them.

r/GenderCynical can’t believe that a woman would *gasp* be sad that her husband is now trans! by hover286 in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 39 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 0 fun40 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you're ever in a mood to feel real depressed check out r/mypartneristrans it's 99% women being told their feelings don't matter and that they have to stay with and put their trans husbands wants and desires before their own. Just post after post of women being hurt, sad, and disgusted and being told over time they will condition themselves to ignore their feelings and "love" their transwoman partners despite their changing genitalia and franklyusually becoming drama queen assholes.

The relationships are SO toxic on there!

''Sorry, gender critical content is too offensive'' Meanwhile Reddit: by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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Cue women on reddit defending this by being not like the other girls and stating they too love this porn so it’s totes fine

TERFs, I see TERFs everywhere... by Lyssa in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They were never mainstream they’re a bunch of kids and stunted adults who have so little power in their real lives they get into arguments online completely based on emotion outside reality to feel something. Keep talking to people irl they usually fall between totally clueless and unknowingly TERF haha

What Wikipedia says about overwhelming consensus on trans women... by 68plus57 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 33 insightful - 2 fun33 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I will respect you, call you your chosen pronouns, but I’m not going to pretend you have a uterus or periods, I’m not going to pretend you have the female experience thereby negating real women. Fuck man. I hope the transcult bubble bursts soon. At least we still can choose our own friends and lovers irl they can’t take that away from us.

Fujoshi girl wonders why gay sex party isn't as inclusive as her college "queer" group. by artetolife in LGBDropTheT

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You mean I can’t just say I’m a man I actually have to have other desirable traits like a personality and social intelligence? These people really think they can be emotionally stunted adults that slap on a new gender identity and suddenly no need to work on themselves or even know themselves they’ll just become desirable. Honestly the biggest turn off about trans is how it broadcasts how little you know or are comfortable with yourself.

where TIM OP now thinks their 5 year old is trans by MadLass in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 32 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Oh god I saw this earlier and am simply disgusted and want someone to remove this child from their unstable home. They even post about being sexually aroused by crossdressing yeah it’s totally not a fetish.

And that book I am Jazz ?! Jazz is a poor child groomed by their mother to get a sex change to female so young they never went through male puberty and will NEVER experience sexual arousal. They had a vaginaplasty and after the reality set in that they will have to dilate it for the rest of their life(their vile mother bragged about waking them up at night to dilate it wtf) that it looks nothing like what they fantasized, and they will never experience sexual arousal or desire they disappeared from social media in the last few months citing depression so bad they couldn’t start college. I feel awful for Jazz if you watch their videos “her” eyes are dead inside and “she’s” gained so much weight from being depressed and manipulated by a mother who admitted she cried when Jazz was born male.

The trans woman OP post so much mentally unstable shit let alone They are grooming a CHILD-who would tell you they want to grow up to be a dinosaur if you told them they could.

What disgusting and rigid gender roles they’re imposing to say a little child who wears certain clothes or likes sparkles mUsT bE a GiRl.

If you go through the trans woman’s history they also post a photo saying “perk of being lesbian is not feeling weird to be a capable woman ” like doing construction work-what a sexist garbage notion something a MAN would think of women and lesbians.

My friend and mother of 3 was pregnant and the most feminine woman alive doing construction on her home with her husband until her water broke-what kind of sexist garbage are you perpetrating that straight bio women have to feel shame for being strong or doing hard labor?! Oh right because you’re a MAN and you think women are weak stereotypes.

I think what really sets us apart from the TRAs and TQ+ is our lack of hate. by annatheginguh in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 32 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I didn't interact or engage because they feed on validation and being seen.

Good for you! They’re energy vampires,narcissists, and emotionally stunted adults with a victim mentality that get an emotional high off of internet fights...

Do woke people do well in life? by Eurowoman24 in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 29 insightful - 6 fun29 insightful - 5 fun30 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

All the people doing well at my age(30) who are stable, successful, and well humble too have nothing to do with trans activism or gender politics. Like zero mention in social media or acknowledgment irl which is so refreshing.

I don’t think I know anyone who is a genderspecial who isn’t also a failure-to-launch; like, in many old HS and college mates I’ve followed over the years there is a clear divide between who is obviously happy and who is obviously still mad taking AP classes and shaving their head to “rebel” against gender norms didn’t mean happiness, love, acceptance, and success would be handed to them on a plate.

But gender politics really do attract the bottom barrel-people who have really low self esteem, weight issues, toxic attitudes and excuses for not getting out of their first entry level job or their shitty hometown.

Like theyre 30 and posting about having pride in being depressed and how hard it is to be a genderspecial- yet theyre almost always living with parents or living off an equally unsuccessful partner posting about each other’s psychotic breaks and suicide attempts for internet attention...fuck, everyone deals with mental health shit-at our age you have to SEEK HELP and stop trying to glorify your criminally average and widespread mental health problems.

