Explanation of non-binary that's not sexist?

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-03T18:29:19+00:00

People who identify as non-binary are just the new emo kids trying to be edgy, different, and unique. If an adult tells me they're non-binary I safely assume they're not doing so hot in life and probably have a shit service job and no meaningful relationships.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-27T15:59:05+00:00

Very self aware wolves haha

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-27T15:56:55+00:00

A commenter posted that “women should stop being simps for other women” and I checked their post history and they are literally a MALE and INCEL-complete with self pity posts and photos of himself-clearly a “cis” man who hates himself and women but is posting regularly in lesbian subreddits.

How many of those make up the “lesbian” reddit community now hm?

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-03T18:37:26+00:00

I can't believe a lesbian fell for a transman! It's almost like...

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-19T16:15:46+00:00

Transmen are men, transwomen are women, bio women are all pansexual handmaiden “people with uteruses” and bio men are white cis trash did I get it right?

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-25T21:03:37+00:00

Cue women on reddit defending this by being not like the other girls and stating they too love this porn so it’s totes fine

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-21T03:30:19+00:00

Where is the LIE

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-04T22:33:25+00:00

I gotta say transmen are some of the biggest handmaidens and that says a lot about gender roles and identity

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-03T15:00:47+00:00

Self aware wolf!

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-13T18:48:58+00:00

All the people doing well at my age(30) who are stable, successful, and well humble too have nothing to do with trans activism or gender politics. Like zero mention in social media or acknowledgment irl which is so refreshing.

I don’t think I know anyone who is a genderspecial who isn’t also a failure-to-launch; like, in many old HS and college mates I’ve followed over the years there is a clear divide between who is obviously happy and who is obviously still mad taking AP classes and shaving their head to “rebel” against gender norms didn’t mean happiness, love, acceptance, and success would be handed to them on a plate.

But gender politics really do attract the bottom barrel-people who have really low self esteem, weight issues, toxic attitudes and excuses for not getting out of their first entry level job or their shitty hometown.

Like theyre 30 and posting about having pride in being depressed and how hard it is to be a genderspecial- yet theyre almost always living with parents or living off an equally unsuccessful partner posting about each other’s psychotic breaks and suicide attempts for internet attention...fuck, everyone deals with mental health shit-at our age you have to SEEK HELP and stop trying to glorify your criminally average and widespread mental health problems.

Being apathetic about debilitating weight gain or having low self esteem because you have no hobbies as an adult outside tumblr is an embarrassment. High school really never ends.

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-11T21:46:27+00:00

oops all men

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-08T23:59:25+00:00

Kilts: Am I a joke to you?

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-07T22:24:48+00:00

There are a lot of men in tech who are socially backwards. My bf is in tech and has to work with entire teams of mouth breathing, forever alone dudes that I had the displeasure of meeting at the company holiday party. I’m surprised none have come out as transwomen yet.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-14T20:09:00+00:00

Homosexuality is SO passé now the cool kids have no gender, no boundaries, and no preferences besides their pronouns! And if you don’t agree you’re a terrible person and a genital fetishist!

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-07T13:49:53+00:00

HOLD UP one is a “little” aka the adults who fetishise a partner acting like a baby or child (literally specific age 0-5) and their partner acts sexually as the PARENT UGH literally degenerate.

And they post such gross pictures not just this post-sex one but other selfies where they have clearly dried snot under their nose and literally look like a male serial killer with a bow strapped to their head...

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-03T14:35:53+00:00

" I worked hard to become the leader" lol you admitted your entire club is just handmaidens pretty sure you got voted as leader for being the crown Genderspecial

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-11T19:54:38+00:00

Yuck. Imagine looking for sexy ladies and finding a man posting for validation. If you don’t say he’s beautiful yer a terf!

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-11T19:17:42+00:00

There was just a post from a transwoman upset about finding “other lesbians” to date because shockingly lesbians don’t want to date them. Claims they’re being “ostracized” by lesbians and have only had negative experiences. Stop trying to date women who are ACTUALLY lesbian maybe? Oh you don’t like penis but when it’s your penis you expect lesbians to?

