Look at this abomination. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Its like catcalling. Its not about sex, its about power, and reminding who has the power. Its a huge flex on the real gays, who oppose all this. Its a testament of "we can colonise your spaces, we can perverse everything that is yours" sort of thing.

What do you think will be the catalyst that puts an end to the Trans Cult? by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

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Its not a fad, its not a mass psychosis, not a harmful ideology. Its a rebranded homophobia. Nothing has changed in the word. "Gay men have a hormon imbalance that makes them act like opposite gender" of the old is now "if you play with dolls you are a girl". Nothing about homophobia has changed. Heterosexuals are still the same heterosexuals, they still hate us to guts.

Transexualism is accepted this fast, because it confirms the heterosexual point of view about homosexuality. And its not really going to go away, like the slavery who became mass incarcaration / Jim Crow. It will only take newer and newer shapes. We will fight some more forever.

How Ovarit feels about homosexual parenthood by stunaep in LGBDropTheT

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To be honest, Radfems could channel their energy to heterosexuals, who are the lifeline of the industry. In true heterosexual solidarity they will never do that however. For gay men, surrogacy is a near impossibility unless you're famous and have a lot of money.

1) Be gay. (2-5% chance) 2) Live in a country that does not kill gay men for existing. (70 countries kill gay men) 3) Live in a country that has marriage equality. (Only 30 countries have gay marriage) 4) Live in a country that has adoption / parenting rights for gay men. (27 Countries) 5) Have enough money to pay for a surrogate and all the medical costs. (Gay men are overrepresented at homelessness / poverty)

Like if you can do this, congrats, you're one of the very, very few gay men who can even access this kind of thing. For me heterosexual surrogacy is even worse, because its about women refusing to get pregnant and relegating that to another poor woman. Last time I saw criticism of the heterosexual surrogacy which is the overwhelming majority of surrogacy, was like last year. Meanwhile slatzism and tumblrinas go buckwild on random gay men lol.

[Re-uploaded] Ovarit’s Treatment of Lesbians: Blatant Lesbophobic and Homophobic Rhetoric. Site-Wide Bans and Purges of Lesbian Members by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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This was my first post on saidit: https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/97bj/psychotically_homophobic_against_males_in/xvn7?context=3

Being gay (male) is like being a penguin. You're hated for being a bird (you're a man), but birds hate you because you can't fly (you're gay). I think the only group that understands this is the lesbians. And to be honest sometimes the worst homophobes come from radfems. This is because their ideology is about essentialism. "Men are bad. Gay men are men, they are also bad."

Most of the terminally online "feminists" are hellbent on proving gay men are evil, because that makes them feel good about loving their oppressors, in a literal sense. Thats why their cries about evil gay men invading womens bodies is so funny: honey, the most likely killers for women are 1) partner [58%!!!!!!!!] 2) father 3) family members 4) friends 5) strangers. They are all men, but none of them are gay. Gay men's relationship with women, just like lesbians relationship with men, is voluntary. I guess these women can't really handle a single demographic that is not chasing them for some reason. But oh yeah, they couldn't pull this off to heterosexual men, who hold the systemic power. I swear gay men are like punchbags in all places.

Lesbians also get the same treatment because it points out the biggest flaw in the feminist ideology: "if we can't fix men and murder them outright, what is to be done?" The only course of action is separation. I'm not even talking about female communes type of thing. I'm talking about women stopping makeup, doing what they want, not associating with men, having hobbies with other women etc. They hate us, because they can't be us basically.

r/gaytransguys complains about gay spaces being "overrun" with gay men by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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For great justice q*eer rights!

I swear, those black transwomen must've been working in the shadows! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Jesus Marsha died for your sins you heathens, accept Jesus Marsha into your hearts or face the catholic Queer inquisition. /s

r/lgbt - those transwomen of colour responsible for all our rights have now morphed into tranbians by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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This is just peak American narcissism exceptionalism. "X gave you your rights" no, you idiot, no one gave me my rights. My rights have always been the same. Human rights are granted for the merit of being a human, not through political activism. Every two consenting adults have the right to marry and found a new family, regardless of illegitimate laws prohibiting it. Right to get married is like one of the foundational human rights.

