Radical feminism is failing because it’s too racist by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 53 insightful - 1 fun53 insightful - 0 fun54 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was a mod on G_c. I removed some comments of a similar vein as this. The user repeatedly failed to respond to requests for specific examples and instead picked fights and continually accused GC of racism and antisemetism.

As mods, we take racist and antisemitic content as seriously as we do misogynistic content. We will always seek to have the content removed to the extent possible in accordance with our rules. If you have a specific example you would like to discuss, please PM me the comment you want addressed.

r/GenderCynical doing what it can to get rid of gay people on Reddit by Cacator in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 47 insightful - 4 fun47 insightful - 3 fun48 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

And men. Men can't be violently transphobic, only women.

"how do I report these women talking amongst themselves on a different site" by gparmesan in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 36 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 3 fun37 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

"They're so hateful!" they say, while still making jokes about a young woman who died from brain cancer over a year ago

"how do I report these women talking amongst themselves on a different site" by gparmesan in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A political rival, haha. You mean a woman with very little real power who used a cheap camera and spoke out about what she believed? It's not like Magdalen was an authority. She was a woman with a webcam and he's celebrating her tragically premature death over a year later.

If we are banned, r/EntitledBitch, r/FuckYouKaren, r/pussypassdenied and all porn subs should be banned. by RIP_r_GenderCritical in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The only thing liberals and conservatives can agree on these days is "fuck white women".

Wait I am confused at how this is supposed to be a cute pro trans man comic by GrendelsScaryMom in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I used to wear two of the smallest sports bras I could squeeze into layered on top of each other. My best girlfriend wore thick baggy hoodies every single day, year round.

It's heartbreaking how young women feel about their bodies and I'm sick to death of gender ideologies taking advantage of this painful stage in a young woman's development.

Do you want to tell him, or should I? by womenopausal in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have not. Not a single time. Seen Karen refer to men

To all of you trans ladies out there by AdmiralPangolin in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No, they absolutely do not "go through everyday life as women". They weren't socialized as women. They don't have female reproductive organs. They experience life as trans identifying men, not women, and that's the whole freaking point!

Ovarit is a mirage, right? by HOA_At_The_Moonstone in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ovarit is real and imo better than Saidit. More active. Fewer blatant trolls. They've got an invite system, whereas we're forced to exist surrounded by alt-right and MRA types too edgy for Reddit. Probably a bad bias for a mod to have, but having spent time on both sites, I'd rec Ovarit before Saidit.

If we are banned, r/EntitledBitch, r/FuckYouKaren, r/pussypassdenied and all porn subs should be banned. by RIP_r_GenderCritical in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I love that the all these anti-mask entitled people complaints and content are women. And yet, overwhelmingly when I go out it isn't white women without masks but men. Reminds me of the anti-vaxx movement being attributed to women when men are just as susceptible.

Radical feminism is failing because it’s too racist by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Sure will be interesting to see if OP has any specific examples. So far we just have their intuition that there weren't enough women of colored based on gut feel or some shit.

Request to reinstate r/GenderCritical on Reddit by yipopov in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Neeeever gonna happen.

Women getting banned from saidit too by Maeven in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's something the mods have to include to be able to remove comments and ban users who are posting anti-feminist, anti-gc ideas. When we first started we were overwhelmed by incels and MRA types telling us "IT'S FREE SPEECH, THIS ISN'T REDDIT, (pick your favorite slur for women here)"

If we don't keep GC spaces strictly GC, they quickly become dominated by men and male allies.

Detrans female— Venting, what the f just happened to me? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You're still beautiful and valid and one of us. You've made some extremely difficult decisions and you've been so fucking brave. You will always have a place with your sisters. I'm so sorry for all the struggles you've been through and I hope you find peace and comfort in your body.

"how do I report these women talking amongst themselves on a different site" by gparmesan in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Mod here. No, do not do that. We will remove your comments. This is not a debate subreddit and we can remove posts based on Rule 4 of Saidit's terms. XD

Bisexual TERFs? by Rage-Xion in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm bi and wouldn't date a trans person. I had a woke friend get huffy about this once, but I've been in a relationship forever and live in a pretty right wing area so it doesn't come up much except for online. I do see the odd post from lesbians saying to transwomen "just date a bisexual", and that makes me roll my eyes. No thanks!