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-06T05:27:21+00:00

I use mine to keep my hands warm when I’m sleeping or to store snacks; they’re cumbersome af and the reason I can’t sleep on my stomach

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-04T19:32:23+00:00

Obviously gay men who like womens fashion are just undiscovered transwomen /s

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-17T23:28:12+00:00

I mean humans used to believe in magic en masse I guess this is a step up from thinking women are witches /s

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-17T18:12:53+00:00

Even though this is technically a gal, one of my favorite comedic bits: "I have lots of drag queens around and I like to study them—and I mean, more of your high-end type of drag queens, not like your tenderloin drag queens. Who, I'm sorry, aren't even fucking trying. Like a lot of them just have a mop on their head and a skirt and are like, "I'm a gal!"

You're not a gal....You went through all the trouble to put on a nice dress, and now you're gonna be rude and bossy to people? It's like, do you know what your version of a lady is a lot like? A guy. You could've stayed a guy if you were gonna be an asshole about it" - John Mulaney

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-14T21:42:07+00:00

Or not wear bright jarring lipstick that washes out their face just sayin

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-14T19:30:52+00:00

Can you imagine any other person without a trans complex complaining about not getting dates? They’d be massacred and told of all their faults or lectured on what to work on-yet these bozos get to play victim as if it’s societies fault they’re undesirable. The sheer entitlement.

It reminds me of running into an old classmate after years who wasted no time asking if I had any single girlfriends and listed off his “attributes” like being fit, owning a house, car, stable job...this guy had an awful personality and I wasn’t surprised he was unable to date because his personality was atrocious! But to him he had hit all the requirements to be a desirable date and felt cheated by the world for not being handed a hot wife just for existing.

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-03T17:29:42+00:00

Edit: OP has recently posted about doubting they are actually trans, admits they have no body dysphoria regarding their vagina ahah y i k e s

Well OP has had top surgery and posts about what they find attractive in men so I’m guessing it’s the latter. Can’t wait to see updated posts on their dating woes because straight and gay men don’t want to date them...

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-20T12:21:24+00:00

And heels!

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-13T19:58:37+00:00

Someone's having an autistic moment...

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-05T17:32:42+00:00

Didn’t you know women who don’t attract the male gaze don’t exist as women to these tools?

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-03T18:39:17+00:00

For people who turn into a ball of suicidal goo if someone misgenders them they sure do love mocking others sexuality and race regularly.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-27T18:37:35+00:00

You sound like a child that shouldn’t be on saidit either tbh

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-21T20:51:06+00:00

Tbf that’s how some childless adults feel about the families especially when the kids are too young to appreciate the place lmao

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-16T15:51:15+00:00

You mean I can’t just say I’m a man I actually have to have other desirable traits like a personality and social intelligence? These people really think they can be emotionally stunted adults that slap on a new gender identity and suddenly no need to work on themselves or even know themselves they’ll just become desirable. Honestly the biggest turn off about trans is how it broadcasts how little you know or are comfortable with yourself.

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-03T18:06:13+00:00

Gay straight alliance, but even when I was in college it’s mostly experimental straight women and the gays are few and far between in them

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-03T15:00:27+00:00

It’s a terrible generalization; I came out as bi in college and it was a bad experience at a cornfield college. Also has nothing to do with the fact straight and gay men want nothing to do with this club; OP is just being sour grapes about it because they don’t realize how actually toxic and uninviting they are to anyone who isn’t an insecure handmaiden

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-02T18:59:55+00:00

A gay man I know irl has started referring to himself as a magical girl and making some really unhealthy comparisons between himself and women, obsessed with claiming he could get any man his female friends could and that together they will as KWEENS sleep with all the STRAIGHT men in their neighborhood once the pandemic is over.

He’s insufferable to talk to and can’t go 5 minutes without bragging about himself and how he’s such a “nerd” or “weird” for liking normal shit like comics, anime, or Harry Potter-like bruh you’re 30-this shit is embarrassing.

