What men don't know: Women AREN'T men. Our perspective is different from yours. And, not all women are the same! by missdaisycan in whatever

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In general, I agree but confidence is really important and shouldnt be dismissed.

I think people are like Christmas trees. Clothes, hairstyle, grooming, odors, posture etc are the ornaments, and they make the tree look better. If you have a Charlie Brown Christmas tree, there's only so much you can do with it, however some decorations will help.

Basically, we all get dealt a hand in life but we still play the cards and the game. Height is something we cant change, but "clothes make the man" and they make the woman too.

Don't be fat and exercise a lot is good advice for anyone, even from a general health point of view.

What men don't know: Women AREN'T men. Our perspective is different from yours. And, not all women are the same! by missdaisycan in whatever

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This is good advice. Doesn't it apply to everyone regardless of gender or sexuality?

What men don't know: Women AREN'T men. Our perspective is different from yours. And, not all women are the same! by missdaisycan in whatever

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Uh, the fact it's all based on a gigantic cultural mythos that pretends we aren't just animals? Every single time people have run dating simulations or interactions, done more than just ask people their opinion, they consistently find the overwhelming factor is attractiveness.

I can't argue with these sentences, however doesn't this basically agree with what the OP wrote? What the OP listed are things are attractive to some people. Voice, scent, posture, clothes, hairstyle, being "comfortable" with oneself (aka confidence), ethics/morals are things people find attractive about others. Would a man find a woman attractive if she has an annoying voice, she smells bad, slouches excessively, wears ugly clothes, has an unattractive hairstyle, an annoying personality and bad morals?

Holly Bowling: Terrapin Station Suite by Grateful in musicbywomen

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PS This is a Grateful Dead song.

What are the absolute worst things the U.S. govt has done in the last 150 years? Serious replies only please by [deleted] in AskSaidIt

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Here's a few:

Internment of Japanese Americans during WW2

Segregation

Vietnam War

Iraq War

Augmented reality is going to turn people into mindless zombies by [deleted] in PredictTheFuture

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Imagine if people are so used to it they essentially can't function without it. Then one day the whole system is down for whatever reason - maintenance, software failure, intentional disruption, etc.

Augmented reality is going to turn people into mindless zombies by [deleted] in PredictTheFuture

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I can really see this happening, and it would affect everything. Like the OP said, AR will give people the ability to do things outside their expertise. This will lead to less demand for certain workers or industries. I could also see AR affecting dating, relationships and sex.

I predict that Biden will drop out and the they will appoint a candidate. by Grateful in PredictTheFuture

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I have no idea, but it would be whoever they want. They answer to no one.

Would there be interest in a sub about making future predictions? by Aureus in AskSaidIt

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I think that would be an interesting sub.

Yes - Roundabout (Vinyl Recording HD) by Enza in music

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Article: Why Do So Many People Love The Grateful Dead Now? by Grateful in GratefulDead

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I think most fans become fans for life, so as time goes on they have more fans from multiple generations

Summation of recent jewish controversy on Saidit. by kokolokoNightcrawler in memes

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Is it such a difficult concept that criticism should be directed at governments, the media, and politicians, etc rather than average people? That was the point of my post.

Summation of recent jewish controversy on Saidit. by kokolokoNightcrawler in memes

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I'm being 100% honest. It was truly a coincidence that I made my post moments before the other person made their post.

I'm not calling for an end to free speech. I was just asking why the criticism is not directed at Israel or the politicians or the media.

The same people who say we need to "stop with the anti-semitism" are the same ones who will support anti-White rhetoric as free speech by EuropeanAwakening in SaidIt

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Since I am the one who created the "What's with all the anti-Jewish stuff on this site? I can understand being anti-Israel or anti-government or anti-media, etc." post, I'd like to make it clear that I am really disturbed by anti-white rhetoric that we are seeing in the media and in politics. I think it's racist and disgusting. I am against all anti-people rhetoric.

Just as my post stated, I can understand that people can be against certain governments, against certain politicians, and against the media. I never stated that I am interested in ending discussion about anything.

If the U.S. Govt did something wrong, would it be right to condemn all US citizens? I don't think so. That was the point of my post, and I am being 100% honest that it was a pure coincidence that another person made a similar post minutes apart from my post.

