Obligatory what happened to the site? by Feelinveryblue in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I fucking hate reddit by vcardthrow1 in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I did and I just gave up and started a new sn

Do you have realize what a ridiculous human being you are, and what power the internet has over you? by vcardthrow1 in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1[S] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

can you drop me the home page for the new site?

Can't get in. Messaged the mods, pinkpill won't recognize my email

Would be very grateful

Does having the same name as other people ever make you depressed? by SilverNova in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This set of circumstance would make me feel like God was mocking me, yes. I'm sorry.

What pisses me off the most (rant) by [deleted] in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I identify with this immediately. The self esteem shit is gas-lighting.

When people treat you like a disease when you extend overtures of friendship, respect, and trying to do your job, of course you fill like work.

Honestly, after years enduring this in horrible jobs, I think most offices are just fucking awful places - but for nobody more so than unlikable "femcels".

If an -nkwell can code or something or people take pity on him, he'll do ok.

If people project onto you that you are "quiet" (unlikable, not a good face for customers, not part of the team) because they instinctively dislike you, don't value your work, etc...you're like a failure as a woman. People idolize socially adroit attractive men and give slightly oddball men a chance, if they are "useful" enough (though I don't want to pretend they can't be treated this way too).

Corporate America is like middle school, only your bully can keep you from being able to feed yourself.

I found universities really fucking nasty to work in, too.

I officially have a sleep disorder by HornyToad in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

OP, I'm so sorry.

At least with a diagnoses, insurance might actually help cover some surgery.

I won't diminish it at all. I have a botched rhinoplasty and breathing issues...I grind at night and it's destroyed my teeth. It looks like shit, I'm in such a way that any "correction" will probably require a monster nose, and most surgeons I've asked for help have either said no or said not without harvesting rib cartilage....

Having shitty bone structure has multiple dimensions of health and pain ramifications.

Just another femcel burden, your body guarantees you a life of sadness and probably a life of physical/medical stress on top of it.

How is this possible that every goddess and angel looking (literally 1000/10)16-25 girl i know is dating and older hideous looking guy with flabby ugly body often dad bod face and skin like holy shit im geniuenly jealous of men to the point of being suic*dal.Being a woman is a mental torture oh god by [deleted] in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I know someone like this. It's funny. She's beautiful, headstrong, and kind of an asshole. But tall, great face, pretty body, one of those girls that doesn't seem afraid of anything...and a jerk on that basis.

How is this possible that every goddess and angel looking (literally 1000/10)16-25 girl i know is dating and older hideous looking guy with flabby ugly body often dad bod face and skin like holy shit im geniuenly jealous of men to the point of being suic*dal.Being a woman is a mental torture oh god by [deleted] in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

...Men want to date younger.

30 really is the oldest (fixed typo for "youngest") age by which men want to date women their own age, if that - more like, 60 and under. Alec Baldwin, Bruce Willis, Dennis Quaid...on and on. They will tolerate older women but that's really because it's all they can get.

God, once you're a witch as a femcel, you might as well die. It makes me feel so awful. Just being reminded every damn day in popular culture, film, and all art involving women you are as good as expired but have decades to endure this misery in natural life.

:( by [deleted] in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Can't take this dummy seriously, crapping on a public figure for clout. Doesn't know anything about her life, or Marilyn, and probably has no women in his life.

I got banned from a plastic surgery sub because I'm a femcel by [deleted] in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ropedoped is a sociopath and has been for years. He is the living definition of troll mod.

I really hate reddit. The mods and admins in general are psychotic

I was banned from a sub for asking about covid disinformation/reassurance - banned for posting the links with such information.

What question do you have? I might be able to help.

I can't wait until our new site is up. The wait is torture! 😩😩😩 by Gigababejfl in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

So is this going to be on actual reddit or elsewhere?

How are you doing where you're at right now? What's on your mind? by vcardthrow1 in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The time within which you're encouraged to make friends that aren't tied to jobs is very short.

How are you doing where you're at right now? What's on your mind? by vcardthrow1 in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Could have written this. I'm sorry OP.

"I'm highly qualified with three degrees and I earn below minimum wage." Makes you want to lay down and die, doesn't it

These days you need to make at least six figures to live alone (or with roommates, actually, lol! That or a spouse!). I've never had friends who would live with me. They chose their siblings or husbands. You are literally too old to be in as much trouble as you are, and by 25....you're passed over for fresh college grads.

I'm so sorry op.

We're young, you know. I know chronologically we are.

But all it means in your 30s is you have more time to suffer.

I have felt real happiness or connection to others in al long. Every couple of years I'll be in the company of high school friends that are one year away from just cutting me out of their lives and that I have nothing in common with, so I can't even enjoy the rare birthday party or event to make some celebration of their lives - wedding, birthday, etc.