He made a shitty comment to me for being in a long term monogamous relationship too yet can’t seem to hold a man down and complains of it endlessly(not directly to me I keep him at an arms length socially) so I feel it’s only a matter of time that he “realizes” he’s a transwoman to deal with his shitty love life and borderline creepy envy and obsession with women, especially comparing himself to female anime characters.

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-20T17:28:24+00:00

Finally banned from 2xchromosomes but I didn’t bother to check why. Also been banned from r/movies lol

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-19T20:17:04+00:00

Holy fuck- this guy again?! He’s a treasure trove of entertainment. So blatantly mentally ill, shallow, entitled, like a human red flag.

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-19T14:45:55+00:00

They’re sitting at home with nothin to do and no one irl to spend time with sooooo yes

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-17T18:46:54+00:00

These are all just your opinions you can’t present them as a fact to be debated over. Someone asked you earlier for evidence of the radfem anti-science agenda you stated exists, want to provide that?

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-13T21:16:40+00:00

Thank you I definitely was ranting feels good sometimes haha

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-11T19:41:58+00:00

“Oh you use gaslighting and suicidal threats to manipulate others into staying in a toxic relationship with you? That’s abusive! Oh wait-you’re trans? Dysphoria is terrible and you’re so brave!”

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-06T21:05:23+00:00

Everyone knows what group orcs refers to ya dingus

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-06T21:04:11+00:00

A old high school friend of mine also went through a traumatic experience and considers themselves asexual now which is fine-but they keep posting their asexual pride flag and articles on inclusivity for asexual people. At this point people want a flag for if they identify as someone who prefers sweet over salty food

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-06T14:35:19+00:00

This triggers my ptsd from working retail-those sweaty bills augh

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-05T21:06:10+00:00

Can you imagine if people who think up endless definitions and labels for gender to box each other into put that energy towards something productive or creative

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-05T18:25:37+00:00

Aw I remember being a teen

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-05T17:55:18+00:00

The weeaboos are pissed and i’m here for it

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-04T20:34:10+00:00

Eh I’d argue western men are just bigger victims of toxic masculinity than the rest of the world. American men act much more normal or in your words, effeminate, in private with their families and partner.

I prefer a man who has good fashion sense and hygiene, who shows emotion, and who stays fit and active, which is probably why I’ve mostly dated non-Americans, they’re definitely allowed to express themselves more and take care of themselves growing up and are more well-rounded than an American man who can’t cook, dress attractively, keep a clean home, or cry in front of others.

I know WAY too many frustrated American men reaching 30 who don’t understand why women don’t want them despite “having a job/car/house” when it’s obvious they can’t take care of themselves( fat, dirty, think sarcasm is a personality trait) and are basically children.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-22T15:31:01+00:00

Literally just another version of the “men will fuck anything that walks” saying, real progressive.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-20T18:55:35+00:00

You can’t change reality and you can’t delete real life. At the end of the day they can’t break people down offline to date or fuck them or even let these narcissistic red-flag waving social outcasts into their lives as friends. It’s important to keep having real life conversations because so many younger people and women are prone to allowing shitty behavior towards them in the name of looking open-minded. Their rights end where our bodies begin!

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-17T18:21:44+00:00

They made another post complaining about imaginary transphobia on r/askgaybros and are being eaten alive lol. Seriously if I wasn't working from home I wouldn't be as up-to-date, but these trans trolls are 24/7 online attacking others-no hobbies outside their identity politics...hope everyone here takes a break and enjoys life outside the internet like a functioning adult

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-17T17:13:41+00:00

The way I see it-live your best life offline, be fit and healthy and have healthy outlets for creativity and physical activity unlike the twitter trolls-have meaningful and difficult conversations irl with your friends, family, and coworkers; the majority of people know and treat woke gender politics as a joke because they think it doesn’t affect them-and as long as we aren’t complicit in real life the internet brigading will ultimately be circular and superfluous.

In real life we educate our loved ones on not being taken advantage of by narcissists and opportunistic energy vampires by asserting each other’s personal worth and right to say NO to people who would pressure us to give up our bodily rights or real life LGB and Woman’s spaces.

