People who menstruate of saidit, make sure your sexual partner has a trash can in the bathroom and soap. You know, normal bathroom things by SteppenSlut in GenderCritical

[–]LadyStain 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What even is gender though? Whenever someone conflates woman with dress/makeup wearing, long hair having, submission they reinforce toxic gender stereotypes for the rest of us women. Can't I just be female exactly as I am without being told that I'm less of a woman for not performing femininity?

People who menstruate of saidit, make sure your sexual partner has a trash can in the bathroom and soap. You know, normal bathroom things by SteppenSlut in GenderCritical

[–]LadyStain 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Do people really have sex with people who don't have soap in their bathrooms?

Detrans female— Venting, what the f just happened to me? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]LadyStain 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's such a trip.

I never transitioned personally, but I was so sure that I was born a man in a woman's body for years. My path out of it was initially the realization that even if I were in the wrong body that I only have one body and needed to make the best of it. I pretended to be a woman (in a woman's body) for awhile and then finally realized that I'm just a person who was born with a body that happens to be female shaped.

I'm sorry that you're feeling alienated from your friends right now, I know it's difficult to go through a psychic change and watch the people you're closest to continue to be what they've always been.

Allow yourself to grieve, and be patient and kind to yourself while you go through the process. One of the most beautiful things about life (I think) is that we never stop growing and changing, there are always new things to explore and discover especially within ourselves. Changing our minds or growing into something new isn't a betrayal of our former self, just a new way for us to express ourselves as we are in a moment of time.

If you feel like you can't do anything else, never forget, a sandwich and a nap never hurt anybody.