If you don't want to suck dick, you're not a lesbian. by Elvira95 in LGBDropTheT

[–]CandyUwU 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Re-sending my comment because it was deleted:

That's just your opinion. You're labelling me based on your opinion that "sexuality can not change", while I believe I changed from "bisexual" to "lesbian" and got rid of any "attraction" to the opposite-sex.

Also, you won't allow people? I mean this level of megalomaniac talking is simply too stupid to be taken seriously.

Someone has to be in power. The people with their "straight" agendas are for now, and that is to change. The goal should be a society in which only gay desires persist. There is no room for the sickening "straight" lifestyle and those who engage in it. The so-called "straights" would be treated as openly gay people have been treated throughout history at the hands of so-called "straights": like filth.

If you don't want to suck dick, you're not a lesbian. by Elvira95 in LGBDropTheT

[–]CandyUwU 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Re-sending my comment because it was deleted:

And yet we see homosexual primates, birds, cats and other animals, who are refusing to mate with opposite sex even if they "are on heat" and only want to mate with same sex. Female bonobo even have tribadism among their lesbians, who only want to have sex with other females.

That's not "sexuality". That's same-sex activity. "Sexuality" is "sexual feelings and thoughts toward another". That requires a level of consciousness other species do not have.

Humans are not "special" and of course other species engage in same-sex activities. But I wouldn't claim other species are so-called "straight" or "gay". They don't care about who and what they do it with.

Humans are sadly at a level of consciousness that was a huge mistake. At least a dog doesn't care about what they hump. They hump a pillow, leg, anything, while humans have become "self-conscious" and judgmental, hating on their gay desires, and so on.

There are certain things humans sadly have, that other species don't. Other species can not be homophobic, while humans are homophobic. Other species don't have "sexualities", while humans do.

It is same, as we can't chose it. Your own bisexual experience is just your own and it is different to experience of homosexual people. Yet you are calling that "you have chosen to be homosexual" and then "bi"explaining homosexuality to homosexual people and saying that our whole life of experience is just wrong and we actually never had it, but you know better. Just same way as transwomen mansplaining to women what it is to be a woman and how they have chosen to be one.

You act like you know better. You don't. Why are you talking over my experiences? You don't know anything about me. And if I'm going to take some random stranger on the internet at their word that they are gay, it's only fair for you to accept my feelings on the matter that I am not "bisexual".

The "bisexual" man in your example is still attracted to men. I am not. I have changed so that I am only attracted to my same-sex, other women. That's not what a "bisexual" is. Which part of that do you not understand?

how exactly society is pushing to be gay? Especially somewhere like in Iran or Taliban ... Are homosexual people there just liking extreme pain and don't value their own lives?

Taliban is a group of islamic people, not a country.

I'm from a muslim country in which openly gay people would be at least imprisoned. I cautiously resist the government, and oppose islam not to end up in prison. I would write on walls that "Allah doesn't exist" and bring up atheism in university classes before lockdown. Now all of my opposition is online, till next semester (I'm 24 by the way).

I may value my "life". But the red faces of homophobes that want one to choose the "straight" lifestyle, seeing me do the opposite, is lovely. It is a slap in their faces, just as my atheism is a slap in their faces.

I have even encouraged my sisters to find girlfriends and they did, cautiously so, hiding behind "it's just friends being friends" not to be caught. I chose to be gay, and I'm happy with it.

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[–]CandyUwU 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why should I find it creepy when I don't?

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[–]CandyUwU 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not born with a penis. I know "trans women" are men and "trans men" are women. You don't need to teach me biology 101.

Do you understand that words are not inherently "derogatory"?

If you don't see a word as something negative, it stops being "offensive".

I'm a lesbian. Sometimes people use the word "gay" as an insult. "Omg that's so gay", by which they mean "it's weird" and "it's gross". Does that mean I shouldn't use the word gay? No. I reclaim it. Are black people "stupid" for reclaiming the N word? No. It's racist of you to think their reclaiming of the word is "stupid".

Words that describe us, and our anatomy should not have negative connotations.

"Pussy" refers to our anatomy. Why do you allow people to use it as a slur? To define it as "coward"? All you're doing is send the misogynistic message you want to avoid. Give the word a positive connotation. Be brave enough so the word does not break you, and stop feeling offended. That's what TQ+ do, always feeling offended. I've met TQ+ that think the word "woman" is offensive. That's what you sound like. Are you going to stop using the word "woman"? I hope not.

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[–]CandyUwU 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

incredibly stupid shit afterwards.

I've already corrected the wording in the comment.

But if replacing "area" with "organ" gets your knickers in a twist, you need therapy. You want to play this word game? I'll play the word game.

Definition of organ: a part of an organism which is typically self-contained and has a specific vital function.

