For one who is free from views there are no ties, for one who is delivered by understanding there are no follies; but those who grasp after views and philosophical opinions, they wander about in the world annoying people."

That right there is it. When we form an attachment towards something, it almost becomes a leash of sorts that we forget even exists. To be free from ones mind and ties, means that they can just be. Just exist. Say "I am", and nothing else needs to be said.

Connections are different from attachments. Being connected is having without possessing. Existing without being attached.

We'll continue to wonder as long as it takes to learn the lesson of just accepting ourselves as we are. And to remember who we actually are. We are still living in the external world hoping for it to satisfy us because that's what we've been told our entire lives. But we are finally realizing what a load of bullshit that is, and how there's no winning when we play by the rules that other people have set for us. We can only win when we become Neo and see the matrix for what it is, and how we are the rulers of it.