Even if we entertain the idea that gays being safe, having equal protection and the right to found new families were not human rights, it would still ignore the realities of many, many, many years spent by societies, ngo's, individuals to achieve equality. Like you can create a new mythos, new religion out of Marsha, but in the end, (even if we take those false records to be true) it wouldn't mean anything without an organised force behind it. These people think all those riots just came out of nowhere.

GAY LIBERATION IS OUR HOPES AND DREAMS, CONTRIBUTED BY MANY INVISIBLE FACES AND ORGANISATIONS STRIVING FOR THE SAME GOAL. Fuck off with your overly simplistic adolescent understanding of history and human rights.

Sunday Social - open chat! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I'm student-teaching to High Schoolers on English prep class (they spend the entire year learning English). They're lovely and I don't know why but I'm feeling much more like a teacher after 2 semesters of practicum courses. I'm feeling sad that I only have 5 more weeks with them.

Sadly gays are barred from being teachers (at least not without going back to the closet) in my country, so I don't think I'll be a teacher in the future. I like the job, but not enough to gamble my entire future into it. It wasn't like this before, but things are going worse and worse by day. When I was five, there were gay marriage on the TV, mind you that was a time only Holland and Belgium had marriage equality. Now you can murder gay people and get away with it. Its sad to see that your country gets more progressive the more you go back.

“I wish it need not have happened in my time," said Frodo. "So do I," said Gandalf, "and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”

Wtf by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I have my own dislike for LGB alliance. And even without all my criticism, its clear that they're repeating the same mistake their precedessors did by stringing together meaningless acronyms. But this is just edgy, not like sad edgy. This is transgressively edgy. Its like a suburban white boy who never had any experience of the world going into deep forums to shout n-word to strangers kind of behavior, but this time its publicly.

Sunday Social - open chat! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Teaching is a hell-job. I literally spent my entire week on a lesson plan and haven't done anything for myself. I'll probably have some wine and watch Firebird with my bf today. Idk, if the kids don't like this lesson on tuesday i'll probably go home and ugly cry forever.

r/gaytransguys gets their fee-fees hurt over how others use language by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Respectfully, i don't think so. Studies show that narcissism has links to increased aggression and violence, but from her narration this just seems to be peak female socialisation. You won't see an AGP or a HSTS acting this way. I think thats the funny thing about "gay trans guys" they don't exhibit neither gay nor male behavior. Even if they looked like a disney prince, their female socialisation would be a damning giveaway.

There are "two kinds of women", says "LGBT campaigner" who also believes there's no issue with adults having sex with children by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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He continued: “They are different, they are not the same, but both are equally valid.

Bringing back 'separate but equal' to own the transphobes. This is hilarious to read. I'd rather have someone repeat the TWAW mantra than go into metaphorical beliefs that 'thinking you're a woman makes you woman somehow'.

How trans activists exploit gay rights by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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No, but I wouldn't put it behind them if they did. Today's crazy is tomorrows 'reality'.

How trans activists exploit gay rights by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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They jumped at the possibility of a ban on conversion therapy despite the fact that practices like chemical castration, physical and psychological-aversion techniques, and even black-clad vicars praying away the gay, are for the most part consigned to the history books.

Not surprised, since they think Alan Turing was trans for getting chemically castrated. Its deranged and evil.

Gender-dysphoric children might have underlying mental-health problems, or have suffered sexual abuse, or have real and unanswered concerns about growing up as a member of their sex. They may have autism or have got caught up in social-media videos which appear to explain and give meaning to their difficulties.

Just say gay honey, are you afraid that hetties wouldn't care about gay kids? They don't.

Many children taken down the transition route today would, in the past, have grown up to be lesbian or gay. In this way, conferring a new gender identity on a child actually becomes a form of gay conversion therapy.