This is a conversation i've already had with younger female family but it bears repeating in light of all the TRA garbage- your body is YOUR body and you don't owe anyone a conversation let alone a date or sex, AND the people who weaponize their victimhood to get pity friendship and dates are the MOST manipulative and toxic.

The most susceptible people are insecure teenagers and 20 somethings who broadcast their mental health disorders like a calling card for abuse. Real community in the real world matters now more than ever before the trans cult sucks up every desperate lonely kid who craves validation and feels like they don’t belong. Validate your community and foster acceptance because these termites thrive on negativity and taking advantage of a false image of society where we all must separate further and further into identify politics labels to feel accepted and that’s bullshit.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-14T22:50:26+00:00

Yer a loser Harry

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-03T17:23:21+00:00

Just a college in the middle of nowhere literally surrounded by cornfields

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-03T15:09:18+00:00

That part pissed me off the most! You aren’t offering cis men anything but jealously and are crying about them not actively seeking out your hatred and I imagine your desperate need for validation and lecturing on your personal gender politics. Real men aren’t conditioned to put up with that shit.

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-02T15:31:03+00:00

Can we start a “No one cares what your gender identity is pass it on” trend? Because that’s 99% of gender politics debates summed up. No one cares. You don’t need to beg and scream for validation. No one cares!

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-19T20:22:21+00:00

Double Trouble definitely sounds like a non-binary person!! It’s literally a lizard with the following descriptors:

Double Trouble is extremely confident and smug. They are also known to compliment themself on their work.

They do not enjoy any situation in which they cannot display their talents or garner praise and applause from those around them.

They specifically seek out a job as a club performer for this reason, so that they can be the center of attention while making money at the same time.

They greatly enjoy creating chaos between others, particularly friends, and love watching the situation play out.

However, when alone, Double Trouble speaks with contempt and frequently insults others, seemingly thinking themself as superior.

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-19T14:15:22+00:00

I can prove I know a lot of comfortable white 20 somethings who are actively promoting violence, “acad”, and looting because at the end of the day they sleep in comfortable and far removed cop-happy neighborhoods

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-19T13:45:21+00:00

You must recondition yourself to sexually desire people who repulse you and if not you’re a BAD person

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-19T00:44:13+00:00

Ah yes real lesbians like the transwoman who mysteriously is “invisible” to the lesbian community

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-14T19:41:16+00:00

Sounds like Jazz Jennings just terrible

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-14T03:27:59+00:00

You’re an autistic simp and a loser no wonder no one loves you :)

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-13T20:33:59+00:00

Yikes someone can't read. Are you autistic?

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-13T19:13:40+00:00

Lol this isn’t feminism the sjw genderspecials hate women unless it’s a man in a dress

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-11T21:53:02+00:00

Everyone’s trans or genderqueer because no one is allowed to not want to date a transperson based on their actual sex.

Lesbian? But you have to consider transwomen for dating/fucking and if you refuse based on them being born male let alone having a male body/pheromones you’re transphobic.

Cis gay? Transmen are literally men so you’re not really gay if you won’t date or fuck someone born female or with female genitalia-you’re a transphobe with a genital fetish.

Cis? Gender is a construct you don’t even know who is trans just based on looks so a cis woman dating a trans woman is suddenly lesbian or genderqueer but date a transman you get to stay cis though you’re most likely going to still identify as a genderspecial because who wants to be a dirty cis normie these days

Bisexual? Oh we apparently date everyone! Not just women with vaginas or men with dicks nope as a bisexual woman i’m expected to be down for every transperson and genderspecial in the alphabet

Did I cover everything? Besides trans for some reason not wanting to date other trans hmmm

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-07T22:26:55+00:00

God it feels good to end toxic friendships

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-07T14:50:51+00:00

Maybe having a man tell me I didn’t know myself and was a feminist made me a feminist a few years later

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-05T17:39:45+00:00

treasure trove of mental illness

LMAO love this

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-05T17:02:28+00:00

Oh god I saw this earlier and am simply disgusted and want someone to remove this child from their unstable home. They even post about being sexually aroused by crossdressing yeah it’s totally not a fetish.

