Parents sue school board for teaching their daughter ‘girls are not real’

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-07-11T00:05:56+00:00

I think the UK has peaked more so than North America. The mass exodus at the Tavistock clinic was hard for the general public to ignore.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-04-30T02:28:51+00:00

Elliot appears to be wearing eyeshadow in the Oprah interview. I found that funny.

But yeah, describing her double mastectomy as 'life-saving' and proclaiming 'trans kids will die!' if they can't play sports (which they can, but I digress). I mean, really Elliot, trans kids will die without medical intervention? Did you die?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-28T17:42:23+00:00

Which is it, trans folx? We're told trans people have abnormally high rates of suicide and require constant affirmation to keep from killing themselves. We're told they experience 'deadnaming' and 'misgendering' as 'literal violence'.

Does this sound like a demographic that is 'fit to serve'? What happens if they get captured by enemy forces and misgendered?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-10-23T23:26:42+00:00

LOL. "I was a completely gender-conforming girl, so no one realized I was trans".

There really are no rules any more.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-10-25T13:28:11+00:00

'Half the public secretly identifies as LGBT$!%&@^...."

No shit, who isn't included?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-08T21:47:31+00:00

Oh noes, the counter-commenter acknowledged the existence of biological sex! It's a slippery slope to affirming the existence of same-sex attraction....

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-12-20T22:30:22+00:00

That sub is so gross.

"I'm not fetishizing lesbians, I actually am one!"

Cue the dysphoria when they realize they don't look anything like an anime drawing and never will.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-11-28T01:11:41+00:00

But...but.... identity is fixed by the age of two, and people never change their minds. That's why we're medicalizing kids, right?

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-08-18T12:24:46+00:00

Everything about trans ideology is hypocritical. Deadnaming and misgendering are literal hate crimes, but anyone who objects to terms like 'cis' and 'terf' are fucktards. TRAs are entitled to define the rules of acceptable speech, and all the mods on Reddit's supposedly women-focused subs are affirming this.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-08-24T22:11:53+00:00

I am not au courant with this anime porn stuff (I have inferred that it is feeding a lot of transgender self-identification somehow), but damn, that devolved quickly. It sorta heartens me that they're going crazy on everyone. It'll peak a lot of people faster. You can send rape threats to JK Rowling, but don't you dare mess with a guys' ladyporn.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-07-10T23:42:15+00:00

Rose of Dawn is cool, too. I'm sure 'non-delusional transsexuals' are actually a majority, but they're afraid to speak up for fear of being 'cancelled' within their own communities, or the current batch of TRAs are just much more vocal.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-12-12T01:41:59+00:00

Of course it's baffling; largely because it's still completely unclear what her transition means. We haven't seen her, so we don't know if she's getting top surgery or just cutting her hair off, or what.

It was also a mistake to infer that she was transitioning to male because she's adopted male pronouns. On closer reading, she never identifies as specific gender. 'Trans' is apparently a gender identity in itself now. In reality, she appears to be transitioning to 'anything-but-a-lesbian-woman'.

It's 'baffling' because the Newspeak of the new gender culture requires us to deny our own memories, our own lived experience, by pretending that a woman named 'Ellen Page' never existed, never publicly came out as a proud lesbian. We're required to believe that a man portrayed all those female characters - so convincingly that he was indistinguishable from a woman.

And when and if 'Elliot Page' does detransition, what then becomes of Elliot? Did he ever exist?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-27T01:56:52+00:00

The divorce isn't shocking to me, but I'm very curious (and concerned) about what's going on in the-person-formerly-known-as-Ellen-Page's head. She seems to be outsourcing her identity to various people and lobby groups, and seems to have a very weak sense of self.

It's amusing - and peaking - to see news media refer to her with male pronouns whilst all their pictures and videos clearly show a female.