It's not many, its almost all. 97.5% of them grow up to be gay, to be exact.

they also do not want consenting adults to be able to opt to undergo gay conversion therapy. Yet again we see how today’s woke activists risk turning back the clock on the gains of earlier liberation movements. Denying gay adults the capacity to talk to whoever they want to about whatever they want is discriminatory, it denies gay people their agency and infantilises them in the eyes of the law.

I do not think this is a bad thing. Its like pushing people into suicide because not doing that would "infantilise" them. State can ban people from committing harm, including to themselves.

Edit to Clarify: Conversion therapy is torture. Torture is banned by many agreements, and go against the principles of the human rights. You can not 'consent' to torture, as much as you can not consent to sell yourself to slavery. You can not forgo of your human rights, even if you do not want them. Lets keep things that way.

So yeah, they're drinking pus and bodily discharges, now. by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

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This is not very inclusive of you. If your TTTT activism do not include: trans women, men, black men, white men, asian men, my cousins third uncle, hugh hefner, your maternal birthing parents car, your sister's gym teacher, incels, laundry detergent, my left eyebrow its not TTTT activism. /s (for obvious reasons)

We're LGB, not a melting pot of whims.

Not according to all 'tttt' organisations. Subversion and Institutional Capture lay groundwork for irreversible harm for too many. We had one chance at gay liberation without separation, and now its damaged for at least a few generations.

Alllllll the cutie lesbians by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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They colonise those places by saying "as a woman", and spreading their public charade of being a woman there. So it will be like "as a woman, i like watching hardcore porn with my bf" and when you click the profile it will be an AGP.

Community input requested! User flair updates by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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This is why I raised this issue to the mods. It was really weird for me to come the original drop the t and start seeing the toothpaste flag, got tumblr flashbacks. And funnilly even the toothpaste flag is not enough for the gender cult.

I remember being shocked at the time how quickly the "new" lesbian flag took off and was now available in a bunch of stores on various things.

I know lesbians do not like the gay flag being for gay men, but thats also how I felt when Baker's flag got replaced by toothpaste flag. It felt like we did not matter anymore, in our own movement.

Community input requested! User flair updates by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Since i don't want to dumpster dive into my 10k tumblr likes, It was like this, but they were linked like a chain, so something like:

f m f f m m

TBH, the male and female ones can be separate on their own, its up to the bi people here.

Community input requested! User flair updates by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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Bisexual symbol: we're using a combined male/female symbol, which has also been co-opted on the gender side of things to represent bi-gender, creating confusion at times. We could add the Infinity symbol, and/or differentiate between male and female.

I couldn't find it, but an old pride photo had a clever bisexual symbol so the male and female symbols but it was like chains and went like this: 'M MF F' representing all the bisexual combinations.

Sometimes we've tossed around the idea of adding "ally" flairs. This has overwhelmingly been voted AGAINST, but we're open to discussing it again, since we're potentially revamping anyway.

'Ally' culture ruined the mainstream 'lgbt' culture, no need to reinvent the wheel.


This term is the epitome of heterosexual narcissism for me. For the 'super'gays, all i can say is that we're the original gays, and we should not cede ground to the gender cult by defining ourselves out of our identities. Being a 'supergay' is a tautology on its own since there are no gays that are not attracted to men.

Sunday Social - open chat! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]ElectraHeart 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Here's a link to the original pride flag from 1978: https://i.imgur.com/RFdStLR.png

The flag flair that exists currently was approved by our gay men when the sub was originally created. Granted, there were far less users back then, so maybe more would like an update now. For quick reference: https://imgur.com/a/WMt4Pmf

I doubt many men spent their times on tumblr, much less have any knowledge of the flag discourse going back to 2017-9. So this link can be great for context:

https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Vincian https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:New_Gay_Pride_Flag.svg

This flag is inclusive of all gay men. This includes Aro, Questioning/Unsure, NB, Ace, & Gay men that are Gender Non Conforming, be you Masc, Fem, or Androgynous in any way! Same goes for gay men of any religious background," from gaymansflag

As I said, please be sure to check out the context behind this flag before making the post, as i'm pretty sure no one would actually want a blatant piece of gendie colonisation representing the sub. Thank you for listening!

