Lesbians, are you afraid of each other?

Elvira95 · 2022-06-04T14:35:15+00:00

Phobia can be irrational aversion too, but not prejudice.

Kinsey 5 are almost in the lesbian camp, and would be a great preferance of mine in terms of trust. But is that real kinsey 5? A woman who is constantly homo leaning, or someone who is homo leaning just for few years and then go back to strong hetero attraction? Bicycle exists, especially in young adult. The phrase "homosexuality is a phase" can be true for bisexuals

It isn't irrational not to feel safe with a partner whose sexual nature isn't stable. Real homo leaning bisexuals in stable way for life, are as rare as homo, theyre mostly hetero leaning or half and half.

It isn't irrational not to want a long term relationship with someone wired for opposite sex craving. Relationships can always end and feelings can change, but this is even way more likely when you're partner sexuality is only partially satisfied, and their nature has a strong craving for your opposite sex.

The whole dating thing is irrational, based on irrational feels, and often very shallow, homosexuals wishing for partner of equal nature it is one of the most rational wish based on objective factors for the security of bond and peace of mind

It doesn't matter how much you like someone, if you wish for a relationship likely to last decades or until old age, investing yoyr emotions and making yourself vulnerable to immense pain, you must to look for long term perspective, and many women will be very poor long term perspectives, in many cases, for their sexual wiring, and recognizing it, it is the opposite of irrational. An irrational person would just staying with someone cause they're beautiful you have all these dopamine fueled feelings for her. That would be irrational.

And I repeat, I find it absurd to portrait bisexuals, who have tons of choices, as victims, because of the legitimate desires of some homos to date long term people of their nature and calling them irrational. First, because as said it isn't irrational, and even if it were (and it isn't at all), the whole attraction thing it is irrational, so doesn't make any sense to see irrationality as a bad thing in this matter. And second, because homosexuals are extremely at disadvantage because of their numbers, so questioning the dating choices, done to increase the chances of long term success and preserve themselves from mental pain, it it is even more unfair (as it is already unfair to question people private choice of dating in general, but even worst in this case). It isn't acceptable to call people phobic for their legimate dating choices. So conclusion: only phobic is mistreating people, not, not wanting to have long term monogamous relationship with them.

Elvira95 · 2022-06-02T11:22:45+00:00

I'm not wrong that giving lots of power to what it is out of your control is unwise and only causing you grief. Also you been very emotional. Your question was quite strange and can be seen as provocation. Normal then to have sarcastic defensive answer by a lesbian after you have accused the category of being bad and scary lol I mean sure there are assholes, but the attack on the different or someone who doesn't fit the standard of a group it isnt surely a lesbian thing, but an human toxic behaviour, and minorities aren't free from toxic human inclinations. But it is aburd that you relly thought this was specifically lesbian thing and that lesbians would be afraid of others like them. The greek lady just gave you an answer a normal lesbian would ( that are men the ones by whom women in general are scared, not others women). Her sarcasm and bitter answer were just consequences of having a bisexual making negative generalization over her category. Normal reaction

Elvira95 · 2022-06-02T09:20:12+00:00

One of the most important things to learn to improve your mental health it is don't giving too much importance to what it is out of your control, including people thoughts about you. Also I don't see her being abusive and degrading of anyone.

Elvira95 · 2022-06-02T09:13:42+00:00

It isn't biphobia not to want serious relationship with a bisexual. Phobia is irrational fear, while not wanting to date seriously someone wired for male craving is a legit reason to reject someone like anything else, and actually one of the most rational and not superficial to have. Said by someone who doesnt see bisexuality as dealbreaker, but can't stand this bs about lesbian wanting to date exclusively others lesbians being someone bad for doing so. Your friend with her gigantic dating poll is going to be fine.

Elvira95 · 2022-06-02T09:05:29+00:00

What biphobia? Not wanting to have a long term relationship with a bisexual woman isn't biphobia. Don't know if you get that, but bisexuals speaking like that do sound like pathetic entitled queers. If complaining like you're owned being dated is pathetic and abusive, doing it toward a very small group of people while being privileged having a big dating poll, it is immoral.

Elvira95 · 2022-06-02T10:46:31+00:00

Yup het women prentending to be bi has been the case for years, as a way to feel transgressive and special. It's mainly in the youngest population where openeness to new experience is biologically high, I'm sure among 30 years old you would find much less such cases as most of those fake bi's settled to have husband and kids not seeking attention anymore. The worst are the ones pretending to be lesbians though,

Elvira95 · 2022-05-04T18:34:35+00:00

I'm so sorry for americans women. Its mindblowing how basic fundamental rights are still in discussion because of misogyny and religious fanatism. The first victims are always going to be very poor women whose life will get even worst. USA the land of freedom and government so small, it enters in a woman uterus.

