Can you share cute post with me about lesbian visibility day? by Gacho666 in Lesbians

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Thank you, happy day to you too.

Books with lesbian protagonists worth reading? by plenty_water in Lesbians

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you've seen the movie 'i cant think straight' there's a book about the movie, i haven't finished it yet but i guess it's good, generally books are always better than movies.

Feeling Misunderstood by My Therapist by [deleted] in Lesbians

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It is good that you look for another therapist, will you tell him the reason why you change it? I think it would be good for you to realize what you are doing, maybe reflect and not continue to suggest dysphoria to other patients.

“Abandoning the lesbian label and create something else” by windrunner in Lesbians

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Lesbian is a sexual orientation, not a label to the only ones I have heard them say that is to the TQ + that's why they think they can use it at will

How to make peace with being a lesbian as a 16yo with no lesbian friends by QueenOfTheNorth in Lesbians

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You have made me remember how I felt at 16, in my case I started to like a girl and I wanted to shout it, if you need to come here to talk about your things, about your parents you don't have to say it now, you can wait to get back financially Independent, focus on your studies and tell that to your parents how much you focus on studies, heck I think I'm not good with advice but I hope that at least some of my words will serve you. calm you are young work on yourself to become a confident, assertive person, improve your communication skills, negotiation, in your personal and spiritual growth

Where is lesbian activism? by Gacho666 in Lesbians

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I am not the type of woman to victimize or allow myself to be harmed, so none of those scenarios that are merely hypothetical fit me. I firmly believe that feminists who call themselves "lesbians" without being one create a huge problem for those of us who really are, silence for me is complicity, many feminists do not care or do not even understand how it affects us that there are some pretending to be lesbians, so I would not form alliances with anyone who does not have a strong position against it.

Where is lesbian activism? by Gacho666 in Lesbians

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"Political" lesbians seem to me an offensive term, I do not use it, I do not think it is correct and everyone who says it should be corrected, such a thing does not exist or you are a lesbian or bi or straight, calling yourself that way is only generating problems About really lesbian women, these women are reviving old erroneous beliefs about our sexual orientation that could make us regress, our orientation is not a whim, nor a stage, we also do not go out with other women just to avoid men, we lesbians go out with other women because We like them and attract, I think that of course we should stay in only LGB organizations but also start our own lesbian organizations and only for lesbians, without the need for feminism, the reason for me I know an organization of "feminist lesbians" I only see them victimizing themselves and that I do not like it, as soon as I have more free time I myself will take care of taking a page about the problems that we Let's face each other as lesbian women, only sometimes I need some support, you know a lot of our spaces are invaded and in person right now I don't know other girls who are on the same page.

What is up with "lesbians" who meet their exception? by Astrid2448 in Lesbians

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I have also thought that, I think that some lesbians knowing that we were few and believing that because of this there were few opportunities to flirt were too open and not only did a lot of bi come in in the long term but also brought as a consequence men saying that they are lesbians (I remember that jokes were made about this, now it is a real problem) and now they have taken us out of our own spaces (which were already few) both physically and online.

What is up with "lesbians" who meet their exception? by Astrid2448 in Lesbians

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It is true that the bi and pansexuals who call themselves lesbians do us as much harm as the radfem who call themselves lesbians for politics.

What is up with "lesbians" who meet their exception? by Astrid2448 in Lesbians

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There is something I don't quite understand perhaps because my mother tongue is not English, my question is why you consider the fact that you find someone attractive (I understand it as a person who looks good or is pretty) to mean that you like them sexually.

In the case of men it is very difficult for them to accept or say when another man is attractive, with women it is not so we are a little more open to say when another woman seems attractive, but because the fact that someone seems attractive to you has to do with the sexual? it is only an aesthetic appreciation (in my opinion) or the fact that I say that someone seems attractive to me already means that I am attracted sexually? I see that mistake made by many women who say they are bi, they believe that because a woman seems pretty to you you are already bi, when I think it is to be like straight or les, it is not only that a person is pretty but also that there is sexual desire and attraction. I cannot say that a person is attractive because they would already question my sexual orientation for that? because for me that opinion would have nothing to do with me being sexually attracted.

And I understand that this post touches on something deeper, in that respect I would like to give my opinion about my experience and it's that of course if you found that guy who has a nice personality there would obviously be compatibility problems, something that in my case has not happened men have been so insistent with me (which I find unpleasant) that I think: if I was straight would I go out with them?(that's what they assume because they think women are like a counter waiting for them to pick us out) and I definitely came to the conclusion that I wouldn't go out with them even if I were straight or if they were women I wouldn't either because they have that nasty personality and I wouldn't go out with a girl like that I like confident but not arrogant women. And what he says about lesbians on the internet is true ... the truth is that many are just bi, people still don't seem to understand what sexual orientation is and that it is something that goes beyond physical attraction.

Vaginas are the best by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

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Seeing a vulva makes me horny.

I love my partner to get wet. I love the smell of a female that only a woman can have.

Vaginas are the best.

Age you realised you're a lesbian vs age you accepted you're a lesbian? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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In retrospect I realize that I should have noticed that I was a lesbian at age 4 (of course at that age you don't think like an adult and maybe you don't even know the word lesbian) but I accepted it until I was 16 or 17.

What's your biggest personality turn on? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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Safe, intelligent and a cultured person with good judgment.

Why is female sexuality so easily dismissed? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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Maybe it has to do a bit with the fact that they create the center of the universe, that everything revolves around them and that things change because of them, personally this bothers me a lot, certainly our sexual orientation is the most questioned, but the question that I do now is: WHAT DO WE DO TO CHANGE THIS SITUATION?

unfortunately in this the hetero and bi who call themselves lesbians participate in this, it is not the only reason but one for which you tell the men that you are not interested and they insist

Why is female sexuality so easily dismissed? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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What do you mean when you say: the French did it?

More Ovarit Invites and Discord by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I am interested

[meta]What is the main reason you withhold from participating in lesbian forums? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Assuming that the forum is really lesbian and not bi, pansexual or trans, I am only prevented by the language barrier 😁

What goal do you have in mind when you join or subscribe to a lesbian [lesbian: noun; biological female exclusively sexually attracted to other biological females] forum? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I don't have any friends, and even less with whom to talk about my sexual orientation, even though I'm not a closet person. I've had only one relationship, and I don't have much experience, so I would like to know about other lesbian women, because I think that our relationships are different from the ones that could have a hetero or a bi, and that those people have other perspectives that wouldn't fit into lesbian relationships, I also participated in content made for and by lesbians. I sincerely believed that things would get better but now I imagine how many girls will try to confuse or be excluded from the "community" just because of our sexual orientation because it seems that now we should accept any kind of person to the detriment of our sexual orientation, I would like all these young girls to know that they are not alone, that they are lesbians and that it is okay to be attracted to other women and no one can tell them what is wrong or suggest that they be with someone other than a woman, and that they know that there are those who support them.