Also, I believe the People article is factually incorrect. Page never came out explicitly as a 'man' - only as 'trans'. Page is using anything-but-a-woman identifiers but has never claimed a particular gender identity.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-08-15T13:34:32+00:00

From my read of the comments, the drama ensued not just from the 'trap' ban, but because the mod that started it began slandering the entire community as 'bigoted'. I hope this wakes a lot of Redditors up to the power that these trans idealogues wield on Reddit.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-11-15T18:48:50+00:00

I really wonder what life is going to be like for Jazz and other 'trans kids' in 5-10 years time, especially once the spotlight is gone.

Unlike adults, someone like Jazz really cannot 'detransition'. They never were allowed to experience male puberty, they have no male body to return to. They have no idea what it is like to experience life as a male, and it's been made clear to them from a young age that they would not be accepted as such.

I sadly forsee a lot of suicides of 'trans kids' in adulthood, much like David Reimer.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-07-10T23:57:15+00:00

I was browsing over there and noticed some downvoted posts from non-transitioned persons complaining/ warning of GCers taking over their sub. This seems like the same narrative that played out with the women's health subreddits - accuse them of being 'taken over by transphobes' and then kick out their mods or force them to go private.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-03-14T03:30:12+00:00

LOL as biased as PenisNews is, it can't actually make a sound case against the 'Super' movement. Everything they described the Supers doing and believing sounds 100% reasonable. Anyone reading that article ought to be appalled that TikTok would ban the kid who posted that video. The article describes Reddit banning the Super subs for 'hate', but can't list a single comment that was hateful.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-12-07T23:20:52+00:00

This is Schroedinger's Trans: the state of being simultaneous trans and not trans, depending on the observed effect of detransitioning (or not) at some point in the future.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-01T19:03:30+00:00

Abigail Shrier's book discusses how women have lost their status in society. Women are now Karens', with cis privilege, crying 'white women's tears'. In that context, why wouldn't any female 'feel happier' about being a boy in a dress?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-11T14:07:52+00:00

God these people are exhausing.

"I'm a masculine presenting person using an app for gay men. Why do people keep misgendering me as a male?"

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-01T15:21:42+00:00

That whole sub. Blegh. Two pages of their post history only went back 4 days. This loser lives on Reddit. Their 'sister' is a transwoman. I feel sorry for their parents.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-25T15:34:59+00:00

Funny, you never hear transbians slammed for their 'genital preferences'.

BTW, I love seeing articles like this. Just put the crazy out there front and center for everyone to see. These idiots will be so confused when people start to adopt the 'TERF' mantle as a badge of honor.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-24T15:31:33+00:00

This needs so much more coverage in the western media. Canada's national broadcaster (CBC) has trans and queer stories on its website every other day, and has never even touched the Keira Bell case.

Femaleisnthateful · 2022-03-31T23:49:16+00:00

And yet if Giggle were to post tweets like that about TRAs, imagine the reaction.

Seriously, what is HER's business model? Once they've alienated all the real women, it'll only be TRAs left, and they don't want to date eachother.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-02-21T15:07:32+00:00

God I love Graham Linehan. I used to subscribe to the newsletter but had to cancel because I was paranoid of Barbie Kardashian's face popping up when I checked my email at work.

I really do applaud him for working so hard on this issue.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-25T15:36:20+00:00

"Genital preferences" = women setting sexual boundaries. Oh, the horror!

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-07-12T16:10:11+00:00

The banning of r/truelesbians was proof to me that the banwaves had nothing to do with 'transphobia' and everything to do with centering trans identities and silencing people and spaces that didn't. There should be nothing objectionable about a space for biological women who are sexually oriented towards other biological women.

I checked out r/actuallesbians and ugh - nothing but TRA activism and fetishism. A thread that just said 'Fuck TERFS... that is all'. Selfies of greasy obese men calling themselves an 'average lesbian' (it's actually very gross that they solicit selfies at all. Many participants are minors.)

Femaleisnthateful · 2023-01-24T21:56:03+00:00

Guess what else has 'no chance of passing'. Them.