Being apathetic about debilitating weight gain or having low self esteem because you have no hobbies as an adult outside tumblr is an embarrassment. High school really never ends.

Lesbians find it difficult to distinguish between their lack of desire for men and ... their lack of desire for men by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The obsession with sex and the endless need of outside validation is unreal. I think the underlining lesson is

  1. You can’t force people to desire you

  2. No one “owes you a chance”

  3. It’s not other people’s responsibility to validate you. Treat you with respect? Yes! Fuck you? Hell no.

OP calls cis men shitty for not a single one joining their GSA college club; they as a transman feel entitled to straight male members because they’re “inclusive to cis men” by Literallyawoman in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman[S] 30 insightful - 2 fun30 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That part pissed me off the most! You aren’t offering cis men anything but jealously and are crying about them not actively seeking out your hatred and I imagine your desperate need for validation and lecturing on your personal gender politics. Real men aren’t conditioned to put up with that shit.

The hilarious, the stupid, the frail and shallow... WOMEN! So why do TiM's want to "become" us so bad? by vitunrotta in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Just personal experience in the US, the trans women I know irl are all very skinny and androgynous, not stereotypically masculine at all, and two are really toxic people-controlling and needy.

Both are dating (this is harsh but true) insecure, overweight, submissive women, so when the transwomen wear flashy outfits and makeup while constantly shifting the conversation to themselves and their gender identity politics their girlfriends are “supportive” by being submissive to the point it made ME uncomfortable-just like seeing any emotionally abusive relationship out in public. It’s just so obviously an unequal partnership with lots of internalized misogyny from the women who make themselves so small for their men because they don’t love themselves or feel worthy of love and respect. Replace the stereotype of a wife-beater wearing a tank top throwing beer cans at his wife while screaming at her, with a transbian whipping her purse at her wife while screaming at her, that’s the vibe they give off....bc they’re abusive men.

And as for the transwomen/transbians they obviously are damaged from toxic masculinity and not living up to gender stereotypes for males so they go complete opposite-which is just a gender stereotype of females.

I also know a fair amount of gender fluid/queer people who are all “dating” each other but aren’t intimate romantically or sexually and essentially are forever alone roommates because again-instead of self love and respect they are cripplingly insecure and conflate love and acceptance from others with being tolerated and told they don’t have to change/work on themselves-they take so much fake pride in being overweight, or having mental health issues, as if that and their gender identity is what soley defines them as people.

And you know what, without having self esteem or putting themselves in uncomfortable situations to become healthier like getting therapy, or counting calories, or having a physical hobby, they really don’t have anything else.

They’re miserable together, constantly fighting amounts themselves and controlling each other with mental abuse like threatening suicide. It’s awful to witness and I stay tf away from them now. They're not representative of actual trans people but it seems they are the majority of the “movement” -just attention starved, emotionally stunted kids and young adults here.

TRA Twitter poll "Are Transwomen women?" - majority of voters clicked No by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know so many biological women irl that repost trans propaganda much like BLM posts just to virtue signal to other women. They don’t want anything to do with non-straight non-whites but want to look good in the public eye for their business or social groups lacking any diversity. That’s what a lot of the handmaidens are.

/r/actuallesbians: the perfect place for all your trans related questions by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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“Oh you use gaslighting and suicidal threats to manipulate others into staying in a toxic relationship with you? That’s abusive! Oh wait-you’re trans? Dysphoria is terrible and you’re so brave!”

Interesting take from our "friends" at r/gendercynical by CrashCourse in LGBDropTheT

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They made another post complaining about imaginary transphobia on r/askgaybros and are being eaten alive lol. Seriously if I wasn't working from home I wouldn't be as up-to-date, but these trans trolls are 24/7 online attacking others-no hobbies outside their identity politics...hope everyone here takes a break and enjoys life outside the internet like a functioning adult

OP calls cis men shitty for not a single one joining their GSA college club; they as a transman feel entitled to straight male members because they’re “inclusive to cis men” by Literallyawoman in LGBDropTheT

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It’s a terrible generalization; I came out as bi in college and it was a bad experience at a cornfield college. Also has nothing to do with the fact straight and gay men want nothing to do with this club; OP is just being sour grapes about it because they don’t realize how actually toxic and uninviting they are to anyone who isn’t an insecure handmaiden

TRAs are brigading r/periods. The sub is not having it! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 27 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Can we start a “No one cares what your gender identity is pass it on” trend? Because that’s 99% of gender politics debates summed up. No one cares. You don’t need to beg and scream for validation. No one cares!