If this is "sex positivity," I weep. by our_team_is_winning in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hypersexuality is a well documented response to abuse, especially molestation.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3693773/

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0890856709636418

Do your own legwork next time instead of assuming that others are wrong when they disagree with your worldview. Strikes me as really hypocritical.

God I'm so Sick of Talking About Trans - Remember Women's Issues?? by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy[S] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

God, is there anything less productive to meaningful change than postmodernism? Ugh. It's important to talk about what it means to be a woman, but as soon as men joined the conversation, as it always goes, the conversation became a black hole of women's time and energy for the coddling of men.

r/BanFemaleHateSubs has been reinstated by ThisReality in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Seriously. They clearly called out women and kicked them in the teeth. They can reinstate r/banwomenhatesubs, without BANNING THE WOMEN HATE SUBS, or siding with women's subs against men.

YUCK -TiM stalks specific woman's work bathroom to steal her used sanitary products and wear them. BLURGH. by BEB in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It definitely happens. You can find forums discussing stealing used pads and tampons (how, where, practices, tips) as well as simulating menstruation. I've seen fetish artists who specialize in fetish art for transforming into menstrual products.

Never underestimate the depths of depravity fetishes will reach.

The vibe of this sub seems a lot different than the original r/gendercritical by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is unfortunate, but somewhat inevitable given the much smaller community, the opportunists seeing a chance to interact with the community while it regains traction, and the overall tone of the platform of saidit.

We're doing what we can to moderate this community to the same standard as our Reddit community. If you prefer, Spinster is another option for you. Give it a shot. Only you can determine if it's a site for you. A team of the original GC mods are also currently working on creating a GC specific site.

Detrans female— Is there space for me here? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There have been some great resources posted below. I just wanted to say that we will always be here to support women. Our only limitation is that this is an explicitly gender critical space. If you're looking for a broad range of viewpoints including those beyond gender critical feminism, you might want to check out the gender critical debate saidits. I believe Gender Critical QT is being rehomed here as well. There used to be a subreddit specifically for detrans individuals started by a detrans FTM. I used to recommend the subreddit wholeheartedly, but I do so with some caution at this point. The subreddit has been caught up in the purge. Reddit has been working hard to remove any and all viewpoints which may be considered critical of gender (particularly coming from women). The subreddit still exists at this time (thought it was temporarily banned). The top post still seems very relevant. Here's the URL for the sub https://www.reddit.com/r/detrans/

Take it with a grain of salt in the current environment. If you'd be interested, it could be beneficial to start a Saidit detrans community as well. You are absolutely not alone in the slightest. I hope you find peace and acceptance, both within yourself and within women's communities. Many of us have experienced some degree of gender dysphoria in the past and while we may be critical of gender, we will always have solidarity with you as a fellow woman.

"Anti TERF Flag": TumblrInAction by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Man, any of that comment session would get you banned on all the subs I used to frequent. Must be because they are presumed to be male commenters.

Personal favorite:

Honestly any male that has the gall to claim that liking spinny dresses and dolls as a kid made him a woman, he's a sexist jackass. Dysphoria is one thing, deifying gender rolls is another.

Women getting banned from saidit too by Maeven in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I anticipate GC being pushed from this site eventually. I highly recommend moving to Ovarit, or even Spinster if you prefer the Twitter format. Ovarit is gaining steam.

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope things are better for you now!

TIMs don’t just think they are women. They think they are better than them. by Moonwalker777 in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There's a lot of classic narcissism. Either they're better than women, or they know better than women, or they suffer more than women have ever suffered. The end result is the same. It's all about ME, ME, ME and women better sit down and shut up.

