On r/actuallesbians, penises make lesbian sex easier. How convenient!

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-07-26T22:16:38+00:00

Easy.

It’s like a penis but doesn’t matter....../s

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-10T18:25:39+00:00

well, the easiest thing to do would be to just make yourself not gay......

See? Super easy. Surprised you gays never thought of that before.

You’re welcome!

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-06T11:05:29+00:00

It’s in their name. Oppressed is part of their identity. You must validate that

3MistersAndAMissy · 2021-01-07T04:26:08+00:00

Wait, am I allowed to answer that? Don’t I have to love a gender?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-15T20:48:18+00:00

Failin’ faux?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-17T11:37:16+00:00

Yes. They somehow found the only avenue in which a woman cannot get laid

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-09T18:24:02+00:00

They could do a version where Anne Hathaway suddenly IDs as a dude and then Jake G can stay married to her, find happiness, and stay true to his authentic gay self.

PROBLEM SOLVED, happy, ending, roll the credits.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-17T14:00:14+00:00

I love getting high on opiates. I was so excited to find out that they have them at pharmacies and hospitals 🥰😍😃

🙁😢😩Facing the fact that people who have just had open heart surgeries or are battling cancer have had opiates available to them this whole time

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-06T11:03:38+00:00

Now THAT would make me a TRA. Yum

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-16T01:41:34+00:00

Fowlin’ facts

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-16T01:41:00+00:00

Faux in Frocks

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-09T17:25:30+00:00

Turn it around and say ‘I really REALLY want to date and have sex with Asians” and see if that doesn’t become problematic on a different level lol.

‘You are fetishizing an entire race of people”

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-09T17:21:30+00:00

I this what they mean is ‘if closeted lesbians can endure penis, woke lesbians should be able to as well”

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-08-28T11:33:16+00:00

This IS clownworld!!

A third are saying she MUST have meant something other than that he fucks like a dude.

A third are saying to burn her as a witch for her heresies.

The rest are all waxing philosophic about how you can’t assign certain attributes to a person based on chosen gender......so how DO you define a woman if it isn’t biology, declared lesbianism, or gender identity?

Born like a duck, surely looks like a duck, and now fucks like a duck.

IT’S A DUCK!!!

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T11:42:56+00:00

Hello. I’m a pre-op pre-everything transyoldyk. I was born a yoldude and my mom still refers to me that way, but I know I am a totally valid yoldyk. I know this because I’ve studied and practiced it for months. Plus I get a very affirming hardon when I put on grannies yolderwear.

Am I welcome here🥺uwu?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-07-10T20:50:29+00:00

Are we still allowed to use the word ‘Aunt’?

I’m sure Uncle is fine, but just not sure about A-nt. /s

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-28T18:34:27+00:00

That was my lady brains question too!!!

I looked at the answer options and figured they meant 180.

There were two that had the red on top and blue on bottom, like if it was a 180 spin.

If you slam your fist on the table and say ‘I am sure the red cube is on top’ you are male.

If you demurely say ‘I don’t know, maybe the blue is on the bottom’ and then hide behind your Victorian fan you are female.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-25T14:30:08+00:00

What do you mean?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-17T11:41:29+00:00

Yes. How can a female go about getting some D?

It’s been a problem since time immemorial

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-17T11:22:33+00:00

A clitoris you pee out of and assault people with?

That one?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-01T03:09:32+00:00

This is one time I would really like to hear what Freud would have to say.

‘Sword lesbian’. The joke writes itself.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-09T18:15:30+00:00

Identi-tay away the gay!

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-01T12:29:48+00:00

You sound like me. Do you know if you had a twin your mom didn’t want?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-08-15T13:13:56+00:00

There isn’t a cure for cisgenderism, but there are treatments available.

For adolescents, we have social media groups. They will work tirelessly to convince you of your transness. If you are lonely, they will be your family and friends. If you feel awkward about your body, they will lovebomb you into thinking you must be part of their group. They will employ positive reinforcement for transthink, and negative reinforcement for wrong think.