Gals, is being a woman in love with another woman straight? by RedditHatesLesbians in LGBDropTheT

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I can't believe a lesbian fell for a transman! It's almost like...

TRAs, allies and lgbTTTT press FAIL to damage JKR's sales. Let the triggering commence! by Uranian in LGBDropTheT

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It’s almost like they live in a bubble

So... I made a tweet that Ricky Gervais liked that stated: "I'll give £500 to anyone who can tell what JK Rowling said that was transphobic." I am never picking up Twitter again. by Smolders1 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They’re armchair revolutionaries let them scream, you have a life and are naturally drained from fighting a hate group to be heard. I appreciate your tweet even though I’m not on Twitter

A man/transwoman commits suicide after botched neovagina surgery. These surgeries are dangerous! by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s not that simple. Just like young children are groomed sexually they are being groomed to be trans. If you wish people to die regardless but let alone who hurt themselves to feel loved and who are obviously mentally ill, you are pathetic/u/immortallogic

MADtv skit about male lesbians is now a reality. by turtleduck23 in LGBDropTheT

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Where is the LIE

TRAs, allies and lgbTTTT press FAIL to damage JKR's sales. Let the triggering commence! by Uranian in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 25 insightful - 4 fun25 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Tbf that’s how some childless adults feel about the families especially when the kids are too young to appreciate the place lmao

Yes, this is how normal lesbians dress, sure. We fought for years to be taken seriously as normal people and yet here we are... (Comments full of hugboxing and uwu-ness). Can we PLEASE drop the damn T!! by hatsofpotato in LGBDropTheT

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Ignoring the obvious dilemma of being a transwoman who thinks lesbians want their girl dick, this person SCREAMS low self esteem/high maintenance and presents themselves in an almost cartoonish caricature of female sexuality. I’d avoid them on the street let alone in a dating pool.

"We just want a safe place to pee tho" by SolRosenberg in LGBDropTheT

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Literally just another version of the “men will fuck anything that walks” saying, real progressive.

So, by Mermaids's spectrum scale, are you a Barbie or G.I Joe? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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And heels!

TRAs, allies and lgbTTTT press FAIL to damage JKR's sales. Let the triggering commence! by Uranian in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Nah, stunted adolescence is when youre not a functional adult or worse you think having kids makes you an adult. Infants and kids under 9 aren’t there for HP it’s the parents lol. HP is a series I grew up with and love so it’s fun to just fly for the weekend, visit the park, and have a beer at the Hogs Head. I have an income I have to dispose of frequently and before COVID-19 I just travelled most weekends, sometimes volunteering but yeah a lot of theme parks too! Having hobbies and interests isn’t childish, I hate to see all the parents who think they can only experience fun places if they drag a kid with them. I’m not elbowing kids out of my way or anything just enjoying the same experience sans kids.

How much porn conversation is normal when hanging out with guys? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Uh, talking about porn at all, and to this extent, tells me this guy is socially inept and frankly people who talk about sexual topics so outright usually are looking for people who don't have boundaries (people who would call them out) to latch onto because 99% of people will avoid them once they see they're unstable. Your other friends have self respect and cut this creep out of their lives.

YOU deserve to not feel uncomfortable and should tell him you think it's inappropriate and you won't talk to him about it anymore or want to hear it. YOU DONT HAVE TO FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE and him being a guy does NOT make this ok! He sounds disgusting tbh. There's a reason other people have been driven away and it's not your job to still be there just because he's lonely.

You don't owe him friendship, it doesn't make you a good person to let him use you as his social crutch. I say this from experience hanging out with the bottom feeders of society because I wanted to be the "cool girl" who didn't shy away from sex talk or mentally ill people. IT'S NOT WORTH YOUR TIME.

Other people are avoiding him because they have healthy boundaries and self respect, you do too and deserve to tell him how you feel! Stop putting his emotional health before your own. We teach people how to treat us.

There is nothing that makes me angrier than TiMs wanting an implanted uterus. by Aquadog in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

A friend of mine recently peaked and it’s been so great to see her reclaim her power and stop putting her trans and gender fluid “friends” on a pedestal above herself as a person. Women need to keep fighting and empowering others to not be fucking handmaidens.

/r/actuallesbians: the perfect place for all your trans related questions by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 23 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Yuck. Imagine looking for sexy ladies and finding a man posting for validation. If you don’t say he’s beautiful yer a terf!

So where do we go from here? by IvanAlexey in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 24 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

The way I see it-live your best life offline, be fit and healthy and have healthy outlets for creativity and physical activity unlike the twitter trolls-have meaningful and difficult conversations irl with your friends, family, and coworkers; the majority of people know and treat woke gender politics as a joke because they think it doesn’t affect them-and as long as we aren’t complicit in real life the internet brigading will ultimately be circular and superfluous.

