I hate this hostile and dystopian world - how to cope?

BlueFrost · 2023-02-01T20:36:27+00:00

I have thoughts about wanting to find like-minded family and people so we can find our own physical community together, and figure out how to create parallel institutions to the ones already in society but have been ruined or weakened. Yes, people will try to destroy and attack us, so we have to account for that too. Still, I think it might be the only way conservatives and associated ilk can ever achieve a feeling of victory in the modern world.

BlueFrost · 2023-01-31T22:10:45+00:00

I am told by some people in my life that one solution is to just live my own life and not care what other people think. But what if I don't want to just be alone and want company? And what if that company is crap or all sheep? What is the answer to this paradox?

BlueFrost · 2023-01-31T05:12:23+00:00

One of the silver linings if their is one is that I am not alone.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-29T17:29:09+00:00

I still hope to find a group of people that want to recreate a "normal" life as much as possible. Everything else in society treats us like shit, every major influence and institution is controlled by people who are less than good and it's a lonely feeling. Why can't it be the other way around sometimes? I grew up loving to watch TV and movies to be later frustrated that ~90-95% are progressive. There will never be a rich or influential right-wing or centrist.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-24T20:10:32+00:00

I wish I was born 1-2 generations earlier.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-17T20:38:26+00:00

There's something aesthetically ugly about modern/flat-screen TVs. It's like modern cars vs. Classic cars.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-17T20:35:55+00:00

Yep, I enjoyed the 90s but as a child only. I still remember VHS and I still have a hobby for VCRs to this day, I see it as even more so special today.

On the other hand, the millennials are one of the most woke/liberal generations socially and politically.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-17T20:15:05+00:00

You also don't need to have a computer or smartphone every yard or so, a single internet cafe will suffice if one has to use it.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-17T20:13:24+00:00

I'm not opposed to chains, I know chains also existed but they were regional.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-17T20:12:24+00:00

And everything you see, hear, eat, do is just the same few companies too. I wish I remembered that time when ABC wasn't owned by Disney or every few major store wasn't just another Wal-Mart. I love the regional differences.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-17T20:09:48+00:00

I think it is maybe the only realistic solution at this point in time.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-17T20:08:42+00:00

Probably find a relatively large less populated area in or outside the US.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-17T20:06:35+00:00

Tapes were cool even if they were technologically inferior.

BlueFrost · 2022-08-16T23:13:42+00:00

I still want to move to a like-minded community though.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-21T20:00:04+00:00

For good or bad.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-19T17:39:57+00:00

That's the kind of feeling I have.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-19T17:35:26+00:00

Religions were intended for man to try to get to know God on earth.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-19T03:41:44+00:00

Old Testament is pretty awesome.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-19T01:07:15+00:00

Russia isn't wholly White, there are Whites and other ethnic groups living together there.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-19T00:44:36+00:00

Thank you whoever made this post. I hate the modern phone interface look.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-19T00:37:30+00:00

What is funny is that even though the church still seems to officially claim that sex outside of marriage is immoral, a lot of otherwise good Christian women are decidedly liberal about it. Think of Luanne Platter. And one of my unrequited ones was both conservative and Christian but had two children outside of wedlock anyway.

Christian young men are cucked in their situation. This is one of the reasons why I 95% resigned my religion.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-19T00:22:01+00:00

Because physically I prefer White European features like red or fair blond hair and blue/green eyes, and I like the Germanic and Central-Northern European aesthetics generally.

Not that I don't acknowledge that non-European women are beautiful too, but it's not as strong as a preference of mine.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-18T23:58:36+00:00

I can relate to things Incels say sometimes. I have had experiences of unrequited love or infatuations, and the only person I ever dated so far wasn't necessarily my ideal or at least not 70% of my ideal. It is a frustrating experience from puberty to this day.

My "dream girl" is genetically very rare, not to mention I deal with the above "incel" traits and my specific unicorns who do exist are 50% or more already taken. I hate that women are having extra-marital sex left and right and less men are even having any sex at all.

Why does God still believe in the imperative against pre-marital sex in light of these circumstances?

BlueFrost · 2022-07-18T23:35:19+00:00

I did not know @fschmidt started his own religion.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-18T23:33:11+00:00

Now that I think about it, I believe the only real vile beings are those who willingly do things like murdering and abusing, sexually or otherwise, innocent humans or animals, or engaging in systemic evil like democide or psychological warfare. I think there is a reason why the people who engage in that also happened to be delving into the occult, or at least are heavily rumored to.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-18T23:28:32+00:00

With the last one, I read before the idea that the act of hating God by itself tends to open up a "portal" that triggers the idea or urge to do other sins.