Elvira95 · 2022-05-05T19:43:21+00:00

Wow, I'm impressed by the wall of nonsense which believes to be smart and proving a point

Nobody has the right to use another person organs without permission. Not even an actual formed child would have the right to use their parents organs without the parents permission, not even in case of life and death, cause not human has the right over another person body, doesn't matter the reason.

So, abortion, seeks to give a special right not human have, to something which isn't an actual formed individual, not a child, but just a bunch of cells who has yet to fully form its organs and become cerebrally active (which is a key component of considering someone medically alive).

The right of someone over their own body, over their OWN organs, the right not to be forced to an invasive traumatic body process against their will, is supreme, the opposite is literally called slavery and oppression.

And please spare the retarded racist crap, using black poverty issues you don't actually care about and who would just worsen in this situation (privileged richer women would always have right to choose), as a pawn for your horribly misogynistic pro-women enslavement stance.

You have proved anything more than how anti-women choice (not pro-life, youìre anti choice) don't fathom the basic rights of women as autonomous and free human beings, not walking incubators,and that's why they support horribly human oppression, trying giving fetuses rights that nobody has.

Thanks religious sexist bigot.

PS: The religious misogynistic anti-choice stance gets even better when done by a gay dude whose sex life revolves around unreproductive anal penetration, who has not idea what it means to be a woman and going through 9 months of pregnancy, yet thinks he has the right to tell a woman what she must be forced to stay pregnant against her will. Amazing.

Elvira95 · 2022-05-04T18:38:49+00:00

I didn't mean to dismiss your struggle, just saying a gay feminine man would find even more pressure, because the attacks both verbal and physical tend to be far worst, cause we live in a misogynistic society where femininity in men is seen as an attack to sacred masculinity. There is not this type of perception when it comes to masculine women. So I find a feminine man an act of particular bravery

Elvira95 · 2022-05-02T20:30:39+00:00

being a masculine womna isn't nearly as difficult as being a feminine man. Feminine men even easily risk to get beaten

Elvira95 · 2022-05-02T04:12:34+00:00

High emotional intelligence and logic and reflection abilities. These are very attractive qualities which I put in my standards. You will make a woman happy one day.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-30T17:30:49+00:00

The fact that it is tiny,doesn't make it a lesbian dick, bro.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-21T18:23:49+00:00

They don't get it. Americans are a country of migrations, many of them don't get a country being more than a citizenship but an actual ethnic because of the land representing an a population evolving there for thousands of years. And they seem to fail to understand this is isn't about skin tone, as as ethnic is about origins which does come with particular general phenotype but this isn't the point

Elvira95 · 2022-04-21T18:49:03+00:00

Absolutely I will move a different country but even if I would take the citizenship of that country, it would just a paper, I will always be italian and sicilian this is my ethnic and origins you cannot change it by moving and earning a piece of a paper, ethnic is something made in thousands of years, you are born with it, you take after your parents. Not even being born in that country makes you ethnically part of that country, only in citizenship sense.

Americans who are for mass invasion of europe and call a nazis anyone who care about the ethnical preservation of a country are insufferable. It's insane being accused of being for white purity or against mixed races people simply for supporting the identity of a country, because for them is all about race and skin tone, while ethnic is more than that, it is the origin and history of a population (both cultural and genetics)and it is linked with a land. I get is hardto get when you are from young country fomed by european immigrants, but it isn't about skin tone

Elvira95 · 2022-04-21T17:56:11+00:00

"I 100% bet that you actually hate mixed-race children because it "helps exterminate and corrupting the white race""

This type of thinking culdn't be more far from me, but thanks for behaving like the usual emotional dogmatic person making horrible accusation and strawmans to anyone not agreeing with your thinking.

Of course the problem with islam is ideology not race, arabs are white too and any race can be a muslims, even though the wokes don't get it and defend the muslims are they were a specific rate.

There is a different between caring about the individual race (which is something americans are obsessed about more than anyone else in the world) and actually caring about the native ethnical identity of a country. Ethnic identity is more than race, it does include particular genetic traits ( but as said arabs are white too and they aren't europeans), but also history, culture, tradition , it is a whole thing.

The different between an historical old population with strong cultural identity, and a place made by migrants who oppressed and robbed their native as USA, it is immense, and there is nothing nazis or racist in respecting the preservation of a population and historical identity.

I support controlled migrations because a country has right to borders control from invasion, and mass immigration just destroy a country identity, culture (especially with culture incompatible) and pose a lot of safety and fuctional risk, unlike legal ordered one.

The only dangerous thing is the leftist emotional and extremist view on migration, which will only lead to destruction of european civilization, because you think anything related to preserve land of european descents is evil and nazis.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-20T20:26:38+00:00

If you have a place with a lot of illegal immigration and low birth rate, when the illegal immigrant of another continent easily get citizenship, you literally have an ethnical replacement. This isn't nazism, that's a fact. It's because in the name of modern left speaking positevely about anything white related is considered racism, but nobody would criticize asians or africans valuing their country asian or black identity, despite the fact white europeans are the minority race in the world.