And that book I am Jazz ?! Jazz is a poor child groomed by their mother to get a sex change to female so young they never went through male puberty and will NEVER experience sexual arousal. They had a vaginaplasty and after the reality set in that they will have to dilate it for the rest of their life(their vile mother bragged about waking them up at night to dilate it wtf) that it looks nothing like what they fantasized, and they will never experience sexual arousal or desire they disappeared from social media in the last few months citing depression so bad they couldn’t start college. I feel awful for Jazz if you watch their videos “her” eyes are dead inside and “she’s” gained so much weight from being depressed and manipulated by a mother who admitted she cried when Jazz was born male.

The trans woman OP post so much mentally unstable shit let alone They are grooming a CHILD-who would tell you they want to grow up to be a dinosaur if you told them they could.

What disgusting and rigid gender roles they’re imposing to say a little child who wears certain clothes or likes sparkles mUsT bE a GiRl.

If you go through the trans woman’s history they also post a photo saying “perk of being lesbian is not feeling weird to be a capable woman ” like doing construction work-what a sexist garbage notion something a MAN would think of women and lesbians.

My friend and mother of 3 was pregnant and the most feminine woman alive doing construction on her home with her husband until her water broke-what kind of sexist garbage are you perpetrating that straight bio women have to feel shame for being strong or doing hard labor?! Oh right because you’re a MAN and you think women are weak stereotypes.

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-04T23:04:41+00:00

Your idea of what a man is, or what men are supposed to act like, is very sad. Clearly you are insecure about your own masculinity lol. If you were confident maybe someone would love you!

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-04T22:43:18+00:00

It's excellent doublethink.

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-03T18:31:24+00:00

Birth sex, aka only and permanent sex. Good for them!

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-27T21:38:36+00:00

Imagine if people radically loved themselves enough to dress and act however they like without getting surgery to feel valid.

The bleak truth is a lot of twenty-somethings and teens are going to end up unable to orgasm or have normal sexual relations with themselves let alone anyone else.

But it’s ok the TRAs will just assure them they’ve been asexual their whole lives and should just enter sexless relationships with other trans and non-binary people just because they will “accept” them and that’s all they can hope to get in life.

I’m already seeing this happen irl. You think the celebrity trans have a hard time getting dates with the cis people they desire? For normal trans people it’s even more hopeless.

Because loving yourself, having confidence, and working on your self all go against TRA groupthink. You can only connect with others though pain, despair, and trauma bonding. Everyone is a victim. Then they wonder why their community is so toxic.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-22T22:05:38+00:00

I feel so loved every day when men physically grab me on the street and I can’t get them off me because I’m weaker and afraid they’ll pull a weapon! Also love being told to smile then called a bitch when I don’t <3 SO much love it’s super great being a woman such a privilege teehee I just walk into an office and men are staring at my chest calling me cupcake at a work meeting it makes me feel SO special and loved

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-22T15:46:24+00:00

As a woman who has been physically assaulted for being a woman, called all sorts of derogatory slurs for being a woman, I have zero sympathy for these people who curl up into a dysfunctional ball every time their “dysphoria” is triggered. Fuck off, grow up, not everyone is going to like you let alone tip toe around your labels and endlessly changing language policing.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-22T14:41:35+00:00

Well yeah the country has always been a majority of fly over states...