BlueFrost · 2022-07-18T23:19:17+00:00

Here's what I think is a difference between Muslim world and the Christian one (the latter isn't so much a "Christian" world anymore): People want to practice abortions in the Christian world-the Christian says that I won't stop you from what you are doing but what you are doing is a horrible sin and you will go to Hell if you don't repent" and in the Muslim world you get the more direct "Stop performing abortion right now before we throw you out, punish, or kill you."

BlueFrost · 2022-07-18T23:09:41+00:00

If anything, true orthodox religions are uncompromising and fundamentalist in nature (whether for good or bad maybe).

BlueFrost · 2022-07-06T02:09:16+00:00

I don't know if I should care as much anymore. MLK articulated his speech in a time where there was no PC-police and people could still express things without as much fear of social repercussions (unless you were openly subversive to the system, maybe). It's a different time today.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-21T11:09:28+00:00

That's why I feel the way I do to cope.

How could a God who is so-called all-loving permit such to manifest at the kind of level we see today, in the first place?

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T02:07:59+00:00

If sex is for only procreation and the Catholics are right, then that is pretty brutal news. And also the fact that women only love you for what you have...scratch it, I guess you can say the same thing about men to women too.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T02:05:02+00:00

It's good to want to have hobbies and buddies, but nothing can replicate or replace the experience of sex with the opposite gender and the other relationship elements associated with that.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T02:00:51+00:00

Funny, if tragic, how the darker side-effects of the sexual revolution starting in the 1960s resulted in greater sexual repression for the average heterosexual young man.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T01:18:16+00:00

Just wondering, do you think it would be better if God had designed men closer to the way he designed women, at least appearance-wise?

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T01:11:53+00:00

Couldn't passing be relative too?

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T01:10:04+00:00

Women can also voice-act characters of the opposite gender in animation. It is actually very common in the industry.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T01:06:25+00:00

I think the fact that most people don't want to acknowledge it is in itself a factor in why men are acting whatever way they do as a response to it.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T01:03:02+00:00

I had thoughts about wanting to be the opposite gender myself, yet I never had genuine dysphoric condition or believed that I was really a woman trapped in the incorrect body. I acknowledge that is degenerate though. So just sue me.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T01:00:41+00:00

I think there might be some overlap with that and maybe because they think women are sexually attractive and want that for themselves.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T00:56:35+00:00

Off-subject, but what is your opinion about misotheism?

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T00:47:54+00:00

At least the Republicans and conservatives don't actively want to persecute you for saying the "wrong" thing.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T00:40:05+00:00

A law to dissolve all other existing laws before that point and break the one republic into four/five smaller republics.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T00:35:54+00:00

I read Nelson Mandela (and Ghandi too, I think).

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T00:33:18+00:00

Why are there people saying random small countries that don't even have a very great regime?

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T00:24:13+00:00

I just want them to get comeuppance. It is also just scary that somehow these people manage the impossible. I don't know much of what else to handle of this situation, it's too dark.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T00:21:09+00:00

You don't think so about what?

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T00:19:25+00:00

Where did you get that I will dismiss what you say as fanatical?

But yes, that's exactly or pretty close to what is happening, but I still feel dread about it.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-20T00:14:12+00:00

What do you think of the verses when Jesus is referring to people going into the "lake of fire"?

BlueFrost · 2022-06-19T01:21:33+00:00

So do I. It seems like in the future you can't even do that. In the old Soviet Union, at least life still went on for people in some ways like people having relationships and sex. Today is another level of repression.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-18T22:32:20+00:00

I am still pissed off so much, I don't see any bright spot and whatever could stop this is seemingly unlikely to ever happen soon.

Still, I (regretably) have/want to stay in the US, I work but I still live with my family (my sister lives here with us too). I'm going to continue working how I can, but I am uncertain of how much longer I have a future for.

BlueFrost · 2022-06-18T22:13:12+00:00

I wish he'd and others like him STFU.

BlueFrost · 2022-05-24T04:36:11+00:00

Pfft. Who knew that society was less prudish in 1955 than today?

BlueFrost · 2022-04-29T01:55:07+00:00

You provided the most interesting reply and I would like to check out a lot of those things.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-28T19:43:40+00:00

Most Christians have the belief that the things associated with the material side of our world are inherently corrupt or lower and that the spirit is inherently good. Not all Christians, but the majority of them.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-27T02:02:03+00:00

Do you think any girls would find a man, even a one with an athletic body, in a thong, attractive?

BlueFrost · 2022-04-26T16:26:05+00:00

That's one good win.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-25T23:32:28+00:00

Would you say North Korea would not be worse in this regard?

BlueFrost · 2022-04-24T19:09:13+00:00

The majority of white numbers would decline and become extincted, if not in the more near future than in 30-50 years. There will be a few whites that do survive and they will replenish their numbers to grab an inch or so back.