It's so funny to me that Reddit is claiming TERFs were brigading different women's subs (like r/PCOS and r/pregnancy) like there weren't radfems in those subs to begin with by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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If I had PCOS, I would feel inclined to bop someone for saying I wasn't a woman because of my condition. Hell, I feel inclined to bop them when they imply I'm less of a woman because I wear comfortable clothing and don't waste my time and energy with the toxic cesspool that is beauty and diet culture.

It's so funny to me that Reddit is claiming TERFs were brigading different women's subs (like r/PCOS and r/pregnancy) like there weren't radfems in those subs to begin with by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They want their spaces protected and everyone else's. There's no such thing as a safe space for anyone but transwomen. "If it isn't for or about me, I will use my massive privilege to destroy it."

"how do I report these women talking amongst themselves on a different site" by gparmesan in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not banned, private.

Supporting & Enabling TIFs/TIMs is misogynistic and it NEEDS to be addressed. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Good luck with that. If you gain any traction whatsoever it'll be deleted. I hardly see the point.

Fam, I really need advice on the fIL situation here.EE by WrongToy in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Are you set on cohabitating?

The way I see it, you're in a relationship with your partner and your partner only. You have no obligation to a relationship with his family. If you WANTED to spend time with them, that would be one thing. It sounds like he is spending a lot of time dealing with his parents needs. That's fine, so long as the impact on you only comes in the form of him being busier. If your partner can't respect that and expects you to care for his aging parents, he's taking advantage of you. Either he sets boundaries with his family such that they don't negatively impact you, or he's not worth it. If he respects and prioritizes you, he will understand that you are not and should not be beholden to his mother and father.

Key thing? You need boundaries. You need firm boundaries like, yesterday. If she needs help, it sounds like she's got plenty of money to get help. If they can't care for their pets, they shouldn't have pets. If you SO decides he wants to step up and take care of them, that's his business, not yours.

Adding money into this seems like a disaster in the making.

"Women are only less violent because they are physically weak" by DifferentAirGC in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because it's common, or is the name based on a scene from an old movie and now it refers to any woman who gets emotional or unstable at the end of a relationship? Do you have examples of women killing men's pets as they leave relationships? I'm sure it happens, but I cannot think of a single example, whereas I know of several situations where the sexes were reversed.

Radical feminism is failing because it’s too racist by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Is there evidence of Spinster mods blatant ignoring racism?

Why do tras always act like not agreeing with their ideology is "denying trans people human rights " by TheSeventhSense in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well, when ignoring pronouns is an act of LITERAL VIOLENCE...

FYI the mod stance is that posts and comments from men are somewhat tolerated, but strongly preferred to go to another sub such as gender critical guys. Adding "AS A MAN" or "FROM A MALE PERSPECTIVE" or otherwise bringing attention to your maleness is a good way to get your post removed.

Well, it finally happened...I got cancelled for speaking out against the banning of r/GenderCritical. by sun-spotted in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It makes me think of Dworkin's book Right Wing Women. Even if the ideology is harmful to women, women are socialized to not make waves and to seek protection from misogyny where it is offered. If women can just be "one of the good ones" then maybe they'll be protected from the worst men have to offer. In this case, being outspoken against men in women's bathrooms will get you insulted, de-platformed, threatened or worse.

The reason this gender narrative (and modern wokeness in general) is so toxic is because it uses women's drive to be inclusive and kind to strip women of their hard won advances while spreading their advocacy so thin as to be null.

President Biden Moves to End Female-Only Sports and Services On His First Day In Office — Women's Liberation Front by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is the problem with lesser evilism in the first place. Both parties are mechanisms through which the people's discontent is directed away from confrontational methods such as a strikes and protests. This is not a coincidence. It is by design. It frames the conversation between two pro-war, pro-corporation, pro-money, indifferent to systematic oppression view points. If you're willing to get so absolutely low that you're voting for the devil instead of the devil 2, but this time with a mustache, what do you even stand for?