And the real issue is that everyone is concerned about is islam not ethnic, islamic fundamentalism is barbaric and oppressive,so calling islamic fundamentalists barbarians is a fact. As is a fact that mass immigration of young men from sexually repressed culture also pose a safety risk.

The pathetic accuse of nazim for anyone who express facts which doesn't agree with open boards multicultural immigration mindset, and want to preserve the cultural identity of the country (because european cultures do have a very old identity, both cultural and ethnical, and aren't a country of migrants like USA) is just silly and complicit of huge harm.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-20T21:20:37+00:00

Except not. People have the right to live in their country and to proceed with legal migration, but they have not right to mass immigrate illegally into another, that's not a right, that's invasion, and it is very destructive. My values are very far from the right, let alone far right. You're displaying the same habit of woke leftist , thinking ayone not supporting mass immigration and wanting to maintain historical identity of one country, must to be a nazi. It's so stupid and dangerous thinking

You're american right? You live in a country of migrations, USA has not ethnic identity except the native, that europeans turned into a marginal group into their own land, it is very different from an old country with a strong cultural and ethnic history and there is nothing nazis in wanting to defend and maintain it. Its only seen as nazi cause it is related to europeans, and in this day and age saying to support anything specifically european is considered evil, people wouldn't have the same reaction if an african population wanted to maintain their identity. That's the real racism,

And again, muslim in USA are much fewer, richer and much more selected, USA hasn't had the mass muslim immigration leading to self-segregation like Europe has. You cannot compare, they don't represent islamic cultures like the more normal people in EU. Islamic fundamentalists support killing for gay sex or changing religion, how is that not barbaric to you? How is oppressing people, their freedom and injustily discriminate them, in the name of some arabic middle ages ideology not barbaric.

By thinking anyone can live anywhere, you just support very fundamentalist culture gaining influence in the minority of liberal countries with western values and ending up destryong those values. The left does support far right in the name of identity.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-20T20:37:25+00:00

I do care about my country maintaing its identity and not dramatically changing into a different one because of illegal mass immigration. Remember Italy and France aren't USA, they're not migrants countries, they're countries with very old history and cultural and ethnical identity. Italy and France ethnic identity is white not more than Kenya identity is black, China is asian and Mexico is latinos. Of course what I worry about is islamic and backward culture very different to european modern one becoming dominant. That's the real issue. But it is more a whole issue: having people from others continent mass illegally immigrating into others countries (not ordered legal migration), it is very wrong and very damaging , it is a real invasion, and a country has the fundamental right of defending its borders, population and identity.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-18T17:24:17+00:00

Usa has not taken those cause they aren't close to Africa. US got the mexican illegal migrants, which is way better illegal immigration since their culture is still similar in core values and style. The liberals did use some survey of USA muslims being more pro gay marriage than evangelicals to prove muslims were more tolerant, but the muslims coming there are a very small percentage of more secular selected people. Europe has far higher percentages of muslims because of geographical location and they're way more bigoted cause they represent average people of their culture and not the more upper liberal class.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-18T17:14:50+00:00

There is legal immigration and asylum of protected classes. But allowing hordes of young men whose culture is incompatible to western values is extremist take on immigration

Elvira95 · 2022-04-18T17:03:40+00:00

As italian, same. We're in the same boat, literally invaded by hordes of arabs and africans whose mindset is polar opposite of western values. And specifically for islam, there is the amount of fanatism and blind irrational unfair repressive thinking that only comes with religion brainwashing and very hard to change as people are literally brainwashed since birth to think a certain way in fear of an imaginary being getting angry and no other religion is as fanatically dangerous as islam,due to the content it has.

Here the left supports ius soli which would mean any woman coming from Africa in an illegal way can give birth here and their kid will be italian, how isn't it a way of cultural and ethnical raplacement (from majority white european country to african). Supporting the left in this day and age is basically supporting Europe turning into a continent dominated by third world repressive backward culture, ruining all decades of fights and progresses we have done until now, and women and homos are the first victims of this

Elvira95 · 2022-04-18T18:14:16+00:00

Yup, when I was younger I thought only the conservatives were irrational and repressive, but turns out the woke left is the same, and in the end ends up supporting the increase of extremely conservative culture, much more backward and repressive than the mindset of the western conservative, with their stupid identity politics. We forget that the west is just a minority in the world, and vast majority of the world is way more repressive with little or no respect for things like equality and civil rights and freedom of expression, and these are the cultures with much higher birth rates meaning they will just become more and more, by allowing them to mass immigrate you just ruining the small heaven of tolerance and freedom in the world.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-18T17:30:15+00:00

They don't run away from their countries to do that, but they have a very anti-gay sexist and fanatical religious mindset and by allowing an huge amount of them, you are just allowing these types of thinking to become influential in the country culture, basically extremely damaging the tolerance and freedom that the west has fought decades to achieve, setting the country horribly backward.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-18T17:42:39+00:00

