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9 months ago by EllaRoxy to /s/help from self.help
LGBS just went down by 79malibu350 in SuperStraight
[–]EllaRoxy 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
I am beyond pissed! For the first time in a decade I had a community I belonged to on Reddit full of cool, diverse and like minded people talking about real issues with the Trans community including stealth rape, coercion, bullying everyone into having sex with them. Nope can’t have that. Can’t have anyone who might ban together and tell the establishment to go fuck themselves. What they don’t realize is we won’t stop. You can’t kill an idea and super straight peaked a lot of people. I am a super lesbian and I won’t date anyone I don’t want to regardless of any names I am called.
Welcome to exile, supers by notcisjustwoman in SuperStraight
[–]EllaRoxy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
That is incredibly accurate. What's ironic is none of them seem to realize they have brought this on themselves by simply not respecting other people's boundaries. Everyone gets rejected. What most people do is move on. What these people do is rage, name call, gaslight, threaten, bully and guilt trip. Which is not a normal, healthy response to rejection.
As a super lesbian, I feel more accepted by Republicans, conservatives, and Christians nowadays than I do by my own supposed "community" by [deleted] in SuperStraight
[–]EllaRoxy 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
It's truly a wild time to be alive. It's funny because I still don't understand why anyone regardless of political affiliation cares who I am sleeping with. Shouldn't I be the only person who cares? lol
[–]EllaRoxy 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
I just want to say my conservative and libertarian friends have never, ever given me shit for not liking Trans people. My progressive friends on the other hand, who are straight, why don't you try it? You're being hateful. Each day that goes by I go further conservative.
[–]EllaRoxy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago* (0 children)
There is a new subreddit that has low members on reddit right now, I have reported 5 posts today calling to murder any supers. My God even if I don't agree with you I don't tell you to kill yourself or that you need to be killed.
[–]EllaRoxy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Well I am on board all the way! I'm out of the closet now and not going back in. I am so sick of their arguments too. We don't care who you date as long as you date us and oh btw suddenly develop a huge love of girlcock. I remember the first time I saw that word somewhere and I thought no way this will catch on. People will call them out. Then I saw boipussy somewhere and thought what? Then I got my first threat on a dating app. A decade later I am still dealing with their bullshit. No more.
[–]EllaRoxy 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
It was truly magical and for the first time in years I felt I had a sane place to discuss real issues. As a super lesbian the last decade has been a challenge. Happy to see many of you here.
[–]EllaRoxy 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Hey all, I have migrated over here too. Super sad they shut us down. Don't quit pushing back. 30,000 people in three days is a lot! People are sick of this shit. Remember you are valid, no means no, and you don't have to given anyone a reason for not dating them.
95% of my progressive friends & colleagues by Lingenfelter in GenderCritical
[–]EllaRoxy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
I just posted something similar about this on ovarit. Since the lock down I have lost a friend of 20 years over politics. All of my progressive friends sound like this 100% yet none of my straight female friends were eager to date any transmen. It's a level of hypocrisy I can't even wrap my mind around. No differing opinions, must obey, or you are a bigot, terf, etc...sad really.
Officially lost my best friend to gender theory by RealWomenResist in GenderCritical
[–]EllaRoxy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
I am so sorry to hear this. I have lost several friends due to this and due to the current political climate. It's heart breaking but what I am coming to realize is it's for the best. They aren't going to come around at least they haven't in my experience. Regarding the penis comment, it's the same argument men have used on me over the years. Well you like having strap on sex, how about the real thing? You just need a good dicking. I hate that I have to defend who I am attracted to. It's hard enough to try and find another femme who isn't poly (no offense but I don't share well), who is into femmes and doesn't believe all of this gender nonsense. I have come to realize it's a long shot for me to find someone and that makes me terribly sad but I try and find connection in other ways. By the way you aren't an idiot bigot.
Don't forget to check out Ovarit! by MonstrousRegiment in GenderCritical
I sent a PM yesterday and am anxiously awaiting an invite!
Spinster Name by EllaRoxy in GenderCritical
[–]EllaRoxy[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
So I am not a twitter person. But so far Spinster is all feminists from what I have seen. Join and lurk would be my advice!
1 year ago by EllaRoxy to /s/GenderCritical from self.GenderCritical
Pretty much 99.9% of people are "TERFS" by [deleted] in GenderCritical
[–]EllaRoxy 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
I am doing the same. Owning it. Solidarity. PS I am a lesbian who likes biological women only. I know T**f! Lol. I will see myself out. Lol
A Few Thoughts About Speaking Up
AgainstHateSubs basically admitting they had to get GC banned because it was peaking too many people. by BraveAndStunningTERF in GenderCritical
[–]EllaRoxy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago* (0 children)
So science is now hate speech? Lesbians wanting to date people that don’t have a penis is now hate speech?
We aren’t recruiting anyone, this sub is full of people that believe in common fucking sense.
I have no problem with Transpeople having rights. I have a problem with them calling me a bigot because I don’t want to fucking date them. I also don’t want fucking men in a locker room with me or bathroom. But I’m the crazy one? Lol
Peak trans: tell your story here by Sittingonarainbow in GenderCritical
[–]EllaRoxy 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago* (0 children)
I always lurked before but Reddit was the last straw for me. I peaked a long time ago when on several dating sites got called all kinds of nasty things because I am a lesbian and wanted to date another woman rather than a transwoman. The J.K. Rowling thing pushed me even further into being gender critical. I can't believe how many people on this sub think like me and I feel way less alone. I am peak left now too. I'm done with the name calling that happens when you don't agree with their view points. It's not all of them, but a whole hell of a lot of them. I just don't get how you can deny science. Identify how you like it doesn't make it true. I look forward to participating here.
Edit: After reading more I had no idea what the Cotton Ceiling was and all I can say is what the actual fuck? Word lesbian means attraction to the same sex, as in two women together. I don't even know what to say and as someone who is rarely speechless that did it.