A swedish woman asks college students if she can be a man and then asks if she can be Japanese. Double-think ensues.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-12-01T18:55:07+00:00

I couldn't believe it and looked on wikipedia. They have already changed all the pronouns and her name.

This is so stupid.

You're telling me that after 33 years you discovered you're a mAn iNSiDe? You're whole career is based on your pretty look and cute face!

Yes Ellen, when people see your photos they clearly think of a man now, just because you say so. Ceci n'est pas une pipe.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-25T11:26:47+00:00

The problem is this shit is taught in courses and some schools

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-09T23:26:33+00:00

I've always asked the same questions to TRAs and never got an answer. This is why I'm prone to think the whole ideology is a cult. No facts, no questions, accept the dogma or get shunned.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-08T18:58:56+00:00

She was my idol exactly because she was a girl! In those times, finding a female protagonist who could kick ass and was not a damsel in distress was pretty rare. Even Ariel and Belle couldn't compete.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-24T13:10:55+00:00

This is so uncorrect on so many levels. She even couldn't see the contradiction between the need for the pill and the "BolD oF yOu tO aSsuMe" statement.

I'm more worried that people believe this foolishness.

BTW, why didn't many gay and lesbian people in the past stay in their unhappy marriages by just asking their partners to identify as the opposite sex? It was so simple!

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-10T15:43:50+00:00

Turn on the English subtitles.

I can't comprehend how they dare to say you can be a man when you have a whole functioning female body, but can't be Japanese with white features and blonde hair. It's so illogical and straight-up false.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-02T19:05:17+00:00

Hmmm I wonder if there is a word for the class of non-prostate owners 🤔

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-27T19:32:36+00:00

Under him there's another man who says he's subbed because he used to think he was cishet but is actually a transbian now. The joke writes itself.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-22T13:13:41+00:00

So, let me get this straight: she thought she was bi and married a man, who then identified as a woman, and now she think she is lesbian because of it? THAT'S NONSENSICAL, FROM HEAD TO TOE!

If she truly was lesbian, she wouldn't have been happy with her man, and still wouldn't be even after her husband started to dress like a woman.

She was bi all along.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-10-30T15:41:43+00:00

And over 400 upvotes

I bet that if this dude posted on gonewild the straight males would be (f)urious

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-09T11:58:49+00:00

Random idea: what if we create a sub called actualtransbian and kick away anyone who doesn't agree with us? Let's give them a spoon of their own medicine

LasagnaRossa · 2021-02-18T10:54:10+00:00

The males don't even attempt to look feminine! LOL!

Why the fuck are men drawn in a handbook for lesbians?!

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-08T19:06:15+00:00

Another woman falls in the "I'm not like the other girls" trap

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-26T21:12:09+00:00

I bet they removed every comment that said no

LasagnaRossa · 2020-10-15T18:41:21+00:00

Finally a bisexual rant that truly represents me! :')

I'm okay with people who claim that they're attracted to anyone, but can we aknowledge that people like us exist too? I'm not a terf for this, I'm not the captain of my sexual attraction, I just happen to be attracted to both sexes.

If others feel differently from me, they are free to make up their own label. Me and other bisexuals won't steal it, promise.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-07T13:01:32+00:00

They even met on that "lesbian" sub lol. Memes write themselves.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-05T19:27:07+00:00

Banned for wrongthink

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-11T15:09:04+00:00

When your arguments are so bad that you know they wouldn't hold the public discussion...

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-12T00:28:43+00:00

gEniTaLs ArE jUsT a BoDY pArT

Maybe for you lol

99% of people do care, a lot

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-03T22:34:51+00:00

My take is that some straight white men aren't into masculine gender roles and think that therefore they're women instead.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-28T08:20:43+00:00

We're clearly stepping backwards. I wonder when the shift happened.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-10-31T16:27:20+00:00

Non-binary = tomboy, got it

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-02T21:10:16+00:00

I mean, if someone felt the need to have a dating app for a specific purpose, let them be...

"But that's terfy!" Who cares? They wouldn't have dated you anyway! Its a service for everyone, really.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-01T20:56:31+00:00

The fact that they think that sex is a minor detail just like the number of toes is pretty telling of their knowledge about biology and human behavior.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-11T15:53:07+00:00

Italy: we're still arguing if gay people are normal or mentally ill, the trans rhetoric is very far away to being accepted.

On the contrary, I know there are quarrels inside the national LGBT groups because TRAs are trying to tell lesbians that they like girldick.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-28T22:02:32+00:00

See TRAs? That's what happens when you don't censor people. People never stopped to think that the king is naked, you've just forbidden them to tell that.

Reality is that thing that, when you stop believing in it, is still there. You all live in a fantasy world.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-17T18:41:09+00:00

It looks like you missed the drama in r/yuri (anime lesbian soft porn) where the mods first asked with a poll if trans porn was welcome, and then introduced that rule trumping their own community wishes because it was the most woke thing to do.