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-21T21:21:47+00:00

Nah, stunted adolescence is when youre not a functional adult or worse you think having kids makes you an adult. Infants and kids under 9 aren’t there for HP it’s the parents lol. HP is a series I grew up with and love so it’s fun to just fly for the weekend, visit the park, and have a beer at the Hogs Head. I have an income I have to dispose of frequently and before COVID-19 I just travelled most weekends, sometimes volunteering but yeah a lot of theme parks too! Having hobbies and interests isn’t childish, I hate to see all the parents who think they can only experience fun places if they drag a kid with them. I’m not elbowing kids out of my way or anything just enjoying the same experience sans kids.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-21T18:24:25+00:00

That shit is so exhaustingly DUMB the stereotype about women not being able to open jars is due to our smaller palms not our strength

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-21T15:41:07+00:00

It’s almost like they live in a bubble

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-18T01:16:03+00:00

I will respect you, call you your chosen pronouns, but I’m not going to pretend you have a uterus or periods, I’m not going to pretend you have the female experience thereby negating real women. Fuck man. I hope the transcult bubble bursts soon. At least we still can choose our own friends and lovers irl they can’t take that away from us.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-17T19:03:04+00:00

Uh, talking about porn at all, and to this extent, tells me this guy is socially inept and frankly people who talk about sexual topics so outright usually are looking for people who don't have boundaries (people who would call them out) to latch onto because 99% of people will avoid them once they see they're unstable. Your other friends have self respect and cut this creep out of their lives.

YOU deserve to not feel uncomfortable and should tell him you think it's inappropriate and you won't talk to him about it anymore or want to hear it. YOU DONT HAVE TO FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE and him being a guy does NOT make this ok! He sounds disgusting tbh. There's a reason other people have been driven away and it's not your job to still be there just because he's lonely.

You don't owe him friendship, it doesn't make you a good person to let him use you as his social crutch. I say this from experience hanging out with the bottom feeders of society because I wanted to be the "cool girl" who didn't shy away from sex talk or mentally ill people. IT'S NOT WORTH YOUR TIME.

Other people are avoiding him because they have healthy boundaries and self respect, you do too and deserve to tell him how you feel! Stop putting his emotional health before your own. We teach people how to treat us.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-16T18:16:59+00:00

There’s a genuine gender subreddit thats a little ray of sanity still up but I don’t even want to name it for fear of TRA brigading...just glad it exists

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-15T22:22:37+00:00

The sad reality is most trans people will always fall into a uncanny valley look and never truly “pass”...despite claiming the goal isn’t to “pass as heteronormative” that seems to be what they obsess over most

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-14T23:24:23+00:00

Stop T R I G G E R I N G me

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-14T22:34:41+00:00

What’s the problem with men fetishizing women’s bodies and using their fetish to gain access to women’s spaces and women’s bodies through pressure to fuck them because if you don’t like “girl dick” you’re transphobic?

What’s the problem with people with mental illness taking drugs and mutilating their bodies only to realize it doesn’t cure their depression, cure their dysphoria, or make the people they find attractive want to fuck date and love them? That they really were as a person more than one energy-sucking and meaningless label?

What’s the problem with people losing all self-improvement and hobbies to become a one-toned sex obsessed freak who demands constant outside validation because they’re emotionally stunted and dysfunctional and instead of seeking viable mental aid they dig their heels into their illness and victim complex?

Do you really think in ten years after Big Pharm has used these poor tools for all their $$ and energy and desperation for meaning they aren’t going to come to the hard realization they are not literally women, and being a literal women was never the source of their infinite self hatred and misery? That none of them want to be OLD or UGLY women but a sick sexist fantasy?

That actual self love is so incredibly radical it means you can be you and work on yourself without calling yourself a special name or arguing with people who do not give a fuck what you call yourself and still owe you nothing on what your imaginary gender is? A rose by any other name. Lost souls want a new paint job when it’s the frame of their life that needs work.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-14T19:36:37+00:00

Gay men are attracted to men even ones with “girl-dick” because they’re meeeeeeen

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-13T22:49:52+00:00

A friend of mine recently peaked and it’s been so great to see her reclaim her power and stop putting her trans and gender fluid “friends” on a pedestal above herself as a person. Women need to keep fighting and empowering others to not be fucking handmaidens.

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-13T20:19:05+00:00

It's never "live your best life"by taking personal accountability and eating healthy, exercising, and having positive hobbies/creative outlets, it's always someone else's responsibility to make them feel special for doing absolutely nothing. Living your best life means imho, ngaf if someone misgenders you...

