everyone's feelings and anxieties are valid unless a lesbian woman experiences them by Disillusioned in Lesbians
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Why are women always super offended if they're assumed to be lesbians? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians
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Experiences of Lesbian Erasure and Lesbian Invisibility by Skipdip in Lesbians
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Latebloomerlesbians once again... by peaked2020 in Lesbians
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“I’m a slut and love to fuck men, but I identify as a lesbian” by peaked2020 in Lesbians
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ALL: Can trans folks be TERFs? by Elly in GCdebatesQT
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Why is GC critical of how women celebrate their sexuality? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT
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BOTH: Recently the following claim was made: "Being cis and straight is a trauma response". Do you agree with this claim? by ISaidWhatISaid in GCdebatesQT
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GC: Why do you think it's not biologically essentialist and biologically deterministic to define sex on the basis of gametes and sex organs? by in GCdebatesQT
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GC: What are the differences between sex segregation and racial segregation? Why is the former required, while the latter is discriminatory? by Tea_Or_Coffee in GCdebatesQT
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Likes one woman -> “Lesbian with a one man exception” by peaked2020 in Lesbians
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What do these young lesbians think womanhood even is? by in Lesbians
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I wish there was less lesbian representation by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians
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Lesbians that don't call themselves lesbians by carrotcake in Lesbians
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All: Disclosure and Consent by loveSloane in GCdebatesQT
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Both: What do you think about the transgender incident at the Wi Spa in Los Angeles? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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I hate the top/bottom dichotomy by blackrainbow in Lesbians
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[Spoilers Inside] But I'm A Cheerleader (1999) Discussion Thread by piylot in Lesbians
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GC: Do you think it's possible for there to be sex change, "male pregnancy", a third sex, etc, with the use of technology and genetic engineering? by in GCdebatesQT
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Both: In light of recent events. In what context is Voyeurism and Indecent Exposure acceptable? Is there a rational justification for making an exception for males who claim to be women? by Penultimate_Penance in GCdebatesQT
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Both: What do you think about the transgender incident at the Wi Spa in Los Angeles? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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Same-sex sexual desire as the natural, but not actualised, default (criticism of sexuality) by SexualityCritical in GCdebatesQT
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GC: Why is there more focus on trans women than trans men? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT
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Unnecessary post removal of content that doesn't break any rules by in Lesbians
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What's wrong with being a gold star lesbian? by Gynephile in Lesbians
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Both: Why does rejection of femininity in South Korea differ so much from how it is rejected in the West? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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Everything else. 21/7/2021 by BiologyIsReal in GCdebatesQT
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GC: Do you think it's possible for there to be sex change, "male pregnancy", a third sex, etc, with the use of technology and genetic engineering? by in GCdebatesQT
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All: Disclosure and Consent by loveSloane in GCdebatesQT
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Both: What do you think about the transgender incident at the Wi Spa in Los Angeles? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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Both: What do you think about the transgender incident at the Wi Spa in Los Angeles? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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Both: What do you think about the transgender incident at the Wi Spa in Los Angeles? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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Both: How do you feel about Title IX being changed to protect gender identity instead of biological sex? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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GC: Why do you think it's not biologically essentialist and biologically deterministic to define sex on the basis of gametes and sex organs? by in GCdebatesQT
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QT: Even by your own beliefs, sexuality can't be based on "gender identity" by BiologyIsReal in GCdebatesQT
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GC: What are the differences between sex segregation and racial segregation? Why is the former required, while the latter is discriminatory? by Tea_Or_Coffee in GCdebatesQT
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Why is GC critical of how women celebrate their sexuality? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT
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Both: How do you feel about Title IX being changed to protect gender identity instead of biological sex? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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What do you think about cases of young boys raised as girls, but eventually realizing they are boys? by FlanJam in GCdebatesQT
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QT, if gender is innate to identity by Houseplant in GCdebatesQT
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QT, if gender is innate to identity by Houseplant in GCdebatesQT
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QT, if gender is innate to identity by Houseplant in GCdebatesQT
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Both: Which side has the pandemic helped more? by in GCdebatesQT
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Alleged Trans incident at upscale LA Spa may have been staged by Heimdekledi in GCdebatesQT
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Alleged Trans incident at upscale LA Spa may have been staged by Heimdekledi in GCdebatesQT
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Both: In light of recent events. In what context is Voyeurism and Indecent Exposure acceptable? Is there a rational justification for making an exception for males who claim to be women? by Penultimate_Penance in GCdebatesQT
