Guys - How bad is the dating world?

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[–]Canbot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (17 children)

The nuclear family is scientifically proven to be good for society. Children raised in these environments do better on every metric compared to children from broken homes. Even if the parents don't get along. You have literally been brainwashed against something that is proven to be a universal good.

[–]asterias 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (16 children)

The nuclear family is dead thanks to feminism. You can't make a nuclear family without a proper woman. You can't turn a ho into a wife.

[–]Canbot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

You shouldn't take life advice from rap music. There is no reason a girl who has slept around would be incapable of settling down.

[–]Chipit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

Huh? Really? You want to settle down with the town bicycle? No way. No man with any self-respect does that. I've known a few men who married the town bicycle, and we all laughed behind his back at what a cuck he was. Including a chuckle from the bride.

Women get a taste for the exciting life. They don't magically become housewives afterwards.

[–]Comatoast 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

How is being the town bike the exciting life? I would think one would want to opt out of that, but I guess some people see freedom in it. I know that the modern shit involves being pro-sex, but I would wager there's a lot of women that seek out validation through sex, and if that's the case and you've actually found someone who makes you feel validated, wouldn't that change things?

[–]Chipit 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

How is being the town bike the exciting life?

I can see you have little experience with such things.

Women who like a good time want new experiences, they want to party, they like to have sex with a lot of different men. How can such a person suddenly change and be content with a dull life in the suburbs? Spoiler alert: she doesn't.

[–]Comatoast 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Partying and promiscuity don't always occur together though. I don't know what your definition of ho is though, since it means different things for different people and there's lines drawn, numbers, etc.

I don't see why someone couldn't grow out of that lifestyle though. I stopped being interested in alcohol after hitting legal drinking age, so maybe that "excitement" could lose its thrill. I don't know why anyone would want to go through a smorgasbord of bad lays for fun though (I know it happens, it's just strange).

[–]Chipit 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Well, you're right and wrong. There are town bicycles who do get tired of the party/wild sex life. They then freeze out their poor sap husbands, and refuse to have sex with them after the children are born. Or worse, she cuckolds him and makes him raise another (better) man's children. Either way, the men are the losers. It's such a tragic situation.

Then there are the promiscuous women who have sex with a man who goes nuts that he finally got to have sex. Since she's got loose standards and all. He wifes her up as soon as possible, and she snickers behind his back as she can't believe her good fortune. She still likes to party, though. I screwed a bunch of these. I actually kind of got to like them, even though they're older. It's because you know they're not going to get overly attached if you make them a regular FWB. Single girls always start thinking about marriage after a few months.

[–]Comatoast 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Well, technically only the men who choose to be with women that are like that. I'm personally a fan (or was, I hope to never deal with dating bullshit again) of being extremely nosey about someone's personal sexual history before even considering them in a serious way.

I screwed a bunch of these

I never understood this. From your own definition, aren't you technically being promiscuous as well then? If you expect these behaviors from a long-term partner when you begin looking for one, shouldn't you hold yourself to the same rules lest it be hypocrisy?

[–]Chipit 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I thought we were talking about the women? Suddenly making personal attacks on me?

Men and women have fundamentally different mating strategies: men want to spread their seed far and wide while women want to find a high-status man to care for her and her children. It's as unnatural for a woman to be a town bicycle as it is for a man to be celibate. Of course there are examples of both types, but both are equally ill-suited to marriage and childbirth.

[–]Canbot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Fist off that is a YOU problem. That you are the kind of person who cant see anything beyond chastity doesn't mean there is nothing beyond that, it simply means you lack the intelligence to see it.

Secondly, if you feel superior for having scored the land whale that no one ever wanted to fuck that doesn't actually make you superior, or your catch better than his.

Third, your absolute lack of respect for others does not in any way support your retarded claim that people can't change. The simple fact that age reduces sexual desires, both your own and others of you, means that older people naturally settle down. It's a different stage in life.

Fourth, it is the highly desirable people who have lots of sex (generally speaking) so those are the people who end up having attractive, popular, successful kids. Cope harder with your ugly wife and loser kids.

[–]Chipit 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wow, this is the weirdest comment ever. Talk about someone playing in the mud at the bottom of the pyramid of debate with completely unsupported invented allegations.

retarded claim that people can't change.

Your slur against the differently abled is noted and held against you. The leopard doesn't change its spots. A girl who likes excitement doesn't suddenly decide that the dull suburbs are the life for her. She might move out there, but she's still gonna be on the prowl. Ask me how I know, LOL.

[–]Comatoast 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The nuclear family is dead thanks to turbo capitalism. Who makes that extra money up top when both parties are forced to work? The US has terrible fail safes for women. A grand chunk of businesses will offer only the minimum of 6 weeks unpaid postpartum leave, some will have up to 12 weeks. If you're in with a great company, sometimes a portion of that leave is paid, and I'm not positive how short term disability plays into benefits here but that may be an option. Newborns need more time than that.

A newborn through to about 2 months will go through a minimum of 8-12 diapers a day. You don't cheap out on disposables. You will guaranteed have a shit flood run up the back of their clothes, and end up in hell for it. Pampers run $24.99/84ct box--lasting roughly 8 days at an avg of 10 diapers a day. Cloth diapering can be done, but it's expensive as all hell and requires a lot of dedication to laundry, and stain control to keep a good rotation. Newborns also need either formula or breast milk. Sometimes boobs don't participate, and stop producing milk. Sometimes your baby is a turd and refuses to latch, so you'll have to purchase an expensive pump and dedicate a good 30 minute session every 1-3 hours for that. All that failing, there's formula which is depressingly expensive at $20.49 a container for dry mix, granting a mere 41 x 2oz bottles. You can see how that adds up quickly.