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    [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    Most people don't seem to care about the well-being of boys. Whenever boys experience trauma, it's usually either "their own fault" or "not that big of a deal."

    See: Circumcision, for example.

    [–]HPFL 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    That’s because anybody who does is accused of being a misogynist or a child abuser.

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    That boy is likely not traumatized at all.

    [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (33 children)

    I would totally have loved to banged my teachers. I think I hit peak maturity at 14 anyways. That's not the same as deflowering some poor naive girl.

    [–][deleted]  (20 children)

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      [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (13 children)

      Yeah but I had a massive sex drive at that age rearing to go and I was spilling my fertile seed into nothing, why not teachers?

      [–][deleted] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

      You're literally making excuses for pedophilia...

      A predator is a predator. It doesn't matter if the victim "enjoys" the encounter, he's still a child being exploited by an adult. A 13-year-old isn't mature enough to understand the emotions he's feeling in a situation like this.

      It's not uncommon for victims to "fall in love" with their abusers, and then spend the rest of their lives trying to cope with the psychological ramifications – confusion, guilt, resentment, etc.

      Many of them grow up to be abusers themselves, because their minds are stuck in the past with an unhealthy and unnatural definition of what "relationships" are.

      Adults should not be having sex with children under any circumstances.

      [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

      You're literally making excuses for pedophilia...

      No, I am being honest that I would have loved to fuck my teachers when I was 14. I'm sorry my reality doesn't fit your ideology, it is what it is.

      [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

      You're saying it's okay for adults to have sex with children in certain scenarios...

      it is what it is.

      Yeah, it's:

      making excuses for pedophilia...

      Please don't become a teacher.

      [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

      Please don't become a teacher

      I'm already teaching you, nugget.

      You're saying it's okay for adults to have sex with children in certain scenarios

      Work on reading comprehension for homework.

      [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

      That is what you're saying, you're just saying it in a roundabout way.

      Creating a hypothetical situation in which an adult teacher having sex with an underage student is acceptable is a tacit endorsement of a particular incidence of pedophilia.

      Please, stop.

      [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

      That is what you're saying, you're just saying it in a roundabout way

      No, you can read what I wrote. The incorrect suppositions you draw from that is all you.

      Please, stop

      No, and fuck you.

      [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

      That is what you're saying, you're just saying it in a roundabout way

      No, you can read what I wrote. The incorrect suppositions you draw from that is on you.

      Please, stop

      No, and fuck you.

      Creating a hypothetical situation in which an adult teacher having sex with an underage student is acceptable is a tacit endorsement of a particular incidence of pedophilia.

      Yet again no, and this is why it's so very offensive with a person of your limited mental abilities presumes to tell people what they can and can't say.

      When reality does not fit your ideology, it's not reality that's wrong.

      [–]Zapped 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

      It sounds like the boy already had some emotional or mental problems and now he has this trauma to deal with the rest of his life. He had an authority figure take advantage of him emotionally and sexually at 13 years old. He will probably always have trust issues and may even reciprocate on another child.

      [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

      Yes, predators often seek out victims who already have problems because it's easier to manipulate them. A child from a broken home might be desperate for an adult's attention, for example.

      Thank you for understanding.

      [–][deleted]  (1 child)

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        [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        High libido women are exceedingly rare, usually it's only hormones that jacks some women's sex drive into something approaching mine, like during puberty (illegal), pregnancy (rawr), and pre-menopause, and not all women experience that.

        I think there's a misperception that your average 20 something year old woman is out every night at parties getting mad cock when the reality is they're sitting at home, lonely, watching reality tv.

        Although these days the younger generation seems pretty low libido in general, probably from all the drugs in the water supply.

        [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

        They met IN A VIDEO GAME. She didn't have authority over him in a video game.

        [–][deleted]  (4 children)

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          [–]Insider 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

          Two other articles state that it started when he was 13, so it was 13-16 years old. Not that it makes it any better.

          The other article also states that this case was only brought up because she's the one who went to the principle saying she was being harassed by the kid. It seems like she wanted out of the relationship (probably due to her relationship with whoever she was having a baby with) while the kid wanted to keep banging her while she was pregnant. She tried to get the kid in trouble, but the text msgs revealed that they were banging.

          [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

          The amount of people spreading pedo apologia in this thread is astonishing.

          I was genuinely not expecting it.

          [–]asterias 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

          Naive? Have you checked who buys cosmo these days?

          [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

          I know dude, and you're absolutely right. I was writing to what I imagined people opposed to this probably think. It wasn't that long ago my niece and her friends were that age and I was yelling at them to stop taking pictures of their tits to put on the internet. And it's the age most girls I had grown up with lost their virginity -- usually to much older men.

          But nobody wants some dirty teacher plowing the young girls. Who cares if a whore teacher services the boys tho.

          [–]Vulptex 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

          Why not? Because another man can easily replace you in fertilizing eggs so who cares about you?

          [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

          Hey Vulpie! Nice to see you buds.

          Fertility is very important. The most important thing. There are lies brandished under the name of equality to diminish the grace of women.

          How's life my nibba!? Interrobang.

          [–]Vulptex 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

          Why? Because your brain makes you feel like it is not a valid answer. If life were all mindlessly natural we'd be doing nothing but killing each other in the most brutal ways while competing for mates. Civilization was made to escape those things, because our lives are worth more than some pointless game of dominance and natural selection. So how can you sit here and argue that there is nothing wrong with harming even young boys because their natural worth is lower than girls'? You see people as resources, utilities, and tools, not people. You dehumanize people and view them as objects. Therefore to you, abusing the less useful tool does not matter, because it has no value in your eyes. It is like throwing away a stick. But we are not robots, but prisoners of the flesh. So for the time being our selves must take priority over the game of life.

          [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

          If you don't propagate, you're just a useless fuck toy.

          [–]Vulptex 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

          Rather what's the use of putting 100% priority in propagating if your offspring are only supposed to do the same thing, and it keeps going forever?

          [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

          I don't know, but it's our purpose.

          [–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

          See, you don't even know. You never question anything, how easily can you be tossed into slavery and brainwashing! The world is 99.9% bad, so you can't blindly trust everything you come across.

          [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

          Good bye.

          [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

          harming even young boys

          Only time a bj harmed me is when it was toothy

          [–]jet199 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

          I mean the sentences are pretty weak all round.

          [–]HPFL 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

          At least the man will know what sex with an adult feels like afterwards.

          [–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)