She has rights! And sexy times with real gay men is one of them.

MilkTea · 2022-02-16T00:34:34+00:00

Also from what I've seen a lot of gay trans guys prefer cis guys anyways, so like... being exclusively t4t is not going to necessarily match me with people who are actually ok with me being trans, it'll just limit my dating pool.

... You don't say!

MilkTea · 2022-02-14T01:30:58+00:00

So does he still get to make violent threats towards lesbians, or is he now considered a filthy "cishet" man by TRA's standards? Why does one get a pass to be homophobic and the other can't? What's the major difference between the two? Hmm 🤔

MilkTea · 2022-01-22T19:59:15+00:00

She's explicitly saying she only likes cis women

.

Glad she's embracing neo-Nazi horseshit.

There's an entire group of AGPs who only go after real women and refuse to date each other. What does that make them?

MilkTea · 2021-10-16T21:53:11+00:00

MilkTea · 2021-10-01T17:32:46+00:00

Bold assumption and very wrong. Also when I have, I've been attracted to things that made us good partners for a long time, what their vaginas looked like wasn't all that important because... its a vagina. Its still gonna function the same. Who they are is more important

No mention of ladydique, Steven?

MilkTea · 2021-09-30T16:40:44+00:00

Who are the transbians that gave us our rights? Did they add in new characters in their Stonewall fanfic, or did they create a new headcanon that Marsha was actually a transbian?

MilkTea · 2021-09-18T19:44:33+00:00

The tiktok video didn't even explain or prove anything.

I don't fit exclusively into being a man or a woman

Okay... What does being a man or woman mean? They never explain that part.

MilkTea · 2021-09-12T23:50:49+00:00

I can't believe the brick Marsha P. Johnson threw landed all the way to France.

MilkTea · 2021-08-30T22:18:55+00:00

"The hardest part about being a woman is figuring out what to wear" -Caitlyn Jenner

MilkTea · 2021-08-06T16:43:12+00:00

TRA logic: Gay men should be okay with strap-ons because they are pretty much the same as real dicks. But if lesbians can like strap-ons, then they should be okay with "girldicks". But "girldicks" are different than "cis" men's dicks. But—

MilkTea · 2021-08-02T21:27:55+00:00

Enjoy getting attention only from other transbians. Good luck!

MilkTea · 2021-07-28T00:15:20+00:00

I do understand a lot of guys wouldn’t want to sleep with trans men but to say it’s a preference is not true bcz that means they just prefer one over another but would do both but in this case they would only sleep with cis men

You're so close. There's a word for only being attracted to the same-sex. Think Aidan, think.

MilkTea · 2021-07-25T02:26:14+00:00

That site makes me wanna throw up.

while lesbianism generally doesn't include attraction to men, some lesbians who feel more connected to older definitions of the term lesbian, and who use the Split Attraction Model, are attracted to men, and their spaces are just as real and important to the lesbian community

If one is to exclude non-binary men from lesbianism, they are endorsing in exorsexist behavior. Additionally, not all non-binary people feel comfortable being included under lesbian attraction, and that should be respected and validated.

The term specifically for non-men attracted to non-men is called faunic or daunic.

So, someone could be romantically a lesbian, but sexually pansexual, or any other combination. Many lesbians who use the split attraction model use this concept of lesbianism to define their orientation(s).

Many lesbians who are not into men face the same issue where men believe they can "force" lesbians to like men... However, while this idea has harmed and continues to harm a large part of the lesbian community, and it should never ever be encouraged to tell any lesbian that they "can like men" if they don't, that harmful idea does not stop the fact that some lesbians are attracted to men.

Bi-lesbians Pan-lesbians Omni-lesbians Straightbians

MilkTea · 2021-07-22T13:43:57+00:00

They're not. And there are different art styles within anime

MilkTea · 2021-07-22T13:38:26+00:00

This is the first tweet that made Mr."Nebulae System" mad

THE DEFINITION OF LESBIAN IS NON MEN LOVING NON MEN. [ That includes nonbinary and nonbinary transmasc people! ]

What. What part of this is "TERF dogwhistle"?