Yeah, so let's not add even bigger bullshit from others culture? Legal immigration is right, but mass immigration is a disaster, totally dangerous. And it is just very naive not to understand how long term this is going to massively change the country for the worst, cause culture is just people thinking, and the more people think a certain way, the more that kind of thinking become a defining cultural feature. I really dont want fucking islam to become a defining cultural feature of western europe

Elvira95 · 2022-04-18T18:16:52+00:00

I don't want to ruin all the progresses we have achieved and go back to dark ages repressive thinking either, and that' why I'm against mass islamic immigration

Elvira95 · 2022-04-17T00:59:48+00:00

This is why I wouldn't support left anymore. The immigration issue is the most critical, as the politics of allowing countless people from very homophobic culture with higher birth rate than the native population, it is basically a genocide of western culture and values. Extremely dangerous. The right politics is the only one protecting the country culture. The left just supports super fascist culture indirectly by supporting easy immigration.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-15T16:54:06+00:00

Yup I was really naive not thinking of something sexual ahah

But keep it, it is funny, even though I think I have done quite the amount of funny comments, I identify as funny, so unless you're transphobe and want to make me dysphoric you shouldn't exclude me lmao

Elvira95 · 2022-04-14T15:46:37+00:00

Oh, I knew I would have ended up in a sarcastic list lol

But don't think that's was my funniest comment. I mean I wasn't even trying to be funny. I really thought he was going to be a real dad :(

Elvira95 · 2022-04-13T20:07:28+00:00

You are very conservative and more on the far right side, actually.

But I agree on voting age at over 25 Brain isn't fully mature till 25 of age

Elvira95 · 2022-04-14T01:25:42+00:00

I do agree very much. I'm very sexually attracted to her sexually, physically is totally my type, but could never stay with someone making sexual videos to sell or who talks about her personal life on video to thousands of strangers. That kinda of exhibitionism is a total turn off to me. Being reserved in life is much sexier and does make sexuality hotter than having to show it to the world. It also shows a very attention seeking personality, attention seeking personalities are so dependent on people validation because being at center of attention is so important to them, and since loving yourself is already hard as it is, if you also have a personality who craves people attention that highly, it will be even harder, as you will always see yourself based on what people think of you or how many people adore you, rather than putting your own opinion at the center. Its very sad, but I do have lot of empathy for people struggling with mental health as I have had the same problem all my life. I think having a more normal life away from the spotlight would do her good but she has built her life on youtube and sex videos. The far right ideology and gun praising is clearly a way to seek validation.Having republicans praising her makes her feel good. I mean the anti.TRA activism is brave and she is great for doing it, she could also put herself in danger considering how crazy the TRA's are, but I agree that there is also a need to being validated, to feel worthy.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-13T20:43:34+00:00

Yup maybe far right was not good definition, but definitely conservative right. He been gay friendly is just self-service, Probably wouldn't be if he wasn't gay

Elvira95 · 2022-04-14T00:02:39+00:00

"I know when people have mental health issues they'll sometimes cope by becoming fixated on one thing"

I can totally say for experience it is true and it does sucks. Its called neuroticism. Probably she also suffer from it. She also seems extremely extroverted and exhibistionist cause I can't understand having to talk about personal problems to thousands of strangers on video and she does make porn videos for men. I had never seen her talking about her dating struggles though. Would assume someone like her would get girls easily even though the dating situation is USA is so bad, she might want a pretty feminine non obese compatible woman who isn't gender nutjob and that's hard for her to get there. She should seriously consider moving to Europe.

Elvira95 · 2022-04-13T20:33:15+00:00

More left on social issues like gay marriage, abortion, prostitution, soft drugs , gay adoption ivf (but not surrogate= welfare,public healthcare and education isn't a left or right thing in europe but just a normal thing that everyone with a brain supports, and general individual freedom, more right for immigration . Politically moderate.

Elvira95 · 2022-03-29T14:19:17+00:00

Yup, thats how it works. You're licking the clitoris up and down and sticking a finger up the vaginal canal on the g spot, then close your eye, and BOOM... suddendly you got something much bigger stuck in your mouth and the warm wet hole feels like a flaccid dry sack. Keep your eyes open, ladies.

Elvira95 · 2022-02-25T20:43:38+00:00

I hope the ukranians people get their freedom from a psycho gays at the fucking last of the problem. These few days have been a nightmare , I feel horrible for violetremi . It make things in perspective, while we first world people complain about bs, there are people born in poor coutries dealing with war, suffering and death. These idiots should be sent there, maybe they would have real problems to bitch about.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-16T20:50:52+00:00

You're welcome, future father lmao

Elvira95 · 2021-12-16T10:01:17+00:00

Personally I would eat a pussy on period. I like the taste of blood.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-16T08:01:55+00:00

I mean for women non penetrative is way more orgasmic than penetrative. But we live in such phallocentric world.