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-13T19:35:33+00:00

I didn't interact or engage because they feed on validation and being seen.

Good for you! They’re energy vampires,narcissists, and emotionally stunted adults with a victim mentality that get an emotional high off of internet fights...

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-13T18:41:20+00:00

10 years ago I tried to come out as bi and was ostracized and bullied by straights. Now I would never come out because I don’t want to be ostracized and bullied by all the GeNdEr QuEeR loonies who only take a break from talking about their endless identify politics to police other people’s (especially women).

Literallyawoman · 2020-07-13T18:04:45+00:00

Been seeing them complain that “terfs” are popping up in other subreddits like...what exactly did you expect? That people with dissenting opinions magically convert or disappear if you destroy their meeting spot? Even people who disagree with GC have been commenting a LOT on how banning the subreddit for us is both counter intuitive and uninclusive.

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-03T14:09:08+00:00

Before the pandemic I only saw him in groups and we didn’t interact much because I never let him talk over me or down to me-he actually became really quiet around me! But after the pandemic I plan to stress to our mutual friend that I will not go to any function he is at because she knows how much he annoys me. She’s another woman who has just started peaking but she’s still a doormat in many ways to her old group of (imho) shitty, failed-to-launch friends. She even acknowledged how uncomfortable he made her but she puts up with it because she came from a bad homelife and thinks everyone deserves a chance. Like no thanks he’s a big red flag and you’re going to learn the hard way when he crosses some serious boundaries.

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-03T14:06:52+00:00

He sounds so toxic and misogynistic jesus how awful. I’m glad you got away from him!

Literallyawoman · 2020-09-02T15:43:30+00:00

They get an emotional high off of imagining themselves as their perfect self ( “if I was a guy my life would be better, my depression and struggles stem from not being my true self etc.“) and can put off actual inner work and fixing their lives by fantasizing the only thing between them and happiness is transition-much like how dieters fantasize about how perfect life will be at their goal weight-which is why there are so many forums to help guide people post-weight loss through the reality that losing weight didn’t magically make them happy or successful or love themselves.

It’s also why many dieters struggle to maintain weight and will gain without the fantasy they get to build during a weight loss journey. It’s easier to have one single goal and focus on that instead of facing multiple issues in your life. It’s like losing weight and feeling good for a week before it’s your new normal and you realize you are still just you.

I should know I went through it losing weight and while I’m happier being fit I had to accept it didn’t change any other part of life besides my body.

People who aren’t the tiny .6 actual trans will find that out the hard way except with permanent changes and a chemical dependency on a lifetime of steroid and hormone shots they will suffer tenfold from stopping or continuing as opposed to never having experimented to begin with; clits too big and desensitized to orgasm, penises that can’t get hard, the reality that most of them will never “pass” as the gender they want to and the hell that creates- the true Othering they do to themselves when if they addressed their mental health sans surgery they wouldn’t create a whole new trauma to be dealt with...

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-25T19:30:59+00:00

If you're ever in a mood to feel real depressed check out r/mypartneristrans it's 99% women being told their feelings don't matter and that they have to stay with and put their trans husbands wants and desires before their own. Just post after post of women being hurt, sad, and disgusted and being told over time they will condition themselves to ignore their feelings and "love" their transwoman partners despite their changing genitalia and franklyusually becoming drama queen assholes.

The relationships are SO toxic on there!

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-25T19:24:37+00:00

There is no reason all places can't just have multiple single-occupant washrooms that lock for privacy, many restaurants already have done away with gendered sections. As long as they also have a room that locks for breastfeeding moms and parents to change their kids diapers let all bathrooms be single-occupant and gender neutral. I don't like seeing strangers walk by through the bathroom stall crack when i'm taking a piss or have to be around their screaming children anyways.

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-25T15:43:56+00:00

Does anyone know what happened to this poor science experiment since they disappeared from social media after citing severe depression post-vaginoplasty?

Literallyawoman · 2020-08-25T14:49:47+00:00

Do you ever have suicidal thoughts because you should definitely act on them no one would miss you

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