TiM catfishes redditor and pretends to be a beautiful woman, redditor is not interested to go on a second date, TiM throws a tantrum and calls them a bigot by MinisterOfTerfery in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

lol imagine if this post was from a lesbian turning down a transwoman

imagine the threats they would receive from this 'woman' and how Reddit would view her rejection

I believe there's a divide between radfems and gender critics who aren't necessarily radfem by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fuzzyfuzz considers women's separatism to be an essential part of radical feminism. You do not. This is not an uncommon debate within branches of radical feminism.

God I'm so Sick of Talking About Trans - Remember Women's Issues?? by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think there's a time and place for the finger pointing and the mockery women have for men who pantomime womanhood. Derision is a powerful social tool and the costumery that womanhood has become is an insult in itself. We need to talk about how bullshit and laughable a lot of trans ideology and behavior is, but trans is just so goddamn loud and endless. There are things which have a much greater impact on our lives that we struggle to talk about because we're losing so much energy on the unending parade of absolute fucking nonsense that the liberal left have embraced to the detriment of women.

Misogyny and Sexism in media by TalkToTheVoid in GenderCritical

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It's unending. I have a difficult time consuming any form of media because of the unrelenting sexism and misogyny. Books, movies, tv shows, video games, music, and hell, even cartoons... I think that's why so many people balk at second wave feminism. It's not fun. It's not empowering. It's definitely not sexy. It's a constant barrage of reminders that you aren't a whole person in this world.

Just want to say THANK YOU to the Mods! by BEB in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Love doing it <3

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Claiming to be the opposite sex based on gender feelings seems inherently boundary pushing to me.

"how do I report these women talking amongst themselves on a different site" by gparmesan in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My dad died of the same type of cancer a couple years before Magdalen. My mother and I cared for him up until three days before his death. I think about his decline. The first time he couldn't recognize one of us. Sitting and eating with him because he feared he was being poisoned and only trusted me to protect him. Watching his body waste away to nothing. The first fall. The day he no longer understood how to use a spoon. His first accident.

My dad was a proud, fiercely independent man and I loved him with every fiber of my being. When Magdalen was diagnosed, my heart broke for her and her loved ones. Fuck cancer. Fuck brain cancer in particular. May those who loved her find peace.

Random thought re: "vulnerable populations" by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Women coming from less "woke" regions of the world generally don't buy into this trans bullshit narrative to begin with. They are much more aware of the sex differences between men and women and the oppression of women based on their sex.

God I'm so Sick of Talking About Trans - Remember Women's Issues?? by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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Thanks for joining us here. You've got some very importance experiences to share and we're absolutely here for your perspective. I'm sorry for all the shit you had to deal with in your reproductive history. I hope you and your baby are hale and healthy now. Your voice is a valuable part of our community and I hope you continue to speak of the challenges you faced.

Male voices on GC by woodrup in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

FYI, current policy as discussed by Saidit Mods is that we're going to allow comments from men so long as they don't include "AS A MAN" or make the focus of their post about their male perspective. As much as you're claiming to be understanding and one of the good ones, you're doing the exact thing you say shouldn't be done. Just lurk. Help Gender Critical Guys stay strong and healthy.

What are your hopes for the new r/gendercritical site when it is created? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

So you're essentially asking for a whole separate subreddit where anything goes?

Trans and men have GCG, GC Debate. Gender Critical is a women's space, by women for women to discuss gender critical feminism. "Free speech" is being used to justify taking a Gender Critical Feminist space and allowing anyone and everyone to participate and say whatever they want. At that point, why even have the space at all?

No, I say it's strictly moderated. Gender Critical ideology only. Female dominated or exclusive. Anything short of that is a major step backwards. If you want different subs, create them. Don't water down GC to satisfy people who aren't even GC.

What's the general consensus on sexuality being a choice? by SexualityCritical in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

By definition, you can't have a fetish for sex. The claim "all sexual feelings are derived from having fetishes" is blatantly false.

"Something, such as a material object or nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification."

Women getting banned from saidit too by Maeven in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hear you, and I don't think you're wrong. Ovarit is much more liberal than the previous Gender Critical subreddit, but I believe that's somewhat to be expected. New forums need time to grow and mature. I think the lack of downvoting poses a potential problem as well. Both Ovarit and Spinster have gender critical feminists, and I'd say both have content that... misses the mark. Rather than picking based on their current state, I'd focus on which you'd like to see succeed and work to shape the tone and content. The benefit of starting over is that each user plays a bigger role in what the site becomes.