MilkTea · 2021-07-22T13:11:47+00:00

Furries and bronies are not from anime lol

MilkTea · 2021-07-19T16:02:58+00:00

I'm confused about the term "transmasc". Does it mean they identify with masculinity?

MilkTea · 2021-07-16T16:08:51+00:00

... And when these incels step outside for once after spending hours LARPing as "lesbians" online, they lose their shit after getting rejected over and over again in real life. The only way for them to get validation is from their fellow role playing AGPs.

MilkTea · 2021-07-14T21:45:40+00:00

TQ+ rode the coattails of LGB. The only reason their movement gained quick traction was because they used us as a shield and spread lies. "Well they got their right to marry, so now listen to all of our demands, bigot!". "You owe all of your rights to transwomen of color!". And when I say right to marry, I only mean in some western countries. TQ+ wouldn't have a leg to stand on if they were independent and being honest. I don't doubt there are LGBs who supported them from the beginning, but I wouldn't necessarily say we created it.

We can agree that gender and sexual orientation are separate, so we shouldn't compare the two. Homosexuality doesn't require harmful surgeries in order to be our "true selves". We didn't try to convince straight people that we are also heterosexuals, but only attracted to the same-sex. TQ+ are manipulative.

MilkTea · 2021-07-13T17:30:39+00:00

Because they hate reality.

Edit: instead of enjoying cartoons and anime as entertainment, they try to make it a "reality". Like an extreme form of escapism.

MilkTea · 2021-07-12T20:44:03+00:00

am i confused. is it a valid gender expression or are they making fun of trans ppl. i need to know if i need to be offended or supportive :p

The fact that they need to start asking if all these new xenogenders are valid or just another attack helicopter joke lmao

Haha yeah, it’s a lot to take in man, you don’t have to understand everything just respect whatever someone identifies as and use the pronouns they want :3

Did you hear that Oli London? You're valid uwu

MilkTea · 2021-07-10T22:13:34+00:00

thread

MilkTea · 2021-07-10T21:47:50+00:00

Oh idk, maybe because screenshots of their DM and deleted CP on removeddit were shown in the video?

MilkTea · 2021-07-10T21:42:07+00:00

Did you watch the video?

MilkTea · 2021-07-06T00:18:31+00:00

"Demisexual" originates on a fanfiction/role play forum in 2004, as the made-up identity of a middle schooler's character. On very early Tumblr, 'factualwiley' referenced it as a joke, left… came back in 2010 shocked to see legions of proud 'demisexuals'.

And now people are taking it seriously. Embarrassing.

MilkTea · 2021-06-30T15:19:35+00:00

Yeah sure, Charles "creepy male feminist" Clymer.

MilkTea · 2021-04-19T04:48:11+00:00

A lot of them are incels and they found a way to harass lesbians by using "trans" as a shield. And I'm not even using the word incel as a petty insult. Some actually do admit to it. Well, they claim they are no longer incels after transitioning, but we all know that's not true.

Edit: And yeah, I agree with all the people saying it's the "ultimate validation" for those creeps.

MilkTea · 2021-04-12T14:01:40+00:00

What's so great about the "feminine penis", aka a limp dick, if transbians don't even want to date each other? And they love claim "a lot of lesbians date tranwomen", but if that were true, they wouldn't need to constantly make a reminder about how great their dicks are. Lmao

MilkTea · 2021-04-10T03:36:37+00:00

What are you a fucking 9 year old?

Don't give them ideas

MilkTea · 2021-04-09T23:09:04+00:00

You know how TRAs lie about literally everything? Yeah, that's just one of their blatant lies. They create nonsense, gets backlash, then blames it on "TERFs". Rinse and repeat.

here's a meme to illustrate it

MilkTea · 2021-04-03T15:40:25+00:00

"nobody wants you around if you can't respect history that I completely made up buddy"

MilkTea · 2021-03-18T03:44:39+00:00

Then that means you are a straight bi lesbian, obviously! Your hair is so valid uwu

MilkTea · 2021-03-16T17:45:31+00:00

I get that it’s easy to blame another country for it, but if anime and Japan were the sole reason, the whole “transbian” problem would be a much bigger issue in Japan. Except it’s not at all. It’s a problem unique to the west, especially in North America. Blame the grown ass fetishist men causing trouble.

