Pride month on a gay gamer discord server must be about... Gaming? Gay? Lesbian" Bisexual? --- How about the "TGX community" needs more attention!

CatsOrGoHome · 2023-06-05T03:40:42+00:00

TGX?! I give up. I can't keep up. I identify as a boomer now.

CatsOrGoHome · 2022-09-28T21:30:00+00:00

Wild that they can't muster any empathy for us but expect it from us.

CatsOrGoHome · 2022-02-01T23:57:57+00:00

While nonbinary is sometimes abbreviated as NB, that abbreviation was in actuality coined by Black activists to refer to non-Black — or “NB” — people of color when discussing their experiences of racism. Rather than co-opting this term, ENBY is seen by many as the better acronym choice.

Oh, but they can co-opt woman, lesbian, and any other letter convenient to them? The double standards, I swear.

CatsOrGoHome · 2021-09-06T13:02:59+00:00

Facts. The word sapphic being used instead of lesbian makes me mad just as much as lgbtq+. People should just say it is either lesbian or bisexual rep when it is to make it easier for those particular communities to find but they don't want us to since they want to be "inclusive" by making it hard for us and therefore being the opposite of what they claim to be.

CatsOrGoHome · 2021-02-23T21:31:51+00:00

Wow. Can't believe I'm 56.25% straight. This is news to me. Guess I should have picked more of the cringe answers. No wonder they treat us like a little fanclub. Those questions were difficult to answer as no gay person wrote those.

CatsOrGoHome · 2021-02-22T17:48:25+00:00

My annoyance is that, even in so called “lesbian spaces” I have to be thinking of who is actually lesbian and who is not because everyone else already went so far at turning ‘lesbian’ into political statement, hobby, fetish, moral choice, trauma cope, sexy attention magnet or whatever. It seems lesbianism is everything but female homosexuality. Lesbians are not only rare on “open world” they are also rare on “lesbian spaces”, that’s the annoying depressing thing. But of course, it’s too politically incorrect so you to ever say it out loud.

This right here and the rest of what you said have summarized what I feel too. People here are assuming you are attacking rape victims when you are criticizing the fact a lot of "lesbians" just have a problem with men due to their trauma. I know this is a general internet problem, but I wish people here would get some basic reading comprehension. If you are an actual lesbian, you would immediately understand what she is trying to say.

CatsOrGoHome · 2021-02-14T01:58:58+00:00

The funny part of that thread is that they focus on the most tiny, obscure, crazy people that even we don't agree with, a minority among us, but when we question them on what insane things they say, a majority among them, they say that is just a few people. They always accuse us of the things they do.

CatsOrGoHome · 2021-02-09T05:17:54+00:00

and the internet does not provide a terribly good one.

Facts. I think lesbians in particular would benefit from getting away from the internet from time to time. I have to because otherwise I'd go crazy. The internet breeds insecurity into us and it is not healthy.

CatsOrGoHome · 2021-01-30T05:42:09+00:00

Hell yeah!! I support all tall women, whether they’re cis or normal!! Trans rights!!

I'm sorry but that just made me laugh then cringe. These people really think their male selves are comparable to tall women. Also insulting to Resident Evil tall vampire lady. She looks like a tall chick, not a dude. Otherwise the internet wouldn't be freaking out over her.

CatsOrGoHome · 2021-01-26T06:13:34+00:00

Honestly, between the mods deleting things that either shouldn't have been or just things they disagree with and the people here that constantly fight over petty reasons are why this place is dead. It is a very hostile place and one of the reasons I've stopped posting. Why can't everyone here just get along and act like adults?

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-12-05T20:42:05+00:00

It makes sense for them to have that cartoony villain view when they spend everyday thinking it is them versus the world.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-12-04T22:24:22+00:00

True. I'm surprised they didn't remove the post since it paints their community in a bad light when you analyze everything.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-12-04T21:59:50+00:00

we are infiltrating spaces of gay men without them noticing and when they do it's too late

They are now doing what they did to lesbians and women. Sad times.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-10-26T22:24:35+00:00

It always feels weird in any lesbian space other than this one. You will usually see either the stereotypical hyper sexualized stuff straight men like or you will see a completely desexualized depiction of two women together that looks more like a friendship than a relationship. It is depressing.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-10-25T12:41:04+00:00

Something interesting to note is that all the definitions there were all posted on March 7, 2019 by different people. Definitely fishy.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-10-18T20:31:00+00:00

Did I write this? Lol. Same. I was happy in fandom, then I peaked and realized even "queer" fandom is homophobic. I try to stay out of it as best I can.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-10-18T19:29:41+00:00

Mood. I was just casually reading Supergirl fanfics and there were so many where at least one woman had a penis.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-10-11T05:12:08+00:00

I don't use it but this place seems to be kind of dead. We use to have multiple posts per day. Probably why the lounge isn't active either.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-10-08T03:57:53+00:00

These people are ridiculous. What does trans have anything to do with this movie? It would make more sense and mean more to have gay men do it and have them be racially diverse. I love how they are honest about "queering a classic" though.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-10-03T13:47:01+00:00

I have a strong dislike for that fox dude anytime I see his posts. Ugh.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-30T12:16:51+00:00

Sounds like she is either bi or one of those lesbians that like to shame lesbians who would be considered goldstars because of their own trauma. Either way, she sounds like a mess to be honest.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-21T15:09:15+00:00

I guess mine would be Butters and Kenny from South Park.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-17T04:15:37+00:00

I've been looking forward for this game since I saw the leaks. I hope they have it for pc too, not like I will be able to run it by the looks of it, but still...

I'll end up in Ravenclaw, always have been. I hope it functions like an rpg and we can romance characters.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-16T10:00:50+00:00

I agree with you. It is puzzling for sure with the comphet posts, I hate talk of that anyway.