In real life we educate our loved ones on not being taken advantage of by narcissists and opportunistic energy vampires by asserting each other’s personal worth and right to say NO to people who would pressure us to give up our bodily rights or real life LGB and Woman’s spaces.

This is a conversation i've already had with younger female family but it bears repeating in light of all the TRA garbage- your body is YOUR body and you don't owe anyone a conversation let alone a date or sex, AND the people who weaponize their victimhood to get pity friendship and dates are the MOST manipulative and toxic.

The most susceptible people are insecure teenagers and 20 somethings who broadcast their mental health disorders like a calling card for abuse. Real community in the real world matters now more than ever before the trans cult sucks up every desperate lonely kid who craves validation and feels like they don’t belong. Validate your community and foster acceptance because these termites thrive on negativity and taking advantage of a false image of society where we all must separate further and further into identify politics labels to feel accepted and that’s bullshit.

Sharing our peak trans experiences by zerosis in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There’s a good friend of mine that I refuse to see if certain friends of theirs will be around (not an issue with COVID-19 haha) because they’re energy vampires who only stop talking about themselves to gossip and virtue signal-shame others.

What’s funny is since my friend stopped working with them due to the virus shutting down work, they’ve started to distance themselves from this group as well, and opened up to me that they are mentally fatigued from all the identity politics. It’s like these people actually don’t have an identity or hobbies or self outside being woke and argumentative.

Everything is a competition and constant language censorship and policing. Particularly watching the self appointed “queen” gay guy of the group argue with the non-binary genderfluid transman at what should have been a fun and friendly gathering is what peaked my friend.

Now that they distance themselves from these narcissists they’re improving in other ways, lost 20#, really active, and genuinely more positive it’s been so great to bond with them more and see them become their best self while shedding the drama.

So you could say it’s been a positive experience though I know for my friend it’s been upsetting to realize their old friend group was toxic and they fell into them by having poor boundaries and being the group’s (believe it or not) token straight ally.

This revolution is really separating the kids from adults or dare I say the boys from the men haha

Lesbians find it difficult to distinguish between their lack of desire for men and ... their lack of desire for men by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 22 insightful - 6 fun22 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Homosexuality is SO passé now the cool kids have no gender, no boundaries, and no preferences besides their pronouns! And if you don’t agree you’re a terrible person and a genital fetishist!

Asking for donations for chest surgery by Criticalofgender in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So this might be a little off topic but fuck anyone who threatens suicide to manipulate others into giving them money because I’ve seen a lot of trans people spewing that shit online and it’s toxic af.

IRL my family member is a transman( very young lesbian who just left an abusive household -textbook “transman” who will detrans and regret it in a few years mark my words) and would frequently post begging/demanding people Venmo them money for not just their hormone injections “to survive” but their rent money and food money and clothes money because they’re a poor sad dysfunctional suicidal mess that society owes everything to because they’re trans.

It got old quick and even their siblings are basically keeping them at a distance because they realized they were being emotionally abused and used by a self-victimizing freeloader.

Ever watch my 600 pound life? Usually abused and/or mentally ill people who eat themselves into death and surround themselves with enablers. That reminds me so much of the trans I know IRL.

Except instead of crippling themselves with morbid obesity it’s the never ending road to becoming their perfect self through surgery and hormones instead of actual self work.

I shaved my head, I'm not a woman anymore! by Beth-BR in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 22 insightful - 4 fun22 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Didn’t you know women who don’t attract the male gaze don’t exist as women to these tools?

They just keep getting more and more honest. by AntiPorn in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What’s the problem with men fetishizing women’s bodies and using their fetish to gain access to women’s spaces and women’s bodies through pressure to fuck them because if you don’t like “girl dick” you’re transphobic?

What’s the problem with people with mental illness taking drugs and mutilating their bodies only to realize it doesn’t cure their depression, cure their dysphoria, or make the people they find attractive want to fuck date and love them? That they really were as a person more than one energy-sucking and meaningless label?

What’s the problem with people losing all self-improvement and hobbies to become a one-toned sex obsessed freak who demands constant outside validation because they’re emotionally stunted and dysfunctional and instead of seeking viable mental aid they dig their heels into their illness and victim complex?

Do you really think in ten years after Big Pharm has used these poor tools for all their $$ and energy and desperation for meaning they aren’t going to come to the hard realization they are not literally women, and being a literal women was never the source of their infinite self hatred and misery? That none of them want to be OLD or UGLY women but a sick sexist fantasy?

That actual self love is so incredibly radical it means you can be you and work on yourself without calling yourself a special name or arguing with people who do not give a fuck what you call yourself and still owe you nothing on what your imaginary gender is? A rose by any other name. Lost souls want a new paint job when it’s the frame of their life that needs work.

