Here’s how to talk to women, welcome by a bot. Incels pay attention. Chads do this naturally. They get the talking.

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I think both. You have to be comfortable with yourself. Better for you, and we all want a partner who is confident and comfortable with themself. People are different in their needs, too. Some are givers more than others. Finding balance and compatibility is part of the quest.