This is like when you have to carry like three bags with clothing for vacation for a girl you want to vacate with. She then most likely only "wears" not even half of the stuff, you packmuled for her.

Forth and back, of course.

Thankfully, i don't date those kinds of "girls", "thots" or "milfs" anymore. My queen is quite reasonable when it comes to her dress code on our vacations.

But i remember quite well letting myself being gaslighted into bullshit like this more than once.