Femaleisnthateful · 2022-03-25T23:48:49+00:00

Remind me again what 'rights' trans people lack that don't involve erasing sex-based rights and basic safeguarding principles?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-03-07T22:54:19+00:00

WTF? Why is this person still around? I thought they were 'cancelled' for being exposed as a borderline pedo (taking pictures of kids online and turning them into 'furry' art) as well as a one of those adult baby kinksters.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-12-02T00:32:07+00:00

WTF did I just read? Are the guys she's meeting supposed to be gay? It's so gross to read someone referring to their 'front hole'. Even kids can learn the proper words for body parts.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-25T18:41:50+00:00

I think that these are very mainstream beliefs. I don't think most people seriously understand that the 'trans rights' movement is about allowing males to self ID into women's protected spaces and opportunities, nor what the medicalization of 'trans kids' actually entails. If they did, they'd be appalled, but everything has been couched in euphemisms about 'trans equality' and 'gender affirming' surgeries so that it's hidden from view.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-02-14T13:40:42+00:00

A TRA accidentally making their own point. Yes, sex differences are much more than just genitalia. We can clock a member of the opposite sex in a fraction of a second without seeing their genitals. We have evolved these abilities for good reason - biological sex matters.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-11-24T00:14:55+00:00

"She's been slaying queerphobes and exclusionists ever since"

How inclusive.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-11-15T19:01:20+00:00

On the flip side, so many youths are indoctrinated via social media, and young people are spending even more time online as a result of lockdown.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-08-20T12:32:52+00:00

The thing that makes me especially LOL about this is that one of the tenets of gender identity ideology is that everyone has an inherent sense of their own innate, immutable 'gender'. This is why three and four year olds can know that they're really a person of the opposite gender (though there are 72 genders, and I've never heard of a three year old 'coming out' as genderqueer non-binary, so maybe it's an imperfect system).

Since we all 'know' our gender identity from practically birth, what is the need for workshops to explain to us what gender identity is and figure out our own?

Femaleisnthateful · 2023-03-28T01:08:31+00:00

Troons confused about whether or not selfID is valid...

Femaleisnthateful · 2022-03-11T00:43:34+00:00

So this person is a TV star who allegedly transitioned in high school. This reads like the ramblings of schizophrenic. He's obsessed with rape and misogyny.

"Why is it that rape is fetishized by both sides of the binary?" It's not. Stop watching so much porn.

Femaleisnthateful · 2022-01-23T18:43:49+00:00

Is it just me, or are more Redditors becoming 'TERFY'? I've noticed these sentiments on multiple subreddits now, and it seems they're not being countered the way they used to be.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-02-01T23:15:37+00:00

Actually, that definition of 'trans' is now considered transphobic. The T is now for anybody with a personality disorder or sexual fetish who wants to feel legitimized. The 'truscum' have been pushed out of their own space.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-28T01:22:59+00:00

So this is the CBC again, of course. The article takes pains to explain that the Ringette League in question permits inclusion based on gender identity, yet here is someone who wants to play in the league that doesn't align with their gender identity, and apparently that's also bigoted and unfair. What even are the rules any more? Generally I obviously support people playing on teams aligned with their biological sex, but I suspect in this case 'doping' with testosterone may be giving this person an unfair advantage.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-12-04T01:32:14+00:00

It's a self-fulfulling ideology. The more we force people to think about 'gender identity' (and this is being introduced in schools to 6 yr olds now), the more people will feel it's important and obsess over it.

I'm beginning to think same sex attracted and gender non conforming people are calling themselves trans just to be empowered to exercise their own sexuality and presentation without judgement, since trans people are the only ones whose conduct isn't questioned.

Femaleisnthateful · 2022-01-09T16:28:46+00:00

Suck what?

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-08-17T13:55:40+00:00

There's so much to unpack there. I feel she really casually glossed over the 'complications' part. It's clear she's personally invested in these patients as a form of self-gratification. It's like she doesn't see the surgeries that she's involved in as complex medical procedures, but just as a quick and easy body mod. Walk in, pay your money, walk out with a new set of genitalia which magically transforms you into a man or woman, and go on parade. Reminiscent of the sleaziest of cosmetic surgeons.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-12-11T00:21:52+00:00

I mean, I too support "the freedom to study uncomfortable topics". Maybe the TQ should practice what they preach and stop bullying academics, journalists and clinicians trying to study ROGD, gender dysphoria and detransitioners.

