You ever fall for that “women are intelligent, moral, kind, caring, emotional beings”?

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[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

If everything is predestined then it's a vain effort, since you can't change your fate anyway.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

But you definitely can make an impact. I'm quite sure of it.

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I can't change my destiny of being doomed, and nor can anyone change theirs. It's all what's been given to them, the cards they've been dealt, whether they're aware or not, numerology or not. And 95% of the time it's lifelong torment, you'll get some good mixed in if you're very lucky.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

You at first at foremost only can change, what you believe you can change.

It's like with seeing with your eyes. You can't see or sense things you don't believe in.

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I used to believe I could. It's a cope, it never worked, and now I need to face the bitter reality.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Only you can make any decisions concerning your beliefs. If you still (so to believe) think there actually is a spoon, it most surely never will vanish for your personal sensing environment.

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I've believed things before and they don't change just because I want them to. This is a mind prison, you have no control over anything. For example there's plenty of men out there who believe they're women...they're still men. And there's plenty of schizos who believe the earth is flat...it's still round. This isn't how it should be, but this existence is neither ethical nor fair, as much as we want to pretend that it is.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is hard and unfair, i agree.

But in the details it surely is more complicated. My experience tought me this. And if i didn't "want" to learn it, it just switched bait, so to say. Meaning teaching me this fact in a more painful way.