The community was outraged also because there are subs dedicated to transbian porn, and they have different name because, you would never guess, not everyone likes dick in their lesbian porn.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-09T23:41:25+00:00

"Regressive notions concerning gender"

Who, us? LOL

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-02T08:05:13+00:00

I loathe how they tell us that "but girls and elder women don't menstruate and are women too! You didn't think of that, uh terves??"

1) Yeah, we did think of that and we have given many explanations. If only you didn't censor us, we would explain.

2) I recognize the original post is poorly written, but that's it: if you have female organs, you're a woman. Congrats!

3) On the contrary you believe that anyone with boobs, long hair and estrogen is a woman. How is that better?!?

4) Oh, I'm sorry, no, anyone who believes is a woman, is a woman. So much better now. Truly exemplary.

Maybe it's you who should analyze better your point of view and look if it makes sense.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-29T17:43:34+00:00

I agree with all of you, and I want to add: when your kindness is read as flirting. Men never have this problem and therefore are more friendly to strangers. If they are attacked they know that 1) they could fight back, 2) at worst the stranger wants their values. To us, being robbed would be the best of worst outcomes.

Unfortunately when you're a woman you know you're not just a person, but something more (less?), a piece of meat. You wear shorts? Oh, so sexy. You wear a tank top? Oh, so sexy. Whereas you are only trying to fight the hot weather. You smile? Oh, she wants me.

I wonder if in a few centuries women will be finally seen as people everywhere.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-20T20:02:38+00:00

I bet the security checked their passport because they noticed the look wasn't feminine...

LasagnaRossa · 2020-11-01T21:40:32+00:00

Don't ask me.

I once discussed with a self claimed pansexual about the lack of difference between the two definitions. He tried to tell me that it was like pizza: bisexuals like all the toppings, whereas pansexuals don't mind toppings, they just like pizza.

He didn't like when I observed that in order to not mind the topping, you already need to love all of them. He really truly didn't understand.

These people must be utterly stupid, I can't think anything different.

Do words mean anything? Why does the "bi" in "bisexual" magically mean "all" but the "bi" in "bigender" doesn't?

And in bicycle, bilingual, bipedal... They all mean two but in one word. Language is so magical UwU

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-19T17:25:45+00:00

They keep repeating the same lie again and again so that maybe one day everybody will start believing it... Especially they themselves.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-19T17:21:54+00:00

Do lesbians like transwomen?

Did anybody answer that genuine question? It hurts to see that a fucking man answered for them.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-09T11:57:08+00:00

I'm pretty sure they're pissed that can't deny us the right to vote in that sub. They wish the ban included the ability to leave an upvote/downvote.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-11-08T12:45:56+00:00

Of course the real girl doesn't get offended if someone misgenders her, since she knows that if you call a rose "leaf", it doesn't stop to be a rose.

The trans girl on the other hand knows deep down he's not a real girl, and hopes that words will change reality. As if we are women because people call us so.

Pure wishful thinking, these people are more deluded than anything and I'm shocked that liberals are going along with them.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-25T13:16:43+00:00

What even is feminine behavior? What we do is feminine because we're female, not the other way around.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-23T07:49:55+00:00

But I thought gay male couples aren't intrinsically incapable of make a baby... The assumption of mr Cohen are transphobic!

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-11T16:04:32+00:00

That sub is becoming more and more like any other trans sub. I'm so pissed.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-31T06:13:14+00:00

I still don't understand why they're unhappy about chasers. Some people seek and appreciate you for that specific body part, you should be happy. Unless they also objectify you, there's nothing wrong.

The situation is the same if you are blonde and attract "blonde chasers".

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-10T22:52:28+00:00

They are against the TRA ideology. In their view they are the worst because they are traitors.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-16T09:40:05+00:00

I mean, we could also ask ourselves if a gay man would still be gay if he was born and raised in an island where only girls are around.

Spoiler alert: yes he would.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-03T22:33:22+00:00

In a certain way, this NB bullshit is the modern fruit of plain old sexism: men are good in maths, logic and leadership and women are good in cooking and caretaking. If you fall outside the rule, you're a freak and should be aligned.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-11-20T12:23:41+00:00

Real women are never threatened by other women who talk about their biological functions, because they know they are women even though their cycle is irregular, they don't want children or they aren't in their fertile age anymore. Every variation is a different way to be a woman.

Only men in dresses get offended by it, because they know that they lack the only condition to be called woman: being born one.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-10-04T16:16:29+00:00

Saying bisexuality is transphobic is transphobic

Because its entailing that trans men are not men and trans women are not women

Well, they are not real men and women afterall...