For older males we have porn, lots of sissy porn. Plus, access to lesbians and other women’s spaces.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2021-03-01T13:33:48+00:00

Yes but only if you wear TWO masks

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-29T00:20:45+00:00

I’m not sure. 😂

We need a second questionnaire that goes into the Starhorse gender etc.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-28T18:36:55+00:00

Also if you’re female you answer ‘like um maybe I think it’s green’ or whine it’s too hard a question

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-17T11:26:33+00:00

Totally NOT a fetish. They just want to pee

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-01T03:08:13+00:00

I was scrolling doen looking for this.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-01T03:05:52+00:00

Only if it is accompanied by a massive sense of entitlement and victimhood.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-20T15:39:19+00:00

I need extra upvotes for this comment

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-18T23:12:29+00:00

I disagree with the idea that you can change sex. I consider a transexual to be a person who is biologically one sex but lives as the other.

Is that what you are asking?

You look amazing btw. I mean this respectfully as a middle aged straight lady

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-11T05:01:59+00:00

Oh no.

Where is this?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-01T12:47:59+00:00

I think the computer bros are ‘woke’ in every sense but secretly hate women. Many were ‘nerdy’ in teen years and hold on to the resentment and rejection.

They may not have had to interact with minorities so they can claim to be woke from afar while keeping systems in place. But the hatred of women can remain visceral. There is a lot of schadenfreude from watching women’s hard won sex based rights being used against them

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-16T13:31:00+00:00

Ask people if they like sushi AND also like ice cream. Now ask if they want sushi ice cream.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T11:35:02+00:00

‘Peak’

If only!!

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T11:21:59+00:00

The few ‘welcomers’ I looked up were mtf. Go figure

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-08-27T03:43:04+00:00

maybe don’t mention the penis. It’s just my opinion but I think that might really hurt her but you know her better. It’s something that wouldn’t keep you there even if she got the SRS.

Nobody can say you are transphobic for breaking up with her since you were willing to date her knowing in the first place. It’s nobody’s business unless you want it to be anyway.

Just tell her that it just isn’t working for you anymore. You just don’t click and don’t see it going in the direction you want it to

Life is hard but if she can’t handle a breakup that is even more reason not to attach your cart to this horse. She probably can btw

My abusive high school boyfriend threatened to kill himself if I broke up w him. (I was suddenly brave bc I was across the state). I told him I certainly didn’t see a future and kids with someone too weak to handle life and that if he was going to kill himself over a hs breakup then it was just a matter of time before he offed himself for some other reason. I didn’t think he meant it. I’m not proud I said it though but he stopped using that one.

I really do wonder if she isn’t manipulating you in some way you may not see till later. Disrespect to your sheets by wiping with them. Knowing showering is important to you but making you ask. Covertly guilting you into staying and you feel like it’s coming from within you, etc

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-08-18T04:19:01+00:00

Wow, the gaybros get to miss gender trans men. They are being a lot more “trans phobic” than I ever saw on gender critical. I support the right to do so, but it’s just shocking how much more leeway they had than we at gender critical did.

Is it because men get to do what they want? Or because it’s only a crime to miss gender a trans woman?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-08-16T17:58:07+00:00

🙂 they don’t seem to mind pushing themselves into spaces about menstruation, etc.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-08-09T00:01:59+00:00

Yes!!

I am listening to it now on audible.

Great read (listen?)

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-08-08T16:14:58+00:00

Free speech doesn’t mean people aren’t allowed to disagree with you or call you out on BS

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-08-06T10:42:33+00:00

Does anyone in that article even care about the baby who is exposed prenatally to anti rejection meds and artificial hormones just to satisfy someone’s desire for an ‘experience’?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-07-25T15:49:22+00:00

Not only that, they tell us we are triggering their dysphoria and excluding them when we try to discuss things that affect us biological

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-07-21T00:47:50+00:00

The irony is that we GCers disagree with gender roles/stereotypes making a person a Man/woman in favor of biology. She seems to want it both ways.

Her:

Sex, biology, and appearance don’t make me a man. I’m a man because I’feel’ like one on the inside.

Then I’m going to go and do a ‘stereotypical’ female action by being in touch with my emotions and crying in a bathroom.

She gets to disregard both biology AND gender stereotypes and everyone still has to say she is a man?

Why?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-07-20T23:55:09+00:00

TIL that I have 10 cocks at the end of my hands. Clearly they are cocks, because some people put them in vaginas.