Nevertheless, it seems worrisome that the euphemism 'MAP' is becoming mainstream. The inevitable blowback against the LGBTQ is going to be fierce.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-12T23:51:34+00:00

I thought the 'A' was for 'asexual'. Or 'allies'.

But yeah, it's ridiculous to see people (mainly men, lets face it) framing their sexual choices as an immutable sexual orientation. The worst part is, people are buying it. I was browsing Reddit the other day and some woman was complaining about how she put up with her boyfriend's cheating because she thought he was 'poly'. Then he replaced her with the other woman and she was SHOCKED!

Christ, you're not 'oppressed' just because people won't endorse sexual behaviour that objectifies others.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-03T19:59:34+00:00

If this incident really happened as described, trans rights groups and the sycophantic media would be all over it. I call BS that an average woman could beat an adult male into a coma.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-03-24T23:59:43+00:00

Yeah there doesn't seem to be any recognition of the role gender ideology has played in Aimee Challenor's rise to prominence. A few people are pointing out that 'she' has 'weaponised transphobia' but the general consensus is that Aimee is an aberration and not a symptom of a systemic problem. No one's making a connection between the banning of all gender critical subreddits and the adoption of people like Aimee into Reddit's fold. People are just acting like it was some big oversight on Reddit's part.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-11-17T00:41:42+00:00

Seriously. The first 30 seconds of that video embedded in the link was, I thought, pretty progressive... boys and girls can dress however they want, have long or short hair, etc. Cool. Then it turned into an incoherent jumble of trying to avoid discussing the physical reality of male and female bodies. What does it mean to be male or female? We never find out. How to figure out if someone is male or female? Ask them their pronouns. Sounds like grooming, but OK.

Femaleisnthateful · 2023-01-14T13:38:40+00:00

I feel so sorry for these women (girls?) who are being bullied into prioritizing their trans partners wants over their own needs. Validating girl dick takes precedence over literally everything else.

Femaleisnthateful · 2023-01-14T13:30:28+00:00

Yet when the lesbians point that out..

Femaleisnthateful · 2022-10-26T23:43:53+00:00

Wow, not a danger-hair or balaclava-clad thug in sight! What bigots!

Seriously, the comments hurt my brain, especially the ones assuming these are all conservative Christians. What part of 'LGB' do they not understand?

This comment made me genuinely sad:

his is spot on. My mom is a pretty liberal white woman raised on second wave feminism and she definitely flirts with TERF-iness. My sister and I call her out on it, but her brand of feminism is so hard baked into her sense of self that she kind of struggles the see how problematic some of it is. Your second paragraph really hits the nail on the head. They had to fight for autonomy and the ability to create male-free spaces and their conception of womandom is tightly tied to biological stuff (think pussy hats, etc) so they cannot view trans women as women. Honestly, I know a bunch of older lesbians that are on this train as well. It's pretty sad

Imagine being this girl's (?) mother and being policed by your own daughters in defense of men's rights activism. This person recognizes that women had to fight for 'male-free spaces' and seems to endorse that, but can't understand why words need to mean things or why biology matters.

Femaleisnthateful · 2022-09-03T20:43:30+00:00

My friends' niece was sucked into transgenderism by her social worker. She was 11, was autistic and had had a lot of personal struggles, including moving house recently. She told her social worker she often felt like she couldn't be her true self in social situations, that she had to 'wear a mask' (not literally). Boom, social worker tells her she's non-binary. Tells her parents she has lots of clients going through the same thing; that they must affirm her wholeheartedly blah blah. Kid is given a binder, her mental health nosedives. Eventually she desists.

I think these social workers have shit jobs. Many have limited training. They crave the validation of believing that they're helping these indigo children discover their true magical selves. That they're saving lives. Nice antidote to the drudgery and shitty reality of their real life.