Always found homophobic how gay male sexuality is reduced to anal as that was all about it. I mean, I don't think there is nothing wrong with doing anal, anything has right to do anything with their bodies and for male receiving anal makes more sense due to prostate, but it is wrong to think gay male sexuality is all about it or that a gay dude must to like anal by definition.

But this is not different than people thinking we lesbians need dildos. Or when I read that lesbians only can lose virginity by using a dildo. Aside from the fact virginity is a stupid concpt and that's not possible to lose something which doesn't exist, the invalidation of female on female sexuality based on high phallocentrism and sexism really did upset me. Now not anymore cause it isnt worth to get mad about over bs, but it is quite disgusting the level of phallocentrism in this world.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-16T07:53:38+00:00

The first made me laugh quite a bit, cause I'm short as fuck and surely need the chair to reach stuff, but like who gives a shit? Not like that's a problem. Never understood people saying the need someone tall to reach stuff as that were important problem in life. Doesn't make me search height in a woman, actually I do prefer on shorter side. Although that's second time I keep running on someone taller than average and that's sout Italy when people are shorter. If I'll live in norther Europe where women are definitely taller, I'll probably just get a tallette reaching stuff for me lol

Im not really into kids. So sexuality doesn't matter here. If I wanted an Elvira junior I would buy some sperm.

And using kids in a video like that is vile

Elvira95 · 2021-12-16T08:09:01+00:00

They weren't as successful when they tried to do this with two male mice, though; only a few of the babies from two male mice survived past a few days, and had all kinds of physical abnormalities.

Good, women will reproduce by themselves and males will be useless. Finally the matriarchy will rise LMAO

Elvira95 · 2021-12-12T06:31:26+00:00

weird they used the word homosexual, which is a word they wanna erase

Elvira95 · 2021-12-12T09:30:14+00:00

This is so crazy. Literally when you think you cannot be anymore surprised something dumber than you knew were possible comes out.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-12T13:36:10+00:00

This is the dumb mentality that creates fake bi's. Its normal to be more adventous and open to new experiences when young, doesn't mean much.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-12T08:57:34+00:00

I wish I could give 1000 likes. Brilliant

Elvira95 · 2021-12-12T06:18:20+00:00

But what if you're a lesbo who loves cats? Are you holding your own hands?

Elvira95 · 2021-12-11T16:32:46+00:00

Today I saw Buck angel porn. Well, that pussy is hot, also hot ass and hips. You can look total man dressing up, but the reality comes out when clothes are off.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-11T15:40:26+00:00

WTF! The situation is more crazy than I thought.In USA everything can be done for money, like not ethics. What a sick culture. Colombo made a really dumb discovery.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-11T15:50:14+00:00

Also the smiley pics on a topic about body mutilation are so creepy too. What I hate is that USA always imports their stupid ideology abroad. Also prostitution is illegal, but this shit is legal?

Elvira95 · 2021-12-12T05:34:05+00:00

I was talking more about american hetero women being demanding. I don't think is possible for a lesbian to be demanding nearly as much as an het woman, even if she wanted to, stats just don't help shallow princesses types.

The importance on height comes from a very sexist cultural idea of height meaning masculinity or dominance. Like the idea of equating dominance with tallness and submission with shortness, which is universal coming from chimp mind, BUT is crazy strong in USA. And also reflected by the fact president always taller than normal, can't be a coincidence.

And of course as someone who has nothing submissive about herself, quite assertive by nature, would hate to be equated as such for something out of my control.

In Italy height is seen as easthetic thing, like having longer legs, not a masculine dominance thing. But in general latin culture aren't particular heightist and women aren't nearly height obsessed like americans women.

USA has also the shitty possible traits: super sexist gender roles ideas from 1950's (reason why gender ideology is so strong), seeing relationship or sex as power dynamic things, super heighist, strong racial tension, poitical correctness to extreme but not on everything, fat glorification , people interacting in a overthetop friendly way, taught to smile like retards, which just comes off as annoying , invasive and extremist; but that entire culture is extremist about anything.

Overall I'm just glad I'm not from there. And if there are a lot of sad men in USA, it isn't their only fault, it's the fault of a sick culture.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-11T10:16:21+00:00

Is that true? Sounds really too crazy. And what medical professional would do that?

Elvira95 · 2021-12-11T08:52:38+00:00

Short hair, flannel and long short, of course.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-11T10:39:00+00:00

I really doubt. Although the USA system is all about the money. Women who are childfree often have problems to get their tubes tied, because it is believed they could change their mind. So I cannot find realistic that a young woman has the whole reproductive organ removed.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-10T16:34:44+00:00

The whole thread is a joy to read. Hilarious. Nazis obsessed with jew domination

Oh, the american incels struggle to find a not obese woman LMAO:

"1.1% of women identify as lesbian, 2.2% as bisexual. But how you identify doesn't matter. If most women have sex with women, most women are bisexual at least. This can't be allowed. Men are dropping out of the workforce because of impossibility of getting a non fat mate. We need to reverse feminism."