Try to tell straight men and women that their dating pool includes trans women and men, and you'll see them riot.

Everyone but you see that the king is naked.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-24T13:05:10+00:00

"B-but gender is not the same as believing you're a cat"

Totes different. I'm still waiting for the proof.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-05T11:53:10+00:00

EvEryOnE iN tHiS sUB

Yeah, you fucking banned everyone who disagrees!

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-29T08:34:46+00:00

True lesbians are gradually fleeing from that sub, after discovering that there is no much space left for them

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-30T18:26:37+00:00

If you're in the wrong body, how can you be a girl? Their logic isn't very sound at all.

"Do you see this cat? Well, it's actually a bird in a cat's body! Yes, he meows and can't fly, but he identifies with a bird, therefore he is a bird like all the other birds!"

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-25T11:03:29+00:00

What I hate about this stupid nomenclature is that we are redefining concepts for outliers.

Homini Sapiens Sapiens are those animals who have hands with thumbs. Not every newborn has thumbs or hands, is that sentence therefore false? Absolutely not! Some of them are born without them, but that's not standard. Most of people have hands, therefore it's normal for our species.

We can't redefine things for outliers, goddammit.

And even then, the females of our species are supposed to stop menstruating past a certain age. It's normal.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-21T20:18:43+00:00

I think this sub is pretty monothematic right now because all the users are pretty salty for the ban. I guess it will get back to normal over time.

Meanwhile, why don't you start first with a different topic?

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-17T13:55:20+00:00

I mean, by their standard, that outcome should be okay

LasagnaRossa · 2020-12-05T17:20:01+00:00

In the same way they advertised gender criticals. LOL they're so dumb! Guess how I found that sub, huh?

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-20T15:47:44+00:00

As a bisexual, I found infuriating that comment that says "my friend didn't become bisexual, but his interest shifted overtime from straight to gay"

Goddammit, you don't need to be attracted to both genders at the same time with the same passion! Do you like both, even if a little? Congratulations, you're bi.

And what about the other idiot who said "Kinsey 5 is not bisexual". DO YOU LIKE BOTH? YOU'RE BI, goddammit!

Once again confused bisexual people in the internet are talking for their gay fellows 🙄

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-22T13:16:00+00:00

Do they know you can respect someone without agreeing with their beliefs?

I'm atheist but respect religious people; just because I think they're mistaken it doesn't mean I hate them and we can't be friends. It's the same with these people, really.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-29T08:41:02+00:00

You don't understand, he's still a man because he identifies with it! If after the dick dropping he started to identify with a dolphin, he would be a dolphin (ever seen a dolphin with a dick? Me neither).

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-29T08:37:47+00:00

I still want to understand their logic. Whiteness is not the necessary condition to be eligible of the "man" status. This is why black men are men.

It's basic logic, come on

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-17T21:20:19+00:00

LOL at the only comment who told the truth

For everyone who will read that thread in 8 hours, it says "it's probably the penis". And OP all acting pissed because lesbians can like peens too. Yeeeeahhh...

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-02T19:12:17+00:00

Half century ago those people would have been called good christian boys/girls lol

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-01T10:13:04+00:00

I'm trans and I don't like penises too:D

UH, I wonder why! 🙄

LasagnaRossa · 2020-11-06T20:10:56+00:00

They always cop out with that stupid genital preference concept. No dude, you said trans women are women, you're straight, you must date them too.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-10-09T14:10:56+00:00

So "I don't want to date or have sex with asian people" means that I am racist and hate asian people?

Some SJW really do think that

LasagnaRossa · 2020-10-04T16:14:01+00:00

And words change when everyone agrees on the new meaning! If I start to call "cat" a spoon, the meaning of cat isn't changed, I'm just a weirdo who likes to call her spoons "cats".

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-10T11:44:14+00:00

In the same way an artificial limb is not a true limb. Differences matters.

The funny thing is that if these people weren't pushing falsehood, they would be accepted at least from us.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-14T15:10:02+00:00

I get it's satire, bit why did they still write that a cisgender man usually have a penis?

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-09T23:43:45+00:00

It's the usual bullshit that men love. I bet my money on it

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-10T19:33:46+00:00

Buuuut smiiiile, detrans with new trans modes is up! As you imagine, it's heavily moderated.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-11-22T00:48:12+00:00

Having a genital preference is perfectly fine. Refusing to date someone just because they are trans alone is not, imo.

I never understood this logic, it's basically the same thing. If I have a "genital preference" I'm automatically excluding trans people from my dating pool.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-11-20T17:02:19+00:00

Sometimes the trash takes out itself.

Let them go, so that we can finally make our own LGB community with their bless.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-10-22T14:00:54+00:00

Good. Now remake the same meme with three actual people. I'm pretty sure the one in the center won't be cute and feminine as they hope.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-21T22:17:58+00:00

Bicolor, bicycle, binary, bimodal, bilateral, bilingual... Always two things.