So when this guy shakes my hand, he is jerking 5 guys off?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-07-12T14:16:32+00:00

Maybe just deactivate your account?

Cleaning up your post history is just playing by their rules. It’s not fair to you. You should not have to ‘cover your tracks’ as if you did something wrong

I regret not mass posting to all my subs before I deactivated.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-07-10T19:03:12+00:00

Whelp. I’m off Reddit

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-06-30T02:14:06+00:00

I saw plenty of posts by men on GC. I didn’t see anyone exclude them. Maybe they were removed before I saw it but I am just saying I didn’t see it.

I was also subbed on GCguys and mensLib because I like hearing their side too.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2021-03-01T13:21:33+00:00

Please do!!! There are plenty of lurkers here. Lurking is how I peaked. Originally I wanted to see what the ‘hateful TERFs’ said. Then, it ended up making sense. This is why they want to censor us. Truth is contagious

3MistersAndAMissy · 2021-01-09T02:02:11+00:00

Thank you!!! This is great.

Who could have seen this coming?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2021-01-07T04:45:00+00:00

Sorry but what does that mean?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-28T18:53:21+00:00

I hate how she acts like the wrapper is the body, something that is ‘wrong’ can be changed and is ultimately not important and can be thrown away. It’s less dangerous to just say the wrapper is the clothes a person chooses.

More accurate would be a strawberry poptart that wants to be a cinnamon poptart. Some poptarts just take a cinnamon or wrapper. Others try to have their strawberry insides removed and refilled with cinnamon. This never gets rid of the strawberry taste and often ends up damaging the poptart crust.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-28T18:47:07+00:00

Thank you!! I’ll go look for it.

I didn’t realize how many spelling errors I had in my message lol

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-28T18:44:49+00:00

I can’t say if men would harass a TW in the restroom since I’m a woman, but you can actually give insight.

The focus is all about acting like it is a given that a transwoman would be in danger in the men’s restroom, but why are we letting them make that an undeniable given?

You are questioning the basic premise. Many of us let the TRAs get away with setting that in place as fact.

They keep saying they just want to pee and it never happens that it’s unsafe to let men self ID into the ladies room. They ask for proof it’s not safe for women.

Make them give proof it’s unsafe for TW to use the bathroom of their sex.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-28T18:35:50+00:00

Well, you are just lucky your husband is kind enough to let you drive...../s

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-28T18:21:13+00:00

This is the best find!!!

‘How much do you stereotype women?’

Thank you.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-12-18T17:41:59+00:00

Thank you. This was a wonderful read!!!

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-29T16:56:10+00:00

The laugh track is to help improve the funniness of the scene.

It’s a sad reminder that humans aren’t meant to be laughing alone on our couches. We are supposed to be in groups.

Media is a mixed bag. I used to be such a social person who sometimes got lonely. Then I got into media and am never lonely but am much less social.

I think it was healthier the other way tbh

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-27T23:32:10+00:00

When this fad is done these will be the first people to demand restitution for the medical harm they were subjected to.

This reminds me of all the people who “just know” they need antibiotics for their allergies and/or viral illnesses

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-17T11:46:27+00:00

Here they admit to the same in Nevada. They put it out after the election, during all the voting crisis

https://www.reviewjournal.com/life/health/what-defines-a-covid-death-nevada-finally-says-2179916/

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-17T11:44:26+00:00

Yeah. They act as if gay men haven’t tried to force themselves to like pussy before

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-17T11:28:42+00:00

But, it’s not a fetish. Nope

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-02T07:14:06+00:00

Hugs.

It’s worse when it comes from your own.

We need some kindly ‘gay grand dad/ma sites. Older gay people to let the youger/more recently out know it’s all good

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-02T07:07:42+00:00

This is perfect!!

That is actually what I was looking for.

Thank you and I will use it for good on Twitter!!

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-01T18:09:04+00:00

Does anyone have the link to a bunch of receipts on the boxer ceiling? Someone collected them and I cannot find the link. Thank you.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-01T16:00:44+00:00

I really hope you are right. This is why LGB must drop the T.

Some people feel the LGBT are a monolith. The Ts are very happy to speak for the LGB.

There are those who say that accepting gay marriage caused the slippery slope of the trans demands.

