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[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

If they waited till marriage, and weren’t whores, they would be just fine.

[–]RaverJodes 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

How does that make sense? Enlighten me.

What they NEED to do is NOT fake it, and communicate to their partners that they still need satisfying.

Your comment is just nonsense from what I can tell

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Women who have less partners report higher satisfaction.

[–]loves2smootch 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Why women fake orgasms? Because they think men care. Hahahahhaha

[–]jet199Instigatrix 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

I always wonder what the race breakdown is on these studies.

I can't imagine all those women with 4 kids by different dads chasing down the next thug are doing all that for no orgasm.

Seems like a middle class white women problem.

[–]RaverJodes 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

It's a communication problem. Which I'm pretty sure covers all classes and races. Just cos a woman has 4 kids by different dads doesn't mean she isn't too shy to ask for proper satisfaction cos mummy & daddy were too shy to confirm it's ok to do.

[–]jet199Instigatrix 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I take it you're not female.

No, it's not a communication problem. And more time usually isn't the solution.

Many women have a bad attitude to sex, a bad attitude to their bodies and quite a lot simply have no idea what an orgasm even is. A man coming along and saying "I can fix you" is only going to encourage them to fake it even more to spare his feelings when he enviably fails.

[–]Musky 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A man coming along and saying "I can fix you" is only going to encourage them to fake it even more to spare his feelings when he enviably inevitably fails.

I'm not sure it's something to be fixed. It's just difficult to give some women orgasms. A woman never orgasming however, well, I strongly disagree a man who's trying will always fail. Some guys just don't care to try.

[–]RaverJodes 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's easy to get a woman to cum with a massage wand

[–]IkeConn 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

When I was young I discovered there were 2 types of girls. Those that got off on fucking and the other half.

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    [–]RaverJodes 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    It's your generation's fault for not teaching girls to communicate about their sexual needs cos you're too depressed to have open conversations about it with them

    [–]Musky 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Women all over the world have freely shared what turns them on and gets them off for the whole internet to see. Try one of those things, if it doesn't work, try something else. Repeat until success. But you can't rest on your laurels, she's gonna get tired of a one trick pony so you have to keep it fresh and new.

    Stimulating the clitoris during sex is generally a good entry level move.

    There's more advanced techniques like pulling her hair while you finger her asshole, but just cause she gets off doesn't mean she won't be mad at you afterwards for making her feel like a dirty girl.

    [–]SoCo 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    I'm thinking this, too, is mostly related to our environment being awash in hormone disrupting pollution (micro-plastics, forever chemicals, using RoundUp as a decadent just before harvest, etc..)

    [–]1Icemonkey 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    Roundup is used on plots in late winter before planting. I know because I live in the middle of thousands of acres of Northern California row crop farming and watch the cycle right out my front door, literally, every year.

    [–]SoCo 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Yes, RoundUp is a herbicide, so that makes sense, but it is also widely used as a desiccant. This is where they spray the field shortly before harvesting it, to prematurely kill and dry the plant and encourage more even ripening. This is typically not much longer than a week before harvest, although recently they've started trying to pretend that they wait several weeks.

    This practice is well know for grains such as Wheat, but most people don't realize that with today's high turnaround industrial farming, desiccation is done to many types of crops.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crop_desiccation

    Glyphosate (Roundup®) is the principal pre-harvest systemic herbicide used for desiccation of a wide variety of crops.

    [–]1Icemonkey 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Maybe, I haven’t noticed that but I will look for it this year. We have bean crops, tomatoes, wheat, rice, safflower, sunflower, etc.

    [–]iamonlyoneman 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    skill issue

    [–]1Icemonkey 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Q. How do you make a woman come?

    A. Who cares?

    [–]EternalSunset 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Women today: "OMG women in the past were so oppressed, they probably never had any orgasms at all. I'm so glad we live in a era where we are free and happy."
    Also women today:

    [–]zyxzevn🐈‍⬛ 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Its about finding the spot

    [–]LarrySwinger2 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)