Elvira95 · 2021-12-12T05:42:49+00:00

I know that, other countries aren0t as fat as USA, and is USA that has the body positive shit going on. Being positive about being obese is beyond retarded.

Mexican women got beautiful dark feature and hot spanish accent and asses. Also they tend to have beautiful facial aesthetic cause women there care more about looks and in general don't place much importance on height (once saw a video of a 4'11 mexican dude dating a hottie way taller than me) and they're shorter than average white women anyway. So, if a guy is good guy, smart, fit, decent looking, and is struggling about something out of his control and totally unimportant like the distance of his head to the floor, it should go where women place less importance on retarded stuff.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-10T20:32:47+00:00

You know what, I'm kinda not an atheist anymore. How do you convert to judaism?

Elvira95 · 2021-12-11T16:42:25+00:00

You're right on that. The difference is that men are supposed to put the effort in dating, the ones doing the first move or expected to pay. And when women are too demanding, it can be quite annoying for them. Especially today on dating apps, with so much competition. So, I get their frustration, but they act like women own them sex and incels go crazy about wanting to oppress women so that they will be forced to be with them. They could get cute non fat women by using american privileged passport abroad, if they struggled in USA. But they prefer to spew misogynistic nonsense instead.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-10T16:37:05+00:00

Do you think liking videogames in bad? lol

Elvira95 · 2021-12-11T07:10:57+00:00

Most of the commenters there are lonely young men on the fringes of society a

To be fair, dating in USA as an het men seems really hell on earth. Women in decent physical shapes are a minority, american women seem also fucking demanding as fuck and height obsessed to a ridicolous degree. But really bitching doesn't solve anything. They should go to Philippines or Mexico where women are less demanding and hotter, to find gf's

Elvira95 · 2021-12-10T14:46:26+00:00

An height or hair color is a preferance, sexuality isn't a preferance, is a biological wiring. The woman there is giving the type of sex attributes the person needs, the height non being in a preferance is just a detail. It would be quite the difference biologically craving sex from genitalia and sex traits opposite to your partner. Again, not talking of betrayal, just saying that it significantly increases the chances of relationship bond being ruined, and we heard it tons of time, of story of bisexual breaking up cause they crave opposite sex too much. Even though, as I said, I'm not against dating bisexuals, there is no denial someone who is not biologically wired to need men offer more security of stability long term. That's a fact, not a phobia.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-10T17:53:11+00:00

Le ragazze nerdose sono molto attraenti per me :D

Elvira95 · 2021-12-09T05:21:29+00:00

Oh, Chile has hot, short, dark women who speak in spanish. Put on my list on countries to check lol

Elvira95 · 2021-12-09T04:59:30+00:00

The urge to stray because of long term relationship and the urge to straybecause you're craving something which is biologically opposite to partner are veryfundamentally different. Not saying bi people are cheaters or anything like that. Just saying this craving of opposite sex, especially in long term relationships, makes the relationship more at risk of breaking the emotional bond. And that's a situation we've been hearing many times. Personality might make you more or less likely to cheat or be monogamous, but overall the urge for the opposite sex of your partner, isn't personality, is sexuality, and one don't really know how negatevely that's going to effect the relationship. That's why a monosexual offers better security for someone wanting to bond for life, all else being equal.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-08T13:33:43+00:00

The attraction must be mutual and there has been compatibility. Its more complicated then just finding people attracted to you. I know any person experience stuff differently. But what I meant is, there is the risk of someone going into a bi-cycle and experiencing a strong craving for the opposite sex, especially after a long period, when the relationships feelings get less intense. It's hard to predict , since bisexuals are pretty different from each others.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-08T05:56:37+00:00

Yeah, and then bi wonder why some lesbians don't want to date bi women. Sure I'm open to them, but I would much prefer a lesbian, and I will always give priority to one. Bisexuality fails to give the same amount of security, which is necessary for long term relationship. Also men are more likely to be open to the bi partner sleeping with women, it would be hard to fiind a lesbian being fine with her partner sleepig with men

Elvira95 · 2021-12-08T05:10:52+00:00

Especially it makes being the partner of a bi-cycle partner horrible

Elvira95 · 2021-12-08T06:39:14+00:00

I could never tolerate an open relationship- I'm very monogamous and very traditional in the way I see relationship. Also I'm kinda possessive (comes with a passionate personality), so it could never work. Yeah, bi-cycle does kinda turn me off, like I though that even though the degree of bisexual changes from person to person, I supposed it was at least fixed. But clearly that's not the case. Other than the fact a bi woman could get angry at your inquiry, she could likely also lie, not to scare you, like the bi women who lie about being lesbian. It's hard matter. The only reason I won't exclude bi women, it is because of shitty stats, otherwise I would just not consider them for serious stuff. Months ago I talked with a lesbian who spent 20 years in a relationship with a bi woman, and at some point she(the partner) started to act colder, turned out she craved men. And they ended up splitting up, shes now with a man...