I'm double (heh) enraged because my main language is Italian, and I know pretty well the meaning of that prefix.

These people are trying to change half vocabulary because some people can't accept reality. I'm speechless.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-21T18:54:30+00:00

I tried to explain to her that both components are analogous. A penis and a vagina are not that different. They have the same tissue. It's the configuration that makes us dysphoric.

At this point why don't say that you're a potato too since humans share over 90% of DNA. It's all in the configuration lol.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-31T11:13:04+00:00

Hmm, I think you're right.

Because 'chasers' are interested in them for being trans, not for being women,

Well, who else would be attracted to them otherwise? What do they expect? LOL

Casually my boyfriend is one of those people who like trans women (too) for their "transness". When I told him his taste would actually be frowned upon by the trans community itself, he was surprised.

But that's reality: we are attracted to people because of their bodies too. I for example like women for their "womaness" and men for their "maleness". So called chasers are no different.

which is invalidating of their delusions.

I'm pretty sure that's the key.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-09T10:54:24+00:00

They thought that by silencing us we would have started believing that grass is purple

LasagnaRossa · 2020-07-01T17:45:59+00:00

Exactly this!!!!

It has the same logic as religions: believe in these statements or you'll be shunned by the community.

Too bad those statements don't hold any true logic, and when you ACTUALLY go read what the evil terfs say, you see they've been lying to you in order to be right.

Why do you think those subs discouraged people to go check what GC said? Because they KNEW it would be convincing!

When a nazi says stupid things in a sub, anyone can see how silly their view is and you don't need to censor them, because their stupidity speak for themselves. Bonus points if someone engages with them and explain why their view is fake.

With us, they needed to remove our comments.

LasagnaRossa · 2021-01-14T17:11:56+00:00

As I expected, a bunch of kids post in that sub...

LasagnaRossa · 2020-12-02T16:36:05+00:00

Exactly. You can't opt out because you didn't opt in in the first place.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-10-19T09:35:34+00:00

When you're so far in the cult that you think that keeping out women and bisexual men from a gay group is gatekeeping LOL

The memes write themselves

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-04T10:06:12+00:00

Didn't you get the memo? Words don't have a meaning anymore

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-08T18:35:28+00:00

You can tell that it wasn't written by an actual woman by its format and word choice.

LasagnaRossa · 2021-01-14T17:13:31+00:00

This is what happens when you redefine bisexuality. "Two or more genders" means that you can like girls and tomboys and still be bi.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-10-28T16:06:17+00:00

Lmao the dude who asks why people obsess over genitalia and not personality when dating.

I'm pretty sure these people never had sex in their lives, nor romantic relationships.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-10-07T19:06:15+00:00

The "woman" is even pre-op, basically a feminine dude. And this guy swear he's straight lol

LasagnaRossa · 2020-09-22T15:27:01+00:00

Did I misinterpret your comment? I though you were saying that we should just let them claim to be lesbians.

Yes and no. I was talking about what "respect someone" means. TRAs think that if you don't believe what someone's says, you're not respecting them; whereas I say that respect is about human dignity and not mistreating people for their beliefs.

So, can they say that a man can be lesbian? Sure they can. People can claim all sort of things, otherwise we wouldn't have antivaxxers and flat-earthers. But do I have to believe them? Nope. And am I disrespecting them because of it? Fucking no.

I hope it's clear now.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-08-04T19:38:58+00:00

This is a textbook case of internalized homophobia, and yet these people can't recognize it

LasagnaRossa · 2020-11-22T09:32:50+00:00

It is obvious that they are changing meanings, because the bi in bisexual has always meant "the two sexes". Proof:

1) Before all this TRA non sense people recognized only two sexes. Gender is the polite form for the same word.

2) Straight means "attracted to the opposite sex". OPPOSITE, not any other one which isn't yours.

So bisexual has always implied that you're both things, "straight" and "gay", you like the opposite sex and your own. TWO sexes.

Pansexual label was invented when modern medicine was able to successfully make up people in the opposite sex. Since it's not that obvious to like someone with mixed up parts, they invented the label pan, which means "all", in this case you like any combination of appearance.

Screaming that this origin is transphobic won't change our sexualities.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-11-12T12:58:51+00:00

Not Norwegian but my country (Italy) is currently discussing this same bill. It will become illegal to discriminate or hit someone for sexual orientation and gender alone. In fact the sentence will be harsher if it is proven you hate the victim's category.

Our bill keeps the freedom to have an opinion and it looks like so does the Norwegian one.

LasagnaRossa · 2020-11-03T13:00:19+00:00

I'm also pissed that they think we are coward for not leaving a comment, when we simply can't leave a disagreeing comment!

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