Also on a very unrelated note: when am i going to get approved? i couldn't find any info on what constitutes as a 'new account'.

NB and trans people are destroying the internet and my marriage by Greykittymomma in LGBDropTheT

[–]ElectraHeart 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Any words of encouragement or even some ridiculous NB and trans stories will lighten my mood I hope.

You are a good mom, determined to do whatever you can to safeguard your daughter from the gender cult. Don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. If this means anything, I was there on tumblr when non-binary was becoming a thing, and i came to the radfem conclusion without even knowing a single word of radfemmery, at the age of 15. And i'm like not even bright or anything.

They may hate it, but its foucauldian that removing binaries only create new ones. Instead of the 'gender binary' now we have teh 'binary - nonbinary' binary. In their attempts to 'blur the lines', they only created new lines, which is hilarious.

She can call herself whatever she wants but liking boy toys and blue isn't getting her hormones, hating how society treats women isn't making her chop her tits off. I will divorce him instantly if he ever tries to trans my kid.

I know this is a light mood post, but keep in mind you will become the 'evilest mom in the universe' by preventing it. There was a father who had to resort to kidnapping his own son because her mom had custody since he was 'transphobic' and pushed his son to transition. I'd suggest caution. Being overt about this can ruin your legal chances in the future.

My 13 year old nonbinary child wants a dildo by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Sorry for the miscommunication, I meant the shame and stigma around porn culture and the likes. While I'm very anti-porn, I also do not care if people consume it, since its not like i can stop them or something. I just wish our culture did not put AGP's as the most oppressed minority for being pornsick. Pornsickness is quickly spreading and tbh, i'm worried about the next generations.

Sunday Social - open chat! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I do not want an extra flair, i just want to see the toothpaste flag gone. Its a tumblr invention and even its very existence is a testament to gender cult colonisation. If you don't want to use the rainbow flag for gay men, just use the Baker's 8 striped one with the extra colors for sex and magic. But the way it exists right now, feels hypocritical since only the gender cult uses the toothpaste flag for gay men anyways.

Toothpaste flag is known as the Vincian flag.

Vincian is one of multiple terms used to describe gay attraction to men, man-aligned or masculine-aligned individuals. Multiple definitions also include non-binary individuals who are not miaspec, such as individuals who experience neutral or even feminine-aligned genders.

It does not belong here.

My 13 year old nonbinary child wants a dildo by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Adult males were fathers of 24.3% of babies born to mothers aged 11-12 years. The mean age of fathers was 22.7 years. Adult males were fathers of 26.8% of babies born to mothers aged 13-14 years. Very young adolescent mothers who were foreign born were very likely to be involved with an adult male. Adult fathers were an average of 8.8 years older than very young mothers. Adolescent pregnancy prevention programs need to target adult men. [1]

Sometimes I miss the times of shame and social pressure. In their attempts at 'liberation', they caused the loss of every single one of our protective measures for children. First generation of people raised by porn-rotted brained parents. Unless we push back this creeping 'normalisation' of sexualisation of kids, its going to become worse and cause more and more harm. The average age of men involved in teen pregnancies are like in 20's, and jack shit is being done to prevent this. Instead what is done is giving them 'sex education' since 'they're going to get pregnant' anyways. How about protecting them? How about prosecuting the 'fathers'? Sometimes I feel like society just abandoned teenage girls to be abused by older men.

I fucking hate the fact that gender cult has people going around saying kids are kinky and other pedo shit, without any repercussions. This sort of events are just a result of this kind of thinking, and will become worse. We need to take action. Dworkin foresaw the reality about porn, and feminism failed to curtail the porn culture, now its normalised everywhere. We cannot fail again. [Also seeing all this made me realise how wise my mother was about protecting me against all these people.]

