Is it reasonable to presume all women are sluts unless proven otherwise?

submitted by Vng418 from self.nonmorons

I've recently discovered this somewhat nice-looking and pretty girl I saw a few times on the streets near where I live is in fact an A-tier pornstar who engages in all sorts of disgusting stuff. It was a soul-crushing experience for me. I am well aware of visual "slut indicators" (which this particular girl doesn't possess) but these seem to be applicable only to a fragment of female population. I haven't found out a reliable way to examine the rest of the women (who may or may not be sluts). I guess more intimate personal involvement is necessary to judge the woman's qualities, and even then - given the women's natural talent to act in a theatrical manner on demand - there is no certainity whatsover. I live in Eastern Europe and both the strong modern Western cultural influence and the deeply enrooted atheistic tradition of the country is ruining everything. People are just horrible regardless of their sex.

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[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

You should spend some time around normal women, not trying to fuck em, but just to observe what their day to day lives are like. Imo, an average woman's day is a lot like a way more boring version of a man's.

You don't even have to infiltrate their lives, you can just ask and they will tell you, in excruciating detail, every minute detail.

These porn stars, party girls, and uberwhores are out there, but it's hardly typical.

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

😮

[–]fschmidt 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yes for women of modern culture. Women of other cultures (traditional Anabaptists, orthodox jews, muslims) will be different.

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    [–]fschmidt 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

    https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=lock%20and%20key%20theory

    [–]trident765 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

    I had a teen neighbor who brought over a bad-boy while her parents were in the other room - it was devastating hearing her moans and sucking/gagging sounds as they were having sex. It's always eye opening seeing and hearing women from your life having sex. When you just hear that she "had sex", it is almost as if it didn't happen. Only when you observe it with the senses does it really sink in. Imagine being married and then discovering the video of your wife losing her virginity.

    [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Dogpill stronger

    [–]Vng418[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

    I don't mind women having sex, providing it's with their husbands or long-term partners. Regarding your answer, there was this pretty 16 year-old girl who was recorded having group sex with three junior hockey players. This incident made it into local tabloids. I remember how alarming this was for me back then, because she was an innocent-looking student of the "selective school". She posted some sort of slut quotes or excerpts on her social media profile but she eventually removed the whole account. Her clueless father never really found her "guilty", she was still his little angel judging from how the media outlets briefly informed about the case.

    Out of the younger women (<40-year-old ones) I talked to multiple times or know on a more personal level, only approximately 4 of them have been married or in a stable relationship for years. The rest of them have a long history of "failed relationships" or remain "single", which is a code word for being promiscuous, since women never really struggle to find a boyfriend. I even met a few "cute" girls in the past who turned of to be porn actresses aka mega sluts (I live in a porn capital of the world). Many of the teenage girls dress like sluts nowadays, which is quite a difference compared to what I remember from the 2000-2010 era.

    [–]Node 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    (I live in a porn capital of the world)

    I wonder if this influences your perspective. As for women struggling to find a boyfriend, see the TruFemcels.

    [–]Vng418[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    It is highly unlikely. My perspective has been shaped by a repeated experience in real life that is by no means related to some kind of isolated phenomena such as porn industry. Being promiscuous and/or immoral is a standard mode of functioning in a modern type of society, people behave like sociopaths regardless of how "nice" they appear to be on a superficial level. It's not a sampling or confirmation bias since I came into contact with quite diverse groups of people throughout my life and the core part of their behavior we discuss here was more or less the same. That's why I decided not to associate with people unless it's necessary (work-related interactions, duties, etc.) a long time ago.

    [–]Node 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Being promiscuous and/or immoral is a standard mode of functioning in a modern type of society,

    When you define your samples as belonging to a group that exhibits the behavior, then it's no surprise that you find the behavior.

    You could choose to associate with people who reject modern society, although it's highly unlikely you'll find them in a city.

    [–]Tarlatan 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

    Is it reasonable to assume all men are porn addicts who view all of life through that sickly distorted prism?

    [–]jet199 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    If Americans are all temporarily embarrassed millionaires then all men are temporary embarrassed uber sluts.

    Men are dirty ho bags, they just don't get the opportunity to express that very often.

    [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Ok female 🙄

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    Of course not. Now if you'll excuse me, I'm late for my orgy.