Vulva serves a function and is self-contained. Technically, it is an organ. To take it further, vulva consists of multiple organs. It is "organs", in plural. Not "organ". There. Oh, and here's a woman, a doctor, calling vulva "organs": https://www.news-medical.net/health/What-is-the-Vulva.aspx

The vulva is the external genital organs ...

Apparently, "that's not a woman, a woman should know better uwu"? Of course not. Get off your high horse.

If you are going to be an arrogant grammar nazi and pretend it makes you smarter and better than someone

You were the one who first told me to "eat a bowl of alphabet soup, you might actually learn something".

My "eat a grammar manual" was to counter that.

Not only is reclaiming words incredibly stupid and pointless, because you are just giving assholes free reign in using it, but you don't have the right to reclaim words in name of half the population.

No word is inherently "bad", "offensive" or "derogatory". If I see the word "pussy" as a positive or neutral word, then it is a positive or neutral word.

Not to mention language changes and evolves, usually to the point that the new meaning of a word would be radically different from the original usage.

Take the word "fun". Fun was first a verb meaning "to cheat". It came from fon, an old word for "fool". It retains some of that sense in "make fun of", but now also means "a good time".

Your "reclaiming words is stupid" goes against the evolution of language. One day, the word "pussy" would stop being derogatory, just like other words stopped having "negative" connotations.

I'm not waiting 10 years for that to happen. I'm doing that now, reclaiming the word and giving it a positive connotation, because frankly, I do not get offended when someone calls me a "pussy". Doesn't matter if it's an insult. I wouldn't feel insulted by the word.

You know what's incredibly stupid and pointless? You telling us women what we should be offended by.

You want to say pussy? You will be judged and looked down at by women , deal with it.

I would like to hear from other women.

Are you a woman? No? Then zip it.

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[–]CandyUwU 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Sigh. I'm so late to this nonsense.

Vulva is the outer area of the genitals that includes the organs of labia and clitoris. We're not in a science class. Why do you care that I call it an organ, not an area consisting of a few organs?

Many women don't even know where their clitoris is. Not that it has any effect on their womanhood.

I don't become "not a woman" for calling vulva an organ, and not an area.

No woman with self respect would actually use such a term especially to insult other women

There's such a thing called reclaiming words. Look it up. I'm reclaiming "pussy". It may have been a pejorative, but is being brought back into acceptable usage.

Black people calling each other the N word is considered brave, not "internalized racism". Reclaiming "pussy" is no different, and can not be "internalized misogyny". You don't get to stop women from reclaiming "pussy".

You probably are one pretending to be a woman on the internet.

Are you a man or a woman? Who do you think you are to speak on behalf of women if you're not a woman?

If you're a man, do you have proof? If you're a woman, do you have proof? Photos would be nice. Unless you want me to take you at your word that you're a man or a woman, in which case it would be hypocritical to not take me at my word when I tell you I'm a woman.

u/Vulptex

I'm not sure how you deal with u/NeedMoreCoffee without losing it.

Your patience is admirable.

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[–]CandyUwU 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

because there isn't an "American" race

Yep. America is home to people of many ethnicities. As a result, Americans do not equate nationality with race/ethnicity.

For the sake of the argument, let's point to the largest ethnicity in America. The majority of Americans are ethnically white, with the European origin. I think the reason they do not learn other languages to this extent must be lack of motivation, and not genes themselves.

There may be an element of racism sometimes, especially among the white supremacists. Discrimination would creep in to their behaviors, and they would not bother with other languages.

I'm asian, and asian families tend to be strict, being highly invested in ensuring the success of each member, even if it's something as small as learning other languages, e.g. the English language.

If American families were as strict, pushing each other to learn other languages, America would be very different for sure!

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[–]CandyUwU 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This ^

This is what I mean by "pussy worshipper". You took the words out of my mouth!

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[–]CandyUwU 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you for the heartwarming compliments OP! 😊

English is not fearsomely difficult for me. I hated English during my teenage years, and gradually had to change my attitude because English is the international language of science, and many other key areas. One of the hardest parts of English was exceptions to the rules. Right when I got to grips with a rule, an exception came along to shatter it by contradicting it. Learning English is not only a question of learning the rules. It’s about learning the numerous exceptions to the rules that may make it troublesome to apply existing knowledge later on.

If other languages are more difficult for English speakers, it may be the new concepts in them that English speakers never had to use.

Don't be too hard on yourself! People are different, and becoming accustomed to another language isn't for everyone.

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[–]CandyUwU 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I hope she doesn't come back to you. She should pursue someone who respects her and her wishes, not someone who sees her as a "servant" or "slave".

If she comes back to you, she has no respect for herself and that's sad.

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[–]CandyUwU 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Does not change the fact that you refer to women as pussy. You got issues.