I try to tell as many people as I can about the boxer/cotton ceilings and the decimation of lesbian bars/spaces.

This is why the Ts are trying to silence the LGB. They need to hide behind them. No reasonable person can feel it is right to deny someone rights just because of who they love or deny them the ability to marry. The trans demands are out of line

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-11-01T15:48:58+00:00

These trans kids are ‘coming out’ or ‘breaking the egg’ into a society that celebrates and caters to them. If someone speaks against them, they get victim points and validation when they run back to their hug boxes and (servants) allies.

They have no idea what it was like coming out as gay before and what kind of losses and hate and trauma it entailed. How lonely it was.

This is unfortunately still true in many communities and families.

If older gays, gays around the world, gays throughout history, gays in conservative communities, etc could make themselves love the genitals of the opposite sex, wouldn’t they have? Don’t they think most gays have tried to already? Even today with the improved acceptance and an out community it’s so much easier being straight.

This whole boxer/cotton ceiling rhetoric just poops all over these very real and very painful gay experiences

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-29T20:24:04+00:00

I haven’t seen this ‘radfem giving men a pass’ issue lol

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-29T20:01:01+00:00

Exactly. They give consent and cede ground for all women

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-22T11:30:27+00:00

I have heard the spin on this. ‘The social distancing is protecting everyone from the flu, isn’t that great?’

But ‘thousands’ of people die every day from coronavirus too?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-20T03:36:08+00:00

I would argue that any gay person over the age of 30 or 40 is tough as nails. Nowadays, it’s considered vanilla and basic to be straight. Being gay or transgender is applauded . That’s not how it was in the 80s, 90s or before. So much for cis homosexual privilege.

These kids today have no idea what it was like being homosexual just a few decades ago.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-15T06:22:55+00:00

Definitely don’t forget the MRA ‘pussy pass privilege’ angle or the ‘marry a guy for a year and the courts will give you all his stuff’beleif set

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-09T18:34:04+00:00

Oh dear.

Someone didn’t read the fine print on what being a lesbian means

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-09T18:13:12+00:00

Why?

Why can’t they do ‘Titanic’ or ‘The English patient’ trans?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-06T16:16:57+00:00

I would say you are a man and look like one but say you are a woman

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-10-01T12:32:00+00:00

Yes. That is the point. This one has been weaponized and treated as special

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-27T23:45:19+00:00

Or threatening to kill his mom

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-17T12:52:03+00:00

Hello. I would love to ask you some questions about your experience but I don’t know if there is a direct message function. I like to watch Blaire White. She is a transwoman who has some very balanced views about being herself but not making women uncomfortable. Have you ever watched her?

Edit to add please do understand that none of us feel that all TW are trying to perv on us. I do realize that most of them just want to pee. The issue is that not everyone is like you. Part of the problem is that with ‘self id’ there is ABSOLUTELY no need for a man to go through ANY trouble in order to have access to women’s areas. The slippery slope is real. We were not consulted and we have no say in this.

Years ago, before it was a fad, I clocked a ‘real’ transwoman in my gym changing room. It was not problematic to me because it was so rare as for me to feel this was the real deal. Nowadays I don’t trust that these are all real transgender people.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-16T13:35:39+00:00

I like pansexual being separate from bisexual. I think it’s important to keep it separate. Watch out when they try to get rid of the ‘bi’

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-16T13:27:57+00:00

We should make this

• Elimination of grants, scholarships, board and trustee designations, representative positions and affirmative programs for women.

5 different points. It makes me so sad/mad

Women are underrepresented in STEM. to fix this, all we need are a bunch of dudes, encouraged since boyhood in this field, to suddenly ID as women and ‘poof’ the problem is fixed. The scholarships they take will be proof of how ‘women’ are being helped w this all.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-13T20:16:39+00:00

Don’t forget Taxi driver also whetted Hinkley scary obsession with Jodi Foster. We only remember he tried to kill Regan but forget how terrifying this must have been for Ms Foster

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-09T02:51:29+00:00

I was always very medical/mental health advocacy about it

Then came the ‘you don’t need to have gender dysphoria to be trans’ and the the non-binary crap.

