When did you realise you were a lesbian? by CherryLatchmere in Lesbians
[–]Kimaris 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Around 4. I didn't know the word since I was a kid, but that's when I started getting crushes on girls. I would always try to impress them with silly stuff. I only found out later that I'm what they call a lesbian and that lesbians often get hurt and disowned because of it. I was a happy kid till I found that out. It took me a while to be ok with it (though I still was very out, outside the house). I'm afraid I can't relate to the sleeping with guys part but I know that some lesbians takes a while to figure things out though. For me I've been this way since I could remember. 100% homo and I'm glad.
Ever noticed that lesbians have the least spaces out of the LGBT community? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians
[–]Kimaris 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Harmful? Sorry, it might just be my 3rd world brain at work here but how is not being prone to more STDs a bad thing? I mean, you do you. But I like how lesbians have a low stat numbers on that topic. Also, I never heard of hookup culture being frowned upon by lesbians because they don't want to be like other people. That's just silly. No one, especially a random group of lesbians can enforce what other lesbians/women do. If they have that much influence then we can control all the bisexual women who misuse the label lesbian and stop the stupid "lesbians do dick" bs. But we can't do that now can we.
I don't have any other lesbian to compare myself to so I can only use myself. I'm absolutely loyal to my partner and I tried to do hookups (when I was single). I can't. I literally can't will myself to even though I had countless opportunities to. No one told me I CAN'T do hookups. Lmao. That's hilarious btw. If you want to do hookups. Literally no one is stopping you.
[–]Kimaris 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Lesbians almost always keep to themselves plus we're not really into the whole hookup culture. I think, as a whole we're largely monogamous. It would be nice to have a lesbian cafe with book/band focus on weekends though so we could have more lesbian friends.
Never forget that we're taco-havers that only wants other taco-havers. by Kimaris in Lesbians
[–]Kimaris[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Oh! I think he based it off of this actually. This strip has been around for a long while.
[–]Kimaris[S] 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Actually a trans person made this. Dunno if they're just that delusional that they couldn't see that this is not showing how exclusionary 'TERFs' are, but is instead, showing how ridiculous their arguments are.
Never forget that we're taco-havers that only wants other taco-havers.
1 year ago by Kimaris to /s/Lesbians from i.imgur.com
TL is No More by MaxinistaFemmeinista in Lesbians
[–]Kimaris 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
TL did what they could to remain civil. Lesbians just wanted some space from them. They didn't even want to be full GC and just wanted to talk about lesbian things. You know. Tacos and carpets. But apparently. Tacos are too transphobic and needs to be taken down. :D
Gender Critical was extraordinary by milpathecat in GenderCritical
[–]Kimaris 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
What I love about it is it reached women all over the globe. There were women from singapore, malaysia, the philippines, south korea, france, sweden, spain and more. It's honestly amazing.
GC Migrant Bird here. I can't believe how much they lied about us. by Kimaris in Introductions
[–]Kimaris[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
There has already been video evidences of them jerking off and harming people in the female bathrooms but ok. As for the men who just wants to piss and shit. Why does it make it okay that that they can make women feel uncomfortable in their spaces? You know that age old joke of women taking too long in the bathroom? There's actually a good reason for that. Bathroom anxiety. Yes. Even without the transwomen issue. Women are already anxious enough as it is. Sometimes women are even embarrassed that other women can hear noises from their bodies. That's why in japan the public toilets have music options. Women also has a messier procedure compared to men. Which would make them take even longer and more anxious. Women also uses the bathroom as an escape from stalkers. People say that nothing is stopping a rapist from entering but this isn't true. Everyone in society would see that if a man follows a woman into a female bathroom that they're up to no good. So, yes bathrooms do save women from rape and assault. Women also go there for quiet and to calm themselves down. Now add a transwoman into the mix.
It's easy to see how this would ruin it for women. I haven't heard of transwomen being assaulted by men in the male bathrooms so I don't know why they can't use it. Most of these transwomen still has their parts anyway. If they really want to be seen as people that are not a threat to women, they should be able to respect women and let their spaces be. Because despite of all their remarks that it's just a bogeyman, it never happens. It does. There's also been studies about unisex bathrooms and how the risk of women being harmed increases. Because that's what's gonna happen the women's bathrooms will technically become unisex ones. Because they still have a different genitalia!