Elvira95 · 2021-12-08T05:10:20+00:00

But what if this bi-cycle happens during a relationship?

Elvira95 · 2021-12-08T05:12:45+00:00

I think it would make sense for the bi in the middle, but overall I don't think there is any need of community in general.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-07T12:25:43+00:00

Canada is the worst, full of queers and islamophilia, USA is the same, it's huge but they share same language and country and the ideology spreads all over. Of course red areas are less queers, but they're also more homophobic, religious, sexist, fanatic, so overall still shitty places to live.

Uk isn't really bad, along with western europe. Australia didn't know it was that bad, I imagined similar to Uk. Generally the english world is the most influenced cause the english language is so gender neutral and flexible, it fits gender ideology very well. And they use gender rather than sex to describe male and female.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-07T06:16:54+00:00

Hormones don't change sexuality. Its more likely she was focused on females like the young bi girls who are still discovering themselves and have a bigger focus on the sexuality which looks cooler and more transgressive. But now as transmen, she can still live a "gay" relationship in her eyes, so it is allowing her hetero attraction to take charge. Overall, I had this total misconception that bisexuality was 50/50 and that women who said they were bi but never dated same sex, were fake bis, But reality is you could be 90 percent het attraction and 10 percent homo attracted and still be bi. Also there is a difference between sexual and emotional attracted, and it is possible to be sex attracted to both but only romantically attracted to one sex. Overall, when someone say they're bi, you don't really know exactly what that means.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-06T13:10:48+00:00

Does she think it as gay sex cause that's the first time of him making her come so much,since before he was too focused on his tiny dick?

Elvira95 · 2021-12-06T13:48:52+00:00

The elegant efficiency of natural selection

Elvira95 · 2021-12-07T12:23:04+00:00

And red areas are shitty places to live, full of religious backward nutjobs who want to force women into pregnancy and think evolution is bs. So it is like you live in a blue areas with queers, or in a red area with religious nutjobs, but you will always being surrounded by retardness. Poor americans lol

Elvira95 · 2021-12-06T14:12:07+00:00

No it wasn't inappropriate at all.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-05T17:47:22+00:00

It says that I love girls with perfect flat stomach and nice hourglass hips. Women hips are just incredibly hot.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-05T21:51:48+00:00

eh, tummy is the opposite of what I deem attraction. But personal taste, sure.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-05T17:56:39+00:00

Yeah, hips are a way to recognize a female. Sex differences are way more than just genitalia.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-05T17:50:18+00:00

what's attractive? The main two pics?

Elvira95 · 2021-12-05T11:24:13+00:00

Being honest, that pic turned me on a little lol

Elvira95 · 2021-12-05T18:07:14+00:00

No inappropriate. Its a realistic movie about first love with two hot girls and shitty end (or more like, an end very common to many stories when love ends). Overall, nice to watch.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-05T17:48:27+00:00

Technically isn't healthy. But I love raw sausage.Always had since I was a kid. It is just tasty

Elvira95 · 2021-12-05T07:20:46+00:00

Fusto is slang that means hot dude. So it can be translated to "oh my, what an hottie" or ", oh my,what a stud"

That's a very regional saying. Weird to be included. Apparently the author is european (french) , the one who created blue is warmest color, now is trans. Sad.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-05T07:31:45+00:00

Stewie is gay and zoophile, since he clearly wants to fuck his dog.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-05T07:25:20+00:00

It has like a 10 minutes scissoring scene lol And the girls had to drink to comfortable doing that long and passionate and explicit sex scene that took days to be made

Elvira95 · 2021-12-04T04:29:13+00:00

Gay men are notorious to be more focused on looks, which as men makes sense, men are more physical and got higher libido than women, o making their attraction more visual than emotional in general. But also, in what other communities a fat person can get a cool name and be adored? LMAO It shows how varied men are in tastes, on an higher degree than women, probably.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-04T04:40:36+00:00

I knew it wasn't a place for lesbian the first time I went there, and there was a comment from a bi woman saying how she preferred dick to pussy lol

Elvira95 · 2021-12-04T04:39:43+00:00

Most of italian food don't have sausage. I swear italian dishes aren't the shit you see in american movies. But I love sausage, even raw one, which isn't healthy, but sausage is so nice, except for the one attached to human body LMAO

Elvira95 · 2021-12-04T09:07:01+00:00

You could go to a restaurant in Uk and say : "I want a faggot with a spotted dick, and perhaps a toad in a hole" lol

Elvira95 · 2021-12-04T05:14:21+00:00

Did you know, the english got a meaty balls dish called faggot? And another food called spotted dick?What a creative cuisine

