I was 14 when I was gang raped

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[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (67 children)

This sounds more like slut regret to me.

[–]chickenz 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (45 children)

The story is obviously fabricated.

The newspapers, both large and small, are far beyond bankrupt... So they fabricate stories that cause people to hopefully pay two dollars subscription to read their crap.

You fucktards are dumb.

Fuck these fake sensational stories.

[–]IMissPorn 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (12 children)

You know the weirdest thing about these child abuse stories? They never name the abusers. Wouldn't you think if she had really been gang raped she'd by eager to use the national platform to bring some belated justice to this rapist pop band? I do understand being too scared to tell anyone at 14, but why not now?

[–]chickenz 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Let me 'splain this to you, Lucy..

These bullshit online newspapers, including CNN and MSNBC , etc, are all competing to see who can make up up the most fabulous bullshit..

Yup, that's what these fruitcakes are doing.

Pretty much, 99% of it is horsecrap.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They never name the abusers

I think I figured out who it is. The author, Emilia di Girolamo, was born at home on Nash Lee Road. Nash Lee Road is in Terrick, Aylesbury and in Wycombe district. Since she was a 14yr old girl, and lying about a sleepover for just one night, she'd have to been near home. The town proper of Aylesbury has the Aylesbury Civic Centre, and the only bands that played in 1985 was Sonic Youth, and Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds.. Sonic Youth is out, none of the members fit her description.

But in 1985, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds were down to 4 members as Emilia writes. She also said he was also an actor and a model, Nick Cave was an actor, although I don't see anything explicitly written about modeling, he has a number of pics from '85 and he could definitely have been a model.

[–]raven9 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

She is not the one publishing her story, the guardian is. You think maybe they told her they can't name names because of the threat of defamation lawsuits?

[–]chickenz 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

No, I am saying they are making this stuff up

..just like they do making shit up about Trump.

[–]jet199Instigatrix 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Not just the people you like.

Pretty much every famous case where multiple women come forward there will be a few making it up but that doesn't mean all such claims are false.

Even with someone like Jimmy Saville a mother and daughter got caught pretending to be sisters so they could claim to be victims.

Then you have the cases where the women are likely telling the truth but the incidents are so insignificant they don't justify the outrage at all, like Cuomo pinching arses.

[–]Insider 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You also have cases where women are likely telling the truth but they were threatened into silence like in the Conspiracy of Silence documentary or like with Katie Johnson/Trump.

[–]Insider 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They make shit up about Trump, but they also support Trump on the other end and in the alt-media circles they control.

For real independents, they don't really give them a platform or voice. Most of the population have never heard of the real independents. They only parade around puppets in the media, like Trump.

[–]IMissPorn 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

That would certainly be a big risk if the story is made up, yes.

[–]chickenz 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is is what news used to sound like, before we began spiraling into a global economic collapse.

Video: Paul Harvey

https://youtu.be/jRB1CWgMFU4

[–]chickenz 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To get caught fabricating fantastic hoax stories is a sign of desperation that is to be expected of a crap publication just pre-bankruptcy.

[–]ActuallyNot 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You know the weirdest thing about these child abuse stories? They never name the abusers.

That's not very weird.

One thing is defamation. I the UK you need proof if you're going to defame someone, and there's not going to be a lot of evidence from 37 years ago.

Another is the will. It puts a lot of stress on a person, their marriage and their children to go through a court case, particularly one regarding rape. Maybe she just doesn't feel up to it.

[–]ActuallyNot 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

That's not obvious to me.

What are the tells that it's fabricated?

[–]chickenz 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (11 children)

Some people could get ran over by a train and they still won't believe in trains

You are one of those people

[–]ActuallyNot 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

How can you tell it's fabricated?

[–]chickenz 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (9 children)

Form your own opinion.

[–]ActuallyNot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

My opinion is that it's probably true.

What makes you say the fabrication is obvious?

[–]chickenz 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

Ok

[–]ActuallyNot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

That's not a very good basis to claim that "The story is obviously fabricated."

It lacks an evidenced fact, and the sound reasoning that demonstrates that the conclusion follows from that fact.

[–]chickenz 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

I don't work for you and you are free to express your own ideas.

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    [–]chickenz 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (16 children)

    I am not going to explain to you what I know, except that I can read a story and tell when it is fabricated.

    And hey, you don't have any evidence that it is real and is not fabricated, so suck on that.

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      [–]chickenz 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

      it is obviously a fabricated tale by a disgruntled lesbian that wants to slander some innocent man's name.

      it is a crime to file false rape charges.

      [–][deleted]  (13 children)

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        [–]chickenz 1 insightful - 4 fun1 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 4 fun -  (12 children)

        i use bold text because it help me lure in the ladies to suck my genitals to produce my man juice for them to enjoy.

        [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (11 children)

        #genius

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          [–]chickenz 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

          Muskrat, the story is fabricated

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            [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (11 children)

            Fuck you, what you're doing is cheapening actual victims of rape. 14yr old girls who sneak out to party with bands are not little naive angels who have absolutely no idea why they're getting into a bed with four guys. She said itself herself, she was treated like a slag -- because she was acting like a slag -- and she didn't like that, so it's rape. But that's not rape, that's regret for being a slut. Slut regret.

