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[–]StrategicTactic 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Texas is pretty big. There is a great difference between different areas. Austin is far closer to California with the amount of leftists in there, plus their motto is "Keep Austin weird" which describes the mentality pretty well. San Antonio and Dallas are in a similar boat. Fort Worth is the largest city governed by the right, but it still is a pretty big city so most have the city mentality (I don't know you, but as long as you are cool, we cool). Smaller cities and towns will have more neighborly views, likely wanting to know who you are and what you are up to (more as conversation and getting to know you than being aggressive).

Lately I have noticed a general decrease in driving skill. I mention this because I see it as a measure of hospitality- knowing how to drive at the appropriate speed in the appropriate lane is part of being a good neighbor. If the guy who drives the speed limit has to go into the passing lane because the middle lane is taken by someone going under, then the speeder weaves in and out of the right lane. This aggravates all involved. Ten years ago you could count on someone making room for you in traffic. Now you might find room, or you might not.

In many ways the core of America has been independent stubbornness. If you believe that, Texas is perhaps one of the most patriotic of states, embodying its values. There is a reason about 40% of our armed forces volunteer from Texas. If you need help and ask, people will help, but generally you are expected to deal with stuff on your own, and you will get left alone. As I mentioned at the start, however, Texas is big and what you experience will greatly vary depending on where you are.

If you haven't dealt with Texas summer though, you might want to try it before you decide. Texas is noticeably hot. It isn't Arizona or New Mexico, but getting above 100 F every year is pretty common. I think just a decade ago Dallas had 100 days of 100 degree weather in one year.

[–]Pononimus 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hi! First, I want to greatly thank you for your long and very informative post. You told me all of the important things and I really appreciate that. You mention Austin and the other big cities in Texas and those places are fine for those who want to live there but, honestly, me and my family really would much prefer one of the smaller towns you mentioned, where the old Down Home Small Town ways still exist, where folks will come and say hello with a happy smile and a pan of Corn Bread. (You have no idea how much I miss that.) Hmm... I like the idea of folks still being self supportive and independent. That's just the way I've been all my life; fiercely independent, not wanting help from anyone but always happy to help others. As for heat, well... I live in the more "conservative" (yeah, right...) Central Valley of California and we also have intense summer heat where it will frequently and regularly go up to 112-115 degrees in the summer but the humidity is low so it's really not that bad if you don't have to be out in it for a long time. But, even if Texas had high temperatures and high humidity I wouldn't care because I'd happily deal with Texas humidity rather than California stupidity! lol Thanks again for the info. :)