I know you're all probably tired of constantly hearing about abortion, feel free to move along if you're just going to be hostile with me. But I had to get this off my chest. I'm so sick of people on both "sides" of the abortion debate being completely incapable of nuance and empathy.
The pro-choicers irritate me the most. Instead of thinking deeply about whether it is acceptable to end a human life in the womb, they deny that it is a human or that it's alive in the first place. Either they're trying to resolve intense cognitive dissonance, or they have no common sense. If it's not alive, what happens to it during an abortion? And if it's not human, what species does it belong to?
They use all kinds of non-sequiturs when supporting this argument. "This is what a fetus looks like at 6 weeks! How could you say that's human?" Well that's precisely what a human fetus at 6 weeks looks like. One I saw on Facebook today that really got me: "A fetus is LITERALLY a parasite." Never mind the fact that a parasite is necessarily an organism from a different species that survives solely through its host for its ENTIRE life - how dark has humanity gotten that we would see our own offspring as parasites?
I could probably write pages and pages of ridiculous pro-choice arguments that don't hold water, but then I might be giving the pro-life crowd too much credit. I wish I had a dollar for every time I heard one of them say "women just need to cLoSe ThEiR lEgS!" First of all - yuck, what a crass thing to say. Secondly, it takes two to make a baby! Period! Full stop! Regardless of your opinion on the unfairness of our society, child support, or anything of that nature, it takes a male and a female to a make a baby. Even if you loathe women with your entire soul, understand that it's low IQ to blame them entirely for reproduction. Whether you're pro-choice or pro-life, men hold just as much responsibility to help avoid unplanned pregnancies as women do.
The other mistake pro-lifers make is using religious arguments. It is completely unnecessary to bring religion into this conversation, even if it does inform your opinion. You don't need religion to explain to someone why they shouldn't kill their 3 year old child, so you don't need it for abortion, either. Plus, when you bring religion into it, you're guaranteeing that nobody on the pro-choice side is going to be convinced, and in fact they'll be pushed further into their side because you've confirmed their idea that the only opposition to abortion is religious.
Which brings me to my last point, my own opinion: Abortion is not a good thing. It literally is the ending of a human life, which, if left to continue growing, would either die by natural or accidental cause (which could happen at any age, in or out of the womb), or eventually become one of us. Ending that life has the same impact as ending the life of someone of any other age - the difference is that we aren't consciously aware of that impact.
Abortion disrupts the natural order of things. No one knows what the world would have been like without all of these missing people. You might assume that it would be worse because "overpopulation," but we don't know what it would have been like. Every person has an impact. Having abortion as a back-up option has led people to seriously disrespect the human cycle of reproduction and become totally careless about who they have sex with. It's increased sexual degeneracy. It's decreased respect for life in general. The issue of abortion and all of its impacts plays a much bigger role in the problems of today's society than most people are aware of.
All of that said, I don't think that the answer is criminal charges. I think we need to understand that, although a fetus is living human being, that doesn't mean that an abortion should be treated the same way legally as killing a born person. Because right now, people are lost. They do not understand this reality. We need a consciousness shift before we can truly hold everyone accountable. For decades, American society (as well as many other countries) has embraced abortion. To suddenly send people to prison over it feels extreme and like it would just increase violence, division, and chaos. If the goal is to respect life, we need to take gradual steps, changing hearts and minds.
The most important part of this would be to shift ALL pro-life energy towards preventing unplanned pregnancies instead of preventing abortions. This is a win-win-win. The problem is that it would require people to start having respect for sex and their own bodies. No more rape. No more random one night stands. Encouraging abstinence - not out of Puritanical shame, but out of respect for ourselves and a deep understanding of the consequences of sex. People think this is impossible. But human beings in many societies have overcome primitive, savage behaviors, and I think we could do this too.
I know it's a tall order, but it would be the solution to this whole mess. This is an issue I've been thinking about from many perspectives for years, and I'm only scratching the surface here. But I would love to discuss any of these points further if you're interested.
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