Being associated with radical feminism is dragging this movement down. by Astrid2448 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 21 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

These are all just your opinions you can’t present them as a fact to be debated over. Someone asked you earlier for evidence of the radfem anti-science agenda you stated exists, want to provide that?

TRA Twitter poll "Are Transwomen women?" - majority of voters clicked No by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ugh

They are still trying to delete/silence us, right here on Saidit. by Lilith_Fair in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 21 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

You can’t change reality and you can’t delete real life. At the end of the day they can’t break people down offline to date or fuck them or even let these narcissistic red-flag waving social outcasts into their lives as friends. It’s important to keep having real life conversations because so many younger people and women are prone to allowing shitty behavior towards them in the name of looking open-minded. Their rights end where our bodies begin!

Is that a bad thing? This is a “non-binary lesbian” who is married to a transwoman 🤔 by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 20 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

For people who turn into a ball of suicidal goo if someone misgenders them they sure do love mocking others sexuality and race regularly.

OP calls cis men shitty for not a single one joining their GSA college club; they as a transman feel entitled to straight male members because they’re “inclusive to cis men” by Literallyawoman in LGBDropTheT

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" I worked hard to become the leader" lol you admitted your entire club is just handmaidens pretty sure you got voted as leader for being the crown Genderspecial

Only way to be actual homosexual nowadays seems to be trans and date other trans by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 20 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

A gay man I know irl has started referring to himself as a magical girl and making some really unhealthy comparisons between himself and women, obsessed with claiming he could get any man his female friends could and that together they will as KWEENS sleep with all the STRAIGHT men in their neighborhood once the pandemic is over.

He’s insufferable to talk to and can’t go 5 minutes without bragging about himself and how he’s such a “nerd” or “weird” for liking normal shit like comics, anime, or Harry Potter-like bruh you’re 30-this shit is embarrassing.

He made a shitty comment to me for being in a long term monogamous relationship too yet can’t seem to hold a man down and complains of it endlessly(not directly to me I keep him at an arms length socially) so I feel it’s only a matter of time that he “realizes” he’s a transwoman to deal with his shitty love life and borderline creepy envy and obsession with women, especially comparing himself to female anime characters.

The "pass it on" statement by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 17 insightful - 9 fun17 insightful - 8 fun18 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Transmen are men, transwomen are women, bio women are all pansexual handmaiden “people with uteruses” and bio men are white cis trash did I get it right?

Why are European men so effeminate? by PencilPusher55 in AskSaidIt

[–]Literallyawoman 20 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Eh I’d argue western men are just bigger victims of toxic masculinity than the rest of the world. American men act much more normal or in your words, effeminate, in private with their families and partner.

I prefer a man who has good fashion sense and hygiene, who shows emotion, and who stays fit and active, which is probably why I’ve mostly dated non-Americans, they’re definitely allowed to express themselves more and take care of themselves growing up and are more well-rounded than an American man who can’t cook, dress attractively, keep a clean home, or cry in front of others.

I know WAY too many frustrated American men reaching 30 who don’t understand why women don’t want them despite “having a job/car/house” when it’s obvious they can’t take care of themselves( fat, dirty, think sarcasm is a personality trait) and are basically children.

The vibe of this sub seems a lot different than the original r/gendercritical by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

One was a forum of free speech before censorship and this is after!

Hundreds of thousands of people subbed to the old GC and only a handful have followed it over here- we are the people who are most bitter about the recent censorship and couldn’t just shut up and move on so we’re more vitriol. I know many, many people who are just shutting up on social media despite feeling uncomfortable with the trans movement and general misogyny. They’re there but they just focus and participate in other parts of life now and talk privately-keeping trans and gender politics at arms length.

You know the social shaming we saw when BLM started “white friends I’m paying attention to your silence” well that’s happening now, look at your friends/social media followers who are simply stopping the conversation in public. Yes they took down many female centric spots but now many women are peaking because of it and avoiding the spaces the transactivists have appropriated completely. I’ve had more real life conversations with other women about the toxicity of gender politics than before because real life is what’s left!

There is nothing that makes me angrier than TiMs wanting an implanted uterus. by Aquadog in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s so creepy the way these men fetishize having female organs.

OP calls cis men shitty for not a single one joining their GSA college club; they as a transman feel entitled to straight male members because they’re “inclusive to cis men” by Literallyawoman in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman[S] 19 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Edit: OP has recently posted about doubting they are actually trans, admits they have no body dysphoria regarding their vagina ahah y i k e s

Well OP has had top surgery and posts about what they find attractive in men so I’m guessing it’s the latter. Can’t wait to see updated posts on their dating woes because straight and gay men don’t want to date them...