MilkTea · 2021-02-20T17:32:23+00:00

Seriously someone should study the link between guys becoming trans"lesbians" and anime.

I always found this interesting. While anime isn’t western, I only ever see white transbians. All the cross dressers and transwomen in Japan seem to be gay men, and they don’t try to change definitions or speak over women (at least not that I’m aware of). I’m guessing the vast majority of transbians are weebs who always fetishized asian women, but now they want to BE them. It’s gross.

MilkTea · 2021-02-12T14:26:19+00:00

That’s right TRAs. The only way to defeat us evil transphobicterfcisbigots is to leave us alone. Now go away.

MilkTea · 2021-02-08T22:56:40+00:00

His username is "JessWhoIsTrans" and posts in trans and fetish subs like bimbofication. Shocking, I know.

MilkTea · 2021-02-08T22:40:21+00:00

We want this to be a safe place for lesbians to talk and share pictures, but unfortunately men think they belong everywhere.

If you question a man as to why he's on a lesbian site, you just get abuse.

... Unless those men start identifying as "women", then suddenly it's all fine and dandy.

They really can't complain about AL being inclusive of everyone when their sub description is literally "a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!". You reap what you sow.

MilkTea · 2021-02-08T02:19:05+00:00

TRAs: Putting pronouns in bio helps trans people! They’re not a joke!

Pronouns in bio: he/it/they

MilkTea · 2021-02-04T04:33:28+00:00

I always hated being short... But now I can fix that by identifying as a tall person! Anyone who calls me short is committing literal violence.

MilkTea · 2021-02-04T00:16:27+00:00

Yup. He doesn’t realize he’s venting to a group of AGPs and that real lesbians will keep avoiding him.

MilkTea · 2021-02-03T14:48:06+00:00

They really think a limp dick suddenly becomes attractive to lesbians lmao. P in V isn't the only problem here, it's the P. It doesn't belong in a lesbian relationship.

And even if a trans woman isn't on HRT or had any surgery, there's also all the mental stuff.

Yeah, and it's just as repulsive.

MilkTea · 2021-02-02T21:16:27+00:00

I haaate the word gatekeeping now. It would make sense in the context of pretentious people saying certain people can’t enjoy a genre of music, for instance. It doesn’t make sense for sexual orientation. Words have meaning.

MilkTea · 2021-02-02T16:39:16+00:00

I always wondered what could be worse than the Cats movie. I think I found the answer.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T05:49:43+00:00

I really admire gay men who don't care if the boyfriend has a vagina.

Bible thumpers and conversion therapists would agree.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T05:25:15+00:00

Found a new one.

Me: women reported getting filmed in the shower right after a university changed all the spaces to gender neutral.

TRA: but can you really say it's because of gender neutral spaces? Here's an unrelated link to an article from Singapore of a man sneaking into women's spaces and filming them.

??? I'm still confused.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T05:10:39+00:00

Does Singapore allow self-ID? Is it in their law? If not, what was the point of linking it. There's a reason why UoT reverted most of their spaces back to single sex after the reports of voyeurism. And I'm still waiting for your source. In fact, with a quick google search, university of Michigan had an increase in sexual assault.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T04:31:44+00:00

And where can I find proof of your claim of sexual assault reports going down?

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T04:23:21+00:00

University of Toronto. Your turn.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T04:22:38+00:00

Which university?

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T04:19:54+00:00

Okay, then tell me why a university in my country had regular single sex spaces and everything was fine, until they decided to change them into gender neutral spaces, AND IMMEDIATELY, had reports from women saying they were filmed in the showers by males?

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T04:04:38+00:00

Can you tell me the percentage of male predators vs female predators?