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Both: In light of recent events. In what context is Voyeurism and Indecent Exposure acceptable? Is there a rational justification for making an exception for males who claim to be women? by Penultimate_Penance in GCdebatesQT
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Both: Please vote on the demographics poll I created for GCdebatesQT by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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Both: What do you think about the transgender incident at the Wi Spa in Los Angeles? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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Both: What would a healthy non homophobic trans community look like? by Penultimate_Penance in GCdebatesQT
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What if we made demands from men instead of women? by womanual in GCdebatesQT
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Both: Why does rejection of femininity in South Korea differ so much from how it is rejected in the West? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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QT: Even by your own beliefs, sexuality can't be based on "gender identity" by BiologyIsReal in GCdebatesQT
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QT: Even by your own beliefs, sexuality can't be based on "gender identity" by BiologyIsReal in GCdebatesQT
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Experiences of Lesbian Erasure and Lesbian Invisibility by Skipdip in Lesbians
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Experiences of Lesbian Erasure and Lesbian Invisibility by Skipdip in Lesbians
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Alleged Trans incident at upscale LA Spa may have been staged by Heimdekledi in GCdebatesQT
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That was quick by FineIWillDoItMyself in Lesbians
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How much do we owe to strangers? by Houseplant in GCdebatesQT
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All: What do you think about "non-binaries" and other "gender identities"? by BiologyIsReal in GCdebatesQT
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GC: Women can have penises and men can have vaginas? by Fastandthecurious in GCdebatesQT
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Both: In light of recent events. In what context is Voyeurism and Indecent Exposure acceptable? Is there a rational justification for making an exception for males who claim to be women? by Penultimate_Penance in GCdebatesQT
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All: What would it take for everyone to be friends again? by in GCdebatesQT
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Both: Why does rejection of femininity in South Korea differ so much from how it is rejected in the West? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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All: How has the opposing position been most or least effective in their arguments? by in GCdebatesQT
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How do we tell the difference? by Houseplant in GCdebatesQT
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QT: Would any of these women be transwomen? (Also GC: Can you think of any other hypothetical tries?) by levoyageur718293 in GCdebatesQT
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Ellen Page is now Elliot Page by lmaonope333 in Lesbians
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Lesbian representation in media by in Lesbians
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Why this thread? by Genderbender in GCdebatesQT
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Both: Do you ever wonder if you're on the wrong side of history? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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GC: Do male seahorses, and their male relatives, really get "pregnant" and "give birth"? by in GCdebatesQT
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[spoilers] Below Her Mouth (2016) — Film of The Week by piylot in Lesbians
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How do we tell the difference? by Houseplant in GCdebatesQT
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Rape by deception and “Passing” by Heimdekledi in GCdebatesQT
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GC: Are men entitled to male-only spaces? by womanual in GCdebatesQT
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What do you think about cases of young boys raised as girls, but eventually realizing they are boys? by FlanJam in GCdebatesQT
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Alleged Trans incident at upscale LA Spa may have been staged by Heimdekledi in GCdebatesQT
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Alleged Trans incident at upscale LA Spa may have been staged by Heimdekledi in GCdebatesQT
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GC: Why do you think it's not biologically essentialist and biologically deterministic to define sex on the basis of gametes and sex organs? by in GCdebatesQT
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How do we tell the difference? by Houseplant in GCdebatesQT
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How do we tell the difference? by Houseplant in GCdebatesQT
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Lmao can't believe this timeline, Getting banned from Lesbian subs on Reddit but finding support messages from the "Super Straights" group by FineIWillDoItMyself in Lesbians
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GC: Can you debunk every one of the arguments Andrew Carter made in this long thread in response to JK Rowling? by in GCdebatesQT
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Experiences of Lesbian Erasure and Lesbian Invisibility by Skipdip in Lesbians
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Both: How do you feel about Title IX being changed to protect gender identity instead of biological sex? by worried19 in GCdebatesQT
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Definitions by loveSloane in GCdebatesQT
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QT, can you define ‘woman’ by Houseplant in GCdebatesQT
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I’m just really glad this place exists by emilyprentiss in Lesbians
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About the origins of the word "gender" by BiologyIsReal in GCdebatesQT
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GC: Do you think it's possible for there to be sex change, "male pregnancy", a third sex, etc, with the use of technology and genetic engineering? by in GCdebatesQT
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What do you think about cases of young boys raised as girls, but eventually realizing they are boys? by FlanJam in GCdebatesQT
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QT, if gender is innate to identity by Houseplant in GCdebatesQT
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Both: Which side has the pandemic helped more? by in GCdebatesQT
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What's wrong with being a gold star lesbian? by Gynephile in Lesbians
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