Elvira95 · 2021-12-03T14:20:18+00:00

Something makes me believe you're that delusion gay dude who gets always banned lol Anyway, the whole comment is too delusion to argue about. End of discussion

Elvira95 · 2021-12-03T13:17:13+00:00

Surprising, but not too much, men hating bi women who call themselves lesbians are pretty common. Or else she's upvoting her own comments with others accounts. It's crazy that on this forum there are various people supporting the idea that homosexuality is a choice.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-03T13:16:02+00:00

Except that a person who is unable to be opposite sex attracted won't never be able to transition to straight. Only a bisexual, such yourself, can repress part of their sexuality and only focusing on the one they like. You can possibly repress part your straight/homo impulse and only focus on the opposite, but you need to be able to have the attraction you want to focus on to begin with

Also, you won't allow people? I mean this level of megalomaniac talking is simply too stupid to be taken seriously.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-02T13:32:31+00:00

She's a political lesbian

Elvira95 · 2021-12-02T13:40:35+00:00

If you were not bisexual, you would have never be attracted to men to begin with. The point of being an homosexual is that we cannot be attracted to the opposite sex. It isn't like we can be attracted but then shut off our attraction to opposite sex because we think opposite sex is full of bad rapists.

You're a so called political lesbian, bi women who choose to only focus on homo attraction because they hate men. I don't have nothing against febfem, actuallyI like they exist, you increase our polls, but , for fuck sake, your idea of sexuality is totally wrong, cause you don't get total homosexuality, since you're not to begin with, your biological is able to be male attracted, unlike myself who has never been able, even though I wished, even when I had a chemistry with an handsome funny guy I could totally see myself happy with but I couldn't be attracted only due to sex. Your views are not only wrong, but they also dangerous, they support conversion therapy. Because if we can choose our sexuality, a gay who doesn't like to be such and wants a normal het life, could be able to get toremove their homo attraction like you said to do with your hetero attraction, but they cannot, because real homosexuality doesn't allow you to be hetero attracted, even if you want to.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-02T12:15:05+00:00

I'm not "bisexual". And even if I were, I have successfully turned off all "attraction" to men and feel nothing toward them. It's other women that I am attracted to. For all practical purposes, I am a lesbian, who chose her path despite widespread discrimination.

And that's explain all your comments. You don't get what it means not to be able to be sex attracted to male. You did a conscious choice of ignoring your hetero attraction and think that how sexuality works, that you choose it. Well, thats not the case. You're still bi, with women leaning, but not actually homosexual. Real homosexual isn't a choice, only bi women can say to choose a sex over another.

Also your idea towards men is quite unfair. Most men are decent people, and there are surely more decent men than the are women into women. Being a lesbian doesn't mean hating men or being repulsed by them,just being unable to get aroused by them.

Also, I think real homosexuality is like 1-2 percent. If you add bi women, than we could get to 5-7. I don't date all over the world. I would date in my country/region I'm in. I could date in others European countries, but I'm not gonna date in Africa or India or whatever. Not because I'm against dating others races than white, but because people date within their geographical location. And most countries still aren't accepting of gay people, meaning most lesbians there don't accept or realize their sexuality and end up with husbands and kids anyway.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-02T11:42:08+00:00

I would be bisexual if I could, but of course I cannot choose my sexuality, cannot make myself getting aroused by dick and males, as that isn't a biological thing I can choose. For me is only about the far highr chances to finding someone right. I do find relationship with women superior in everything comparing to relationship with men, I think women are just better, sexually and emotionally, but being part of a super small minority doesn't make life easy. Even in a country where homosexuality is accepted, the dating odds are far worst when your dating poll is severely restricted. That's why I'm not so happy about total homosexuality, nothing to do with homophobia.I like to be a lesbian, I just don't like the stats.

If you really choose to be gay, you clearly a bisexual woman who prefer others women, and so choose to be with only women. Homosexuality isn't a choice.

Elvira95 · 2021-12-02T11:50:12+00:00

I think I can count 2 or 3 girls beside me. Don't you like italians, love? lol

Elvira95 · 2021-12-01T18:05:45+00:00

Hollywood is homophobe but pretend to be openminded

Elvira95 · 2021-12-02T12:19:58+00:00

Well, I've got a plan to go to Thailand to broaden my cultural perspective, if you know what I mean lol

Im from a total white place, so race has never been a thing for me. even wanting to date non white, it couldn't be possible at moment, but it could very well being in the future. To be fair, I'm more attracted to white women of mediterranean type or latino, I think most people are more attracted to similar, but asians women are totally hot as fuck and got the general darker feature I like, and they also age better, so on the list on inspiring fucks lol

Elvira95 · 2021-12-02T11:44:31+00:00

Very impressive, girl. I've got a fascination with asian women, defintely on my bucket list t of sexual fantasies (don't misuderstand, I've got zero fetish, just curiosity over other cultures and races, and like the general asian features) But that doesn't change the fact that your arguments make no sense, of course.

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