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:57:45+00:00

So you believe male perverts and predators should be free to enter female only spaces. Even in changing rooms. And any woman who reports them are “karens”.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:55:16+00:00

You defend male perverts by letting them in women’s spaces. Creep. https://www.womenarehuman.com/category/crime/

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:54:06+00:00

Why do you keep deflecting? You brought up male perverts. Why are you talking about taking a dump?

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:51:52+00:00

Why do you think womenarehuman is “child porn link”? Your misogynistic creep brain can’t comprehend that women are human? You don’t care about the harm women have to deal with due to the trans ideology? https://www.womenarehuman.com/category/crime/

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:49:57+00:00

Even if they don’t follow the law, self-id protects them. Women and girls would have to respect the male perverts and predators’ “identity” in our spaces.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:46:02+00:00

Yes you can, sir.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:45:17+00:00

And self-ID would protect them. That was the entire point. But not only that, you wouldn’t report male perverts in women’s bathroom or changing rooms. You call women who report them “karens”. You are a misogynistic creep.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:38:56+00:00

Hey creep, can you tell me what you see when you click on this link? https://www.womenarehuman.com/category/crime/

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:37:21+00:00

Again, where’s the link to prove you statement?

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:36:54+00:00

You:

QUESTION: If male perverts are willing to break the law to rape women, why would they also not break the law to ignore bathroom gender identity requirements?

Why did you ask this question then?

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:27:04+00:00

https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rh55

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T03:00:46+00:00

Then why did you bring the topic yourself by asking this question? You clearly are interested in male perverts. https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rh55

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T02:45:52+00:00

https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rh55 Ew why are you obsessed with male perverts? It's because you are one, isn't it? That's the reason why you asked that question in the first place because you are obsessed with male perverts in women's bathroom. Get help sir.

. . . that's how you are acting. No real arguments. Just projection and gaslighting.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T02:22:03+00:00

By that “logic” you wouldn’t stop GUSHING about male perverts.

Interesting how you acknowledged I wasn’t white before, and now you’re are full on lying. https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhf2 How pathetic. You’re only proving our point about how toxic TRAs are.

I’ve been constantly providing links to expose your lies. Where are your links to prove your point? There are none.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T02:04:32+00:00

“It’s all you talk about” then why did you ask the question about male perverts? Hm? I only tried to answer your question.

And unlike you, I’m not white nor male.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T01:59:01+00:00

https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhcv

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T01:58:33+00:00

https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhcv

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T01:56:12+00:00

Again, where did I say that? Link? Also you misgendered me, isn’t that violence?

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T01:55:31+00:00

There you go gaslighting again. Can you link me to my comment where I fantasize about exposing myself? Where is it? You need help if you blatantly lie like that. It ain’t healthy.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T01:47:32+00:00

https://www.womenarehuman.com/category/crime/

Funny how you’re now using the nickname I gave you, creep. If anyone is projecting, it’s you.

MilkTea · 2021-01-29T01:20:20+00:00

You’re only exposing yourself when you keep projecting and gaslighting. I’d say those are the only things TRAs are good at, but you’re not even good at it. If you genuinely thought I was “fantasizing”, you’d have brought it up during the first conversation, but you didn’t. You’re only trying to gaslight me but it’s not working. You being a creep is already being seen by people. It’s useless trying to play dumb. Go read it yourself. https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhc3

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T23:24:49+00:00

The conversation was about male predators in women's bathrooms/changing rooms and how self-ID gives those predators protection. Are you playing dumb?

Me: I've seen transwomen proudly admit about being fully naked in front of women and young girls, and self-ID would protect those male creeps over women and girls.

You: but is it a crime? Is it? Why would you report them, Karen?