Now of course they're completely invested in protecting themselves from scrutiny and the accusations that they're actually harming kids.

Same thing with teachers.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-12-14T23:09:19+00:00

"Sex is real" is a TERF dogwhistle, but also everyone knows that sex is real and no one is arguing otherwise.

If you agree with what JK Rowling literally says, why attack her as a 'TERF' unless you just hate women?

If this guy is attracted to 'masculinity', is he also attracted to masculine women who identify as women? Or does his attraction have something to do with the signifiers of sex?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-02T15:38:39+00:00

Why are they so obsessed with genitals?

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-10-27T20:41:31+00:00

So, backstory: this article's author, Peter Knegt, does a weekly series called 'Queeries', for which replies are curiously turned off. I read the CBC frequently and I've noticed a pattern - it's 80% trans and drag queens.

This is the second article he's done excoriating 'privileged' gays and gay culture. The other one is here. Apparently adding 'white' in front of 'gay culture' makes the criticisms sound not-homophobic.

Anyway, I've come seeking your thoughts. I'm planning to write to CBC and request that they replace this author with someone who more respectfully represents the LGB community.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-08-23T14:04:50+00:00

When did things change? TwoXChromosomes used to be a place where women described sex-based experiences and challenges. There were always so many threads detailing the descrimination and harrassment they faced for having a female body, and it was clear that for most of them, their reasons for posting were tied to their experiences of being of the female sex.

That's why I found it so weird that no one pushed back against transwomen using women's health issues to validate themselves or otherwise fetishizing female-ness. When did a forum for women start promoting crass stereotypes of womanhood? Seems like, based on the description, the forum is intended to alienate gender non-conforming women ie butch lesbians, non-binary and transmen.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-26T16:26:55+00:00

Isn't it funny how MtFs aren't expected to undergo any medical transition at all, and we're not allowed to 'police' their trans identities by expecting them to actually.... look like women. But FtMs are expected to get the double mastectomy, take steroids, get ab implants (see Elliot Page's recent look).

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-12-08T22:57:36+00:00

If the author of that piece had any integrity, she's acknowledge the women who have been censored and even lost jobs for saying things as mundane as 'women have ovaries'. Or, acknowledge the thousands of rape and death threats directed at JK Rowling for merely acknowledging the reality of biological sex and same-sex attraction.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-09-08T21:34:22+00:00

'Non-binary' is the ultimate bullshit moniker for anyone seeking to leapfrog up the oppression pyramid for no reason. The LGB community fought to gain marriage equality, equal rights, and freedom from forced conversion therapy and criminal prosecution.

Sara Ramirez is a tomboy.

Also, someone explain the multiple neo-pronouns to me. Is it an either/or thing? Does she/they get to change what pronouns people call her/them on an arbitrary basis? "You misgendered me! I'm they/them today!"?

And yeah, the misogynistic bent is most infuriating. I want Sara to explain which part of her/their personality is incompatible with being female?

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-06-29T19:22:44+00:00

Ex-Redditor reporting in. GC was such a welcome antidote to the groupthink and misogyny on the rest of Reddit. I am so genuinely shocked that it was banned. Happy to serve as a moderator if needed.

Femaleisnthateful · 2022-12-26T19:05:10+00:00

TIL men who refuse to have sex with women are incels.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-24T13:58:04+00:00

"Once you move away from concepts rooted in observable, material reality, nothing makes sense!"

I get it, critical theorists want to deconstruct established norms. What exactly do they propose to replace them with?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-12-11T00:51:44+00:00

Exactly. The not-so-hidden agenda is the normalization of pedophilia, much the same way as violent and degenerate sexual proclivities have been normalized with prohibitions on 'kink-shaming', and sexual exploitation of women is normalized as 'sex work is work'.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-30T02:13:32+00:00

You're right. The Nazi business is a sideshow. It's OK to call people Nazis nowadays, especially if you're on the Left. No one seems to remember what real Nazism is anymore, or remember that the Nazis were defeated in WWII, which was a while ago.