"Lesbians can become straight" r/AL (Trans woman called a TERF) by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"labels don't matter and you can be anything" you know what sure ok YOU can but that ends when another person has their own label and boundaries

There are people who unironically believe that biological sex is a social construct now by apfelkoenig in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 18 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I mean humans used to believe in magic en masse I guess this is a step up from thinking women are witches /s

TiF is really pleased to get mistaken for a man by doctors. When TiF is nearly killed because doctors think she's a man it's all their fault. by jet199 in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Let me get this straight the only block between this transman getting the right treatment was their refusal to be honest with doctors? So if there was a “transman” box to check they would have been honest to the dr but this is the “systems” fault?!

In case you were wondering, this is what it looks like to misappropriate a gay/lesbian "identity" as a solution to life's problems. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 17 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Obviously gay men who like womens fashion are just undiscovered transwomen /s

I am concerned that superlative descriptions/tidal waves of acceptance and praise aimed at gender-special people is predatory and toxic for vulnerable children by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Remember what happened to all the millennials who were told they’re “gifted”? because I do. I know a lot of people approaching 30 who can’t function in society because they’re still riding the high from being a 14 year old who was told they’re really smart and special-and then post-college the real world isn’t rewarding them for just existing or being able to meet work deadlines easily. No one is telling them they’re special anymore.

Source: am a millennial who took AP classes with you know, millions of other regular kids because that’s what we were, and watched 90% of my classmates go on to flounder in college and become bitter, dysfunctional adults.

I think similar will happen with the trans kids. Their core value will be tied to being trans and being young trans at that, and a few years down the line they will be floundering even more for meaning and definition when they’re just adults that look off. And no one can give you that, it comes from within, but they’re not given the tools for inner strength, only how to project victimization.

My TIM "friend" claimed I was mansplaining to "her", so I'm done being friends by TurtleFuzz in GenderCritical

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God it feels good to end toxic friendships

Why are there so many trans women in tech? by Astrid2448 in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 16 insightful - 6 fun16 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

There are a lot of men in tech who are socially backwards. My bf is in tech and has to work with entire teams of mouth breathing, forever alone dudes that I had the displeasure of meeting at the company holiday party. I’m surprised none have come out as transwomen yet.

Now the term "Transition" is transphobic too. You just can't make this shit up. by CommanderGlasses in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

As a woman who has been physically assaulted for being a woman, called all sorts of derogatory slurs for being a woman, I have zero sympathy for these people who curl up into a dysfunctional ball every time their “dysphoria” is triggered. Fuck off, grow up, not everyone is going to like you let alone tip toe around your labels and endlessly changing language policing.

Why can’t my famous gender non-conforming friends get laid? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 16 insightful - 5 fun16 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Can you imagine any other person without a trans complex complaining about not getting dates? They’d be massacred and told of all their faults or lectured on what to work on-yet these bozos get to play victim as if it’s societies fault they’re undesirable. The sheer entitlement.

It reminds me of running into an old classmate after years who wasted no time asking if I had any single girlfriends and listed off his “attributes” like being fit, owning a house, car, stable job...this guy had an awful personality and I wasn’t surprised he was unable to date because his personality was atrocious! But to him he had hit all the requirements to be a desirable date and felt cheated by the world for not being handed a hot wife just for existing.

I think what really sets us apart from the TRAs and TQ+ is our lack of hate. by annatheginguh in LGBDropTheT

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TRAs are addicted to anger. Having known an anger addict irl they would have the same online presence as these people-scream a lot, stalk dissenting opinions and report or try to ban them, feel superior, make no real positive changes in their life to become more stable or happy. It’s not a coincidence these “activists” are usually suffering a mental illness(as someone with my own the different is I don’t fetishize it) are out of shape, and inactive in their actual real life community.

First Trans Person to Obtain Legal 'Non-Binary' Sex Status Changes Back to Birth Sex in Blow to LGBT Movement by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Birth sex, aka only and permanent sex. Good for them!

The Post-Purge Gender Ideology Push in Gaybros & associated subs by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

There’s a genuine gender subreddit thats a little ray of sanity still up but I don’t even want to name it for fear of TRA brigading...just glad it exists

AskGayBros continues to be in their #1 target now. by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The sad reality is most trans people will always fall into a uncanny valley look and never truly “pass”...despite claiming the goal isn’t to “pass as heteronormative” that seems to be what they obsess over most

/r/askgaybros again under relentless attack from the valid uwu brigade by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They’re also doing “transmen are men pass it on” in lesbian subs and the comments are refreshingly passive aggressive about it though I guess that’s as outspoken as the real lesbians and bisexual handmaidens will get before shutting up altogether

"tRaNs MeN aRe MeN" preacher visits r/askgaybros; r/askgaybros resists by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Transmen are women if the recent post on r/honesttransgender bringing up how lesbians still find transmen sans bottom surgery dateable and fuckable was any clue. Like I know transmen irl and I’d never say it to their face or disrespect their chosen pronouns but on the internet I can safely say they just seem like butch lesbians to me.