If this is "sex positivity," I weep. by our_team_is_winning in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Our behavior doesn't exist in a vacuum. There's nothing wrong with have multiple partners or engaging in different sexual acts, but aggression is part of her sexual fantasy and that needs to be viewed with some class analysis. Why would a woman seek to "push her boundaries" in a sexual situation? Why would she use porn terminology like "gangbang" when referring to having sex with multiple male partners instead of a foursome? Does it benefit her as a woman as part of a class of women to pretend like her sexuality is not influenced by her experiences and the world around her? Can we gain any insight into the way she may view herself and her relationship with her sex when her fantasies include being "shoved to the ground"?

Liberalism sells us the idea of choice feminism. That our choices are inherently empowering because they are choices. This ignores the larger context. Recognizing social influences, norms, expectations, and class-based power structures (especially relating to male dominance and the patriarchy) is essential in radical feminism. Perhaps you are in the wrong forum or should do further research into radical feminist ideas.

Trans activists are nice people by Lingenfelter in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

God. I love it when my vagina violently gatekeeps 🤗

As much as I disliked the far right subs, I have to say boo-hoo to this by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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I'm assuming this is an /s post based on post history. Unfortunately given the current social climate, I do not know. :/

God I'm so Sick of Talking About Trans - Remember Women's Issues?? by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

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OH SHIT. I COMPLETELY LEFT OUT HEALTHCARE AND ABORTION ACCESS. THAT TOO

Well, it finally happened...I got cancelled for speaking out against the banning of r/GenderCritical. by sun-spotted in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You've committed a thought crime. Welcome to the gulag.

In 2020 you can be casually racist up to a point but the definition of woman is liable to get you excommunicated.

This feels very dehumanizing by Mermer in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I was born a girl, not an ✨object✨. I must be NB

Ovarit is a mirage, right? by HOA_At_The_Moonstone in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Flaps is a mod who has given out codes in the past. I have codes as well, but I don't usually give them out to users without an established post history. The invite system is to limit bad actors.

Saw on Twitter: “My brother pulled my three-year-old nephew from *daycare* after my nephew told me he could choose to be a boy or a girl. After further questioning him, I found out he learned this from his daycare teacher. She also taught him that a doctor could change him into a girl” by Rationalmind in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Being yourself takes purchasing power and a social media presence

Not a lot of folks in refugee camps with gender identities. Makes you wonder.

YUCK -TiM stalks specific woman's work bathroom to steal her used sanitary products and wear them. BLURGH. by BEB in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They exist. https://twitter.com/guessimafab/status/1123291153519001600?lang=en

There's a user whose content we used to see pretty often linked to on r/gc. I can't find them at the moment, but they posted regularly about stealing and wearing women's used menstrual products.

Women getting banned from saidit too by Maeven in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Entitlement, mostly. Arguably some genetic predisposition.

It's so funny to me that Reddit is claiming TERFs were brigading different women's subs (like r/PCOS and r/pregnancy) like there weren't radfems in those subs to begin with by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because only women are diagnosed with PCOS. It's transwomen who object to being left out of the space and identify as women with hormonal imbalances. You've got to adapt the backwards think of gender ideology. A. Women can't have anything unless transwomen have it too (regardless of how useless or awful it is), and B. If transwomen are biologically female but have excessive body hair, low estrogen, etcetc, then it's due to hormonal imbalance and not intrinsic to sex.

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Anecdotal evidence. It's the same as saying, "I don't believe men are raping women because all the men I've met are super nice and would never do that." There are people who identify as trans who are caught and arrested for male pattern violence. It's illogical and arrogant for you to determine whether some is or isn't trans based on your feelings from the few interactions you've had with some trans people.

(Saidit) PEAK TRANS I: Please continue to share your stories!! by Irascible-harpy in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You aren't just relaying your experience though. You're making a statement. You said "I honestly don't believe that these people are trans people".