[1] Taylor, D. J., Chavez, G. F., Adams, E. J., Chabra, A., & Shah, R. S. (1999). Demographic characteristics in adult paternity for first births to adolescents under 15 years of age. The Journal of adolescent health : official publication of the Society for Adolescent Medicine, 24(4), 251–258. https://doi.org/10.1016/s1054-139x(98)00122-0

Sunday Social - open chat! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I started a substack, but I'm only reading articles for my posts right now. Also a question: why does this sub use the toothpaste flag for gay men? There are like a dozen better ones. I find it weird that lesbians have the labyrs flag while gays have the tumblr toothpaste flag made in 2019.

“I feel like a woman desperately pretending to be a man but failing.” by jjdub7 in LGBDropTheT

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You mutiliated your genitalia and now its like intersex people is like the greatest non-compliment / insult to intersex people and their issues. I wish they stopped claiming everything.

Oh, the affirmation she gets from those cis gays pursuing an hourglass figure by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Have you heard of uncanny valley? The uncanny valley is a term used to describe the relationship between the human-like appearance of a robotic object and the emotional response it evokes. In this phenomenon, people feel a sense of unease or even revulsion in response to humanoid robots that are highly realistic.

This is how I feel about FTM's. Even the most affluent and 'passing' ones leave me with revulsion, uneasiness that my brain screams "there is something wrong with this". Considering even babies can identify people by sex, getting affirmation from gay people having unhealthy beauty standards is not only super-creepy, its also stupid. Because even the most feminine of men, is still a man. I have never felt the same uncanny valley I felt with FTM's with them.

I wish they understood that men don't have fat on their bums, and women have fat (very simplifying for convenience). Our biology is so different that even if they achieved the perfect 'passing' shape, it would still look different.

Yaoi, Not Even Once by lunarstrain in LGBDropTheT

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I'm a little confused about how they came to these conclusions, haha. Most yaoi I've seen, like the Japanese stuff, is even more abusive than the average heterosexual relationship. I can think of a handful of titles that vividly feature rape right off the top of my head. That was the year Dramatical Murder was popular and that game is just gay rape porn. I read/watched a lot of yaoi when I was young because I thought that yuri was exclusively pornographic, and I wanted to see same sex relationships even if they weren't my sex. I had to stop reading/watching multiple series because of the blatant coercion/rape they showed.

I was talking mostly about the media there, rather than yaoi. Stuff like Glee, Modern Family, Destiel, Remus / Sirius, Drarry, Stiles / Derek etc. It was a time that networks tried their best to show optimism, and also because they did not want to draw criticism due to 'stereotyping' gay people. I was more involved with shipping, as I was like #1 Stucky shipper. I miss 2015 - 2016 as the glory days of gay activism, with marriage equality and relatively small number of gendie talk. I remember the hashtag #givecaptainamericaaboyfriend and even though i had the two brain cells to realise it was never going to happen, i cherish the memory of millions of tweets by all the gay people across the world. Sometimes i do wish we could turn back time.

So much hope i have lost on gay rights, but the battle goes on.

Heartstopper by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I looked up the creator of the show/comic and was thoroughly unsurprised to find that it's a woman who identifies as "aromantic asexual" and uses she/they pronouns. If she doesn't like boys or romance or sex, why did she create a story about gay boys falling in love!?

Its similar to Becky Albertelli coming out as bi to avoid being accused of "cishet women writing about gay men" even though being a bi woman is not any different than being a straight women and writing gays. But in the brainrot the cult experiences, being part of the cult is enough to be its priests. Call this a hot take, but i do not believe in aromantic asexuals and sort. I believe that we all have sexual orientations, regardless of having sex or not. I'm rather judgin her as I do the yaoi addicts, but with a different outcome. She rejects sex with the heterosexual men, whom she is attracted to, but also despise. Hence she can project her fantasies about heterosexual men to gay men. Romance is not something you can make the crux point of your book, without actually experiencing it.