Corporations are waking up to the fact that they've been giving Stonewall tons of money in order for Stonewall to use these corporations as arms of its own lobbying agenda, rather than providing a service that benefits the corporations. Now the word is out that Stonewall is providing factually incorrect, even illegal advice, and that a relationship with them is a legal liability.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-03-29T20:51:39+00:00

"Why am I so obsessed with little kids? Duh, I AM a little kid!"

No way that could go wrong...

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-12-08T23:06:50+00:00

On the bright side, this article and its author are getting proverbially slaughtered on Twitter.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-11-07T02:41:57+00:00

What's the difference between 'seeing' a trans person as a person of the opposite sex and 'seeing' them as sexually appealing? You can't force either, for the same reasons.

Femaleisnthateful · 2020-10-27T23:51:28+00:00

I'm curious about this as well, and I'm not sure how much research exists on this, since FtM was, until recently, a very very rare phenomenon. I can't imagine it's without repercussions. The media loves to celebrate 'men giving birth', but it's really a massive social and biological experiment with unknown consequences.

Femaleisnthateful · 2022-08-29T16:13:10+00:00

So a forum devoted to combating the 'patriarchy' dedicates threads to persecuting a woman who defends the sex-based rights of women, girls and gays.

What do they think 'patriarchy' means?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-02-03T01:49:10+00:00

This term is used to describe someone whose gender identity or expression does not conform to what is expected based on the sex they were assigned at birth.

Whelp. TIL I am transgender.

Gender non-conforming – this term is used to refer to someone who does not conform to prevailing cultural and social expectations about what is appropriate gender expression for their perceived gender.

Wait... maybe I'm this?

Non-binary refers to people whose gender identity falls outside of the gender binary

So... what's the difference between this and the other stuff?

Genderqueer refers to people who have a non-normative or queer gender. Genderqueer is often used to refer to people who reject labels and conformity to specific gender norms.

What even is this? Genderqueer is the label for people who reject labels? Is this different from trans?

SRS is used by some medical professionals to refer to a group of surgical operations that alter a person’s biological sex.

Whoa. Are we affirming the reality of biological sex? This is dangerous.

Why do all the sexuality labels refer to 'emotional attraction'? What does 'emotional attraction' have to do with sexuality?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-08T21:39:29+00:00

Many of these kids are too young to have even had sex. They're literally crowdsourcing their sexuality to the internet.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-09-18T23:56:22+00:00

Such a ridiculous statement being made by a man who literally just choked a woman unconscious. Fallon Fox claimed his opponents were 'TERFS'. I wonder if this guy feels likewise?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-08-23T23:26:45+00:00

None of them look like that.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-30T14:14:14+00:00

Note how they invoke the concept of 'original sin' from Critical Race Theory, but instead of white people, it's 'cis lesbians' who are intrinsically harmful.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-10T00:11:58+00:00

I don't know what to make of this, since I assume the show is heavily scripted and "past life regression" seems like a crock anyway.

What surgery is Jazz referring to? Bottom surgery? I feel bad that this person's life is a non-stop rollercoaster of medical interventions.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-04-03T01:35:45+00:00

I'm fully convinced at this point that if there's not a pedophile ring being operated by Reddit, Reddit is fully in service to pedophiles. That statement is so disingenuous - it makes it sound like Aimee was targeted because her father was a pedo (poor innocent Aimee!) and references 'rumours' about Aimee's affiliates as though they're not fully proven and public knowledge. It situates Reddit as a victim. It also seems to infer that Reddit will continue to censor discussions about Challenor, because it's 'time to move on'.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-31T14:37:56+00:00

It sounds like befriending trans people is just too much damn work.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-01-25T01:45:58+00:00

I feel this.

I've noticed senior managers at my work doing this as well, and I recall a blog post from a gay male manager with a particular interest in sexuality and gender identity issues (seriously, he brings it up constantly) encouraging staff to put their pronouns in their bio. I keep my gender critical beliefs quiet at work, but this will be my line in the sand, and I have been thinking a lot about how to formulate a response if I am ever confronted with the issue.