My opinion.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-24T18:45:36+00:00

Race isn't necessarily important in everything, but I admit that I love the aesthetics of white features like natural red and blonde hair color and the pale skin look. I would love to find a good-looking girl with natural blonde hair and blue eyes, it's sad to see these features combo are rare and nearing extinct.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-19T20:40:35+00:00

Because men are uglier than women, perhaps maybe even the top-tier ones.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-19T20:38:42+00:00

You don't need to medically transition to "be" the opposite gender.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-19T00:48:12+00:00

What is worse is that because of WW3 becoming much more likely, I feel like we are going to be the last ones between that and permanently going in the direction of totalitarianism we are screwed, and even if it does turn back it won't be until after our own lifetimes. I am 30 and I think my future (and my peers) has already been decided as over.

Literally every area of society has been poisoned, there is no good or happiness anymore. The 90s and maybe some of the 2000s were the last gasp of society before every part of it was poisoned.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-18T20:36:15+00:00

I envy the Boomers and Gen-X.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-18T20:35:24+00:00

I wish society could return to conditions as it was from the 50s to the 80s before I was even born. I envy the Boomers and Gen-X.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-18T17:22:39+00:00

Yes, I hope, but it's not very likely.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-15T02:58:34+00:00

And the thought of having to pay money for it sounds so...artificial.

But I also see what you mean. I thought that even if a guy didn't have incel-ish tendencies and is able to get women okay, it may not always be worth it because of factors.

For one example, I have a dream girl designed inn my head to look a certain way. What are the chances of finding it, let alone if she would even like me back?

BlueFrost · 2022-04-15T01:23:15+00:00

Yet many incels seem to advocate it.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-14T20:41:09+00:00

I don't want to go back to the 18th century, I'm cool with the mid-to-late 20th century.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-14T19:15:25+00:00

I don't know if this was fated for America since the beginning.

I feel like I missed out on a good era. I just entered my second decade of adulthood and my life is already becoming a dystopia when things were just starting to come together. The 80s and 90s were probably the last good times for somebody being in their 20s. I wish we had that back.

Why can't we be more angry and upset than we are now?

BlueFrost · 2022-04-14T18:42:35+00:00

WWII was arguably a catylist for it. Or the backlash from it was exploited.

Still sad how this is even possible.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-14T02:40:49+00:00

I don't think that is necessarily a bad thing. We all get to have an aesthetics preference.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-13T00:51:00+00:00

You should shot this from the rooftop. We all should!

BlueFrost · 2022-04-12T21:11:35+00:00

This is why I think people need to be more outraged and grow their balls back. It's scary that this is even happening to just a few people.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-11T23:00:05+00:00

I mean the average men, not the top 1% obviously.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-11T22:35:35+00:00

I got that, but what does Trump also think about the disadvantages men are treated with?

BlueFrost · 2022-04-10T04:11:45+00:00

Still would like "leftovers".

BlueFrost · 2022-04-10T04:04:55+00:00

Yeah. Like one other poster said, we aren't exactly the first to experience this, but certain things are still different.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-09T17:51:19+00:00

I wanted to write my own OS, I think that sounds cool if complex.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-09T02:52:28+00:00

That doesn't look very active.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-08T23:38:50+00:00

Have you guys heard of bridal theology? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bridal_theology

BlueFrost · 2022-04-06T13:01:50+00:00

It depends on state in the US.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-05T03:55:17+00:00

I'm staying here and standing my ground with whatever comes. I am still bitter and angry that we had to have lost this war and we now have to see the consequences of suffering play out.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-05T03:53:26+00:00

The taboo on consensual heterosexual incest. If I want to lay with my first cousin of the opposite sex (if she also consents) I should not be prosecuted for doing so. Immediate family I can understand is more disgusting, but even then I don't think it should be worth jail.

BlueFrost · 2022-04-05T03:47:07+00:00

Off-topic, but how can a person who is sensitive to certain events become mentally and emotionally prepared for what is coming?

BlueFrost · 2022-03-17T02:15:49+00:00

I watched a video of Incel TV that referenced a brutal verse in the Bible where Jesus says that what little "good" people have will be taken away.

BlueFrost · 2022-03-14T20:56:03+00:00

Honestly, I'm a member of "modern culture" depending on how modern we are going for.

BlueFrost · 2022-03-14T20:42:24+00:00

I'm still interested in hearing about your currycel struggle. (I assume that means you are from Indian descent)

BlueFrost · 2022-03-07T05:58:39+00:00

I love it too. And it can be applied in a similar way to 'off-grid' computing.

BlueFrost · 2022-03-07T02:35:44+00:00

Agree. Assembly is like the off-grid homesteading of the computer and programming world.

BlueFrost · 2022-03-06T06:25:19+00:00

Do you know that it was God who created the laws of physics? Are you gnostic?

BlueFrost · 2022-03-02T02:30:05+00:00

One question I have is what exactly this "payment" or reward in Heaven is supposed to be?

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