As I said, I stopped watching the show after five minutes, so I don't actually know what happens. But I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that it presents a totally neutered version of homosexuality where the gays are more like cutesy puppy dogs than actual human beings.

I have no issue with this, when gay people write it. Glee in season two was amazing and lighthearted. I was 15 when i first watched it and always dreamed of a boyfriend like Blaine (which i got!). Growing up in a wildly homophobic country, Klaine was my hopes and dreams for the future. [And i'm forever angry to Ryan Murphy for bullying Chris Colfer!] So even though I despise the cult for their indoctrination of gay youth with their ideology, i'd rather want them to watch Heartstopper instead of Euphoria. Thats the thing, gay kids need to see cutesy stories. I hate this on the other hand. It leads to gays being treated like puppy dogs, as you said. There exists a generation of heterosexual young adults who have no idea how gay people work, except what they've seen on TV.

Y'know, the sort of thing a straight girl would write because she has literally no idea what it means to be gay or a man. If you've seen it, tell me if I'm wrong.

You're right. Remember when gendies bullied Malulani Moreno, a pacific-islander gay men for some gendie crap they pulled and got his book retracted? There is a reason why gay men are not writing romance books anymore.

I'm so tired...

Its always okay to take some time off, and focus on things you enjoy. This is not a blizzard, this is a long winter. As diva Gloria Gaynor said, we will survive.

r/lgbt knows exactly who is responsible for losing Roe v Wade by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Head mod, who kept the peace and warded of the cult via being distant got replaced by the two guys he brought in, and i do not trust the new two ones. They did not show their true colors (or i have not seen it), but the aura of the sub is rapidly changing from gc to gendie.

How will they get their kicks when there are no single-sex LGB spaces left to invade? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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They will never do this to straight men. Because unlike gay men, heterosexual men are dangerous, and they also run the entire show. Thats why despite all their claims of a 'trans genocide', they never advocate for anything that might actually harm heterosexuals. Hell, even the most random supersexual stuff blew up in a single day more than anything radfems, gc or drop the t could achieve in years. Supersexuals never had any ideology, any rallying cries, anything at all. But look at the cultural capital they had. The backlash was so visible that it was for a long time the first time i saw gendies afraid of losing their hegemony over the discourse. Talking over gay people is easy. Gay people are marginalised, and distanced from the sources of power. Heterosexuals? They're would tear apart the entire house of cards they built in a single day. Not that they care about women or gay people, they would do it for their dicks or something, hence why the issue is always 'gay men don't eat my neovagina' and never 'heterosexual men don't allow trans people into their porn subs' or 'heterosexual men do not see us as real women'.

They were able to talk over us because unlike heterosexual men, we were kind and open minded, and they took advantage of our desire to be open minded. There exists no other demographics other than women and gays that they can pull something like this. Its the reason why transracialism do not exist, while race, when compared to sex, is less of a material reality. So in the end, it will end up like how all rot ends: they will ruin everything and then will be unable to find new hosts to plague.

Iddly Diddly, Strictly Dickly by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

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I wish there was a place for discussions like these.

r/lgbt knows exactly who is responsible for losing Roe v Wade by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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gay male subs

no such thing exists. the last bastion askgaybros fell a few days ago, getting institutionally captured. it was a long time coming, since gendies were really over the top with their brigading.

If you dare criticize the trans ideology, you're hurting the gay/lesbian movement. by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

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Something that lingers in my mind that a comment i saw on ovarit saying that the 'asexual' stuff they're pushing is just a cover for the harm they caused so when these kids grow up to realise the lies they were told, they'll hit them with its the allosexuals oppressing you, you were asexual all along. I don't know how valid this claim is, but something i've thought about much.

If you dare criticize the trans ideology, you're hurting the gay/lesbian movement. by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

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This is just five geek social fallacies. Especially the first rule. Ostracizers Are Evil. This kind of thinking created all of the weird / horrifying subcultures like incels, mgtow's, mra's and the gender cult (this is one of the reasons, not the only one). What it does is that it creates a hugbox where everyone gets infected with the same radicalisation, and get more and more insane as the purity spiral descends.