I think a good strategy with both your work and your woke friends is to simply state that your sexuality and gender identity is nobody's business but your own. Feel free to conflate the two, because they obviously do. Tell them their persistence makes you feel harassed.

I think there's a valid argument to be made that women are subject to gender-based (however you want to define 'gender') discrimination in the workplace, and forcing women to publicize their 'gender identity' (again, that means different things to different people) opens us unnecessarily to bias and discrimination. I shouldn't be compelled to publicly identify my race, religion or sexuality, so why should I be compelled to disclose my gender identity?

Honestly, I hope someone files a lawsuit over this at some point.

The argument about 'normalising it for trans people' has never held water for me. If we want to normalise something, we should be less obsessive over it, not more.

Here's my analogy: body positivity. We want everyone to feel comfortable in their own bodies, right? There are a range of body types and weights and we want to be inclusive of all diverse types of bodies, right? So let's all go around and state how much we each weigh. This will normalize marginalized bodies, right? Maybe we can have discussions about which body types are privileged or given status over others. So what will be the outcome after we all identify how much we weigh, in every single interaction even when weight is completely irrelevent to the topic of conversation. Will we all revel in our diversity and inclusivity, or will we all have fucking eating disorders?

Anyway, good luck to you. Let us know how it pans out.

Femaleisnthateful · 2023-01-07T00:29:18+00:00

Now they know how lesbians feel.

Femaleisnthateful · 2022-07-25T12:14:14+00:00

'Old lady' - probably a woman over 30.

I've been inaccurately sexed many times in my life, and even when it was done maliciously, I didn't take it that hard. I'm guessing the whole thread is transnuts advocating violence against this woman?

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-07-07T15:45:18+00:00

No, but her genderspecialness is. See, she's marginalized and oppressed, and he's a cis gay oppressor, and it's soooo awkward. I can't even guess at how to pronounce her neopronouns.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-05-26T13:16:21+00:00

I don't get it. Is the pic supposed to be of trans men? If so, they pass very well. That said, the whole 'don't reduce people to their body parts' doesn't fly. So these people would 'turn heads in any gay bar', eh? Why? Because of their beautifully gendered souls? Or because of ... gasp...their bodies?

Femaleisnthateful · 2023-04-30T18:38:59+00:00

Get ready to notice a whole lot more of it. More and more people are peaking with the constant incursions into women's spaces, stories about transwomen's violence against women, indoctrination in elementary schools. These Reddit assholes think they should be entitled to get whatever they want, all the time, and that any boundaries they're asked to respect are a violation of their holy rights. The more they reveal themselves, the more pushback they're going to get.

Femaleisnthateful · 2023-01-29T00:21:26+00:00

"I don't understand - she identified as a professional figure skater!"

Legit funniest thing I've seen in a long time

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-06-14T01:49:08+00:00

It's time to acknowledge that intersectionality and critical theories are bad for women. Critical race theory has been trying to blame white women for male violence for some time. In Ottawa, there was an incident a while back in which a mentally ill black man was arrested after sexually assaulting women in a coffee shop. He died during the violent arrest. The coffee shop took all kinds of shit for calling the police, as though they were wrong for calling and it was their fault he died. Women are now expected to be mindful of their assailant's wellbeing when they are assaulted, much the way we're being expected to defer our expectations of safety, privacy and equal participation in society in favour of males' emotional 'needs'.

Femaleisnthateful · 2021-06-06T23:34:39+00:00

Stonewall's foul-ups are becoming too big to ignore. Now that the courts are calling out Stonewall's actions with tangible evidence, TRAs can no longer claim that criticism of Stonewall is ideologically based, or 'bigotry'. Between this, and the Kiera Bell case, gender ideology and radical transactivism is being dragged into the sunlight, and the mainstream public aren't going to like it.

I'm hoping we're reaching a tipping point.

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