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[–]jet199Instigatrix 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

You need to be careful it's not your low self esteem making you imagine what feelings she has and that pushing her away.

Stop trying to read her mind.

She likely didn't answer the question because you are putting words into her mouth and she didn't want to get tricked into answering a certain way.

You need to have a conversation with her where you let her talk and listen then you'll know where you stand.

Opposites is not always a problem if you complement each other but you need to work out if that's the case.

I think the old arguments thing is another case of you need to just listen and not argue so she can get whatever she needs to off her chest, then she might be able to move on from it. She obviously feels you've never understood her point if she keeps bringing it up.

I mean if you don't think it's worth it with her write down a list of things you do want in a partner rather than just going with the women who'll have you. You can't really find someone right for you if you don't know what that is.

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    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Internet women come and internet women go. One day you'll be laughing about this with #15.

    You should stop being so negative, or at least stop sharing it, for your future interpersonal relationships if nothing else. This girl liked you and it was too much for her, people who don't like you want to deal with it even less.