I know this site is for free speech and all but please cut the antisemitism and conspiracy theory bs from the front page. It's not a good look and is going to drive people away from trying the site. by Locke in SaidIt

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What if I told you the concern trolls posting those threads/comments are the first wave of shills,

Sorry, I'm not a shill

What's with all the anti-Jewish stuff on this site? I can understand being anti-Israel or anti-government or anti-media, etc. by Grateful in AskSaidIt

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That's exactly my point. If people feel that way they should call out Israel or politicians or the media or whatever.

I know this site is for free speech and all but please cut the antisemitism and conspiracy theory bs from the front page. It's not a good look and is going to drive people away from trying the site. by Locke in SaidIt

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I just posted a "what's up with..." post on AskSaidit on the same subject. I can understand criticizing a government but a lot of this stuff on the site is blanket statements about people.

maddow = evil cunt dyke lesbian whore bitch cocksucking motherfucker piece of shit i hate this slut lesbian whore shit eating monkeybitch. by santaclaus in politics

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Don't hold back, tell us how you really feel.

What are some subs that new users may not know about and why do you like them? by NaughtyUnicorn in AskSaidIt

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https://saidit.net/s/DiscoverSaidit/ is a great place to promote a sub or learn about subs you're not aware of.

https://saidit.net/s/Oldschoolcool is an interesting sub but it could use more people posting

The right wing to left wing ratio on this site seems to be pretty skewed and it'd be nice if it wasnt by TheSeventhSense in whatever

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How do you define "right wing"? Is it someone who doesn't support Pelosi, Schumer, Omar, AOC, etc? I'm a liberal but I don't support any of them or their policies.

Grateful Dead - Lazy River Road (Washington, DC 6/26/93) by Entropick in music

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Might As Well mention saidit.net/s/GratefulDead/

Wtf is with all the antisemitism here? by aThievingStableboy in whatever

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A lot of Dems are not friendly to Jewish people. Omar, DeBlasio, Farrakahn.

I'm trying to drum up some interest in /s/drums/ which is a sub about drums, drumming, and drummers. by Grateful in DiscoverSaidit

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By the way, you don't have to play drums to appreciate drums, drumming, and drummers!

So, how'd you pick your screen name? by theFriendlyDoomer in AskSaidIt

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health, friends, family, all the good stuff in life

I've revived r/BanBigMouth here on SaidIt. It's insane that Reddit banned a subreddit dedicated to exposing a cartoon that sexualizes children. I'm taking mod applications. by [deleted] in whatever

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I agree that one has to do their own thinking.

The problem is when a reference site exhibits bias a few times their credibility is damaged.

So, how'd you pick your screen name? by theFriendlyDoomer in AskSaidIt

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I'm grateful

GC for 15 years. Octopus hot dog lady is fed up. by Octopushotdog in Introductions

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Glad you're here. I don't know anything about many of the banned r/subs but just the fact that they were banned bothers me.

I've revived r/BanBigMouth here on SaidIt. It's insane that Reddit banned a subreddit dedicated to exposing a cartoon that sexualizes children. I'm taking mod applications. by [deleted] in whatever

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Snopes is a website created by two people. It started out ok, explaining urban myths but then it veered off course and lost all credibility.

Helen Mirren, 1970s. by SierraKiloBravo in OldSchoolCool

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I like your OldSchoolCool subsaidit. Would be nice is more people subbed and posted.

These days it seems that anyone that doesn't worship the Democratic party is now called "right wing". What's your opinion? by Grateful in politics

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It was US specific but I'd like to hear what its like in other countries too

Helen Mirren, 1970s. by SierraKiloBravo in OldSchoolCool

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I like the stratocaster and fender amp in the background!

Can we talk about authoritarianism? by dykeotomy in censorship

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Authoritarianism is scary no matter what side it comes from.

I have major concerns of how many people I know support the suppression of free speech and ideas because it fits their views. An example is how twitter suppresses any political view that is not Democrat - this includes Libertarian or Independent political views. Since they hate the current President they are OK with it. I ask in a rhetorical sense "what about the next President and the one after that?" One day we will have a President that wants to start a war and if they are the "correct" political party, twitter will suppress any criticism of that President. By then it will be too late to have a public forum and they will not be able to voice their concerns.

As for what I believe in, I believe in discussion and the exchange of ideas and thought. I accept people for who they are, including their political views. I reject all forms of racism and sexism and all the -isms. If I meet someone for the first time, I don't give a shit if they like Ted Cruz or Elizabeth Warren.