The people they demand we feel a sense of “community” with by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Violent fantasies from people who obviously feel powerless in their real lives

Why are European men so effeminate? by PencilPusher55 in AskSaidIt

[–]Literallyawoman 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Your idea of what a man is, or what men are supposed to act like, is very sad. Clearly you are insecure about your own masculinity lol. If you were confident maybe someone would love you!

/r/askgaybros again under relentless attack from the valid uwu brigade by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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They’re sitting at home with nothin to do and no one irl to spend time with sooooo yes

Only I get the feeling that this sub is HELLA inactive? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Reddit is peaking more people everyday from what I can tell, post there about this alternative for people who are questioning the TRAs who are less welcome every day in the subs they are trying to take over

In case you were wondering, this is what it looks like to misappropriate a gay/lesbian "identity" as a solution to life's problems. by yousaythosethings in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This happened in my highschool and college years- a friend actually confided in me her "goal" for the end of the year was to "become bisexual" and plenty other women who wanted to be "not like the other girls" were suddenly bi with no bi experiences or desires lol. Meanwhile I came out as bi and was socially outcast at my small cornfield college then fetishized by men to the point I never told anyone again (currently dating a man).

It's nothing new, except along with the teens trying to redefine themselves and redefine sex as they have since the beginning of time we have lots of emotionally stunted adults doing it to.

TRA Twitter poll "Are Transwomen women?" - majority of voters clicked No by Criticallacitirc in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is my mindset too; unfortunately it’s not good enough. Women have to actively say men can biologically become female women and are literally women or else were teeeerfs

Transgender Boy (girl) is Suing NHS for Not Warning Her About Gender Reassignment When She Was a Teenager by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Literallyawoman 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When I was 14 I was forced onto birth control pills by my parents and the hormones caused daily migraines and nausea, mood swings, lots of undue suffering. I can’t imagine being that age and transitioning. You could have told me at that age since I really wanted to be an LOTR style elf that I could live as my real elf self and I would probably have gone through elf ear surgery...

The detransitioners: what happens when trans men want to be women again? by questioningtw in GenderCritical

[–]Literallyawoman 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’m worried for my transman family member-very young, left an abusive home at 18, tons of mental health issues, self harm and depression, absolutely toxic person towards me or anyone in the family who tries to help them or be supportive unless we hand them $$$. I stopped paying their phone and rent bills after they quit a job due to there not being gender neutral bathrooms and they’re currently living in absolute squalor, bed bugs and broken appliances and all with their gender fluid special snowflake loser friends. But that’s their “family” now they told me angrily.

I did the same thing too-left an abusive home at 18, thought I could rebuild my own family by hanging out with lecherous people who only connected through playing the oppression olympics and using each other to get drugs. I didn’t realize being young and dumb and broken I’d only ever attract shitty people and push smart and successful ones away by wearing my damage like a badge of honor.

I was suicidal and still struggle with depression, but I don’t surround myself with people who glorify it anymore. My past addiction and mental health issues don’t define me just like being trans and gender fluid doesn’t define my family member. It’s escapism and self harm.

Once I got my foot in the door at a good job they(my WOKE friends) became violent and accusatory at me for “using my privilege to work the system” and I fear if my trans family member ever starts seeing themselves as a capable young person and not just a victim the same will happen to them. I only hope they won’t let their bucket of crabs friendgroup tear them down.

Who's gonna tell 'em erasing our spaces doesn't erase us? by iejrv9oiwvij3wrvo9 in GenderCritical

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Been seeing them complain that “terfs” are popping up in other subreddits like...what exactly did you expect? That people with dissenting opinions magically convert or disappear if you destroy their meeting spot? Even people who disagree with GC have been commenting a LOT on how banning the subreddit for us is both counter intuitive and uninclusive.

OP calls cis men shitty for not a single one joining their GSA college club; they as a transman feel entitled to straight male members because they’re “inclusive to cis men” by Literallyawoman in LGBDropTheT

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Gay straight alliance, but even when I was in college it’s mostly experimental straight women and the gays are few and far between in them

/r/actuallesbians: the perfect place for all your trans related questions by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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oops all men

Story of a detrans male who is suffering because of use of puberty blockers in young age. Mermaids and Stonewall UK still maintain the stance that puberty blockers are completely reversible. I smell a scandal coming. by cutenoobies in LGBDropTheT

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Thankful for that. Jazz was a science experiment. No wonder they’ve disappeared from the public eye I just hope it doesn’t end with an obituary notice

What are your opinions on pansexuality? Imo it's just bisexual except trying to be more "inclusive" and special by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I dOnt SeE gEnDeR is a conversation for you and people you are attracted to, not everyone under the sun we do NOT gaf.