I was ok with parroting TWAW until I saw what it actually meant

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-08T19:49:22+00:00

The Link is gone. We need to archive

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-06T14:39:56+00:00

Yeah. This is like the ‘and then everyone clapped’ ending

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T13:06:26+00:00

TWAW should never have been a thing. I think people originally meant well in going along w it and never considered the loophole it opened.

If they had always fought for actual Trans rights, not mass delusion, it would have been ok.

I don’t see them trying to ‘retro-trans’ people like Ed Geins. He is the one they based Silence of the Lambs on because he was trying to make a woman suit so he could be his mom. Maybe Psycho should be a trans rights movie too lol

Good thing Lea DeLaria is alive to defend her sex.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T12:59:16+00:00

I wish you all the best!!

I’m so sorry for what is happening in your community.

I’m so glad I’m not young now. I'm probably a touch bi. I really REALLY hope I would not have been one of those mostly straight girls appropriating the word lesbian and welcoming transbians on ‘behalf of lesbians’. Such total BS

It’s like how I am a small percentage ‘sub saharan African’. If I identified as black and welcomed in racists as long as they had a fetish for Black women. It would make the space unsafe for actual Black women at no risk to myself.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T12:50:58+00:00

Internet hugs.

I’m not lesbian but I know how much I have always loved the vibe of a female only space. I’ve been in lesbian spaces and they were beautiful. I never got hit on because women just nicely get a feel for you and don’t push things. (Or maybe I wasn’t that cute, lol)

I cannot imagine how awful it would be to have some tacky dude pushing his way into that space, demanding extra reassurance and attention, and creating divisiveness. Lesbians have to identify as ‘progressive ladydique accepters’ or be labeled ‘hateful exclusionary trfs’

Even as (mostly) straight women, my friend and I used to love to go to gay male bars to be left alone by men. (I really hope we weren’t invading their spaces in retrospect).

I wish you the best

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T12:34:45+00:00

We laugh but you know they would totally stampede in if you tried to make a new space. They would not even need to know what it entailed but they would want in.

I would completely be behind trans women are transwomen and would fight with them against discrimination. It’s the attempt to degrade all boundaries that got me GC. It’s also why the movement is attracting so many creeps who don’t even have dysphoria

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T12:13:24+00:00

That was horrible!! This need to get out. Please make this it’s own post.

2 things stand out, amongst the many obvious things of course

1- the poP tart wrapper more adequately describes clothes a person choses to wear, not the entire body one is born with. We can’t discard or change the body like we can the wrapper. TERRIBLE ANALOGY

2- the father of the anti-vacx movement, Dr Andrew Wakefield, lost his license and credibility for having a 50,000 study grant. This lady has a 5.7million dollar study grant and nobody is thinking she is biased?

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T11:53:29+00:00

Bring back some good stories please

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T11:51:19+00:00

They overran. ‘Lesbians’. Then they overran ‘ActualLesbians’ and Then ‘’TrueLesbians’. It’s really sad and I feel for our lesbian sisters. Internet dating must be so sketchy with all that can be done with filters and catfishing.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T11:34:23+00:00

😂

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T11:30:10+00:00

What do lesbians call themselves today? ‘Lesbian’ Was coopted. Then ‘true’ and then ‘actual’ lesbian was colonized.

I used to assume that internet dating was probably safest for lesbians but I would guess it’s the sketchiest now with all the creeps.

This is crazy and I so feel for you all.

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-05T11:20:26+00:00

You made me snort-laugh and now my dog is looking at me in that judgmental/pitying way she has.

Edit:I just noticed your name lol

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-09-02T02:52:50+00:00

It’s all deleted.

Is r/periods gone now?

WTF

Update it’s still up but that link is deleted

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-08-28T12:01:55+00:00

I find it especially heartbreaking when these applauded, celebrated trans kids try to tell older gays that the TQ are more oppressed!!

They have no idea what gay people went through, especially before 2000. They think it’s a walk in the park because queer is such a popular identity

Martina Navratilova is my hero. She was gay when it cost her everything. She had a ‘real’ trans coach before it was cool (Dr. Richards)

She should be celebrated as the Mack-Mommy of all LGBT but she got cancelled by a bunch of little shits because she said biological men have a physical advantage over women in sports

3MistersAndAMissy · 2020-08-27T13:14:38+00:00

I didn’t even think about that!!

Great point

3MistersAndAMissy