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    [–]MyLongestJourney 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (16 children)

    They were fine with riding the train of frankfurt-school societal deconstruction to their own benefit

    Who,lesbians? Are you serious dude ? Just because a minority of ivory tower academics like Butler (who is bisexual BTW) endorsed this bullshit ideology,that does not mean lesbians endorsed it en masse. And pray tell what benefit does post modernist queer theory offers lesbians???

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      [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (14 children)

      lesbianism has increased at the same rate as testosterone in men has decreased, and intake of soy has increased. Can't be a coincidence. All women are bisexual for different evolutionary reasons, they will prefer a chad first of all, if they can't get one they will prefer another woman to meet their sexual needs rather than a sub par male. With a sub par male they risk getting pregnant with poor genetics, not so with another woman.

      [–]Elvira95 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (12 children)

      Lesbianism hasn't increased, and most women being bi is total bs. But it is true, there are bisexuals who got crazy high standards for men, because men are lot to choose and generally desperate, the one who do all the approchiang, and women are selective by nature, so they prefer to date women or men pretending to be women, because their standards for women are far lower (since the options and competition for them are far lower) or because they have trauma with men. They're not the majority of women by any means, but a small minority. Personally I do despise strongly the men hating bisexual women who pretend to be lesbians.

      [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (11 children)

      brutal elvira pill

      [–]Elvira95 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

      What does it mean? I do have a sort of empathy for het men. I do find unfair the much more effort they need to do in dating. Women can be extremely demanding, and shallow. But I do think is just nature. Women libido is far lower than men and women need to choose the best possible mate to get pregnant, as they got limited chance to reproduce in their lifetime, comparing to men who can make lots of women pregnant. It's just like nature work, males compete for females who are choosy. Do incels have a point? I do think they do. What they're wrong is that they act like women own them sex, and some of these incels do become transwomen and are able to attractthe men hating bisexuals and just being probably more able to attract female they don't find physcally repulsive as they would if they stayed normal males.

      Sure not being able to have relationships with people you have attraction for isn't great, and cause suffering because it goes against human inbuilt needs, but accepting it and work being content rby yourself regardless of women validation is the only one can do. In the end I do understand the struggle because finding someone is a very tiny dating poll is a lot like being a man rejected by 98 percent women, except probably the chance of finding someone who is cute and compatible are higher.

      [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

      accepting it and work being content rby yourself regardless of women validation is the only one can do.

      we could do this. But is it the only possible thing to do as a solution? Possibly working to oush back on feminism and woke culture might also yield benefits. World has never been perfect but men had a better chance in decades past. Due to a patriarchy existing.

      [–]Elvira95 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

      It's the only possible fair solution, as women are not properties, but human beings and they don't own you sex or affection. Sure, in a world where women are oppressed and forced to depend on men to survive you will have better chances, but oppressing half the population so the other half can satisfy their sexual desires, it's beying immoral and unjust. It's the sexual entitlement incels have that makes them repulsive. One can have empathy for their suffering, but once you start promoting oppressing women because you think them as some kind of rights, rather than independent human you can't own, that you totally fall in the wrong.

      [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

      really in a lot of ways women being hit with all this woke feminist propaganda is what is making them properties, you wouldn't have gone down this path if not hit with subliminal messages since birth. Including the thought that it is oppression.

      [–]Node 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

      What they're wrong is that they act like women owe them sex

      If there are any incels who believe this, I still don't get why anyone takes them seriously.

      [–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

      It's way more than just dating. I'm asexual and the burdens and loss of joys males have to deal with in all areas of life is making me extremely depressed and resentful of the world for being so unfair. The things we don't have worse are in the single digits, and even those are only small advantages like peeing standing up.

      It's insane no one talks about this. The social expectations are unbearable on their own but nothing compared to what happens to us physically and especially mentally. If you read up on sex differences in the brain women get the positive stuff and we get the negative stuff because we're supposed to sacrifice ourselves completely for sex, fighting, and work. Because it's very unfair but it survives better so it wins!

      [–]Heterophobe4Life 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

      If that was true, then my whole family would be Gay based on all the Chinese takeout we ate when I was a child.