Human Trafficking Is an Epidemic in the U.S. It’s Also Big Business by limegreen in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Men LOVE to talk about things like sex trafficking. By talking about sex trafficking they can A. Tell women they don't have anything to complain about because their situation could be so much worse, B. Frame it as though it's entirely separate from porn and prostitution and C. Ignore the fact that these are largely underage girls and SOMEONE IS BUYING THEM and IT'S NOT FUCKIN WOMEN.

What are your hopes for the new r/gendercritical site when it is created? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's a Gender Critical Subreddit! You wouldn't make the primary subreddit for veganism include debates over why veganism. There are external subreddits for debate. If you include opposing positions, considering most of the internet disagrees with GC in one way or another, then the space isn't GC at all.

GC's Peak Trans, archived by NDG in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Done :-)

[OpEd] ''The trans ideology of less than 1% of the UK population has bullied the other 99%. Here’s why I, as a real woman, reject it'' by Colargol in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

OP, Please flair when linking to unfeminist sites.

How will the young TQ+ cope with bodily aging? by JulienMayfair in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm 27 and I already feel like these beauty standards are completely beyond my reach. I didn't grow up with the level of pressure that these kids are growing up with. More than that, as isolated as we were, and as much time as we spent alone in our rooms with the internet, it's so much worse now. I can only imagine how painful the wake up call is going to be when aging starts to show.

How will the young TQ+ cope with bodily aging? by JulienMayfair in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was thinking something similar yesterday. I remember myself and my peers being vain in our teens, but I was in the grocery store and I saw these girls dressed up and dolled up like they were getting ready for some e-girl photoshoots. I'm reaching my later twenties, still so young, and yet, I'm starting to feel outside the visible spectrum when it comes to modern beauty standards. How much are these kids gonna struggle when they're even more isolated from peers, even more inundated with falsity and vanity..? This fixation with self image has become completely out of control, and I imagine that kids growing up with TikTok and Instagram are going to struggle far more than we did.

Some AGP cringe for y'all by milknciggies in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Adult Human Female is just too restrictive. It only includes (or will include) over half of the human population. Ridiculous. Like, how strict can you get? fucking TERFs

President Biden Moves to End Female-Only Sports and Services On His First Day In Office — Women's Liberation Front by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

We knew the Dems would see their votes being counted largely absentee. These votes take longer to count, especially in states that can't start as they are received. This was discussed a month ahead of time as a predictable situation. The votes were also expected to take significantly longer to count due to COVID. If you want to tinfoil hat about something, may I recommend the repeated fuckery of the DNC?

Who are some trans people you get along with/admire? by quickbeam in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Trans ideology is diametrically opposed to women's fight for liberation. There's no such thing as being trans (or non binary) and a gender critical feminist. I don't hate trans people, but what they believe in is regressive and harmful to women. Gender is nothing but a prison. So no, I don't. Just like I don't admire any conservatives because what they believe is directly harmful to my sex class.

Trans homicide epidemic is a false narrative. by koonay in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You made a claim. I'm asking for some evidence. You think there is a physical difference in brain structure for sexual orientation, is there any proof of your assertion?

Trans homicide epidemic is a false narrative. by koonay in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You got a source for homosexuals having brains like those of the opposite sex? Because scientists can't determine a brain's sex consistently.

"how do I report these women talking amongst themselves on a different site" by gparmesan in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I recommend that you take some time to educate yourself then. This is a gender critical community and not a debate forum. At a minimum, learn the core ideology and basic terminology to avoid confusion in the future.

"how do I report these women talking amongst themselves on a different site" by gparmesan in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Are you being intentionally obtuse?

The problem I have with transwomen is that they keep trying to speak FOR women by uglyelephant121 in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Is there a reason you use female pronouns for Blair White?

Is “gender” innate? I’m confused by Confuzzled in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You cannot tell from a brain with any certainty whether a person is male or female. There are brain characteristics which may be more predominantly male or female, but you CANNOT tell whether a person is male or female based on their brain alone.