Again. They should have their own bathrooms. Btw I don't agree with transmen infiltratin men's bathrooms either. Pretty sure there are some men who would be uncomfortable if an obvious woman is pretend peeing next to them in the urinal.
Reddit banning GC caused me to Peak by PostmodernJukebox in GenderCritical
[–]Kimaris 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
They hijacked the LGB first. I've been looking into it and apparently it was already starting since 1977. It's just that women and men before us was able to block it off. It started growing strong around the 90s. Even more when Tumblr became a thing.
[–]Kimaris 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
To them, they don't need to make sense. They just need to cry and wail harder. Never forget that a mom in the UK got charged with Trolling for saying that transwomen aren't women.
[–]Kimaris[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Males should go to the men's and vice versa. Either that or they get their own bathrooms. Also I believe that people should stay in their own lane. These people are really too much. It's disgusting how males who didn't perform well in their categories would suddenly enter the women's and shamelessly rejoice in winning against them. Why would they be proud in doing that? It's pathetic.
Thanks for the welcome. I appreciate it. I'm sure a lot of us who moved here does. For this matter, it doesn't really matter to me if a person is right or left wing. I will always side with people's right to speak. Censorship blocks all roads to understanding. These people are shamelessly lying about history and basic biology, all for virtue signalling and pharma money. This is putting a lot of youths at permanent risk and I refuse to be used as their 'validity' puppet.
There are different ways to approach a situation and we don't always have to agree. It's good enough that we all can have a conversation without resorting to screeching. Also, I had a lot of male friends growing up and I'm aware of how different our bone structures and muscle definitions are. Even if I become absolutely fit. I could probably challenge an average guy at best. I would not be able to compete with a fit, trained, male who had testosterone in their body their whole life, plus the muscle structure that they got during puberty. And there's nothing wrong in acknowledging that. The old school feminists believed in equal opportunity for the sexes. Not that we're literally equal. Smh.
[–]Kimaris[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago* (0 children)
I was an avid debater in college and I saw debates and conversations as a way to find a middle ground, connect, to see what the real answer to a problem is. Not to beat each other into a pulp. Censorship will always be risky and there are times that it is needed (like pedophilia obviously) but there is a line to be drawn and shutting down discussions and controlling people's mouths is very manipulative. It sets us back as a society. During the 2012s-2015s when I saw rabid women arguing with men for the smallest reasons. I was annoyed with them. I didn't want to have anything to do with them. It was irrational. If they were protesting an actual rapist. Go ahead. But being mad at a guy just because you thought they implied something? When they were obviously just nervous and didn't have the right words to say? Fuck that noise.
Then I found out that it was Libfems that was doing it and that not all feminists were like that. 2nd wave feminists still existed. Libfems was the 3rd wavers. Now the 2nd wave is turning into the 4th with a focus on protecting the sexes and biological reality and thank goodness for GC. If I didn't found that place I would have thought that maybe I'm a bigot because of all the gas lighting and brainwashing. As far as I know with the 2 years I've been visiting GC, I saw a lot of control implemented on not resorting to hateful words and comments. When a woman was too man hating we/they controlled that. When someone wanted to abort male babies we shut that down and we were disgusted. We do not condone whatever they've been accusing us of. In fact as Rowling said. The transgender 'women' who were insisting to get into our bathrooms and sports was the main trigger on why a lot of women went back to old school feminism despite distancing ourselves from the word feminism for ages.
So. Thanks a lot regressive "T". Because of the censorship and bannings you re-organized women's priorities. Made the LGB genuinely closer once again, for just cause. And made women all over the world connect and become active. We seriously all need to deal with the "T". The rising numbers of detransitioners and detrans people who are thinking/committing suicide is becoming a problem and the woke corporates are too busy overwriting our history and censoring those who has been harmed by it. Big money is involved and they're a bunch of scumbags for putting people's lives at risk.
So...how are we coping with this fiasco? I swear I had a small heart attack. This feels like war. by MsHurricane in Lesbians
[–]Kimaris 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
It is war. Censorship is part of war. They're manipulating the narrative.
First they came for FatPeopleHate, but I said nothing by poops in Introductions
[–]Kimaris 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Fat people hate helped me lose weight actually. it's bull crap that they took it down.
GC Migrant Bird here. I can't believe how much they lied about us.
1 year ago by Kimaris to /s/Introductions from self.Introductions