Very good post and I unashamedly subscribe to the thesis of para 2. Let's get over with this "no-one owes you sex, u inkwell" straw man. In a civilized society anyone has duties and expectations. I am not an anarchist nor a libertarian. I don't believe it would be fair if top 0.01% of capitalists would somehow manage to grab 99.99% of a state's income. Likewise, I don't think it's good for a society to tolerate that a relatively small number of men can hoard women, leaving some 5-10% of men hopelessly sex-starved. This demotivates said incels and ultimately destabilizes the society. The solution here is monogamy, that guarantees that almost any man can find a wife and can concentrate on more important things than chasing women.