Reddit has officially jumped the shark. I'm happy that they finally went and destroyed themselves and people like you are jumping ship. Hope this place works out for you and everyone else.

Karl Perazzo and Raul Rekow at a sound check by FlippyKing in drums

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Thanks for sharing, that was great

Reddit hates women, appearently by beatrix in Introductions

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Reddit hates anyone that doesn't think the way they want them to. The people who claim to be "woke" have become closed minded, intolerant, and hypocritical.

just one of the stones that the builder refused by FlippyKing in Introductions

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I agree with what you said about politics. As for s/drums, please feel free to post some music, articles, or videos of drummers that you like.

introducing myself by EldritchBoat in Introductions

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Nice to meet you too, taxation IS theft

Yes, I'm another GC refugee by JustAnotherRevanFan in Introductions

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Welcome aboard! Glad to see all the new people.

just one of the stones that the builder refused by FlippyKing in Introductions

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Welcome aboard. I can only speak for myself - I don't care what political views people have, because I think most politicians stink. I wouldn't taze you bro.

Lurking Refugee by surisurimasuri in Introductions

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Well let me the first to welcome you aboard!

What is the best order of t h e s e t? by Mossb100 in drums

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I dont have a weird setup but whatever works for you is good!

Im afraid and scared about the future by Historie in WorldNews

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I recommend not going to reddit anymore. Why should you support a platform that silences your opinions? Why give them any content at all?

As for the future, the tech giants will silence any opinion that is not theirs. That's a sad fact that is blatantly obvious. Any alternative platform will be labeled "hate speech" and it will be shutdown.

I saw a lot of Haters on saidit getting their rocks off and salivating at the idea that this intelligent, beautiful, powerful obsession of theirs would take an L (LOL) How does it feel to be wrong about pretty much everything, and still support a broken, soulless, corrupt, criminal u.s. oligarchy? by EndlessSunflowers in pics

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Politics are not binary to me. It's not a hot faucet and a cold faucet with no other choices. I dislike AOC and her policies, and that fact by itself does not mean that I am supporting an oligarchy or anything else. The fact that I don't support AOC does not mean that I support certain other politicians.

For the record, I reserve the right to dislike any politician and their policies, anytime and anywhere. I apply this equally with no regard for gender, sexuality, race, looks, political affiliation, geographic location, or any other criteria.

Just another Reddit refugee by ThinkerBunny in Introductions

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Glad you're here!

Does anyone know of any non-biased British news sources by [deleted] in whatever

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I think all news sources have some bias.

Pelosi orders removal of portraits of ex-House speakers who served in Confederacy by Tarrock in politics

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I'm waiting for the Democratic Party to be upheld to the same standards as the statues and the cancel culture. The Dems are the party of Jim Crow laws, they voted to keep slavery, they opposed Lincoln, etc.

The Aunt Jemima brand, acknowledging its racist past, will be retired by Nemacolin in news

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I meant the Democratic Party. I think anyone reading the post knows what I meant.

The Aunt Jemima brand, acknowledging its racist past, will be retired by Nemacolin in news

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If only the Democrat Party would be held responsible for it's past too, just like this fake maple syrup. The Democrat Party voted against freeing the slaves, they voted for Jim Crow laws, etc etc.

Hello by Mossb100 in Introductions

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I'm glad that you're here. I'm looking forward to your stupid memes.

What are your predictions for now until the election? For example: Who will Biden pick for VP? Will Biden drop out and be replaced? Will there be an October surprise? Who will win in November? by Grateful in politics

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I'm thinking it will be Michelle, or possibly the Atlanta mayor.

UPVOTE EVERYTHING. by Antifa in whatever

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Rather than blindly upvoting everything, upvote accordingly. Also, try to post stuff in various subs and add comments.

For this site to truly work, we need to forget reddit. I'd bet most people are here because of what reddit has become.

Politics: “Poli” a Latin word meaning "many" and "tics" meaning "bloodsucking creatures" - Robin Williams by EndlessSunflowers in conspiracy

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Slight correction: "Poli" is Greek for many. "Multis" is Latin for many.

reddit down by volvo in MeanwhileOnReddit

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Not visiting reddit today

I hate what Reddit has become and I wish for Saidit to be a platform where people can discuss interests, hobbies, and things without politics or agendas. by Grateful in Introductions

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I think what you mean is you want to be able to have fun internet exchanges about normal things like in ye olden days

That's what I meant