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T23:09:53+00:00

I don't fantasize it, you're the one who needs to stop projecting. And I said it before, transwomen exposing their dicks in women's changing rooms is something I saw them proudly admit themselves. I don't need to make up imaginary scenarios, it happens irl. And again, you're the one who wouldn't report a male predator in women's changing room. You said it multiple times, anyone who would report them are "Karens". YOU are the creep. Anyone can read the thread and see that. It's pointless to backtrack, creep.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T23:02:44+00:00

Click on the link and you'll see why. Not sure why you want to backtrack- oh wait, I know why.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T23:00:56+00:00

Then why did I get called a "Karen" for saying that I'd report a male in a women's changing room for exposing his male genitalia? Why are you against reporting male creeps?

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T22:43:03+00:00

You flash your tiddies in the changing room to minors? Yikes.

But you don't see a problem with males flashing their dicks in front of minors in changing rooms huh 🤡

Edit: for context, here's the thread https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhc3

This guy's a creep.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T22:39:02+00:00

Where did you answer them?

And you do realize me and yousaythosethings are different people? I only jumped on the conversation after I saw you refusing to answer. So your reply isn't a "gotcha" as you think.

Btw off topic, you still haven't denied the fact that you have no problem with male predators exposing their male genitals in front of children. It's too late now, creep.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T22:25:34+00:00

How would I know what white women are thinking? Why do I have to answer on their behalf?

And no, you did not answer any of the questions. https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhcn

Do you not know how to read?

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T22:19:00+00:00

Well I'm not white, unlike you. Might wanna ask your predominantly white TRA friends to answer that for you.

Since you still didn't answer properly: https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhcn

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T22:12:05+00:00

That's not an answer, straight white dude. That's still deflection.

https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhcn

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T22:08:08+00:00

Why are you ignoring the fact that you have no problem with males exposing their dicks in front of children, but you were disturbed at the idea of women exposing their breasts? Why is that?

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T22:05:33+00:00

A straight white dude who complains about white women and keeps calling me, a woc, a “Karen”. Lol

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T22:03:08+00:00

Stop ignoring her questions https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/79kp/trans_person_posts_on_actuallesbians_im_a_cis/rhcn

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T22:01:07+00:00

Wait, so you were disturbed at the idea of women exposing their breasts in front of children, but you’re totally fine with males exposing their dicks in front of children? Disgusting. If anyone commits a crime, it’s normal to report them. But statistically speaking, males commit more crimes than females. And ONCE AGAIN, we are talking about male predators. Are you purposely being dense?

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T21:51:24+00:00

She asked questions first, why not answer them?

The only thing that's telling, is you being a hypocrite and constantly deflecting. So go and answer her questions. Don't even reply to me, reply directly to her and answer her questions.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T21:49:05+00:00

Who says they don't commit crimes? They are called predators for a reason. And there have been transwomen who were proud of being fully naked with his genitals out even though there there young girls around in changing rooms. Would it be a "Karen" thing to do if I reported him? Because in one of your replies, you were disturbed at the idea of women exposing their breasts in front of children. Surely, you'd have a problem with a male exposing his male genitals infront of children?

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T21:42:37+00:00

I said answer her questions. Stop deflecting.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T21:39:47+00:00

You’ve asked plenty of questions, now it’s time for you to start answering questions instead of deflecting.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T21:37:32+00:00

We are talking about male predators. You even said male perverts in your original comment. You’d rather protect male perverts in women’s spaces over women’s safety.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T21:35:57+00:00

Do you know what “TERF” stands for?

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T21:29:57+00:00

Are we not talking about male predators?

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T21:27:23+00:00

If there’s a male in a female bathroom, people would alert security or a worker. But now with self-ID, women have to prioritize predatory male feelings and self identification over our own safety.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T21:23:49+00:00

We are talking about male predators.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T21:01:10+00:00

Because self-ID would give male predators protection. Next.

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T20:57:36+00:00

Do you think only white people exist in Europe?...

MilkTea · 2021-01-28T20:55:50+00:00

You only say this because some dude who’s not even a “TERF” said something racist. Meanwhile, TRAs constantly compare black women to biological males in their arguments.

MilkTea · 2021-01-27T17:13:59+00:00

“I can’t date other trans people because it triggers my dysphoria, but cis people need to re-examine and unlearn their genital fetish and date trans people.”

MilkTea