The sub was deleted because people were posting straight up lies about who we were by Feelinveryblue in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm going to make a request - if you are still on reddit, please ask people to come here.

I almost considered changing my handle, but shit, I'd like ppl to be able to find us.

Please tell people who used to post to come

This is a list of who I have, but obviously there were more:

desperateanduseless (688) send message
remove humanERROR (7931) send message
remove ninetiesbaby16 (65) send message
remove Hideawayhuman (90) send message
remove kuki_6 (10970) send message
remove Freshestboiintown (1986) send message
remove sp4cel0ver (6910) send message
remove

sp4cel0over is still there, don't know about anyone else.

God...

How are you doing where you're at right now? What's on your mind? by vcardthrow1 in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

At the risk of TMI, dye-free colace helps with this.

Regularity = happiness

Are you guys gonna create another subreddit? by AnonymousKitty in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Argued with someone using a no-no word, and voting on a comment twice after I had switched to my other throw. Not proud - really stupid. But I didn't know they could permaban on 2 strikes.

It wasn't for participation in the femcel sub.

The sub was deleted because people were posting straight up lies about who we were by Feelinveryblue in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well I saw this:

level 2 El_Chapos_Cousin 86 points · 4 days ago

I’ve been subscribed to it for a while for the drama. Heard it mentioned on a “most fucked up sub” askreddit thread.

True femcels WAS a sub about women who were too ugly to find relationships or self love and shit like that. It was diverse, ranging from anyone who has mild self confidence issues to people who are calling for the death of all men and then all women because fuck humans I guess.

The big issues on that sub consisted of

Anti-body positivity. They bandwagoned the shit out of anyone who was proud to be not thin. Frequent brigades on body positive subs and accounts.

Spreading alt right conspiracies where they both denied that they were being influence by incels but also word for word copied what incels said.

Self harm encouragement. Self explanatory.

Homophobic, transphobic, generally bigoted. They would brigade trans and gay subs and accounts.

They had some good posters and discussions that encouraged a journey of self discovery and love despite how you may have been born or how you turned out, but those were few and far between. The vast majority of that sub was a toxic shitstain that bullied sensitive individuals to fuel their sick hatred of their own bodies. It was fucked, and it should have been banned.


...What the fuck?

Are you guys gonna create another subreddit? by AnonymousKitty in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I appreciate the effort but personally- there are also reasons I don't want to go back to reddit for this. (But I'm one person.)

All our writing and the community...pretty much gone by vcardthrow1 in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Why am I responsible for the evils of reddit? I don't follow hate threads about Ellen Pao and I don't think think there should be an absence of moderation. Women have gotten plenty of death threats for posting in our own subs though, for the years I've posted in women's spaces. In years on reddit. FAW was tormented for a full year.

"I personally would prefer your entire sub to go somewhere YOU create and YOU moderate instead of polluting this site with anti-men rhetoric and input from women who choose to argue for separation." ....What?

"I don't miss the attacks against men and the undermining of conversation your group seems so skilled at." Men have valid reasons to feel threatened by conversations of feminism in the workplace, in universities, even in conversations about violence. But I've never believed otherwise. Not sure who you're talking about. Criticism of behavior that's shitty in humans doesn't make a sub a "male hate sub".

These comment makes no sense to me at all.

"Incel, femcel whatever... I was personally glad to leave you all on Reddit." Then why are you in the skeleton of what this community has left?

I don't care if you were a femcel or you're just a pissed off outsider...fuck off. Your whole comment is just angry gibberish to me.

The sub was deleted because people were posting straight up lies about who we were by Feelinveryblue in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Do you have the link?

I discovered that sub (is it new?) when I searched for r/trufemcels and we have a surprising number of defenders.

Surprised we were mentioned in redscarepod (a political sub) https://www.reddit.com/r/redscarepod/comments/kxxxex/rtrufemcels_banned_misogynist_reddit_oppresses/

Glad to see a familiar name.

God damn, I hate reddit.

All our writing and the community...pretty much gone by vcardthrow1 in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm really grateful you're here and created this, I'm just so sad because in the last few years, it just seems hard to keep these spaces going given that people will drift away inevitably. It's a next-level loss when that community is wiped away and its archives are lost with it.

The TruFemcels and AskTruFemcels subs on Reddit has been banned. by Gigababejfl in TruFemcels

[–]vcardthrow1 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Who did they report us to, gen admins?

I didn't realize this is the second time we'd been banned.

Thanks for setting this up. I'm devastated. Reddit is a cesspool but at least it had spaces for women to express themselves freely, if not with perfect safety.

...Increasingly less, I guess. Fuck the internet and fuck reddit.