            And if you want to be mad at someone, be mad at Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds for gangbanging her.

            [–]chickenz 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

            the story is fake, but you are too asleep to see that.

            [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

            I respect your skepticism, however, I believe this is real because A) she's not some random bimbo, she's been a writer/producer on well known shows.

            She started writing for the popular long-running drama EastEnders in 2008 before joining Law & Order: UK in 2009. She joined the core writing team of Law & Order UK for series 3&4 and took over as Co-Producer and Lead Writer for series 5&6. She penned 13 episodes in total but announced she was leaving at the end of season 6 to pursue other projects. She returned as a guest writer to write a two part season opener for season 7, "Tracks" and "Tremors".

            Emilia joined The Tunnel as showrunner for season 3, titled The Tunnel: Vengeance, airing in December 2017 (Kudos/Sky Atlantic). [5] Afterwards she wrote the script for one episode of the period drama Medici: Masters of Florence.

            In 2021, she wrote the television drama miniseries Deceit.[6] She is also the executive producer and writer of the police drama series Three Pines, which will premiere on Amazon Prime Video.[7]

            And B) Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds played near where she lived in 1985 and they could fit her description of the band members she slept with.

            [–]chickenz 1 insightful - 4 fun1 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

            No males allowed in the /s/RapeCrisis center!

            [–][deleted]  (7 children)

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              [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

              EXACTLY what pedophiles say

              Oh, is that what you and your friends say? I thought it was pretty gross how noticeably excited you were when underage "Kat" joined the chat. I'm on this side because I was involved with much older women as a young person. 14 in fact was the first online women. One was 26 and the other 34, not sure which was first now. That was a positive experience in my life, not a negative one. They didn't hurt me and it was nice to have someone to talk to and play Dragon's Gate on AOL with.

              Fuck you with your baseless pedo accusations.

              If I had met them in person we definitely would have fucked. It was obvious to a 14 year old.

              First, she did not want to be raped, ffs

              I don't think that should be considered rape when she sought it out. I don't think that's victim blaming either. There is a big difference between walking down the street and being sexually assaulted for what you're wearing, and sneaking off to hang out with grown men, getting into bed with them, and not enjoying the gang bang.

              14 year olds are not chaste angels, if you ever raised a kid you'd have noticed they start spending a lot of time in the shower jerking off and thinking everyone doesn't know what they're doing but everyone knows, cause we were all 14 once too.

              But they don't usually go sneaking off with grown rockers. And what the fuck did she think was going to happen?

              This is like the Cosby bullshit, yeah it was scummy, but if you party with Cosby in his bedroom and take pills he gives you, hoping it helps your career, I don't have any sympathy years later when they cry rape. What the fuck did they think was going to happen?

              Any reasonable person would know some fucked up sex shit was about to go down that night. Even a 14 year old should be aware. She's very successful now, obviously wasn't a dumb girl.

              The author notes that it was not consensual in her case. It was rape.

              The author claims it was rape, I disagree. The facts of the matter remain undetermined, and are likely to remain so forever

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                [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

                So you want to make much more horrific comments

                Yo bitchboi, stop clutching your pearls you stupid faggot.

                [–][deleted]  (3 children)

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                  [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

                  You're just trying to squash discussion with your concern trolling. Typical socks shitlib tactics.

                  [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                  My pearls are wasted on you, swine. You misapply the term.

                  [–]chickenz 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

                  in the fine state of Georgia, the age of consent is 14.

                  in the beautiful Phillipines, the age of consent is twelve.

                  [–]jet199Instigatrix 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

                  But in the Philippines the parents can hunt you down and shoot you.

                  [–]chickenz 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

                  Typically, if a mature man connects with a female over there, it is customary that he is going to bring gifts to her and especially to the girls mother and father.. these gifts will usually be a minimum minimum of $10k to $50k or even much more

                  The family ain't gonna be mad about nothing.

                  https://www.thaicupid.com/

                  [–]jet199Instigatrix 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

                  The Philippines aren't Thailand. They are religious nuts. They kill you then say you were a drug dealer and no charges are pressed.

                  [–]chickenz 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                  Yeah, Thailand and Phillipines are different, but you can search http://thaicupid.com for girls from multiples of countries, even the United States.

                  I probably wouldn't ultimately go to any of those countries because of my weed habits, but I could go there for a few months and if I had $20k to $50k to spare I could find myself living in a nice country cottage with two or three very nice companions.

                  My favorite girls of all time were the two donkey show girls.

                  The softest and nicest, by a longshot.

                  They were amazing.

                  https://youtu.be/NcGNvD6aE4M

                  [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                  I am so happy for them

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                    [–]chickenz 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                    aww, did you gang up on the bad man?

                    lesbian rage.

                    [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                    I'm going to reluctantly weight in on this. Minors are idiotic dipshits who are prone to poor decision making. This makes them more vulnerable than older teens and adults. Statutory rape is still rape, even if it is a mere reflection of regretful actions. Anything more is assumptions and hearsay.