Here's a link for the article, its worth a read: https://plausiblydeniable.com/five-geek-social-fallacies/

So oblivious. by elpk1313 in LGBDropTheT

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I blame the desire for validation from heterosexual people early-2010s gays craved desperately. I do not blame for this, since they were too hampered by the heterosexist society and wanted to see heterosexual people who didn't hate their guts. Some believed the more, the merrier. But in the end, it only ended up drowning our voices, as we constantly tone-policed our voices to not hurt their 'feelings'. So they were free to come and play the saviour and silence us, while having no skin on the game.

Offensive Asshole Hetero Colonizer on r/actuallesbians(will get banned!!) posts about his hetero relationship and child he fathered!!! Look what our daughter made for us at daycare! 🥺😍😭 by hufflepuff-poet in LGBDropTheT

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I think thats the worst part of it. Being mocked by your oppressor, on a place thats supposed to be yours. I was very anti-ally (culture) back in the day, but found it harmless. Now that I think of it, inclusion of heterosexual 'allies' was a mockery of the gay movement from the start. Its like all those times, they were just laying the seeds for the future subversion and derailment of gay liberation. Never again i guess.

Yaoi, Not Even Once by lunarstrain in LGBDropTheT

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I don't know if i'm allowed to say this, but i always felt sad (not pity) for the yaoi gendies and hsts's. I was in Tumblr for a long time, since 2014 if i'm remembering correctly. I was there when all these gender nonsense started to pile up. In its essence, its just the tumblr model. Heterosexual girls in tumblr went from tolerance to glorification to appropriation to fanaticism. Now we're at the last stage, intolerance. Make no mistakes: they deserve to be in the prison they've built for themselves. But in the end, the heterosexual women's obsession with yaoi is just a reflection on how bad heterosexual men are.

If you were on tumblr when the "glorification" of gay men were ongoing, with mood / stimboards, kiss scenes, shipping wars, you'd understand it. Gays were thoughtful, caring, passionate and all that good traits, since media was too busy with "good representation". In contrast, these gendies started dating men, and saw the stark reality that is heterosexual men. Then they went "what if i had a boyfriend who is caring, passionate etc" and believed that the gay mens representation in the media (including yaoi) was actually the truth. I have a female friend that thinks gay men live like the manu rios couple in elite because she only consumes netflix content. And when she told me she wanted to go to a gay bar I was shocked. Like, its not whats shown on netflix girl.

Hence why I feel sad for them, they're women without any class consciousness. They will never admit that they are not gay men for liking caring and loving boyfriends but because they can't find a heterosexual men who won't degrade them. This still does not justify all the tricks they pulled off however, as they were the original gender priests for the cult, long before AGP men showed up.

Extreme Homophobia on Ovarit (the norm) by stunaep in LGBDropTheT

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This is a great video on the topic from a lesbian radfem perspective.


Psychotically homophobic (against males) in aleatory Ovarit topic by jamescherry in LGBDropTheT

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If I had a penny for every time a homophobe radfem grasped the thinnest straws to put dirt on gay men, i'd be very rich. Here's the disclaimer for the manifesto:

"In 1987, Michael Swift was asked to contribute an editorial piece to GCN, an important gay community magazine, although well to the left of most American gay and lesbian opinion. A decade later this text, printed in the Congressional Record is repeatedly cited, apparently verbatim, by the religious right as evidence of the "Gay Agenda". The video Gay Rights, Special Rights, put out by Lou Sheldon's Traditional Values Coalition cites it with ominous music and picture of children. But when the religious rights cites this text, they always omit, as does the Congressional record, the vital first line, which sets the context for the piece. In other words, every other version of this found on the net is part of the radical right's great lie about gay people.

This essay is an outré, madness, a tragic, cruel fantasy, an eruption of inner rage, on how the oppressed desperately dream of being the oppressor."