The first time someone told me they were pan, it was to “one-up” me as I had just shared I was bi, and they were a morbidly obese, chain smoking man I met in college who also lectured me on how his grandpa smoked til age 90 so he could too without health risks, and also lectured me on how as a woman I am automatically a feminist. Shitty guy.

Needy, unhealthy, insecure...that’s what I read when someone tells me they’re one of the many wonderkin gender identities. You aren’t more enlightened because you think you are attracted to people before knowing or seeing their genitalia-that’s fucking everyone. I cannot stress enough how dumb it is when people think they're in a tiny minority of humans who are attracted to intellect and personality before sexual characteristics.

People are, and sexuality is complex ; that doesn't mean your sexuality is a personality trait. You are 99.9% like every other meatbag on this planet.

when they think their gender identity defines them it shows to me they don't know their true selves, or have any essence outside their physical presentation. Like teenagers trying to look cool and discover who they really are (which is a trial because it's all ego and your true self is NOT your ego)

-but its a bunch of failed-to-launch millennials along with the zoomers now

What is a trans butch lesbian? by dandeliondynasty in LGBDropTheT

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I’ve never met a transbian that dates other transbians but I sure do know a handmaideny bi woman who has a toxic male partner that claims to be transbian.

TRAs, allies and lgbTTTT press FAIL to damage JKR's sales. Let the triggering commence! by Uranian in LGBDropTheT

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Tbh I don’t consider the internet outside the bubble. Online they’re faceless, anonymous and able to edit how they articulate themselves with infinite time on their hands, but in real life, in your own community and family and workplace, I truly believe we can fight the extremism with intelligent and respectful debate. TRAs offline in my city are mostly young, obviously desperate for attention teens and 20 somethings that can’t communicate effectively and functional people give them a wide berth. They’re just like the losers of the previous generation who have now moved back home or never left, who are socially stunted perpetual victims ignored by society outside the infinite echo chambers of social media. Think the next generation of 30 year old baristas with neon colored hair except add a name tag with their personal pronouns.

“Some of the [trans]women pointed out that this is also true for cisgender women who struggle with fertility — yet, their inability to menstruate and to conceive a child doesn’t call their womanhood into question.” by Literallyawoman in GenderCritical

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It’s a full on slur imho used to Other people who have a life outside identity politics

Irreversible Damage: the trans threat to girls - Abigail Shrier's new book is a must-read on the harm trans ideology is doing to young girls by [deleted] in books

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Lots of “transmen” under 25 who also use they/them pronouns are depressed, suicidal young women who associate femininity with weakness and think presenting as male will fix their non-dysphoric mental health issues, and it’s my experience and belief transitioning creates dysphoria because the sad reality is even for those who “feel” like a man, will never look like or be a man, or be desired by the usually “cisgender” gays and straights they are attracted to.

Trans activists can claim passing doesn’t matter but it seems to be the end game THE be all and end all for 99% and the idea that passing as one of the two sexes will make life easier outside your identity politics is a joke. When someone lists off their pronouns it just put a big red flag on them that screams insecurity, needy, self-obsessed and obviously mentally ill.

Lots of young kids entering sexless, romanceless relationships out of a fear of abandonment after leaving abusive and unsupportive parents-being sucked up by the trans community and told they’re trans, non binary, asexual when they aren’t...because everyone feels uncomfortable in their own skin-self love and acceptance starts inside not out. It’s not for lack of a label that you can’t find love it starts within.

Personally I’ve lost weight from obese to fit, and feeling desirable physically with all the compliments and not being overweight made life easier in a LOT of ways-but it didn’t do SHIT for my self esteem which surprises many people in the weight loss forums...inside I was still fat, insecure, still a binge eater and alcoholic just a healthier looking one...and that’s what these kids are going to learn the hard way-you could magically turn into the hottest version of yourself as your chosen sex overnight and you’d still have all your life problems and complications.

"If lesbians can learn to accept trans women, why are gay men being so shitty to trans men?" by lazy-summer-god in LGBDropTheT

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Ah yes real lesbians like the transwoman who mysteriously is “invisible” to the lesbian community

"Lesbians can become straight" r/AL (Trans woman called a TERF) by oofreesouloo in LGBDropTheT

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It's excellent doublethink.

Aargh, so tired of being preyed upon by the trans mafia as a bi girl by GCurious80 in LGBDropTheT

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10 years ago I tried to come out as bi and was ostracized and bullied by straights. Now I would never come out because I don’t want to be ostracized and bullied by all the GeNdEr QuEeR loonies who only take a break from talking about their endless identify politics to police other people’s (especially women).