We should be able to post the things you are talking about because we have no other place. We already had one person who use to post regularly leave due to it, I believe. Sad.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-16T09:27:27+00:00

I've noticed the censorship too with things and comments by people being removed that aren't bad or even controversial. I wish the mods would stick to just deleting clear trolls or non lesbians and leave it at that.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-11T22:58:34+00:00

I feel you. I roll my eyes at most of the things the community applauds for representation. I never like the ones they like. She-ra is one I do because I can easily look passed the queer stuff with the gc perspective.

I wish we could be depicted as normal people under this current climate. Recently, I've started to watch one show I watched when I was little called Stargate Universe. One of the characters was a lesbian and I think this was the first show I ever saw with lesbians in it. It wasn't central to her character and she was just like everyone else in the show. Can we please get back to being seen as that and not the empty virtue signaling the queers like?

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-11T20:09:23+00:00

It was nice to read the comments and for once not see a bunch of transbian flairs.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-04T08:18:15+00:00

Sadly, no for both. I've heard of girls asking on the internet about how to show a girl you are a lesbian though. She might be following that advice, even if it is pretty stereotypical.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-04T07:17:50+00:00

It certainly seems like she is interested. You should go for it!

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-04T06:53:26+00:00

I wouldn't be surprised if it was.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-09-04T06:45:02+00:00

They are called cuckoo birds. I've compared them to that myself too.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-08-28T17:56:50+00:00

Since I am a short 5'1'' it is very likely of finding someone taller than me, which is also what I prefer. I wouldn't be against someone about my height though.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-08-26T23:28:35+00:00

Unfortunately, the same people who think lesbian is a dirty word are the same people who usually like to call themselves non binary, so the woman example probably wouldn't make them see reason.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-08-22T18:44:18+00:00

Second this. It is weird that people can't separate the two. They may go together when discussing certain topics, but they are not the same and shouldn't be treated as such.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-08-13T06:49:57+00:00

That is a hard question. Not because I like everything but because I hate most food. I guess either lobster or chips if it means I'm not restricted to one kind.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-08-11T19:21:03+00:00

Political lesbians can step on a million legos for all I care. They are the reason lesbians aren't taken as seriously as gay men. They are part of the reason we have problems now. I will always hate them for the damage they have done and are still doing. My sexuality is not political, it just is.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-08-06T15:49:42+00:00

I'm afraid to ask, but what does cottage core lesbian and sword lesbian mean?

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-08-04T06:35:19+00:00

I feel you. When I peaked I basically peaked lgbt. I was so upset by the amount of brainwashing I had been exposed to and disappointed in myself for retweeting harmful things about my own community. The amount of gaslighting we are treated with is unbelievable. Every single letter and their mother hates lesbians with so much passion and vitriol, that it feels like getting hit by a car when you realize. Lesbians are constantly fed that everything is unicorns and rainbows in our community by people pretending to be us, that lesbians think it is and can't believe when it is not so and wake up to the abuse we receive.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-08-04T05:49:01+00:00

Yikes at that entire thread. While some had some self-awareness, they'd then start to be lesbophobic. :/ If you only are ranting about your hate for men and not your love of women, lesbians are going to pick that up and run for the hills. We avoid those bisexuals like the plague, not just the ones who cheat.

Also, lol when she admitted she'd vet bi women for the same reasons we do. That is the real reason bisexuals complain when we don't date them, though most would never say it.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-20T18:17:11+00:00

I've played a couple books on it. None have really stood out to me as far as the relationships are concerned. The Royal Romance series of books was alright. I haven't completed the last book to it but felt Hannah didn't get as much attention as the guys the game kept throwing at you.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-19T20:09:22+00:00

They do it because they clearly don't pass and want an easy way into our community without getting called out as men. What easier way than to steal yet another of our words? I'm tired.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-18T02:14:55+00:00

I don't collect anything in real life, just in games. I usually download mods for games like Fallout and Skyrim that add items I can find when I'm doing a playthrough.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-16T03:35:54+00:00

The fanfics were... interesting, to put it mildly. Lol.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-16T01:24:16+00:00

That is really funny. I use to read Harry Potter fanfics and Hermione and Ginny were a popular femmeslash ship. Hermione and Bellatrix too for some reason.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-15T15:24:46+00:00

I knew I liked girls as far back as my earliest memories when I thought Emma Watson and a girl in kindergarten were pretty. Even though I knew 100 percent I was only into girls, I called myself bisexual because of pressure and wanted to believe I might eventually find a guy cute. I never did and gave up that crazy pipe dream and started to embrace calling myself a lesbian in 8th grade.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-14T00:22:45+00:00

It looks really entertaining from the scenes I've seen. Also, I have a crush on the actress who plays Wynonna after watching her in Ready Or Not. What can I say, I'm a hopeless lesbian. Lol.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-14T00:03:47+00:00

That we are vegans. I'm not but I am a vagitarian. Close enough, I suppose.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-13T07:47:56+00:00

I have not actually watched it yet, but I believe Wynonna Earp has two lesbian characters in a relationship together.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-12T08:36:09+00:00

I remember looking her up a week ago after seeing trans people complaining about her. Had to roll my eyes by what I found from articles and links to tweets. All that anger over her being both rightwing and a lesbian. I may disagree with her politics, but she has every right to them and shouldn't have lost her job. It's gross how they stalk people's lives for anything they don't agree with.

CatsOrGoHome · 2020-07-11T07:18:13+00:00

I was a lurker on TL for over a year but never made a reddit account. It was nice to see I wasn't alone with my thoughts. I'm in my early 20s. I love cats, fantasy and science fiction tv/books, and very confused how this site even works. Lol.

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