Quick Sources: https://www.nbcnews.com/better/wellness/can-you-tell-which-brains-are-male-neither-can-these-n471751 https://neurosciencenews.com/neuroscience-brain-sex-4366/

What are your hopes for the new r/gendercritical site when it is created? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you let men in a women's space, it becomes a men's space. If you let trans into this space, the space will be dominated by trans. Even before when we were "isolated" and "hated be transfolks", moderators were having to constantly remove posts like, AS A MAN, AS A TRANSWOMAN, EXPLAIN IT TO ME, WHY CAN'T YOU JUST?? There were subreddits for debate and men. There were subreddits for people questioning their identity and wanting to learn more. We need a GC women's space because the rest of the goddamn internet ISN'T.

GC's Peak Trans, archived by NDG in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is an incredible resource. Thank you so much. I will be pinning this for now.

Australian TiM who wants access to women's baths , "There is an importance and a need for women's only spaces that are inclusive of trans women, whether or not they've had surgery, because it's what's between our ears, not what's between our legs." Maybe explain to this guy how babies are made? by BEB in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Autogynephilia is a fetish and public participation is part of the pattern of arousal. It's a man having the pleasure of A. Publicly dominating women and B. Involving unwilling participants in his exhibitionist fetish.

I got banned from 18 subreddits yesterday by CastleHoward in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I left reddit when they bombed GC, but I used to collect bans from all the lefty and feminist subreddits over prostitution, porn, and gender criticism. 18 in a day beats my record by far!

President Biden Moves to End Female-Only Sports and Services On His First Day In Office — Women's Liberation Front by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's the classic, "The CIA did all of these crazy things, we have proof. But if you think the CIA is doing anything crazy now, you're a conspiracy theorist." line

President Biden Moves to End Female-Only Sports and Services On His First Day In Office — Women's Liberation Front by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

...neo-stalinist? There wasn't any evidence. There were four years of investigation and nothing of substance came of it. There's plenty of very real shit to raise hell about. Why go fishing?

The transition is real and biological by vintologi28 in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've got the time.

Why are you here, and how has pornography negatively affected your life? by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]Irascible-harpy 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Pornography was a heavy contributer in my sexual grooming and dehumanization from pre pubescence. My rapist showed me pornography as a means of introducing me to having sex with him when I was 13. He was 17-18 over the course of our relationship.

Porn reinforced the message from society that as a woman I was worthless. My rapist called me his loli. I was admired by him and his friends for my sexual maturity as he progressively coerced and later forced me into more and more extreme sexual acts. When I started to fight him during sex, he claimed that he was unaware that it was not part of our ongoing sex. I used to self harm heavily and sex became another method of hurting myself. When I finally left him after he forcefully penetrated me after I repeatedly told him no, he threatened me, stalked me, and made my life a living hell. He believed I belonged to (with) him. I believe his constant porn habit played a significant part in his predatory socialization as well.

Upset with the anarchist subreddit: the shitty title said "Bye T*rfs" by [deleted] in itsafetish

[–]Irascible-harpy 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I got banned from damn near every anarchist, communist, feminist, and leftist sub way before the banwave ever started.

I had a man raid /s/antipornography yesterday and again this morning, trying to spam and destroy a small community. This is what they do to women when they're scared, huh? by [deleted] in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'll help mod if you need someone still. Good luck! We've been dealing with a significant influx of unwelcome material here as well. Saidit itself is being DDOS'd

To all of you trans ladies out there by AdmiralPangolin in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying. I don't particularly care about them being referred to as transwomen but I reject using female pronouns. I reject the idea of catering to someone's mental illness, particularly one so steeped in sexist ideas. The idea that your rejection of your body and your gender somehow makes you the opposite sex or agender or non-binary... as though gender is real and immutable is absurd.

Who are some trans people you get along with/admire? by quickbeam in GenderCritical

[–]Irascible-harpy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We are not an open and welcoming group to all people. If we were we wouldnt be a feminist space. The fastest way to kill a women's group is to open it to men and antifeminists.