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Twist: this surgeon - Chipit :)

[–]jet199 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Frankly I wouldn't want to go anywhere near a man too insecure to date a surgeon. The majority of people will always be unsuitable for you. You just have to make the best effort you can with the people who are right, not worry about all the possibly-maybes.

[–]Chipit[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not "insecurity" it's her coping with the fact that she's an unlovable person. Blaming men for her own faults...gosh when have women ever done that before?