Trans men are demanding access to women's bathrooms, sports, other men, etc.

We need to unite as humanity, not perpetuate an 'us and/or them' attitude.

I agree with this. I don't see the trans issue as an us vs them.
More of a some of "us" want to be treated as if they are women, even they are the only ones who see themselves as women, and they're not.

A new accepted category of trans genders should be respected and not harassed, but that doesn't make them women. It makes them men who think they're women.

If a dog thinks it's a turtle; it's still a dog.