No? "Pussy worshipper" refers to someone who worships "pussy" or vulva as the source of their "meaning". The "pussy" in it doesn't refer to the word "woman", but the area* itself. And when someone calls you out on being a "pussy worshipper", they mean you do anything for the area* called "pussy", that you're the one with issues. There are better things out there that can provide you with "meaning" and "pleasure". Your existence shouldn't revolve around "pussy".

English is only my 4th language. I'm sure you understand that with a fourth language the grammar can be a bit off right Candy? :)

English is my third language. I still try so my grammar is not off Coffee :)

Understandable you may have issues with the English grammar. All languages are difficult in their own way.

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[–]CandyUwU 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

This is gross, and has nothing to do with the conversation ...

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[–]CandyUwU 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

May I ask if you believe in "free will"? If you do, and if there is such a thing as "free will", you can go against the instincts, the brain, and the socialization. It may be difficult at first, but it can be done, as long as there is motivation.

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[–]CandyUwU 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

All i've proven is that i don't want to refer to women as "pussy" because it is misogynistic.

Would you have preferred "woman worshipper"? That can be adjusted to your liking.

I wish you would eat a bowl of alphabet soup, you might actually learn something.

Says someone who fits their entire vocabulary into one sentence, two sentences at most.

Why don't you at least eat a grammar manual and learn to capitalize the words in your sentences?

It should be:

All I*'ve proven

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[–]CandyUwU 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

See? If women are criticized, for whatever we do, it's "misogynistic". If a woman tells men not to go around worshipping us, that there is more out there for them than "pussies", it's "internalized misogyny". You've proven OP's point that society discriminates against men, and never cares about their voices.

I could eat a bowl of alphabet soup and vomit out a smarter statement than whatever you have said, seriously.

Do me a favor and leave my "mother" and non-existent "grandmother" out of the conversation.

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[–]CandyUwU 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Is a woman not allowed to call someone out on being a pussy worshipper? It's a term I learned from having read MGTOW threads multiple times before to become familiar with the movement, and it fits you perfectly.

"Men use xyz term" --> "woman uses the same term" --> "is questioned if she is a woman in the first place"

Misogynistic much? Just because I use the term "pussy worshipper" when you call whoever you meet an "incel" doesn't mean I'm not a woman.

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[–]CandyUwU 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

If you have it so bad go out and protest and do something about it instead of sitting on the internet blaming women that you are miserable.

You're confusing me with the other people you were arguing with before. I'm a woman, as I mentioned.

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[–]CandyUwU 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I never meant to disagree with you OP. You're right that we women may have it bad, but men have it worse.

We have done a great job addressing the discrimination that has kept women subject to various ideologies for years, but no one has addressed the discrimination men face, and what they go through. It is important to remember that men are under social pressures and have sexist expectations put on them by society, the society that wants men to cater to women.

MGTOW provides men with the right solution, for men to stay away from women in every aspect, especially because society is not kind to fix the issue.

Don't let the words of others who bash the MGTOW movement get to you, okay? Believe in your own path. And know that there are people like me who support you and the MGTOW movement.

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[–]CandyUwU 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Well documented fact. Divide and conquer.

Not everything is a war.

Some of the MGTOW don't represent all of them.

Exactly, which is why "MGTOW is a bad movement, because some MGTOWs said xyz" makes no sense.

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[–]CandyUwU 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"Stop playing like a victim" is all you have got. Why don’t you try and fix yourself instead of trying to put MGTOWs down?

We women may not have easier "lives". Doesn't mean most of the criticisms MGTOWs have of society and the way it treats men are not valid. Pay attention to their voices, or leave. You're wasting your time, and contributing nothing to the conversation.

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[–]CandyUwU 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Globalists want to turn men and women against each other

Conspiracy nonsense

so we don't unite and discover our true power

There's no "true" power. What is this? Some "superhero" movie in which "forces" unite to fight?

Feminism exists because women were treated as no little more than breed slaves with no rights to vote, inherit, own property, open bank accounts, etc

I agree we women have it hard. Misogyny is ingrained in society. And men treat women terribly.

But I also see the MGTOW side. I don't agree with every single thing. Some of them would claim stupid things like "don't let women vote" or "have women stay in the kitchen". I just agree most women are manipulative, mainly psychologically, that society has the backs of women even when they commit terrible acts, while tossing men aside, and making them do extremely "excruciating" jobs that women would never want to do themselves. Sexism affects both men and women.

I'm all for men actually going their own way, and staying far away from us women, so that men can have their true "freedom". My only wish is they recognize our rights, do not be misogynistic, and do not expect women to stay in the kitchen and mop the floor for them. MGTOW is a good, necessary movement, that is misinterpreted.

Please get out of your bubble and understand both sides 🤷‍♀️

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[–]CandyUwU 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

If they are an "incel", then you're a pussy worshipper, which is gross 🤷‍♀️